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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Alison Hartnett, 54, born on June 27, 1959 and passed away on January 28, 2014. We will remember her forever.

She is survived by her husband Terrence Hartnett, daughter Jennifer Eller, son Michael Hartnett, parents Dolores and Franklin Eller, sister Cynthia Eller, brother Peter Eller, niece Kelly Eller, nephew JP Eller, brother Jim Eller, nephew Jimmy Eller, as well as her dog Jack and other friends and family she has loved over the years. 

Her celebration of life memorial service will be held on Saturday, March 1st, at the home of her parents, Dolores and Franklin Eller. 

We miss Alison's strength, giving manner, love for her family, and spirited attitude as we reflect upon our time together.  We encourage family and friends to use this website to share memories, photos, stories, prayers, and as a form of remembrance.

January 29
January 29
Thinking of Alison and all you Ellers today with fondness and many happy memories. It's hard to believe it's been 10 years already since she left us. I looked at several of the pictures posted here and enjoyed remembering her and Rachel. Cindy, I messaged you my phone number privately through this site. Please check and respond to me when you have a moment. Love you all, not only from myself but also the rest of our family. xoxo
January 28
January 28
Dear Alison: I can't believe it has been 10 years since you've been gone. We miss you so much. Wish you were here. I am so glad we had the time we had together and I will always treasure my wonderful memories of you. Sisters Always and Forever! Love, Cindy XXXOOO
June 27, 2023
June 27, 2023
Happy Birthday dear Alison. We miss you. You are always in our hearts. Love you always and forever! Love, Cindy XXXOOO
January 28, 2023
January 28, 2023
I miss you Alison. I hope you are with Grandma and Jack. Sisters Always and Forever. Love, Cindy XXXOOO
June 27, 2022
June 27, 2022
Happy Happy Birthday Dear Alison. Miss you every day. Sisters Always and Forever. Love, Cindy XXXOOO
January 28, 2022
January 28, 2022
Remembering you today, Alison, with much love and fond memories. We shared a same name and common Pennsylvania heritage with our maternal grandmothers being best friends. You are forever missed and in my heart. xoxo
June 27, 2021
June 27, 2021
Happy Birthday Dear Alison! Thank you for sending the beautiful Monarch butterfly to greet me this morning! I made your favorite German Chocolate cake!!! Love You so much!!! Sisters Always and Forever!!! Love Cindy XXXOOO
January 28, 2021
January 28, 2021
Mom,
You are in my thoughts and heart.
Love,
Jennifer
January 28, 2021
January 28, 2021
My Dear Alison: I love you and miss you so much. You are in our hearts always and forever. Love, Cindy. XXXOOO
June 27, 2020
June 27, 2020
Happy Birthday Dear Alison! We miss you so much! We are having German chocolate cake in your honor tonight. Love you Always and Forever! Love, Cindy XXXOOO
January 28, 2020
January 28, 2020
Dear Alison, I miss the fun times we used to have together. You had a wonderful smile and a great laugh that always brightened up a room. I hope you are at peace. Love you always and forever. Cindy XXXOOO
June 27, 2019
June 27, 2019
Happy Birthday dear Alison! We miss you and love you. Sisters always and forever! Love, Cindy XXXOOO
January 30, 2019
January 30, 2019
Dear Alison, the funniest thing happened this past weekend. On Sunday, I was going through a box of cards that people had sent my nanna, Laura, throughout the years, and came across a card that you wrote to her in 1981 when you were living in Fort Myers. In it, you talked about having had Jennifer and what a good baby she was, and about having just married Terry. It is such a "divine coincidence" that I found your card just a day before we remembered the fifth anniversary of your passing. It brought back fond memories of you and your spunkiness. I will give it to your parents and Cindy when I next see them. We all miss you so much. Rest in peace, dear heart.
January 28, 2019
January 28, 2019
My dear sister Alison: I know that you know how much I always loved you and still do today and will always love you now and forever. You hold a special place in my heart. You were such a warm and caring person. I hope you are at peace. I wish you were still here, but know that we will be together again one day. Sisters always and forever. Love you Alison!! XXXOOO. ❤❤
June 27, 2018
June 27, 2018
My dear sister Alison - Happy Birthday!! I love you and miss you! Sisters always and forever. Love, Cindy. XXXOOO
January 28, 2018
January 28, 2018
My Dear Sister Alison - you are in my heart and soul and will be forever missed. I enjoy your beautiful flowers every day. I ring your bells and spray your favorite perfume White Shoulders whenever I need you close to me. I hope you can hear the bells when I ring them. Sisters always and forever. Love, Cindy XXXOOO
June 27, 2017
June 27, 2017
Happy Birthday dear Alison! I wish you were here so we could celebrate together. I am going to make your favorite German Chocolate cake for your birthday! Miss you so much. Sisters Always and Forever. Love, Cindy XXXOOO
January 29, 2017
January 29, 2017
Missing you. I love you and think about you every day.
January 28, 2017
January 28, 2017
Thinking of Alison on this day. I still have her flower pens at home and at work, and remember her every time I look at them. Also love listening to the CD of her favorite music. She was a special person and is greatly missed.
January 28, 2017
January 28, 2017
My dear Sister Alison - you are greatly missed but I feel your love every day, when I see a picture of you. or view a rainbow or heart in the sky, or see a beautiful flower, butterfly or dragonfly, when I put on your favorite perfume White Shoulders, when I ring one of your bells, when I look at your beautiful flower pens or the blue crystal dolphins you gave me, when I wear the blue topaz ring you gave me, when I listen to music you enjoyed (Rolling Stones, Fleetwood Mac), or even when I eat one of your favorite foods - German Chocolate cake requested by Dad for his birthday! You will always be loved and missed. Sisters Always and Forever! Love, Cindy XXXOOO
June 27, 2016
June 27, 2016
Dear Alison - it has been so long since you have been gone. I miss you every day. I remember you especially today on your birthday. I am making your favorites - tortellini salad and German chocolate cake. We had some wonderful times celebrating your birthday. Wishing you peace until we meet again. Sisters always and forever. Happy Birthday!! Love you, Cindy XXXOOO
January 28, 2016
January 28, 2016
Mom, you are in my heart and in my prayers. Tonight someone said to remember that you are a daughter of God and that gave me some comfort. Love always.
January 27, 2016
January 27, 2016
Thinking of you my dear sister Alison. Sisters always and forever. Love you, Cindy XXXOOO
June 27, 2015
June 27, 2015
Happy Birthday Alison! I baked a German Chocolate cake in your honor with your favorite coconut-pecan frosting. You would have loved it! Miss you! Sisters always and forever!! Love, Cindy XXXOOO
May 11, 2015
May 11, 2015
Dear Alison - thinking of you on Mother's Day. You were a wonderful mom to Jennifer and Mike. We miss you. I love you. Sisters always and forever. Love, Cindy XXXOOO
April 5, 2015
April 5, 2015
Dear Alison - I am thinking of you and wish you were here with us! Love you always and forever! Cindy XXXOOO
March 6, 2015
March 6, 2015
Dear Alison - I found your beautiful message. Thank you so much! 
I love you too! Sisters always and forever! Love, Cindy  XXXOOO
March 6, 2015
March 6, 2015
I've been missing you a lot lately. I wish you were here with us.
January 29, 2015
January 29, 2015
Mom, I miss you and think of you every day. Today I went on a long drive and listened to some music you loved. I also stopped by the Solana Beach donut place and we had King's Garden for dinner. I made a promise to you today. I love you.
January 28, 2015
January 28, 2015
Dear Alison - I have so many wonderful memories that keep you with me in my heart! I loved your beautiful smile and laugh and your goofiness at times! I remember going to the beach with you in Hawaii when we were kids and playing in the sand and riding the waves together, and a few years ago going to Cardiff beach with you, Terry, Jennifer, Mike and Jack! I remember our picnics at San Dieguito Park playing badminton and croquet. I remember the fun we had taking horseback riding lessons when we lived in Virginia. I remember you sending me cookies at Christmas time when you lived in Florida. I remember the many pool parties we had over the years for birthdays and other special occasions. I remember having lunch with you at Samurai Restaurant and other Japanese restaurants - you loved the miso soup, steak teriyaki and tempura. I remember how much you loved the Snow White Chicken from King's Garden. We had such a nice time at Sea World nights. We had fun baking Christmas cookies and fruitcake. Last year we had a lot of fun at our New Years Eve celebration - everyone loved all of the great food we prepared, including the cheese puffs and meatballs! Of course I will always remember how much you loved German chocolate cake! When I admire your flower pen bouquets or ring one of your bells I can feel you close by. You loved going to garage sales with Terry and always found a good deal - you had a wonderful Barbie collection. You found beautiful crystal dolphins for me! I remember playing with our Barbie dolls together when we were young! I love to wear the blue topaz ring you gave me, and spritz on your favorite White Shoulders perfume. When I see the hummingbirds outside I think of you! The wildflowers Dad planted in your memory are growing. I can't wait for them to bloom! We miss you so much Alison. You were a wonderful sister, daughter, wife, mother, aunt and friend. You will live in our hearts forever. I love you so much Alison, my beautiful Sister, my Friend. Love, Cindy XXXOOO
January 28, 2015
January 28, 2015
Loved you yesterday. Love you today. Will love and remember you forever!!
January 28, 2015
January 28, 2015
Dear Alison,
I miss you so much_always and forever.
I spread out some wildflower seeds and planted
some daffodil bulbs in memory of you
and they are beginning to come up.
Love,
Dad
January 28, 2015
January 28, 2015
Dear Alison I can't believe its been a year since you have been gone. I think of you often and wish I can pick up the phone and call you. I thank your family for all the special gifts they brought to me and I hold them dear to my heart. Love and forever in my heart XOXOXO Maureen
January 27, 2015
January 27, 2015
Dear Alison - I miss your beautiful smile and great laugh!! Love you always and forever! Cindy XXXOOO
January 22, 2015
January 22, 2015
Dear Alison: I miss you so much! I wish I had been able to do something to save you. I have your flower pen bouquets in my room. They are beautiful and remind me of you every day. I hope to be with you again someday. I love you. Sisters always and forever. Love, Cindy XXXOOO
January 22, 2015
January 22, 2015
Alison - I treasure the times we spent together and they are locked inside my heart, for as long as I have those memories we will never be apart. Love you, Cindy XXXOOO
January 22, 2015
January 22, 2015
Dear Alison -

May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the palm of his hand.

Please God take good care of my sister. Peace be with you Alison. Love, Cindy XXXOOO
December 27, 2014
December 27, 2014
Dear Alison - I was thinking of you today when I went to the Corner Bakery Café and bought your favorite treat - maple pecan bar. I gave JP a taste and he really liked it. I remember our visits to the Corner Bakery Cafe and how much you enjoyed this delicious dessert. Love you, Cindy XXXOOO
December 25, 2014
December 25, 2014
Merry Christmas dear Alison. Peace and love forever. Miss you. Love, Cindy XXXOOO
November 27, 2014
November 27, 2014
Dear Alison - I miss you so much. I wish you were here for Thanksgiving. I remember how you loved to chomp on the huge turkey leg. Love you always and forever. Sisters for eternity.
September 7, 2014
September 7, 2014
Dear Alison, I am thinking of you and missing you. Love you always and forever, Cindy XXXOOO
August 26, 2014
August 26, 2014
Alison - I wish you were here for my birthday. Today I wore the beautiful blue topaz ring you gave me and sprayed on some of your favorite White Shoulders cologne. I also had a birch beer with my lunch today. Miss you so much. Love, Cindy XXXOOO
August 22, 2014
August 22, 2014
Mom,

The other day I was wishing I could hold your hand and give you a hug. I miss you.

Love,
Jennifer
August 20, 2014
August 20, 2014
Alison - You are so beautiful to me! Miss you, love, Cindy XXXOOO
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January 29
January 29
Thinking of Alison and all you Ellers today with fondness and many happy memories. It's hard to believe it's been 10 years already since she left us. I looked at several of the pictures posted here and enjoyed remembering her and Rachel. Cindy, I messaged you my phone number privately through this site. Please check and respond to me when you have a moment. Love you all, not only from myself but also the rest of our family. xoxo
January 28
January 28
Dear Alison: I can't believe it has been 10 years since you've been gone. We miss you so much. Wish you were here. I am so glad we had the time we had together and I will always treasure my wonderful memories of you. Sisters Always and Forever! Love, Cindy XXXOOO
June 27, 2023
June 27, 2023
Happy Birthday dear Alison. We miss you. You are always in our hearts. Love you always and forever! Love, Cindy XXXOOO
Recent stories

Puppy Love

January 23, 2015

Alison was a big fan of Donny Osmond when she was young (age 12 - 13).  Alison had a poster of Donny Osmond over her bed, and would give Donny a kiss goodnight when she went to bed.  We lived in Alexandria, Virginia at the time (1972), and Alison and I shared a bedroom downstairs near our rec room.  I remember Alison wanting to play Donny's music and me wanting her to take the music off so we could go to sleep. 

I remember that Alison liked the song Puppy Love:   

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zI2hgm65WhE 

and the song Go Away Little Girl:  

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sp95lt1lHMQ
  
Alison and I went to an Osmond family concert at the State Fair in Allentown, Pennsylvania, on August 6, 1972.  I remember that it was a lot of fun, and of course Alison was so happy to see Donny Osmond in concert.  

In 1976/1977 while we lived in Newport, Rhode Island, and Coronado, California, Alison and I would watch the Donny and Marie tv show (Marie was a little bit country and Donny was a little bit rock n roll):  

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_AfXznngjGw

Alison would love it that Mom and Dad are now in Las Vegas at the Donny & Marie Show (Flamingo Hotel 1/22/2015) - more than 42 years after Alison and I saw the Osmonds in concert at the State Fair in Allentown, Pennsylvania.  

I found a picture that Alison had of Donny Osmond (it might have been a picture of the poster over Alison's bed).  At the Celebration of Life we had for Alison on March 1, 2014, we displayed the picture of Donny Osmond along with a bouquet of Alison's flower pens.  We also played a short clip of Donny's song Puppy Love.  Memories!

   
    
       

Sleep talking

April 29, 2014

I remember one time I was at home, either in my teens or early 20s, and I heard my mom call out my name from her bedroom so I went to double check what she needed.  When I got to her room the lights were off and I heard her sleepily say "Get me a cup of coffee" however it was nighttime and I wasn't sure why she would want a cup late at night.  I looked a bit closer and realized she was talking in her sleep.  Even in her sleep she had wanted her coffee!

Reiko's Visit

March 30, 2014

During Reiko's visit from Tokyo I gave her a small bell that Alison would have wanted her to have.  It is a very special bell that had drawings of Mount Fuji and a Kyoto temple.  Reiko rang the bell and said "Alison thank you - I remember you." 

I also showed Reiko and her friend Norie two flower pen bouquets with the flower pens Alison made and they thought they were beautiful.  



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