- 19 years old
- Date of birth: Mar 7, 1992
- Place of birth:
Ambala, Haryana, India - Date of passing: Aug 10, 2011
- Place of passing:
Manipal, Karnataka, India
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We have you in our hearts, God has you in his arms. If love could have saved you, you would have lived forever. We love you and always will .Forever remembered, Forever missed. |  |
To live in the hearts, we leave behind...
is not to die .
This memorial website was created in the memory of our dearest loved one, Abhijeet Singh, 19, born on March 7, 1992 and passed away on August 10, 2011. We miss you from our life and the big vaccumm you have created can be filled by none.I wish you knew how much you were loved.
Abhijeet was persuing Mechanical Enginneering from Manipal University. He was a strapping young man, 6 feet in height and an endearing smiling face. He was gregarious, fun and outdoors loving person who just loved to be in company of his friends.He was fond of trekking, mountain climbing, Squash, and football. He was also very fond of clicking photographs and getting clicked.He was very fond of gadgets and new gizmos like any other teenager.He was fond of all things manly like motor bikes, guns, tanks submarines, fighter lanes, and other military paraphrenalia.
His passion was ' Flying.'.. fighter aircrafts... so much so that I assume that in his last incarnation he must have been a fighter pilot. His passion was to soar in heavens. His only aim in life was to join Indian Air Force after his enginnering degree.He would have flown Sukhois and that would have been the happiest times in his life. If only God willed....
Abhijeet was a caring loving son and a great elder brother to Abhishek. He was a role model and an ideal for his younger brother. He is greatly missed as a grand son and nephew and as a great buddy to his numerous friends. Wherever he went, he spread good cheer and sprinkled life and zest with his great sense of hiumour..Never did he ever utter a disparaging remark or critical word for anybody. He was the most compassionate and nonjudgemental person I have ever known. As a tale, so is life ; not how long it is , but how good it is , what matters.
We lost Abhijeet on 10 August 2011. He had gone for a swim in the Arabian sea with his friend Jana Kish. Both of them entered the sea around 3.o clock in the afternoon, never to come out again. And we were left with this deep stabbing pain in the heart and a with a big question in the mind for the Almighty to answer-WHY?
Why was life snuffed out of a person so full of life and love for life? Why one of us is taken while the rest of us remain to endure the pain? For there are just so many things that no one can explain. The most painful goodbye was bid to him on 13th August and up went in flames our hope, dreams and future imagined for him.
Abhijeet,we have you in our hearts while God has you in his arms. You have left your footprints on our hearts , and we will never be the same again. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
WHERE LOVE IS , DEATH CAN NEVER BE THE END OF THE STORY. YOU are MY forever CHILD.
Life is eternal, and love is immortal,and death is only a horizon;
and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.
My son is not my PAST.HE IS MY FUTURE. we do not stop carrying those we love in our hearts and minds because we can't see or touch them. Their memories remain alive as an active part of our lives. Honoring memories is about preserving the gifts of love God allowed to grace our lives with on this earth. It's a holy love that dwells in the places carved inside our hearts by love itself. If's part of the reason we are Who we are.
This site is still in the process of construction. Please visit it again soon. And please do write something to let me know you were here to celebrate the living spirit of my Son.
"You're the first thing I think of,
each morning when I rise.
you're the last thing I think of
each night when I close my eyes.
You're in each thought I have
and every breath I take.
my feelings are growing stronger
with every move I make.
I want to prove I love you
but that's the hardest part.
so, I'm giving all I have to give
to you... I give my heart."
"What if all this is actually an illusion... what if all this is just a bad dream... what if my son is happy and safe and content... what if he would throw arms around my neck and hug me tight with Love You Mom... what if I would still be worrying silly about his carreer, wellbeing and safety and still dreaming of his sunny tomorrows and rosy future... so many what ifs..."
"Hey Abhijeet, there are days when my mind wanders....and it comes to rest upon you, and why you left us.....i miss you so much brother, we were not much in touch recently, but my memories with you are so fresh, the ones in guwahati....playing badi, riding the scooter, then at your house, there are just so many.......may god bless you dear....and keep smiling and inspiring us wid the smile!"
"This place has become my refuge.A place where it is ok to cry with no one telling me- I need to move forward. I am not something that can be fixed. I just canot pick up the thread of life where it "let off'. I hope those around me will understand that I will never be the same again. I hope they will accept the 'new me' and the road i now walk. Love you my Son."
"I want to tell you that you lived your life well. You made all around you proud. You gave us unconditional love. You were a good man. Kind, caring, gentle. You made me proud. As I sit and write to you tonight, I cry tears of thankfulness that I was the one chosen to be your mother. That I had the opportunity to be a part of your life, and be loved by you."
"Dear Enu. I have never met you and your kids. Kuldeep was my fav.boy in univercity. Extremly bright and civilized. I have visualised Abhi with that. Today I saw his pic for the first time and read about his hight. What a handsome man he would have grown and what a fine son he was.I once again pray, that he lives in his eternal home in peace.My affection to you ,Kuldeep and the younge one."
"Dear Aunty,
I have never before known someone so closely and who lives in our world no more.I remember the day I came to bid goodbye to Abhijeet,I had been holding back my tears for long,but when I saw U crying for your son,I could not control myself.I was called there to comfort you but I was extremely disturbed and could feel your pain."
"Abhijeet you were not only my roomie but one my best friends.... We've done so many things together in manipal... we shared hard and great times together.. I remember the way you used to dream about your sukhoi. i still remeber that it was your ultimate dream to sit in the cockpit of the sukhoi and soar into the endless skies. We dearly miss you buddy. You will always live in our hearts"
""The wind has captured the seed of the flower blowing its way. It takes it tucked away in its palm and distributes it gently in another part of the world where eventually all will become joined and share in the beauty of such similar world consciousness. Share your own beauty this day with those who cross your path and we will begin together!" ~ Petey"
"May you always walk in sunshine and God's love around you flow,
For the happiness you gave us, no one will ever know,
It broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone,
A part of us went with you the day God called you home,
A million times we've needed you, a million times we've cried,
If love could only have saved you, you never would have died."
"From Christopher Robin to Winnie the Pooh----
If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together...there is something you must always remember, you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think; but the most important thing is, even if we're apart...I'll always be with you."
"Dear Abhijeet - I see your gentle face and your sweet nature. I can't help but feel so sad here - I see how much your Mom is suffering because she lost you but I can't help but think of the rest of your family in those pictures. I hope they know to pull together and hold on tight to each other. Please get this message through to them ASAP"
"You can see it, how the world continues spinning long after your loved one took that last breath. People around you are grocery shopping, going to the movies, going out to eat, celebrating life, and me...I want it all to stop. I want it to stop so I can breathe again. But it doesn't work that way. :-("
"How can I move on? If life is not the same with out you. I want to cry but I no longer have any more tears to fall down
my sad lonely face.
I want to sleep but my dreams haunt me with you in them.
I can’t seem to find a way out. What do I do?
I don’t want anyone to see this not even you.
How do I get out of this?
How do I stop this misery? How do solve this mystery?"
"I wish that I could hold you now... I wish that I could touch you now... I wish that I could talk to you... be with you somehow.
I miss the talks we used to have, I miss the voice I used to hear... I miss hearing your crazy but cool stories, and above all these... I just miss you! you gave me more to live for then you'll ever know."
"You never knew how much you were loved. You longed for others to be happy, and your quirky sense of humour quickly bought smiles to the faces of those around you,You always made us laugh; your comments were often so off beat and hilarious.While your own smile, that cheeky grin, became known far and wide and reflects the warmth of your heart."
"Abhijeet, I didn't know you, but it appears you were a most endearing young man with great potential. You gave joy and love to your family and was loved much in return. I can feel the pride of your mother in the words she has written about you. Please send her signs to give her comfort and to let her know that you are watching over her and that you are at peace. This she needs to know."
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