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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Aldo Marta, 28 years old, born on November 10, 1978, and passed away on November 7, 2007. We will remember him forever.
November 8, 2022
November 8, 2022
My son Aldo received his wings and went to Heaven on 11/07/07.
Where has the time gone? 15 years today.
I remember that day as if it were today. I just wish Aldo you did not have to leave us.
I wish I could have jumped into your body and given you mine. As you were before the accident. You had your whole life and future ahead of you. My life was fulfilled when I had my children. But your life was just starting to begin. But then again, when you died, a part of me did too. I cannot explain. But when you lose a child it is completely different, then losing a Parent or even Grandparents. When my children were born. I made the promise to myself, to protect you, to guide you, to Love you, and to watch over you. As best as I could, under certain circumstances.
Deep down in my heart, I feel somehow, I failed as a Mom. I know, I have talked to so many other Angel moms who lost a child and they said, they were thinking the same way, I felt. The Heartful pain never goes away.
      Every day you are always in my Heart and on my mind.      
          I Miss you and Love you so much Aldo. ❤
November 9, 2020
November 9, 2020
Hi Aldo, I can't believe it is 13 years that you passed. November 07, 2007. God it only feels like it was a few days ago. I miss and Love you so much. Words cannot describe how I feel. I cannot get that night out of my head when you died. I can still see them working on you. Oh how I wanted them to stop because the way they were giving you CPR. It looked like they were hurting you. But I didn't want them to. Because I knew if they did, you would never make it. But I knew deep down that you went to be with God. Oh how I wanted to jump in your body and give you mine. I would have traded with you in a heartbeat. I would have giving you my life so you could have yours, as you were before the accident in 2006. You are at peace now. Running around and being free. You are with all our relatives. I still can feel you around me. I know you are here because I always see a shadow. I know too, when I need you, I always talk to you, and lately I have been doing it alot. I know you can hear me. Aldo, give Mom and Dad a kiss for me. Always remember from my Lips, to my Heart, to you. That was our saying. Life is not the same and it never will be. Aldo I can never for get the night before you died and our talk. God knows how I wished I could have taken the pain from you. The hurt, the look in your eyes and the pain you were feeling in your Heart. Aldo, I am so sorry all of this happened to you. I know being a Mom I felt I should have done more to help and protect you. But Aldo, did I ever expect that? No. Did I try. Yes, with all my Heart. I still am lost for words and how my Heart broke when your Heart was breaking. Tomorrow you will be 42. Sending you balloons, Hugs, Kisses and most of all my Love. Fly high Aldo. 
November 10, 2019
November 10, 2019
Happy Birthday Aldo, I cannot believe that you turned 41 today. I remember that day, like it was yesterday, I got to the hospital at 4:30 am and I gave birth to you at 5:28 a.m.. You were born at Beacon/Highland Hospital. You were my easiest and fastest child at birth. I wish you could have met your niece and nephews. You would just love them. You were always great with children. I wonder how many childen, you would have had? I wonder what you would be doing now? Where would you be living? Aldo, I miss all your practical jokes. We always had to be careful when we were around you. We never knew what you were going to do next. You always wanted to make people laugh and you did. I know one thing, you would always stopped what you were doing and help someone in need. You always took care of Grandma and me. You loved animals. I never knew what you were going to bring home next. I remember the time, you brought home hamsters, They were both girls. Yeah right, we ended up with 10 babies. Then all the babies got out of that cage and we had a search the entire house for them. We found them all. I remember them being so noisy you ended up putting them in the hall. The time you brought me home the ferret, Taz. Taz was funny and a thief. You brought me home cats, dogs and birds too. I remember the time you and Joshua were supposed to be sleeping. I went in to check on you boys and you were playing with baby powder. You had it all over the room. What a mess. That was hard to clean.You and Joshua were always doing things, when you were young. Getting into Mischief. Just boys being boys.Then the time we were at Lloyd's shopping and I couldn't find you. You were under the round clothes rack and you came out and said, peekaboo. I was so upset with you, but all I could do was hug you. The time we went camping and you kept watching out for your sister, Jeanna. When she was talking to a boy, you kept following her, you would not leave her alone. She was so mad at you. The time you were always buying gifts for Leanna. Since she was the youngest, you spoiled her. I really do miss those days and I would go back to them in a heartbeat. My heart is broken. I think about you all the time. I talk to you everyday and I know you are watching over all of us. God do I miss you and Love you. Forever 28. We all miss you❤
November 8, 2019
November 8, 2019
To My son Aldo.. 11/07/07 Where has the time gone? 12 years have gone by. I remember this day, like it was back then. I just wish Aldo you did not have to leave us. I Wish I could have jumped into your body and gave you my mine. As you were before the accident.You had your whole life and future ahead of you. My life was fulfilled when I had my children. But your life was just starting to begin. But then again, when you died, a part of me did too. I cannot explain. But when you lose a child it is completely different, than losing a Parent or even Grandparents. When you kids were born. I made the promise to myself, to protect you, to guide you and to watch over you. Deep down in my heart, I feel some how I failed as a Mom. I know, I have talked to so many other Angel Mom's who lost a child and they said, they were thinking the same way, I felt.The Heartful pain never goes away.
Every day you are always in my Heart and on my mind. I Miss you and Love you so much. ❤
November 10, 2017
November 10, 2017
Happy Birthday, Aldo I can't believe that you would be 39 today. Where did the time go? When Aldo had his accident, there was a butterfly scar or tattooed on his head from when he hit the mail post. Now when I see butterflies, I know he's with me. 10 years ago today, we buried Aldo on his birthday. I love and miss him so much. Happy Birthday, In HeavenI I really thought it would get a lot easier as the years go on. But it doesn't. The first few years you are in shock and denial. Then after that, you keep thinking it's a dream, and you will wake up and the nightmare will be gone. November and April is a very hard month for my family and I. Aldo, also went into the Air Force, but he ended up getting an honorable discharge. He belonged to Cronomer Valley Fire Department, who he just Loved them all, like family. He was always helping out at Our Lady of the Lake Church, especially helping Father Budwick. Aldo loved his second family, Marcella and the Griecos. As a mother, My children are my life and I would do anything for any of my children. I would even give them my life, so they can have their life. I am so tired of people saying it will get easier, or you have other children, that you have to think about. Each one of my children are an individual. And I love them all the same, no more or no less. Mothers or fathers that lost children, know exactly, how I feel. It seems, I cannot remember a lot anymore, but after talking to other parents, that lost children, are going through the same thing that I am going through. Your life is not the same at all. But you see. Aldo, was my eldest, and he was always here to help me, no matter what. I could always depend on him. He was always there for his brother and sisters and he was always watching over them. When you lose a child, your heart is torn and that part can never be repaired or mended. Aldo, was a unique person. He had the heart of gold and would do anything for anyone, no matter what. He would help people with their cars, most of the time, never charging anyone. People would just stop in and say, Aldo, can you do my brakes or whatever else needed to be done and he would put down what he was doing just to help them, no matter what needed to be done with their cars. He loved detailing cars and even painting for people who needed it. No matter what Aldo did, he put all his heart into it. He took pride in his work. Aldo, was to get married, and he always wanted children.He was to get married the year he had the accident. He would have made one great father because he just loved children. He always said, if he had a son, his name would be Aldo, the 3rd and if it was a girl, her name would've been Aldolina, Aldo always had a sense of humor, he always wanted to make people laugh. And He loved to play practical jokes on people. He loved to scare people, in a good way, not in a bad way. Aldo, and his sister Leanna, would always try to get each other back. They both wanted to see who was better than the other. Aldo was very close to Leanna. She was the baby of the family and he spoiled her always. Buying her all types of toys... Aldo was always watching out for his brother Josh. Even when Josh didn't know it, Aldo had his eye on him. And then with his other sister Jeanna, Aldo was always watching out for her. Checking to see who is she was dating. Yes, she got mad at him, but he was only doing it, for her own good. Remember Jeanna at Hammonasset Park? Aldo, always felt sorry for animals that were hurt or abandoned. He was always bringing me home an animal. I sure do miss all those days, when my children were younger. Before you knew it, they were all grown up. I wish I could bring back, when they were young again. My house was always filled with Love and laughter. Aldo, always worried about my Mother, who he called Grammy. Those two were so close and he was always doing anything for her, running her all over when I couldn't get off of work... I know Aldo would have loved his nephews Joshua Aldo and Caiden and his niece Olivia. I know he is watching over all of us. He is our Angel. I miss him so much. Aldo always and forever will be with me and anyone else who knew and Loved Aldo. God must have really needed a special Angel. They always say that the good die young. But I know Aldo, is in heaven with my Mom and my Dad too.
November 7, 2015
November 7, 2015
Aldo, it has been 8 years since you passed. It feels just like yesterday and I can remember it so well. I miss you so much. Life is not the same without you. I wish I could visit you or even talk to you. My Heart is broken and that part will never mend. Our family chain is broken until we meet again. I Love You
December 24, 2014
December 24, 2014
Merry Christmas Aldo. This is your favorite Holiday.. I miss you and I Love You. Keep watching over us... For Ever in our Hearts

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November 8, 2022
November 8, 2022
My son Aldo received his wings and went to Heaven on 11/07/07.
Where has the time gone? 15 years today.
I remember that day as if it were today. I just wish Aldo you did not have to leave us.
I wish I could have jumped into your body and given you mine. As you were before the accident. You had your whole life and future ahead of you. My life was fulfilled when I had my children. But your life was just starting to begin. But then again, when you died, a part of me did too. I cannot explain. But when you lose a child it is completely different, then losing a Parent or even Grandparents. When my children were born. I made the promise to myself, to protect you, to guide you, to Love you, and to watch over you. As best as I could, under certain circumstances.
Deep down in my heart, I feel somehow, I failed as a Mom. I know, I have talked to so many other Angel moms who lost a child and they said, they were thinking the same way, I felt. The Heartful pain never goes away.
      Every day you are always in my Heart and on my mind.      
          I Miss you and Love you so much Aldo. ❤
November 9, 2020
November 9, 2020
Hi Aldo, I can't believe it is 13 years that you passed. November 07, 2007. God it only feels like it was a few days ago. I miss and Love you so much. Words cannot describe how I feel. I cannot get that night out of my head when you died. I can still see them working on you. Oh how I wanted them to stop because the way they were giving you CPR. It looked like they were hurting you. But I didn't want them to. Because I knew if they did, you would never make it. But I knew deep down that you went to be with God. Oh how I wanted to jump in your body and give you mine. I would have traded with you in a heartbeat. I would have giving you my life so you could have yours, as you were before the accident in 2006. You are at peace now. Running around and being free. You are with all our relatives. I still can feel you around me. I know you are here because I always see a shadow. I know too, when I need you, I always talk to you, and lately I have been doing it alot. I know you can hear me. Aldo, give Mom and Dad a kiss for me. Always remember from my Lips, to my Heart, to you. That was our saying. Life is not the same and it never will be. Aldo I can never for get the night before you died and our talk. God knows how I wished I could have taken the pain from you. The hurt, the look in your eyes and the pain you were feeling in your Heart. Aldo, I am so sorry all of this happened to you. I know being a Mom I felt I should have done more to help and protect you. But Aldo, did I ever expect that? No. Did I try. Yes, with all my Heart. I still am lost for words and how my Heart broke when your Heart was breaking. Tomorrow you will be 42. Sending you balloons, Hugs, Kisses and most of all my Love. Fly high Aldo. 
November 10, 2019
November 10, 2019
Happy Birthday Aldo, I cannot believe that you turned 41 today. I remember that day, like it was yesterday, I got to the hospital at 4:30 am and I gave birth to you at 5:28 a.m.. You were born at Beacon/Highland Hospital. You were my easiest and fastest child at birth. I wish you could have met your niece and nephews. You would just love them. You were always great with children. I wonder how many childen, you would have had? I wonder what you would be doing now? Where would you be living? Aldo, I miss all your practical jokes. We always had to be careful when we were around you. We never knew what you were going to do next. You always wanted to make people laugh and you did. I know one thing, you would always stopped what you were doing and help someone in need. You always took care of Grandma and me. You loved animals. I never knew what you were going to bring home next. I remember the time, you brought home hamsters, They were both girls. Yeah right, we ended up with 10 babies. Then all the babies got out of that cage and we had a search the entire house for them. We found them all. I remember them being so noisy you ended up putting them in the hall. The time you brought me home the ferret, Taz. Taz was funny and a thief. You brought me home cats, dogs and birds too. I remember the time you and Joshua were supposed to be sleeping. I went in to check on you boys and you were playing with baby powder. You had it all over the room. What a mess. That was hard to clean.You and Joshua were always doing things, when you were young. Getting into Mischief. Just boys being boys.Then the time we were at Lloyd's shopping and I couldn't find you. You were under the round clothes rack and you came out and said, peekaboo. I was so upset with you, but all I could do was hug you. The time we went camping and you kept watching out for your sister, Jeanna. When she was talking to a boy, you kept following her, you would not leave her alone. She was so mad at you. The time you were always buying gifts for Leanna. Since she was the youngest, you spoiled her. I really do miss those days and I would go back to them in a heartbeat. My heart is broken. I think about you all the time. I talk to you everyday and I know you are watching over all of us. God do I miss you and Love you. Forever 28. We all miss you❤
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November 10, 2019
My Son Aldo was an auto mechanic at Greico's Service Station. Aldo loved his sister's and brother. He was always watching out for them. He loved my Mother "Grammy". I know, he loved me, because he always had my back. He was always there for me no matter what. He was my protector. I guess being the oldest, he felt he had too. He became the Man of this house..He loved to help people in any way, when they needed it. He was very religious, and he went to church every Sunday. He never like to see anyone hurt. Aldo was an animal lover. He was always bringing home a hurt, abused or abandon animal.. Aldo loved to make people happy. Aldo loved to joke a round and he was a practical joker. He worked several jobs. He detailed cars which was his specialty. He was a bar back at the Chance. Aldo was a volunteer for Cronomer Valley F.D. Aldo was genuine, loving, trustworthy and loyal to everyone that he knew. He loved children and when you couldn't find him, all you had to do is look for was a child and there he was. Aldo had a motor cycle accident on April, 26, 2006, which left him quadriplegic.He was 26 years old..Aldo was to be married in October of 2006, to Marcella. From that day on my life changed traumatically. Still to this date we have no idea what happened with his accident. I believe the kid up the road had something to do with it. The kids sister mentioned to some people that he some thing to do with it., but we can't prove it. But he has to be the one to live with it, the rest of his life. In February, 2007, I brought Aldo home to care for him. Aldo was so glad to be home and out of hospitals.
Then on November 7, 2007. Aldo passed away and we buried him on his Birthday. He was 28 years old..Aldo, will be in our hearts forever. You are truly missed by all. I Love you Always

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