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Capt.Dr. Manu Yadav
  • 26 years old
  • Date of birth: Dec 29, 1981
  • Date of passing: Aug 8, 2008
Let the memory of Capt.Dr. be with us forever

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Capt.Dr. Manu Yadav, born on December 29, 1981 and passed away on August 8, 2008. We will remember him forever.

Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Swaraj Yadav on 9th August 2016

"Time heals all wounds we do not agree. The wounds remain. In time. The mind protecting its sanity. Covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone. We miss Dr Manu yadav

your loving Baby mausi"

This tribute was added by Dilip Kulkarni on 8th August 2016

"Pray to Almighty to be always with you Madam. RIP Manu."

This tribute was added by Shraddha Yadav on 8th August 2016

"I just miss you Manu...I miss how we all were together as a family- how we would laugh or get scolded for our fights. I miss everything about you- the craze of finding the most exclusive Rakhi for you- and then waiting to see your reaction...miss u Manu- I just Miss you..."

This tribute was added by Swaraj Yadav on 6th August 2016

""WE DID NOT KNOW THAT MORNING  ( 08.08.08)
WHAT SORROW THAT DAY WOULD BRING,
OUR LOSS WAS GREAT,THE PAIN WAS SEVER
WE LOST SOMEONE,WE LOVED SO DEAR,
    GOD CALLED YOU HOME ,SO QUICKLY
    THAT WE COULD NOT SAY GOOD BYE
    OUR SORROW LOOMS SO DEEPLY
    BECAUSE ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY,
    YOU WILL REMAIN FOREVER IN OUR HEART,
   WE WILL PRAY FOR YOU FOREVER BY HEART.""

This tribute was added by Jayakumar Valathoru on 5th August 2016

"Madam.... The loss you had is in consolable and heart wrenching. Time only will heal the grief. We always pray God to RIP of your beloved Son. To  share your grief always.... Swamy of Kailash Parivar"

This tribute was added by Sanjeev Mittal on 3rd August 2016

""Soldiers live on forever and inspire for generations to come. RIP.""

This tribute was added by Swaraj Yadav on 3rd August 2016

""If I could have a lifetime wish
A dream that could come true,
i had pray to God with all my hearts &tears
for eight years and you,
thousands words can't bring you back
neither will  thousands tears,
you left behind  my broken heart and memories too
but i never wanted memories I only wanted you.""

This tribute was added by Dilip Kulkarni on 5th July 2016

"God Bless."

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 7th May 2016

"A Mother's love is hard to explain,
Not everyone will feel the same.
Now that you are NOT HERE I felt the need to tell you
Just how much I love you so.
Time may pass day after day or year after year,
But the love I have for you grows
nearer and dearer to my heart each day and year.
To my son, I hope you know just how much I love you so."

This tribute was added by Jayant OM on 7th May 2016

"The pain of parting from loved ones is unbearable, but their memories are our guiding light, they may not be physically with us, but their memories are with us. Salute Captain Jai Hind."

This tribute was added by Sapna Bhati on 15th April 2016

"Manu,  I didn't get d opportunity to spend more time with Shradhha and u but I still remember you as a sweet boy and caring brother. Me and Shradhha were best of friends but unfortunately lost all d contacts when both of u left S.U.B.P.S. Rewari. It' s heartbreaking  to know that you are not with us .Unfortunately we have to bear the loss .RIP"

This tribute was added by Ajit Yadav on 22nd March 2016

"This tribute was added by Ajit yadav on 22  March 2016.

Miss you brother"

This tribute was added by joshi jp on 24th February 2016

"om namah shivay."

This tribute was added by Ajay Giri on 15th January 2016

"Forever missed my dear friend!"

This tribute was added by shashikumar ramadugu on 14th January 2016

"very touched by this site
god bless his soul
pray his dear ones gather more strength from all well wishers"

This tribute was added by Nagendra Singh Beniwal on 12th January 2016

"Dear Manu...we will forever cherish fond memories of AFMC and Jodhpur...."

This tribute was added by Sameena Parikh on 12th January 2016

"We went to lonavala in a big group in first or second yr of mbbs.that was my first interaction with manu. We went in the worst possible weather totally dry and hot. but I think that was the most memorable trips I have had till date... full of idiotic jokes and pjs. One cud rely on manu for subtle humour.he wud crack a joke with absolute seriousness. Very helpful and sensitive guy. manu It's hard to believe u r not a part of this world. Wherever u r... I pray that u r smiling and spreading smiles... making that part of the world more bright and more beautiful.may ur soul rest in peace"

This tribute was added by Sandeep Sharma on 12th January 2016

"It's never easy to learn u r no more with us...enjoy heaven ..."

This tribute was added by Swaraj Yadav on 26th December 2015

"Many many  happy returns of the day my son,where are you? Listen my prayers for your well being.though you are not with me but you are in my heart and in my every breath.
mummy"

This tribute was added by Swaraj Yadav on 26th December 2015

"्It's like a bad dream that plays over & over in my head
There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of you,
Even after all this time, what am I going to do?
 
Maybe this is the way mommys are suppose to feel,
Perhaps our wounds are never intended to heal.
If I could ask but one question why,
And, at times I've failed


A piece of my life,
is missing and gone...
And everything feels,
Oh...so wrong

But, there is one thing,
that I can do...
I will try to be strong,
just for you

One thing I feel, 
down deep in my heart...
It's my love for you,
I guess that will live long last.

The way I feel"

This tribute was added by Swaraj Yadav on 26th December 2015

"ओंम त्रयम्बकम यजामहे सुगन्धिम पुष्टि वरधनम  ,उर्वारुकमिव बनधनात मरितयोर मुक्षीय मामरितात।औउम ।"

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 10th November 2015

"phoolon se bhi jyada  sugandh failane wale,
  taron se bhi jyada prakash dene wale,
nadiyo se bhi  jyada umang pravahit karne wale,
sagar se bhi jyada gambhir '
mere manu, aaj is kali raat mein
tum kyon khamosh ho gye,kahan chle gaye
,bas ek bar ,ek bar fir aaoo
thoda himmat badhao mere manu,
apni mummy ko ek jhalak dikhlao manu.
tum bin jeena ,jeena nahi.
bus bhagwan ki dee zindgi
ka jahar peena hi hai zindgi,"

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 30th October 2015

"Remembering Manu
by: Vishu
. I was one of his good friends in MPS and we had our gang - Manu, Manish, Deepak, Anoop & me. We always use to hangout together in school and I & Manu use to play cricket in the evenings.

When I heard about it, the news struck me with an "awe", with my jaw almost fell on the ground.

It is a great loss and do let me know if I could be of any help.

Contact me on - vishu.trehan@gmail.com

May God give rest his soul in peace."

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 30th October 2015

"Jyoti Garg

I have never seen him , nor i know any thing about him. It was my fortune that while searching for some old students who performed excellent in during their school time. And then my teacher told there was a boy named Capt. dr. Manu Yadav. he was a brilliant student. And when he was giving me the details of manu bhaiya, i didnt know how tragic his death was. After doing through this book Capt. Dr. manu 26, person like manu bhaiya needs a justification of his death. even the word PROUD .. wont be able to justify what he did for our country, and i m proud of him. modern public school is proud to have student like him. We all are proud of him."

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 25th September 2015

"I know that we are  miles away from each other, but the feelings and my prayers  ,for you will never change, even if you go farther than that. You will be in my heart forever
.though
I never got to say goodbye to you, or tell you how much you really meant to me."

This tribute was added by कैलाशी अलका सिंह on 11th September 2015

"हम और ये देश सदा आपको याद करेगा नमन भारत माँ के वीर सपूत आपको हमारी श्रद्धान्जली ।"

This tribute was added by Sanjay Sangwan on 12th August 2015

"Soldiers live on forever and inspire for generations to come. RIP."

This tribute was added by Darshan Singh Pandher on 12th August 2015

"This nation can NEVER pay back for the sacrifice of our Brave Soldiers.They will be always remembered with gratitude and humility by every True INDIAN !!!"

This tribute was added by Milan Das on 11th August 2015

"You are always in our heart Dear son Dr. Manu Yadav. Return If Possible."

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 9th August 2015

"Thank you my all dears for standing by me and shower your love for Manu."

This tribute was added by Ashish Yadav on 8th August 2015

"Manu bhai this day was a tragic day when we lost you. You r missed and are in our hearts indefinitely. I think I last met you when we went for go carting in 32nd milestone when you had come to gurgaon to meet one of your close friends.you were excited about the new bike which u had got and planning to take it to pune. Surely the golden time spent with you was when u were little. You were fond of chawanprash and no matter where ever we hid it you would find it and eat it. You were an intelligent and hardworking kid right from the beginning. I miss you and will always.i m sure will meet you in some way shape or form someday.you take care where ever you r and may God bless you."

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 8th August 2015

"The way I feel

They say there is a reason,
They say that time will heal,
But neither time nor reason,
Will change the way I feel,
 
No-one knows the heartache,
That lies behind my smile,
No-one knows how many times,
I have broken down and cried,
 
I want to tell you something,
So there won't be any doubt
You were so wonderful child
But so hard to be without."

This tribute was added by Shraddha Yadav on 7th August 2015

"Manu - this song is my favorite or should I say very special, coz I feel each and every word is meant for us.

Main jahaan rahoon
Main kahin bhi hoon
Teri yaad saaath hai
Kisi se kahoon
Ke nahi kahoon
Yeh jo dil ki baat hai
Kehne ko saath apane ek duniya chalti hai
Per chhupke is dil mein tanhaayi palti hai
Bas yaad saath hai
Teri yaad saath hai

Kahin to dil mein yaadon ki
Ek suli gad jaati hai
Kahin har ek tasveer bhahut hi dhondhali pad jati hai
Koi nayi duniya ke naye rango mein khush rehta hai
Koi sab kuch paake bhi yeh mann hi mann kehta hai
Kehne ko saath apane ek duniya chalti hai
Per chhupke is dil mein tanhaayi palti hai
Bas yaad saath hai
Teri yaad saaath hai.

Kahin to beete kal ki jadein
Dil mein hi utar jaati hai
Kahin jo dhage tute to malaayen bhikar jaati
Koi dil mein jagah nayi, baaton ke liye rakhta hai
Koi apni palko par yaadon ke diye rakhta hai
Kehne ko saath apane ek duniya chalti hai
Per chhupke is dil mein tanhaayi palti hai
Bas yaad saath hai
Teri yaad saaath hai...

Miss you more than ever!!!!"

This tribute was added by Shraddha Yadav on 7th August 2015

"Manu - this song is my favorite or should I say very special, coz I feel each and every word is meant for us.

Main jahaan rahoon
Main kahin bhi hoon
Teri yaad saaath hai
Kisi se kahoon
Ke nahi kahoon
Yeh jo dil ki baat hai
Kehne ko saath apane ek duniya chalti hai
Per chhupke is dil mein tanhaayi palti hai
Bas yaad saath hai
Teri yaad saath hai

Kahin to dil mein yaadon ki
Ek suli gad jaati hai
Kahin har ek tasveer bhahut hi dhondhali pad jati hai
Koi nayi duniya ke naye rango mein khush rehta hai
Koi sab kuch paake bhi yeh mann hi mann kehta hai
Kehne ko saath apane ek duniya chalti hai
Per chhupke is dil mein tanhaayi palti hai
Bas yaad saath hai
Teri yaad saaath hai.

Kahin to beete kal ki jadein
Dil mein hi utar jaati hai
Kahin jo dhage tute to malaayen bhikar jaati
Koi dil mein jagah nayi, baaton ke liye rakhta hai
Koi apni palko par yaadon ke diye rakhta hai
Kehne ko saath apane ek duniya chalti hai
Per chhupke is dil mein tanhaayi palti hai
Bas yaad saath hai
Teri yaad saaath hai...

Miss you more than ever!!!!"

This tribute was added by Neera Yadav on 6th August 2015

"Dear Manu u r going to b 7 yrs old now .What is ur hiding place? just give us a clue.Me too miss last conversation with u at the roof top of my house.Give us the opportunity to chat again.
                                                       Lots of love
                                                                  Neera Mami."

This tribute was added by Kanu Priya on 5th August 2015

"Even though years have gone by since you bid us adieu, it still seems like yesterday when we had our last conversation on Dec 29 2007 on the rooftop of our house. May you find eternal peace and bliss wherever you are. You will forever be missed."

This tribute was added by Anju Yadav on 5th August 2015

"Miss you bhai"

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 4th August 2015

"SHARE THIS CANDLE OF LOVE ,IN MEMORY OF MY SON, I HAVE  LOST.GONE FOREVER BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN."

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 4th August 2015

"----Forwarded Message----
From: gbiswajit@yahoo.com
To: swarajyadav@hotmail.com, yadavswaraj@hotmail.com
Sent: Tue Jan 26th, 2010 8:02 PM IST
Subject: Your book

Dear Ma,
We got Manu's lap top and camera day before yesterday. When I came back home from Sunday night's call - I saw them on the dining table. I felt so sad- I thought I will write a few lines today only. So I am writing to you from my OB call room before I start the day.


We all miss Manu at different times and different occasions and we talk about it too. But I realised how much you miss him every day and every minute. You have described his journey from before birth till the  tragic end that touches the mind. Only a mom can make it so live!

The emptiness that he has created in you is understandable. What I appreciate is that you have given it a shape in the form of a book- which not many people can think of. Each line tells us the simple  way how much you miss him , how much he meant to you and how much he is still with you.

None of us could help Manu when he was with us - but you have given him the best respect when he is not among us. This will help us memorising him more vividly. We human being are very forgetful and time is a strong amnestic. Now we have something to hang on and some way to touch him when we think of him.
  
As his jijaji - i didn't get much opportunity to interact with him. But he carries a very special and very sweet memory in my heart. I will never forget the respect he used to express every time whenever we met. I still remember and will always remember the very first morning at your place after our marriage he brought me the morning tea - it still rings in my ear- "Jijaji chay!"

You will feel proud to know how much he was liked and loved at my place. My jijaji Ranadeepda became his fan almost. In the brief interaction of a couple of days when he was in Kolkata during our marriage- he started calling him as John Abraham for his looks and for his passion for bike. I used to identify him more with the cricketer Zahir Khan. I felt so happy and proud when I showed all the pictures of our wedding to the hospital staffs and my colleagues in NY. Americans are very clear in their expressions and Jamaicans are even one step ahead. I can't hold myself from loughing when I remember that a middle aged nurse at my hospital dropped her jaw when she saw his picture- oh my God! He is so hand some- is he coming here to do residency sometime?

In a brief trip to Kolkata and Ichapur to bring Shraddha and Siddharth back to Rewari sometime in Jan./ Feb. 2008 he became guru of my nephew Shubha. He couldn't stop talking about his Manuda. As an ardent fan he used to copy what Manu has told him about the bikes.

Last time I have spent time with him in Kolkata was in November 2007 when he came to visit my baba during his surgery. He booked the officer's guest house next to Nalban Boating Complex. Me, Shraddha and Siddharth all of us spent a night over there with him.

My last time with his was in Rewari sometime in March 2008. He was still posted in Nathula- came home for a vacation of few days. He adjusted his days so the we can meet. It was a very happy time. He drove us to Delhi in your Zen. On the way back to Rewari we made stop in the store in Gurgaon and did some shopping. This is the time his new posting was due- we spoke about it- the possibilities were Goa or Kolkata - I think it was not still finalised. He used to discuss his PG plan sometimes. We even discussed about possibility of USMLE. I wanted him to make trip to US to see things of his own and then decide later on.

He was so exited when we took our new car and the new laptop. He went though the details of the model and make, looked into the net and was very happy. His motivation was a big boost up for us to decide the final model and make.

His death was one of the most unexpected thing in my life. It's like bright sunshine every where, gentle breeze, nice and quiet sea shore and all on a sudden a humongous tide or tsunami comes and washes away everything.

I was driving to the hospital around 6:30 in the morning. My cell phone rings- I pick up> I hear a little weired voice of Narayan Mamaji from NJ of the other end. "Bahut bura  khabar hay Doctor sub"- and then it got disconnected. It ran out of battery. I pulled over. Borrowed the cell phone from a Mexican guy who was working at the street side store and called back mamaji. When he told me Manu is not there anymore- that was the most unbelievable news that anybody could deliver to me. I was worried about my own parents who are not in a great shape or an unexpected road traffic accident or something like that. Sometimes reality defeats imaginations.

He was handsome, he was smart, intelligent, soft spoken, courteous, respectful and lav able. He had depth. He was not a usual street smart, attention seeking, influencing kind of personality. He never wanted to talk about himself. He was sober and quiet , but his presence would never go un noticed even in a crowd. . I always had faith and great confidence on him and liked him a lot. He kind of fulfilled the spot of a younger brother that I was very proud of. Never thought he is going to be there only for such a short period of time to leave such a huge emptiness.

God only knows why he had to go like this. If he took his own life then we all are responsible for it. He could not reach to the bottom of his mind. He took so much of pain that he could not bear it anymore and decided that death is less painful than life and none of us could sense it! It's a massive failure.

If some body took his life or lead him to take his own - may God do justice to that person on his own way.

I wish he came alive - smiling and saying Hi Jijaji! How are you? As he did over the phone a few weeks before he passed away.


Biswajit."

This tribute was added by Biswajit Ghosh on 31st July 2015

"Got the opportunity to have you as  brother  in law for a brief but precious moments. Still wonder why did it have to end like this.
Your premature departure is probably a living proof of the saying " God can't live without his beloved ones". When I look at your face- fresh, innocent , full of life - it becomes hard to believe it's so far away from life. Wherever you are- you will be always in the heart of our family. Those who came to know you even for a few moments - can't forget you. You are always there with us and will always be.
Biswajit Ghosh
Your jijaji."

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 31st July 2015

"TRIBUTE
                                               (On 7th Death Anniversary)

                                "We miss you more than words can say
                                       We are just an empty shell
                                     Going through the motions of life
                                       An existance so close to Hell
                                       If only We could get you back
                                       How wonderful that would be!!!

                        
                                                      
                                                         REMEMBRANCE
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                                              CAPT. DR. MANU YADAV. AMC
                                                      (17.021982-.08.2008)
He was commissioned in the Army Medical Corps as a medical officer on Feb.2004. An alumnus of Armed Forces Medical College, Pune,  he was popular among his colleagues and subordinates for his mature conduct and professionalism. He was posted at MH Panjim, where he took his last breath on 08.08.08. May God grant peace to his soul."

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 30th July 2015

"Light a Candle
Lay a Flower
Leave a Note"

This tribute was added by swaraj yadav on 29th July 2015

""I'm sitting here in my room, looking at your picture.
Wondering why you couldn't be a part of my future.
Uncontrollable tears stream down my face,
while my heart beat starts to race.
Even though I can't see,
I know you are up there watching over me.
I miss you more and more everyday"


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