Attached is a link to Barbara Lang's obituary, which was published yesterday in The Patriot Ledger.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on:
Saturday, Apr. 2, 2016
10:30 AM
Immaculate Conception Church
720 Broad St. Weymouth, MA
May all know peace.
May all know they are never alone.
May all see beauty unexpectedly, Barbara's beauty, in all things.
May all dance again, and laugh, as she would want them too.
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Leave a tributeThank you for the priceless memories my dear friend
I still keep in touch with David, such a love.
Till we meet again, Blessings of love, joy, and peace.
Charlotte
Never forgotten
We all marveled at Barbara's energy (our Clinton Road neighbor) over the many years, and would enjoy seeing her travel up our beloved marsh in her kayak.
Please know that you are all in our thoughts, and prayers.
The Cook Family
You start dying slowly
if you do not travel,
if you do not read,
If you do not listen to the sounds of life,
If you do not appreciate yourself ...
You start dying slowly …
If you do not wear different colors
or you do not speak to those you don’t know.
You start dying slowly
If you avoid to feel passion
and its turbulent emotions, those which make your eyes glisten
and your heart beat fast ….
You start dying slowly…
If you do not risk what is safe for the uncertain,
If you do not go after a dream,
If you do not allow yourself, at least once in your lifetime,
to run away from sensible advice.
Excerpted from a poem by
~ Pablo Neruda ~
(pen name of Chilean poet-diplomat and politician
Ricardo Eliécer Neftalí Reyes Basoalto)
Its timbre - I can still hear it now - this low, vibrating (like joy was inside it tap dancing), stretched-out long and slow tone. Barbara's voice embraced you, even before her hug arrived. It made you know you mattered, that you were loved. It was as warm as a favorite blanket, that was her voice to me, embodying her spirit, her way of being in the world.
For I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glint of snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning, hush,
For I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circle flight,
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand by my grave and cry,
I am not there, I did not die.
-Hopi prayer
Then one day several years later I asked her about becoming an instructor Here I was an overweight woman trying to figure out a way to lose weight and change my life Lucky for me she did not discourage me because of my weight but said That's great and together I became a Lite Instructor teaching with Barbara and Krissy. Needless to say it was an amazing journey and gave me more joy to teach than I exercise imagined. I loved hearing her travel stories and could not wait till I could start my own adventures Barbara was an amazing woman and that really does not describe her love for life and people and her family. My heart goes out her family now and each day going forward. But I know she will be all around you in God's Nature and Music. May you WOW everyone in Heaven with you dancing and spirit Barbara.
With much love and deepest sympathy,
Shannon
Jazzercise. I will especially remember fondly starting my Thanksgiving
Day at class with Barbara and my Jazzercise Family. It was the most anticpated class of the year!
Dance On in Heaven Barbara. Until we met again, I will be seeing you in all Familiar Places.
Sending much love to all the Langs and Canniffs. Kathy Hanson
She showed me that she could live life to the fullest without losing a beat .
I was lucky to have known her
You will always be in the hearts of the people that love you so much.
XOXOXO
When I die, I wish your hands upon my eyes:
I want the light and the wheat of your beloved hands
to pass once more their cool touch over me:
to sense the softness that changed my fate.
I want you to live while I, asleep, await you.
I want your ears to go on hearing the wind.
I want you to smell the sea’s aroma we loved so together,
and to go on walking the sands we walked.
I want what I love to go on living.
And you, whom I loved and sung above all else,
for all that, flourish again, my flower,
to reach for everything my love demands of you,
so that my shadow is passed through your hair,
so that all can know the reason for my song.
(Pablo Neruda was a Chilean poet, who received the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1971.)
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Thank you for the priceless memories my dear friend
Barbara and Maureen, kindred spirits!
Barbara and I were best friends. I am still in shock that she has died. I have tried to write in this space so many times, but just couldn't continue. I guess I had to acknowledge that it was true before I allowed myself to write.
Barbara never failed to lift my spirit. She saw the goodness in everything and everybody and you just couldn't be down when you were with her. We shared countless adventures, mishaps, and spiritual journeys. Our husbands and children just shook their collective heads when we were together.
When my father died and my mother was hospitalized, I stayed alone in their house and tried to keep things together. Barbara called me and said I needed to get out of the house. She said we were going to World's End in Hingham. It was a lovely March day just like today, and I had been holed up in a sad house. She was insistent. We arrived at the park where a ranger asked if we were coming to see the bluebirds. We hadn't even known about the yearly migration stop at World's End that the bluebirds made every year. We got directions to the field and as the woods opened up to the meadow, we stopped in our tracks! There were thousands of brilliant bluebirds all over and above the fields. Brilliant blue soaring and flitting everywhere! I will never forget the sight of those beautiful sparkling bluebirds. And I still remember clearly the look of wonder and awe on Barbara's face along with a knowing nod of her head and a big smile. We hugged and then cried, laughed, and cried again. As we walked back to the car, Barbara hugged me again and said, "God wanted us to see this. He knew you needed to see them. And Barbara somehow knew to take me, almost against my will. I have never seen the bluebird migration again, but that look of wonder and awe on Barbara's face and that other look of knowing was repeated for me many, many times. And the words, "God wanted us to see this, feel this, experience this, hear this!" became a mantra for the wonderful times we had together. Her spirit will live forever in my soul. I miss you so much, soul mate, kindred spirit, my "sister of summer!"
One beautiful life
My heart is aching at the sudden and tragic loss of my mom's best friend Barbara Lang. Barbara was killed while swimming, off the coast of Easter Island, by what we believe was a sudden and powerful tide. She was vacationing in Patagonia with her husband David.
I like to think, in her last moments, as she waded into the ocean, her heart was so full of all the beauty she'd seen, of all she was hoping for, of all the anticipation she had of seeing her children and grandchildren again - that her heart could barely hold it all.
Barbara saw beauty and wonder in the most simple things, and believed (as I believe) that God guides us to these ordinary moment of beauty. My mom shared a story with me over the weekend of how while on a bike ride once, when they had stopped to rest, Barbara might say something like "Oh wow! Look at this beautiful flower here!" and she would declare: "We were meant to stop here at this Port-a-Potty, just to see it!" My mother would shake her head, "Oh Barbara, really?!"
Barbara's heart and mine are so alike in this way. I wonder if it was partly her doing that taught me to wonder and marvel at such simple things. To trust so much that God was carrying me, even in ordinary moments . . .
My mom and Barbara met when I was 5 or 6 years old - while walking me and her oldest son David to our first day of school in Weymouth, MA. They became fast and lifelong friends, always open to adventure and beauty and joy and silliness.
Barbara was to travel with our family to Ireland this summer as we bike across the Emerald Isle in celebration of my parent's 50th anniversary. Her 1st grandchild Riley was going to come with her - Riley is graduating from high school this spring just like my mom's first grandchild Ben is. Over the last several years, Barbara would read my writing - she was such a loyal reader, and commented on it all the time. She often would say "you are so brave" to write the way you do, so openly.
Barbara, you were the brave one, to open your heart so freely, to love so deeply and to have touched so many people's lives with your spirit of "wow" (a signature phrase) and the grace and sense of fun you brought, especially while dancing- I loved how you would dance, whenever the music called to you, no matter if anyone else was dancing, no matter who saw. I miss you. Thank you for being part of my life and my mother's life. For kayaking beside her, in open-water swims, for letting her cry and talk about her fears. Thank you for the gift of you.