BRENDA SUE HAGEDORN was born August 31, 1964 in Pomona, California to Ray and Cynthia (Garner) Vela. She passed away Tuesday, April 21, 2009, at her residence in Fremont, Nebraska at the age of 44 years.
Brenda moved to Oakland, Nebraska and lived with her mother and step-father Gaylen Johnson in her sophomore year. She graduated from Oakland-Craig High School in 1982. She was in the swing choir and received honors. She attended Metro Tech College in Fremont for one year.
She married Scott Hagedorn in July of 1983. They had a daughter Brandi Ann. They Later Divorced.
Brenda's love of life is what helped her endure her battle with MS. She was a great motivator and made many accomplishments for those with disabilities. She was a homemaker and artist.
She was preceded in death by her grandparents: Adolf and Natalie Vela, Carmen and Leonard Johnson, and Bert Garner.
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Newspaper Article About Brandi
The Fremont Tribune editors wrote an article about how Brandi had always been there beside her mother to help as Brenda's disease worsened. They talked about Brandi's outstanding character and about Brenda being able to raise such an honorable teenager despite all things that worked against her.
Once I got off work the day it was published I called Brenda to see if she had read it yet. She knew nothing about it so I read it to her over the phone. When I was finished reading I heard only silence, then sniffles, then weeping. Brenda, who I rarely saw or heard cry, was moved to tears. They were good tears and she was beaming with pride at the daughter Brandi had become.
This is just one of the many stories about how Brenda (and Brandi) have touched my life. More later...
"Those we love remain with us for love itself lives on,
and cherished memories never fade
because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be more than a thought apart,
for as long as there is memory, they'll live on in the heart."