Days with Ahja at Broadway
Ahja and I lived together in my parent's home on Broadway during a period of both great trial and courage and strength in both of our lives. I was so lucky to have found her and chanced to make this arrangement with her. She was a great refuge to me.
On many evenings there I would find her deep in reflection and working hard on herself through a book, making lists of ways she sought to grow, in prayer alone or with others. She fought harder than many for water from a deeper well. We went together from struggling through the day to get through a waitressing shift with some semblance of emotional intelligence to exponential spiritual, professional, and social growth in such a short period. She was soon a nurse and a mentor to other women who struggled.
She drove me towards service when I was lost in self. She embodied such depth of focus on getting well that it was hard to not follow suit and attempt to keep pace with her movement towards better. We drank chamomile tea, ran frequently, and fell in love with our respective partners there. A great deal of sushi was consumed and many nights when I heard her bubbly laughter coming from the back porch, I was so comforted to share a home with her.
In my favorite mental image of her she is beaming ear to ear at my wedding shower, many months pregnant with Cris and glowing in the anticipation of her child's birth. She was so anguishingly beautiful that day. So full of that ethereal delicate grace we all saw in her.
I will remember her as a seeker and a mystic in her own right. Ahja, you will always be a light to me. Reece, I will never forget those years and send such love to you and your family. Cris, your mother fought harder than any of us may ever understand. May her epic grace that shone through all of it be a light to your path.