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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Betty Jean Avey, 77, born on April 14, 1937 and passed away on December 14, 2014. We will remember her forever.

December 14, 2023
December 14, 2023
Mom, you were always handing me books to read when I was in junior high and beyond. It changed my life, and gave me faith that I COULD read books like Eric Fromm's Escape from Freedom. I love you, and wherever you are, I'm sure you're reading something thought provoking.
December 14, 2022
December 14, 2022
Just thinking about my Mom and how much she loved Christmas, and always brought beauty to the season. Happy Holidays wherever you are Mom.
April 14, 2021
April 14, 2021
Happy Birthday Mom. Peace and happiness as you continue on your journey. Love you.
April 14, 2021
April 14, 2021
Happy Birthday Mom - I will never forget the smell of oil paints when you were working on your paintings, the strong lines and profusion of your ink sketches. I remember how frustrated you got sometimes with your paintings, which has taught me to accept that as much as we might love a pastime, to truly invest in it requires all our emotions. I miss you! Wherever you are, I know you're creating something beautiful.
April 14, 2020
April 14, 2020
Happy Birthday Mom!

Wow, how would you have reacted to Covid-19? Al Bradford passed this year, and to consider that you both have left the world saddens me. But I carry the humor and passion you both had in life inside me, so on we go. If I could just begin to see trees the way you did, how you drew them, what they meant to you - I'd consider that a major life achievement. Thinking of you as Spring approaches.
April 15, 2019
April 15, 2019
Hi Mom.. I miss talking to you.. for hours and hours. You helped me through some of the toughest times in my life. I cannot stop thinking about you. Every day.. Like Glenn.. Thank you for the artistic and musical ability that you taught us. I am carving now more than ever.. and have learned to do leather work. soon to be learning how to make our native drums. I love life and everything in it.. Trees.. now I understand the joy you felt in painting trees..
Happy birthday..
April 14, 2019
April 14, 2019
Well Mom, it's your birthday again. I know you always were amazing at architecting (and yes, that's the right word) some amazing cakes, birthday and otherwise. The hamburger cakes, my hiking in the mountains cake thing for graduation. You just had art coming out of your pores, and I thank you for giving me that view of the world. Can't say I've used it much yet, but you are always my inspiration to actually stop and look at the world, at where I am, the light, the shadows, the colors.
April 16, 2018
April 16, 2018
We love you Mom! We used to play a lot of Scrabble with Norma Swift ("Swifty") as you used to call her. I remember getting beat up at that game a LOT, but I still love to play it and have a lifelong love of words because of it. You and Norma were wicked Scrabble players - here's to the right words.
April 17, 2015
April 17, 2015
I hope you are dancing the ballet you loved so much. And dont forget to have fun and do the belly dancing. You were so good at that. You are now free to spend time with Chuck and Dad. Tell Dad I love him too. By the way.. I got my Indian name the other day. It is not Cherokee.. it is Black foot Because Grandmother Raven is Blackfoot. It is Sic si pita Ahki.. Blackbird woman. She chose it because I love birds. and I love Ravens and crows so much. It covers all black birds and birds. I love my new name. Thank you for teaching us about our heritage. Even though you did not know a lot about it. I know you wanted to know more. Now I am learning about it and how they live and lived. I have been to my first Sundance and Last month went to my first sweat lodge. Both were an experience I would not miss for the life of me.
December 30, 2014
December 30, 2014
We did not know your mother well, but knew she was a talented lady. We recall the wonderful cakes she made for your Hazen graduation party and the fun she brought to the party. Our hearts reach out to Glenn and family in their loss. She is at peace now and her spirit will always be with you. Much love.
December 23, 2014
December 23, 2014
One of the things I remember is playing my violin for her and my dad and their friends one night. Their friend asked me.." How come you wiggle your toes when you play?" Now I laugh at that but at the time. I was so embarrassed. One of the songs I remember so well she used to sing was Danny Boy. She love folk songs by the time I was 20 I had learned the all on my guitar and could sing them word verbatim. Wow.. Good memories.
December 22, 2014
December 22, 2014
I can still remember when Mom would stand over the sink, washing dishes, and sing her heart out when we were kids. I was supposed to be playing outside but I'd stand there in the living room of our house in the railroad yards and just listen. Mom, I can still hear you singing.
December 20, 2014
December 20, 2014
My sweet sisters Betty Jean & Anita found me after 53 yyears. Betty was the first sibling I ever touched & hugged. 53 years of seperation were erased in an instant as her love flooded my soul. I thank the Lord for her sweet love. I never thought I'd have a sister to miss & I will miss her!

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December 14, 2023
December 14, 2023
Mom, you were always handing me books to read when I was in junior high and beyond. It changed my life, and gave me faith that I COULD read books like Eric Fromm's Escape from Freedom. I love you, and wherever you are, I'm sure you're reading something thought provoking.
December 14, 2022
December 14, 2022
Just thinking about my Mom and how much she loved Christmas, and always brought beauty to the season. Happy Holidays wherever you are Mom.
April 14, 2021
April 14, 2021
Happy Birthday Mom. Peace and happiness as you continue on your journey. Love you.
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Coffee and trees

December 22, 2014

When we found the Maple Leaf family home for Mom, everyone felt it was a great place...except Mom. And who could blame her? At that point, she missed her art, and all the tools and implements that fit her hands so well. She missed Angels Camp and the good friends her and Chuck had down there. I felt like dirt, but knew that with Parkinsons, it would be invaluable to have their help and care. 

When I would visit, the thing she always wanted to do was what she wanted to do in life - get out and see natural beauty. She couldn't move around very well, so I would put her in the car with a many step process. When we were ready, we would hit the Silver Lining coffee shop and pick up a couple cookies and a coupple cups of coffee and go tree hunting. We didn't start out looking for trees, but that was what she noticed as we drove around the north Seattle neighborhoods.

When we found a beauty, I would take pictures and print them out for her. She would then sketch them. I got her water colors, brushes, sketch pads, but most of the time she would just sketch out views on whatever paper was around. So be it.

I'll never walk by a beautiful tree the same way again, you know? 

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