Happy birthday, Anitra. I miss you and am grateful for the beautiful gifts you left. Your children and granddaughter have been a blessing to my life. I only wish you were here to enjoy this time with them. Love you.

Happy Heavenly Birthday, sis! It's hard to imagine that today you would turn 48! We will celebrate your life today!

So much has changed since you left us. You have a granddaughter and a great-nephew. Your youngest daughter graduated from high school a year early. She's so smart! Your son is now a sous chef and driving his own car that HE bought!

These are your lights. These are the things that keep you here with us.

We miss you every day. We love you!

Anitra, you are still alive and will always be in my heart. Missing your beautiful laughter ❤️

I cannot believe that we are here today without you for 10 years. I remember the last time I spoke with you like it was yesterday. Thank you for the gift of memories and laughter. Thank you for the gift of your children and granddaughter. Today I will hold tight to the blessings. I don't live in sorrow but do think of and miss you each and every day.

Loving and miss you every day. May you forever rest in peace.

<3 u 2

I feel broken. I miss you.

Anitra, you came to my mind this morning :) Thinking of you and your family today and praying too. Lovingly, Dionne

8 hours was what I missed you by. I walked into the room you spent your last night in 8 hours after you left. Did you sleep that night? When did you decide? Would I have been able to change your mind? Your heart?
We had not spoken in years. You were making a go of it in Lincoln and I had left California and was making a fresh start in Lincoln too. We made plans to get together but never followed through. Today, I am really missing you friend. I often feel bad about abandoning you after we got caught together. What happened? I went to your funeral and wrote a check to Vanessa. Did she become more kind? I know we were hard kids to raise. I know I miss you still. I hope your soul is at peace.

I need you here. I need you to let me scream and cry and freak out. I need you to make all this spinning stop. And I need you not to have died so I know that G will be ok. You're supposed to be here with me for this crap. It's not supposed to be like this.

We all miss you. Rythm is struggling, but she has a lot of support and love. Rileigh is so amazing. Ariez is growing into a nice young man, quirky but nice, and Rey is such a joyous girl. Tai, Trey, and Genevieve all miss you so much. You are always on our hearts and our prayers. Love you.

My heart is hurting so much today. I feel like I'm re-living the day I lost you. I hate feeling this way and knowing that for all the rest of my life I will miss you. I miss your voice. I miss your laughter. I miss your smile. I miss your face. I miss you. I love you.

Love and miss you. can't believe you're 39. just remember for 2 months you're older than me. I can hear you laughing from heaven at that. <3

Happy Birthday sissy! I can't believe you would be 39 today. Love you and Miss You!

I love you

Thinking of you everyday and missing your laugh. Love you Anitra.

Steve and Sam, while I so enjoyed catching up with you a bit Saturday evening, my heart was so saddened learning of Anitra's passing. I remember her as a smiling person, always ready to have a good time; maybe or maybe not in the most conventional of ways! I miss her. Thank you for establishing this site to honor her life. God Bless you.

My heart hurts right now...but to try and stay positive, I always saw her with a smile.  Through good and bad...I understood her 100%. My condolences to the family.

love and miss you everyday.