- 52 years old
- Date of birth: Jun 7, 1960
- Date of passing: Feb 4, 2013
|Let the memory of CINDY be with us forever|
"My sweet Cindy. I miss you more all the time. I thought it would get better but I think it is getting worse.
Our Meggie is getting married. You would have looked so pretty in her wedding. She is so beautiful and her momma says she has my back and other things, poor child!!! LOL kidding. We don't hear much from Josh But I talk to Joey on a regular basis. He is one heck of a man, You did good honey and I know you loved him so much and you loved Josh too but Josh was different. Connie is working a lot, as usual, Andrew is 16, can you believe that? Tall and handsome, and he helps his nana and we all love him. Turned out to be a good boy in spite of who his dad was. LOL kidding honey, Jim was not too bad, just ran with the wrong crowd. Andrew has that beautiful blonde hair like yours and he loves to play with his hair like you and sissie did .Well I have been to Lowe's and you know what that means, haha more things for the yard. Always lots of things to be done in the yard. I remember when you helped me doing some things.I bough a rose to climb on the fence. A Don Juan and 4 other plants and lots of bulbs. Putting them in big containers now so I can move them around. My new knee is doing great!! Will plan on doing the other one this year!!!! Kenny just called and we are meeting for dinner and us 3 girls plan on looking at dresses for Meggie, at some time soon. I will see you sometime today, will be there and add some valentine hearts to your lovely red roses. I love you my darling, I miss our talks but not the fights, whoopee we have had some good ones but in 30 minutes we were hugging again!!! That is pure love. I will try to add some more pictures this morning for you to see. I know I am silly. But that is what mama's do,,,as you well know. I miss that laugh so much and that MAMA when I walked into your room;,love you sweet heart. Until next time,,,,,,,,forever,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,mama"
"My sweet sister,
Time has gone by really fast and it just does not seem you have been gone this long. Mom is still really sad. I am still sad. I wish that you were here. You were such a wonderful and caring person and i just hate that i had to let you go so soon. I love and miss you Cindy. Fly high Cindy, until we meet again. I love you your sister Connie."
"Miss you Cindy."
"My sweet girl. What I would give just to hold u in my arms. As the days, weeks, months and years fly by, the clock is ticking, time is getting shorter and before u know it there we will be. Hugging each other. That will be a wonderful day when we can gather. Mike was sick the day after Christmas and after he got better then I got sick. Still am. We had a good Christmas, good food, great family and friends and of course those pretty gifts. Honey u would be so proud of brother Kenny. Has a good job, has to do some flying but he will get used to that. We are all proud of him. Mike will be 60 in a few days. We are having a party for him,,his girls and family. I will take care of the cake from here. I love u so much my sweet girl. U are so beautiful and your eyes laugh and twinkle when I look at u.My girl.. Huggs and kisses,,,your mama"
"Hey Sweet Cindy,
I am late sending you a little tribute! Just wanted to let you know that we had wonderful Christmas at your Mom's this year! As usual she out did herself on a fabulous meal. Everyone got great gifts and enjoyed the time we were able to share together. Unfortunately, we don't have enough time to spend with one another as life is so fast paced. We missed you being a part of our day and Jeff and his family didn't make it either. I know you are having such a terrific time in heaven and know one day we all see you again! For now sweet lady....know you are thought about, missed, and memories of you often cross my mind. Love you Cindy until we meet again please keep having loads of fun.
"My darling Cindy,,3 years 9 months, where does the time go. Well both sons are married, have a home and are doing well. They seemed to have married good women and I am so happy for them. And Brad finally married also!! I miss and love you so much my love. Stay happy as I know that os all there is in Heaven, I love you forever!! mama"
"My sweet Cindy here we are again. It has been 3 years and 8 months. I have my knee and am doing super good. I am very pleased with it. Yesterday was 3 weeks and I have graduated from home care. I see the Dr on the 20th. Drove the car yesterday, first time in 3 weeks. Connie and Andrew have been good to me. Mike came down. I have seen your brother Kenny only once and that was at the hospital, he calls a lot but you know as well as I know, I will not have to pay for anyone but myself when I stand in front of our God. I do not know the story nor do I care to know it.I leave you with the biggest hug and the sweetest kiss an angel could ever have in our situation like ours. I love and miss you so very much my darling and will see you one day!!! Love, mama"
"My darling Cindy. The time is flying by and I miss you so much. There is a hole in my heart I cannot seem to fill and I know that hole is when you left me to live with God. It has been 3 years and 7 months. That pain is always there. The tears just burning behind the lids. I am having surgery on the 12th. I am getting a new knee, What a birthday gift eh. I will be able to do so many things that have kept me down before. I am getting ready for church and will talk to you later my darling. Keep riding those beautiful white horses!!!! Andrew and Connie are doing well. Love you always and then some,,,,,,,hugs and kisses, moma"
"My sweet Daughter, I miss you so much and the weather has been so hot one can barely stand to go outside.I wish I had you back all healthy and happy laughing and smiling that great smile of yours, it is SO HARD for me to think of you as being gone. I have such a hard time with that. I will see you sooner than most think and we will have such fun together. Happy and healthy, singing and playing, loving God to no end as I do now. I have so much to think on and so much to think about. Would love to have your input,,love you my sweetheart,,,,always, mama"
Don't know why but you are on my mind today. I must say your Mom sure has set up such a nice tribute to you and I can't imagine how much she misses you, her precious daughter. Kenny and I remember you often and share stories and laughs about the two of you. I know you are having a blast in heaven sweet lady.
Love & Hugs,
"My darling Cindy, here we are the 4th of July. Tomorrow will be my Megan's 25th birthday. I have not seen her since before Christmas, last year. She works that crazy shift and has messed up her body clock. Connie lives just next door as you know and I don't see her either. It seems everyone has their own life and it does not include me. One thing for sure, you and I will always need each other and love each other. I miss you so much and time is coming fast now honey and I will join you. Don't get the robes on fire today but keep on having fun. Have you earned your wings yet? I can just see that!! What a vision!!!! I love you so much darling,,,,,,,mama"
"Happy Bityhday sis. I love and miss you"
"Have a special day! Miss you!"
"REMEMBER CINDY,,,,,,YOUR MOTHER LOVES YOU."
"JUST REMEMBER CINDY,,,,,,YOUR MOTHER LOVES YOU."
"My Cindy, today I went to your crypt. I sat there and changed your flowers talking to you. Why do I do that. I know you are not there. I miss you so much. I pray for so many things, like aunt Joyce not having cancer, your sons weddings coming up, Josh and Joe. They have nice girls. Not the same without you sweetheart. My life will never know the complete peace again, Love you darling. mama"
"My dear sister,
It is unbelievable that you have been gone 3 years today. I miss you REALLY bad. I was cleaning out your night stand to give to mom and I found a newsletter from he place you stayed at and it has a picture of you on the front of it I kept it and now its on my refrigerator .I will always love and miss you. You are and still loved and missed so very much sissy. Aunt Joyce needs your help. She needs your prayers sissy and I know you can help her. You are the best.
"Miss you my sweet sister in law. Time sure is passing quickly, doesn't seem like it should be 3 years since you departed this earth and joined the angels in heaven. Bet you are having a glorious time. Love you and will see you again. Diana"
"My sweet Cindy. We lost our sweet little Martson last Friday a week ago. He had a heart attack. I held him close to me as he flew to God and landed on Your and Sandys shoulders and found our other birds. I know he is happy now with new flying power and new heart and everything he needs to do what he wants. Be sure to give him sweet kisses for me. I miss him! Jackson keeps calling for him so am having to watch him closely for a time when he stops calling. I miss you my darling and someday I will be there with you and all my loved ones. Till then my sweet girl, I will always love you!!! You know of course today is Mikes 59th birthday!! Someday we will all be together, Josh is getting married and then Joe later on in the year. Love you my darling!!!
"My sweet Cindy, 2 years and 11 months. I have missed you so much. My soft place to fall on Sundays. I miss our talks, our snacking, that infectious laugh of yours and always, HI Momma!! My life will never and has not been the same since you left me that cold Monday morning. Our visit on Sunday was so happy and I am so thankful to God that we had such a beautiful parting with so much love showing and being so happy! Who would have ever guessed. My world stopped that morning! I will see you darling. I know where you are as God showed me. Keep smiling! I love you so very much!! momma"
"DEAR CINDY, HERE WE ARE, YET ANOTHER CHRISTMAS WITHOUT YOU. HOW GOD LETS ME GO ON DAY AFTER DAY I WILL NEVER KNOW. HE HAS THINGS FOR ME TO DO HERE. I WAS AT THE CRYPTS AND PUT WREATHS ON YOU AND PAPA PLACES. LOVE YOU DARLING. HAD BREAKFAST WITH KENNY AND MEGAN THIS MORNING AND CAME HOME AND TALKED ABOUT YOU. OH THE MENORIES WE ALL SHARE. NO GOOD WITHOUT YOU SWEETHEART. MERRY CHRISTMAS MY DARLING!!!
LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART,,MAMA"
"Hi honey, well we are just past another Thanksgiving and sure did miss you for sure. Family is just not together without you. Miss and love you so much my sweet girl. Save my place, will sing when I am finished here. your mama"
The holidays are fast approaching and I cannot help but feel lonely inside my heart knowing that you will not be with us. Mom sure does have a hard time, though she would never show it, but I can tell. My life is not the same since you left. I don't let people see how I hurt for you inside and wish that I could pick up the phone and call you. I just live with it. I know that one day I will see you again and that helps with the pain. No amount of words can show you how much I do miss you and love you. I will always have you in my heart and carry you wherever I go. I love you sis."
"Good morning my precious daughter. I miss you every day and look at your picture every day of my life. When I get to Heaven I will hugg you breathless!!!!! I want to see you so very much! I know of course that is not possible but does not stop me from wanting. Your aunt Joyce had cancer and she is now in remission. We all had quite a scare. She is not herself at times. I will be there for Thanksgiving and will stay with her for about 5 days. She was so happy she cried. I think of our last words to each other a lot. I thank God they were loving and precious! Be happy my daughter and hugg Sandy for me and all my brothers. I hope they all made it to Heaven. I have to believe they did. I love you darling."
"My precious baby. Your birthday was so lonely for me. It was a depressing day. My heart ached and my arms were empty. I sat on the floor by your crypt. I talked to you. I know you are not there but I left you a butterfly. He is like you, oh so precious. There is such pretty music on this site. You would love it. I love you my darling,,,,,your mama"
"My sweet daughter. I told you last time I would not bother you again until birthdays and Christmas. I left you to have your fun with our Lord. I came each month or 2 years. Yes I know you are not there but it gave me Peace, this month was better and God guides me daily. You are always right in my heart where you belong. I love and miss you so very much!!!! I am still drinking my coffee from your cup. Bye my darling, mama"
"Cindy it just doesn't seem like you have been gone 2 years.....they say time heals but I sometimes think that's just not true. You are still missed just like you left yesterday. I know you are having a grand ole time in heaven and wouldn't want to come back. Save us a place at Jesus feet and one day we will be there with you.
"Miss you Cindy!! Love you!"
"My precious daughter. Today is 2 years since you left me to live your Eternal life with our Lord. I know you are happy and I am happy for you but selfish in wanting you with me too. Connie and I will visit you today and leave you some roses. Love you so much my sweet and will see you again someday.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,mama"
"My sweet Cindy, today is Feb. 1st. The 4th is fast approaching and you know what that means. I have a new bouquet to put on your crypt. Your favorite colors, lots of pink including a big beautiful pink bow!!! Lovely roses, wow, someone must love you. I miss you so much. We had communion in church this morning. I always feel so full after that service.
Grover prays for us on a daily basis. He is such a wonderful minister but then you know that!! Janice and I looked at tables yesterday. It was fun and we did find one. I ordered it. Should be here by May first. I gave the one I had to Joey and he took it back with him after Christmas. He is a good boy and you would be proud of him. He has a very good lady that he is going to ask to marry him. I gave him the diamond plat. band of yours. he will match that with an engagement ring for her. Brad is getting married this July. I really like the girl he is getting married too. She is not only beautiful but so in love with him and he her. Wow, makes me proud!! Joe and Britty will most likely be married next year as each has to sell their house and then buy a bigger one. he of course wants a baby and of course a boy, haha. Hope it happens that way. Love you my darling and miss you so much, Love you forever and then some,,,,,mama"
"I love you."
I have my own fond memories of mine and your times together..I can remember stopping and seeing you while you were in Indianapolis right before you passed on....when I got there you weren't there but they said you would be right back so I waited...I didn't think you would recognize me because I was grown up now but you did..as soon as you turned the corner you knew me...told me I looked like my daddy...lol...I know your happy up there and watching the whole family....I sure do miss y'all though...love ya Aunt Cindy....Christina"
"HI CINDY,,WE HAVE NEVER MET,,BUT IF YOU'RE ANYTHING LIKE YOUR MOTHER,I'M SURE I WOULD HAVE LIKED YOU,,,AND QUIT "SMOKIN" UP THERE. LOL LOL LOIL"
"My darling daughter. Yesterday was 1 year and 11 months since you were taken from us. God had a reason for doing that but the pain that raged through all of us was to the point of being unbearable! However, God placed his hand on me so I could breathe and do what had to be done. My life has not been the same without you and never will be. Someday I will join you and all my love ones that are there with you. I am sure you and Jay are having fun. He was such a sweet person as you well know. We had a good Christmas but would have been better with you here. Your spirit was here with us and your laugh rang out to those that opened their ears. I love you so much my little Cindy. So very much and there are no words to describe how much I miss you. Until we meet again my darling,,,,,,mama"
"Dear Sweet Cindy,
I cannot help but be reminded of your sweet spirit each and every time I see a beautiful horse. I am overloading your Mama with pictures of horses! Actually Im blowing up her facebook page.....I hear you laugh because you would say "go ahead and blow it up" hahaha!
Christmas did come swift......never the same without the ones that left us way too soon and you are one of them. Your brother talks about you often as he loved you dearly.
I know you had a big celebration with Jesus and one sweet day we all going to celebrate with you; so until then sweet Cindy save us a place at Jesus feet.
Love & Hugs,
"My precious Cindy. Christmas was here but you were not. Joe was here but you were not. I know you would be proud of the man he has become but I am not totally proud. He needs some shining and I gave him some. I also gave him the band of diamonds that would be yours. I know you are having a great time in heaven with Sandy and Jay. I will see you there. I miss you so much. Kiss my husband and nephew for me please. Love you my darling daughter,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,mama"
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY SWEET NIECE.I MISS U AND MY DEAR JOE SO MUCH.ALWAYS IN MY HEART."
"Cindy, Im late on wishing you a Happy Birthday so sorry. Lifes been so full these days and I just know you are in heaven having a big blast! Kenny had to have gall bladder surgery this week but don't worry I am taking very good care of him. We think of you often and chat about how you would have loved this or that! Yes, you will never ever be forgotten and will continue to be missed. You keep having fun in heaven and until it's our time to leave this mean old world we will just wait to see you again. To the girl with the infectious smile and laughter rest in peace.
"Cindy,memories and love last forever.My love for you will always be in my heart. Missing you always. Sissy"
"Happy Birthday Cindy. Miss you!
"Happy Birthday sis, everytime i see a horse i think of you, thank you for telling me all the things about horse's that i didn't know, i remember all those things and will always cherrish the memories of us growing up, Love You bunch's....Jeff"
"My precious Cindy. I have spent this very special day as close to you as possible. At the crypt we put a lovely cake on your door made by Janice with doilies and Happy Birthday Cindy on it. She loves you so much!
I will let you celebrate until July 4th. and we will put something else on it. Rest in Peace my lovely daughter. I will love you forever. momma"
"My precious Cindy. Tears flow as I have yet another day without you and on your special day I know God will give you the best ever party! Rest in Peace my darling. I will join you when I have finished my chores here that God has assigned for me. I love and miss you with all my heart.
"My precious Cindy, Mike has been with me all last week. We came to see your plate and he got so emotional. That brother loves you so very much as do I. My life will never be the same without in it my daughter. Until I see you in Heaven, Know I love you so much, mama"
"My precious Cindy. After I got home, and thought again of you, on my mind and in my heart all the time. I realized how much I would love to hear that laugh with that tingle and see those eyes look into mine, all the time smiling and telling me you loved me.. Your eyes would always talk to me. it's hard for me to know I will never hear that laugh or see those beautiful blue eyes here on earth again. But they sure are embedded deeply in my heart. Brother Mike said hello and please share the horses. After all you are in Heaven!!! haha, he misses you so much. He never came a trip here without seeing you. That's called true love. Being close. I caught Connie crying today. She said I miss my Sissie so much. So I did the same thing you would have done, just held her. Tonight we all have very clean souls, lol and I can assure you that Woodland Park will never forget "Millie Kaat".
or for that matter "Cynthia Olczak" either. Rest in Peace darling. Eveything is just like it shoud be. Level and beautiful. Love you my darling.
It is hard to believe that you have been gone a year already....wow does the time pass by so fast....Your smile and your laughter are still missed and your great personality that would light a room in a second...I think of you often as I see things that remind me of you...I have your doll and I will be sure to take great care of her..till we meet again R.I.P."
It's so hard to believe that a year has passed. You are thought of daily and each horse I see brings me a smile as I think of you and the love you had for them. You will always hold a place in my heart. Your brother, Kenny told me today he sure missed you. You two shared a special bond. Rest in peace until we see you again. Kenny and Tammy"
"My sweet daughter, I went to your crypt today. One year ago today you were called by Our Lord.The pain that I was left with was so hard that at times I thought I was never going to catch my breath. But God did not want me. He has other things for me to do on this earth. I love you so much and missing you is so very hard.Until God calls me my precious daughter, I will always love you beyond words.
"JUNE 7 WAS YOUR BIRTHDAY. I CANNOT TELL YOU HOW MUCH I MISSED YOU AND WANTING TO SEE YOU AND CELEBRATE YOUR DAY. I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH MY PRECIOUS DAUGHTER.
"My precious daughter, you changed my life forever when you were born. Then God changed it forever when He took you to soon. I miss and love you my darling. Ride those horses and one day we will be together again.
I love you so much!
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