October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
I cannot believe you are gone... I just found out.. 3 years later.. You will forever be loved and missed. <3
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Chris Wilson, 45, born on May 7, 1970 and passed away on September 9, 2015. We will remember him forever. He was the love of my life and he has touched soo many lives more than I knew. He told me from day one of dating that he was going live a short life. He was in 2nd stage the doctors predicated when we met he somehow knew that. but he fought his ulitmate battle and hung on to talk to my daughter and I hurried to get him on the phone at her dads, I heard Madison tell him she loved him and every thing would be okay...and it was not long after that he died. I only wish I could have been in Paradise with him. But I was the sole provider but we will always have our last dance the day he went to BAE after checking his self out of OHSU to come see me and the kids. I knew he had to go but also knew this was the last time I would see him. So despite people waiting and angry at me I had to have this time with my soulmate.. Chris let me stand him up and he snapped back to his normal self and we held each other for one last time and i turned the radio on and as I held his body close to mine so he wouldnt fall , he started to slow dance, like he was not weak and for one song, we closed our eyes and remembered how it was before he was so sick., He was so strong before so sick . I will cherish this moment forever. then I picked him up put him my truck and took him to BAE to be with his family and friends.
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April 4, 2017
April 4, 2017
Chris , it seems like just yesterday, you were here, happy, healthy and laughing and hiding cause you knew Madison age 7 at this particular time would be coming home soon and as usual she made a Bee line to the house yelling out your name Chris where are you? Cause she was ready to play Connect 4 or Basketball outside or a video came. Then about a year later I would get home with both my kids and Dylan would make a B line to the house as he is telling me the work out he came up with that day for the 2 of you . I am forever grateful for being there for Dylan as the male role model he needed at this time of his life. You made my son laugh and happy. I love you to the moon and back a trillion times Baby. You will never be forgotten in our hearts ..
March 21, 2016
March 21, 2016
Christopher Bryan Wilson, I love you with every fiber of my being more than I have loved any man or ever will and my heart aches and yearns to feel your body close to mine , to hear your laughter, to hear your wrestling stories., to watch the boy like excitement you had every time friends came over to hang out, like to watch the MMA fights etc.
You are my soul mate, my life partner, we worked through some major obstacles but we both vowed after the last time we broke up briefly , that never again . We would conquor what ever problems we had together and not just split when the going got tough. We vowed to each other to be together forever, to never let anything or anyone come between us and we would grow old together , watch our kids have their own families and babies. I still remember that night about 9 months before you passed away. We stayed up all night and talked about our problems, our lives, your boys, my kids.. and by morning we felt such a content that we both new nothing but death would part us again. Our relationship flourished after that and I was ready to conquor my hardest obstacle of all . But it was too late. My family did not get to know you like I wanted them to. I wanted to show them the great person, dad , boyfriend, life partner that you were. Never has a man been so kind, caring and loving not only to me but my kids. I know I will never find a replacement for you . Some days I see the hammock moving and I am wondering if you are there in one of your favorite spots. I look forward to the day we meet again. Nothing will ever be the same again.. RIP Baby ! I love you to the moon and back a zillion times over "
You are my soul mate, my life partner, we worked through some major obstacles but we both vowed after the last time we broke up briefly , that never again . We would conquor what ever problems we had together and not just split when the going got tough. We vowed to each other to be together forever, to never let anything or anyone come between us and we would grow old together , watch our kids have their own families and babies. I still remember that night about 9 months before you passed away. We stayed up all night and talked about our problems, our lives, your boys, my kids.. and by morning we felt such a content that we both new nothing but death would part us again. Our relationship flourished after that and I was ready to conquor my hardest obstacle of all . But it was too late. My family did not get to know you like I wanted them to. I wanted to show them the great person, dad , boyfriend, life partner that you were. Never has a man been so kind, caring and loving not only to me but my kids. I know I will never find a replacement for you . Some days I see the hammock moving and I am wondering if you are there in one of your favorite spots. I look forward to the day we meet again. Nothing will ever be the same again.. RIP Baby ! I love you to the moon and back a zillion times over "
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October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
I cannot believe you are gone... I just found out.. 3 years later.. You will forever be loved and missed. <3
April 4, 2017
April 4, 2017
Chris , it seems like just yesterday, you were here, happy, healthy and laughing and hiding cause you knew Madison age 7 at this particular time would be coming home soon and as usual she made a Bee line to the house yelling out your name Chris where are you? Cause she was ready to play Connect 4 or Basketball outside or a video came. Then about a year later I would get home with both my kids and Dylan would make a B line to the house as he is telling me the work out he came up with that day for the 2 of you . I am forever grateful for being there for Dylan as the male role model he needed at this time of his life. You made my son laugh and happy. I love you to the moon and back a trillion times Baby. You will never be forgotten in our hearts ..
March 21, 2016
March 21, 2016
Christopher Bryan Wilson, I love you with every fiber of my being more than I have loved any man or ever will and my heart aches and yearns to feel your body close to mine , to hear your laughter, to hear your wrestling stories., to watch the boy like excitement you had every time friends came over to hang out, like to watch the MMA fights etc.
You are my soul mate, my life partner, we worked through some major obstacles but we both vowed after the last time we broke up briefly , that never again . We would conquor what ever problems we had together and not just split when the going got tough. We vowed to each other to be together forever, to never let anything or anyone come between us and we would grow old together , watch our kids have their own families and babies. I still remember that night about 9 months before you passed away. We stayed up all night and talked about our problems, our lives, your boys, my kids.. and by morning we felt such a content that we both new nothing but death would part us again. Our relationship flourished after that and I was ready to conquor my hardest obstacle of all . But it was too late. My family did not get to know you like I wanted them to. I wanted to show them the great person, dad , boyfriend, life partner that you were. Never has a man been so kind, caring and loving not only to me but my kids. I know I will never find a replacement for you . Some days I see the hammock moving and I am wondering if you are there in one of your favorite spots. I look forward to the day we meet again. Nothing will ever be the same again.. RIP Baby ! I love you to the moon and back a zillion times over "
You are my soul mate, my life partner, we worked through some major obstacles but we both vowed after the last time we broke up briefly , that never again . We would conquor what ever problems we had together and not just split when the going got tough. We vowed to each other to be together forever, to never let anything or anyone come between us and we would grow old together , watch our kids have their own families and babies. I still remember that night about 9 months before you passed away. We stayed up all night and talked about our problems, our lives, your boys, my kids.. and by morning we felt such a content that we both new nothing but death would part us again. Our relationship flourished after that and I was ready to conquor my hardest obstacle of all . But it was too late. My family did not get to know you like I wanted them to. I wanted to show them the great person, dad , boyfriend, life partner that you were. Never has a man been so kind, caring and loving not only to me but my kids. I know I will never find a replacement for you . Some days I see the hammock moving and I am wondering if you are there in one of your favorite spots. I look forward to the day we meet again. Nothing will ever be the same again.. RIP Baby ! I love you to the moon and back a zillion times over "
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October 3, 2018
I just recently found out about his death. My heart is deeply sad. I met Chris in high school He was a Junior and I was a Freshman. We went on a blind date and I cannot honestly remember who set us up. I just knew that he changed my life forever. We dated for 2 years. I moved to Albany and we tried to keep the relationship going but without cell phones then and long distance costing a lot we grew apart. I contacted him when I was a Senior and he came and went to my Senior Prom with me. It was like we never were apart. We tried again for 6 months or so but the commute was hard when I went to college and he wanted to pursue other things. In 2011 we met up once again. Dated for a few months and this time realized we were just different people. I think the idea of us was more of what we both were looking for. The last time I saw him, he was waving goodbye to me as I drove off. I will keep that memory with me forever now. Chris was my first true love. There was something about him that connected me to him no matter where we were. I feel we both had mutual closure in 2011 to move on and wish each other happy lives. So I feel we parted in the best of ways. I'm so happy to hear that he found love with Polly. I remember Polly from highschool when I was younger and it warms my heart that he had someone who loved him so much. I have so many 'firsts' with Chris. First love, first sunset, first talk of marriage, first time I shaved a guys face, first time I went to wrestling meet, first time I lined danced, first time I had alcohol, first time I tried to drive. I will miss him always and will be forever grateful he showed me what love was. Physically, mentally and emotionally. RIP Chris
First Date.
February 10, 2016
by POLLY LATTA
Chris and I went to High School together but didnt know each other back then. We met online actually at Zoosk. I was going to contact him after seeing his bio there for awhile , but I didn't . Too chicken. He finally made the move. Within 24 hours we were talking on the phone. This is in January 2012. We talked on the phone the next few days. Then he called I think to let me know he had no plans for super bowl..like hint hint.. LOL . So I invited him over. He lookes so dashing. He had his long back shirt on his hair was so sexy. He ahd his "gay" pants on he said his bff Bobby called them that. He brought some food too. He cooked. By the end of the night I was hooked. I wanted him. Therefore I tried not to be too agreesive. He proceeded to tell me about all his friends and family. I was a perfect gentleman...dang it..lol . he could get the drift after a few hours he came back from restroom and sat with me on the coach, and I remember it like yesterday. He put his arm around me and kissed me at first he was so gentle and slow but we both had been alone too long. ..and well ...I will end it here. It was a wonderful evening that I will always cherish. Love you Baby , loved you then, loved now, love you forever.