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BRENDA SUE HAGEDORN was born August 31, 1964 in Pomona, California to Ray and Cynthia (Garner) Vela. She passed away Tuesday, April 21, 2009, at her residence in Fremont, Nebraska at the age of 44 years.

Brenda moved to Oakland, Nebraska and lived with her mother and step-father Gaylen Johnson in her sophomore year. She graduated from Oakland-Craig High School in 1982. She was in the swing choir and received honors. She attended Metro Tech College in Fremont for one year.

She married Scott Hagedorn in July of 1983. They had a daughter Brandi Ann. They Later Divorced.

Brenda's love of life is what helped her endure her battle with MS. She was a great motivator and made many accomplishments for those with disabilities. She was a homemaker and artist.

She was preceded in death by her grandparents: Adolf and Natalie Vela, Carmen and Leonard Johnson, and Bert Garner.

September 1, 2023
September 1, 2023
Happy Birthday my beautiful daughter...Brandi is a good mom, and person..Quentin will be 13 in two weeks..handsome, tall, such help to all he is around..your Cash and Bren are 10, 5th graders and very special..all play football, miss you more all the time....love you..your mother
April 22, 2022
April 22, 2022
Hi...the photos are your beautiful grandchildren..they are the best..went today to visit you left you spring flowers..miss you..love, mom
August 31, 2019
August 31, 2019
Happy 55th Birthday..today you are eligible for senior discounts. Wish we could go somewhere together and get our discount together..miss and love you so but know you are watching from above...love, Mom
April 21, 2019
April 21, 2019
10 years today Easter Sunday....think of and miss you every day...going to Brandi's to be with she and your grandchildren....they are awesome...god bless you in heaven
May 1, 2017
May 1, 2017
I added a picture of myself and another caretake of Brenda's, Jen. The picture was taken at a wedding, Brenda looked beautiful!
September 2, 2016
September 2, 2016
Bren was my best friend in high school. We were the two outcasts from Cali. We did everything together! Oh how I miss the good old days! You were absolutely beautiful in every way! So many memories! Even in our Fremont days! We are Sister's! I love you so much Bren! Heaven is even more beautiful with you there. Miss you dear friend.
August 31, 2016
August 31, 2016
Brenda and Brandi lived above us in an apt house when Brandi was little. She always had such amazing crafts and items she had made decorating their home. She was such a beautiful woman who had such a flair for life. She was a positive and happy person. Just a real joy to know.  Talked to her a few times after she was in her chair and she still shared that smile and upbeat attitude . Quite an amazing person.
August 31, 2016
August 31, 2016
Brenda is a girl I knew for a short time however she is still someone I bring up to this day about our stories to my kids!  We had some amazing road trips together even though I went along As a caretaker, I left as a friend!  I miss you Brenda!!  Luv ~ Shel
April 21, 2016
April 21, 2016
Just a note to let you know I miss you so but when I go places,touch certain things.... spring flowers...songs you sang...you are always with me ...love you..mom
April 21, 2014
April 21, 2014
Five years today have gone by since The Lord needed you to be free. It is not fair you left so young but you left those who knew you and care a legacy of your love and you live on through your fabulous daughter Brandi and your three precious grandchildren...you are always with us. I love and miss you beyond words.....
October 23, 2013
October 23, 2013
So many great memories of my beautiful daughter,,, She was very gifted and an inspiration to all who knew her,,,,see stories
October 22, 2013
October 22, 2013
Brenda was such a sweet, caring and loving sister-in-law. I always enjoyed visiting with her and Brandi and I will miss making her laugh because she had such a unique laugh and beautiful smile!
Miss ya, Bren!
October 22, 2013
October 22, 2013
One more thing. There was nothing she couldn't do. Brenda was so beautiful.
October 22, 2013
October 22, 2013
There are so many things I remember about my cousin. Growing up she was the oldest cousin/ Grandchild ( I was second in line) I remember that she was so active. There was nothing she couldn't do. She would hike, dirt bike what ever had to do with the outdoors. On Easter we used to go to Carbon Canyon (the best times ever) She would pick up snakes with no fear.
October 22, 2013
October 22, 2013
She was one of the nicest ladies i met when we move to nebraska from california. My favorite thing was when we wouldvall go to the bike shows or car shows she never wanted to use her cane. And i was still a kids at perfect hight so she would hold on to my head to balance as she walked around.. It was fun and funny. She was a good mother and a good friend. She left a impact on everyone. Xox
October 21, 2013
October 21, 2013
A tribute to my best friend thru high school and later on in our adult lives....  Brenda was a bright light that commanded the room when she walked in and had the onery way about her with a devilish sparkle in her eyes... She was the different California girl with the Joan Jett look and the talent to match. Forever missing you in my heart... Love you til I see you again.
October 21, 2013
October 21, 2013
Every time I visited Brenda, I left her house with more than I came with...

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September 1, 2023
September 1, 2023
Happy Birthday my beautiful daughter...Brandi is a good mom, and person..Quentin will be 13 in two weeks..handsome, tall, such help to all he is around..your Cash and Bren are 10, 5th graders and very special..all play football, miss you more all the time....love you..your mother
April 22, 2022
April 22, 2022
Hi...the photos are your beautiful grandchildren..they are the best..went today to visit you left you spring flowers..miss you..love, mom
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August 31, 2018

You can be so proud of your three special grandchildren..there is a lot of you in each one....your daughter is a loving and giving mother as you.....miss you..love mom

Barbie

October 23, 2013
Brenda had gotten a new Barbie house...she and her cousin Debbie went outside to play Barbies..I thought I better check on them..when I got outside the Barbie house was on fire,,,asking what was going on Brenda calmly replied..my GI Joes needed to save the Barbies,,,,,just one of her quick of wit antics...what could I say.....love your mother

Newspaper Article About Brandi

October 21, 2013

The Fremont Tribune editors wrote an article about how Brandi had always been there beside her mother to help as Brenda's disease worsened.  They talked about Brandi's outstanding character and about Brenda being able to raise such an honorable teenager despite all things that worked against her.

Once I got off work the day it was published I called Brenda to see if she had read it yet.  She knew nothing about it so I read it to her over the phone.  When I was finished reading I heard only silence, then sniffles, then weeping.  Brenda, who I rarely saw or heard cry, was moved to tears.  They were good tears and she was beaming with pride at the daughter Brandi had become.

This is just one of the many stories about how Brenda (and Brandi) have touched my life.  More later...

"Those we love remain with us for love itself lives on,
and cherished memories never fade
because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be more than a thought apart,
for as long as there is memory, they'll live on in the heart.
"

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