Life moves on, the world keeps turning? For some, maybe that's true, not for me. 11 years may have passed but it could just as easily be 11 days or 30 years, it makes no difference. Without you to share the highs & lows, and every thing in between, life took on an unexpected turn, an empty present & future.
Is it even normal for a granddaughter to hold her grandfather in such high esteem? Perhaps, given your last 10 years here and living in each others pockets. I don't know of many grandchild/parent relationship like ours, which is probably why I can't let you go.
I could never imagine a life without you in it. Not many get to know, let alone feel the love from their grandparents, as I did with you.. bittersweet.
I don't think you would be at all happy with the state of the world today, Dindad. Bloody wars, cost-of-living crisis, trans-movements (Old Brown's Cow to that malarkey) everywhere you turn. Children attacking other children, children 'teaching' teachers how to do their job. The world has gone stark raving mad!
We left the pandemic behind us & dived headfirst into a world full of lunatics running the asylum. We could have had a good laugh about it, it's not the same talking to your photo.
On a serious note, you now have our Queen with you; nope, not talking about 'The Queen' (although she's with you somewhere now), but Our Queen.. Marma. I hope that you are together again, and to be honest, that's the only thing that makes either of you leaving, a little more bearable.
I was one hell of a lucky girl to have such wonderful grandparents and nothing and no one can ever take away the memories that we shared. Everything else is just bricks & mortar, right? We can't take anything with us, all we can do is create moments, moments that last a lifetime, and you, Marma and I certainly did that.
Oh, before I go, J passed his driving test last week! Ohh Dindad, he has worked so hard this last year, despite everything, and I could not be more proud of the young man that he is becoming. I know that if you were here, you would have been one of the 1st to congratulate him on the mountains that he's overcome. I've always been proud of him, what mother isn't proud of her children? But, he has blown me away with every new challenge he's faced. That little baby who you rocked to sleep has your determination about him now. You can bend us but, you'll never break us?
A sign would be nice from either of you.. ..you know, just to let me know that Marma at least arrived?! Whenever you're ready. In you're own time. Preferably before I have to come and find out for myself!
Hey, it's almost like you are here, me talking away & only getting the occasional nod from you.. ..like old times? You'd have gotten up & gone off to the garage for some peace & quiet long before now.
Just because I don't write as often, it doesn't mean that I am moving on or forgetting about you. That could never happen. I carry you with me wherever I go & talk to you every day, you just refuse to answer me. If you are listening now, please make this cold go away?!
Love and miss you both, so very much, your Em xxxxxxxxxxxxx