No day passes by without the wonderful thoughts of you mum. As we continue to honour your soul, may we continue to find strength in our cherished memories of you.
Amin.

Another September 24......
May Allah have mercy upon you, forgive your sins and grant you the best of Aljanah. I miss you mommy!

Mum............

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Happy Posthumous birthday mum! Hope you had a special celebration with the host of heaven. Love you always 

It's so hard to accept mom
Very very hard
Just too hard ..as in ...it's too heavy for us all
7years without you already seems like 70years,...We Miss You
If there's anyway you can come back........ pls do MOM...

Always and forever, you remain in our hearts, keep resting mum you're greatly missed ❤

7 years on, i miss you more and more with each passing day. Not all pain is eased by time. I pray Allah grants you the best of paradise cos indeed you are angel. You will always remain in our thoughts , Halima , Warrith and Qudoos also send their prayers . Rest on dearest mum.

....Words can't do the required justice...Rest on mum

7 years gone, and the pain still reach deep. May Allah forgive your shortcomings and grant you the best of paradise (Amin).
I miss you everyday mommy.

Dear mum, you gave us the best gift ever, your values and morals. You live in us everyday and hopefully we can pass that on to our kids as well.
May Allah forgive your sins and grant you the best of paradise.

We miss you every day mommy. May Allah forgive your shortcomings and grant you the very best of paradise. Happy posthumous birthday mom.

My God forgive your short comings mum, continue to rest well.

You are forever missed dear mum, happy posthumous birthday ⭐

Keep resting mum, your good deeds and wonderful memories lives forever ❤ Truly missed.

You might be gone in flesh, but your teachings , caring , compassion , equity and values lives on through us and will be passed on from generation to generation. Continue to rest with the lord . May God grant you the best of the grave and the best of paradise. Amen

Forever missed.....

Forever in our heart mummy, Happy posthumous birthday. ❤

Oh Mum....May God continue to grant you eternal rest and forgive your shortcomings. Amen.

Forever missed, forever loved. Your memories are forever evergreen in our thoughts. May Allah grant you complete forgiveness and make Aljana firdous your eternal resting abode.
Happy post-humous birthday mom.

Happy Posthumos birthday dearest mum. You might be gone but your teachings , your caring , compassion , equity and values lives on through us and will be passed on from generation to generation. Continue to rest with the lord . May God grant you the best of the grave and the best of paradise. Amen

Mum......Forever irreplaceable!!

Happy post humous birthday mommy. Today is the 65th anniversary of you birth. I’ll forever celebrate you.
May Allah grant you Aljana Firdous and envelope all of your children with His protective cloak.
I miss you every day, continue to Rest In Peace until we meet to part no more in aljanah In Shaa Allah.

Oh mum.....my irreplaceable jewel.
The hurt is still fresh as though you left yesterday.
I've given up searching, nobody can fill the void.
What would I not give for just 1 more day with you???????

Rest on mummy. I never stop loving & missing you.

Dearest Mom,
From the very day your passing was confirmed, people have said to me and my siblings that we should be consoled in knowing you’re resting peacefully in the purest land on earth and In Shaa Allah free of all sins since you died a Shahida, bearing witness to His dominion and greatness.
Those words did not make meaning nor console me for the past 3years. Alhamdullilah, same words have come back to me as I seek consolation in Allah’s words to cope with the deep void from loosing you. I bear witness to His words & promise “Never say that those martyred in the cause of God are dead; infact they are alive! But you do not perceive it” Q2 v154

Oh mum.........

My Mum, My Teacher, My Mentor, My Best friend, My Boss My Slave, My All......., I can not say I miss you, as I still see you in my heart Every second of the day and in my dreams almost Everyday...... U are Still there ALWAYS with d mentoring and love....... Wat I can say I miss, are my lil ways of showing you how dearly I love you...... I miss telling you I love you Mum, but you will forever remain d Best Thing That Has Ever Happened To Me.

If only wishes come through" ! my only wish would have been to have you here forever. 3years gone! words fail me now but I know I miss you and forever Will. Rest on beloved MUM

Its 3 years on. The pain still as fresh as though it was yesterday.
We miss you alot, especially your love, wisdom, kindness and courage .
But we feel comfort knowing you resting in a beautiful place among angels where you belong.
Rest on mum dearest.

Iya Luku, Iya mi, Adunni, awi koko loju oloro...
I miss you even more with each passing day. The waves of grief from your loss is relentless.
Continue to Rest In Peace, my jewel of inestimable value. May Allah grant you Aljanah Firdous.

I am forever thankful to Allah for having you as a mother. That's the greatest blessing i believe God gave me in this world because I believe any other blessing I have was because of the wonderful mother God gave to me . Love you now and always mum. Sleep on in the mercies of God.

Death causes pain and separation indescribable. I missed you so much mom.

What I'll give to hear your voice again, your laughter, your prayers. To feel your arms in a warm embrace....

Today would have been your 62nd birthday mommy. Happy post humous birthday! Yesterday (May 14th) was mother's day. I'll forever celebrate you mom, the queen of my heart, the best mom that ever lived.

I came across below advice on dealing with grief from a self acclaimed old man; it sums up how I feel and helps me get by one day at a time.

   "As for grief, you’ll find it comes in waves. When the ship is first
   wrecked, you’re drowning, with wreckage all around you. Everything
  floating around you reminds you of the beauty and the magnificence
  of the ship that was, and is no more. And all you can do is float. You
  find some piece of the wreckage and you hang on for a while. Maybe
 it’s some physical thing. Maybe it’s a happy memory or a photograph.

 Maybe it’s a person who is also floating. For a while, all you can do is
 float. Stay alive.”“In the beginning, the waves are 100 feet tall and
 crash over you without mercy. They come 10 seconds apart and don’t
 even give you time to catch your breath. All you can do is hang on and
 float. After a while, maybe weeks, maybe months, you’ll find the waves
 are still 100 feet tall, but they come further apart. When they come,
 they still crash all over you and wipe you out.But in between, you can
 breathe, you can function. You never know what’s going to trigger the
 grief. It might be a song, a picture, a street intersection, the smell of a
 cup of coffee. It can be just about anything…and the wave comes
 crashing. But in between waves, there is life. Somewhere down the
 line, and it’s different for everybody, you find that the waves are only 80
 feet tall. Or 50 feet tall. And while they still come, they come further
 apart. You can see them coming. An anniversary, a birthday, or
 Christmas. You can see it coming, for the most part, and prepare
 yourself.

 And when it washes over you, you know that somehow you will, again,
 come out the other side. Soaking wet, sputtering, still hanging on to
 some tiny piece of the wreckage, but you’ll come out.”

So each time the waves of grief hit, and o' boy; they hit really hard on anniversaries, birthdays etc' when I have to come to terms with knowing that the phone call I yearn for the most will never come, to bless and pray for me with joy, intensity and love that only a mother's love can provide.

I miss you dearly mommy with every cell in my being. But, with every washes of the wave of grief over me, I emerge floating with a thankful heart for the life you lived and evergreen memories we created. Continue to rest in peace, may Allah forgive all your sins and grant you the best of paradise. Amen!

I met you and loved you, you saw me and took me as your own. You loved me and showed it. Some wish they never had a mother in-law but I lost something in me the day i lost you,I miss you so so much mum, I love you and i'll do whatever to hear you call me that name.( Abukia)again. Rest on mum,my gist partner and friend.

Words elude me; one year already! It is only by God's grace that we pulled through. The scars of loneliness, the pains of missing you & relentless yearn to hear your voice and feel your embrace are daily struggles. Some days are easier, being comforted with knowing you're in a better place.

Other days are not so easy. The pain reaches deep & I have to remind myself to breath. The scar of your loss reaches depth I never knew existed. It is a testimony to how much we shared and how deeply you're loved. I bury myself in the wealth of memories we created, going through them I cry, smile, laugh and cry some more.
The support of families & friends have been plentiful (for which I'm very grateful), but your loss created a void in our lives that can never be filled.

For every memory created, cries & laughter we shared; I'll forever be grateful. Rest on my friend, teacher, confidante, prayer warrior, morale booster, best cheerleader and MOM. May Allah grant you eternal rest, forgive your shortcomings and grant you Aljana Firdous Alhaja Abibat Adunni Jokotade Arogundade.

oh Mum............