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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Clareen Bassani. We will remember her forever.

February 29
February 29
Happy Anniversary, Sweetie
This is our real one - number 8. I think it's neat how Fred suggested the 29th and we just looked at each other and said "Yep, that's it". We used to go to Red Lobster for our anniversary until the shrimp started giving us a tummy-ache. I'll have to find something special at Shop-Rite to celebrate.
I will always love you, Sweetie. Joe, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi.
February 14
February 14
Happy Valentine's Day to my bestest Valentine. I was going to come see you today but it snowed a lot yesterday and I chickened out. Laverne is lying down next to me now. Oops, she just got up. I think she's looking for something to eat, so I'll go feed her.
Love you always, Joe, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi.
February 1
February 1
Happy Birthday, Sweetie
You're probably having a big bash in Heaven to celebrate. Make sure to give my love to all the kitties. I love you lotsa and miss you terribly.
Love Always, Me, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi.
February 1
February 1
Miss you much...you are always in my thoughts. Happy Birthday, with love.
December 31, 2023
December 31, 2023
It breaks my heart to know how much Joe loves you and misses you. I wish I could bring you back for him. Miss you and love you.
December 26, 2023
December 26, 2023
Hi Sweetie. Merry Christmas a day late. I didn't mean to forget but I did. It doesn't mean I love you less, I just forgot. I'm sorry. I was looking through some folders I found in the back of the filing cabinet yesterday. I found some notes that you had written to me. It was the most wonderful Christmas present ever. I love you dearly and miss you so much.
Love, Joe, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi.
June 5, 2023
June 5, 2023
Hi Sweetie
This is your 7th anniversary in Heaven. I miss laying in bed with you. I miss watching TV with you. I miss all the little things we did together. I miss the road trips we took. You didn't care where we went, you just wanted to go. I miss you lotsa.
Love Always, Joe, Smudge, Steffi and Laverne
February 28, 2023
February 28, 2023
Happy Anniversary, Sweetie
This isn't really our anniversary because we were married on Leap Year Day. We celebrate only once every 4 years but the other 3 years, we celebrate on 2 days - 2/28 and 3/1. It snowed last night, so I didn't come to see you today. I'll try tomorrow.
I love you and miss you.
Joe and Smudge, Steffi and Laverne
February 14, 2023
February 14, 2023
Happy Valentine's Day, Sweetie
You're the bestest girl a guy could ask for.
Love you Lotsa.
Joe, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi
February 1, 2023
February 1, 2023
Hi Sweetie, Happy Birthday!!
Today is a nice day. There was a very little snow by you. Laverne and I are doing fine. She sits by me sometimes and falls asleep. She's eating well. I finally found a combination of foods she likes. You'd be 72 today. I'll love you always and we miss you.
Love, Joe and Laverne and Smudge and Steffi
February 1, 2023
February 1, 2023
Happy Birthday my dear cousin...missing you...always thinking about you.
December 25, 2022
December 25, 2022
Hi Sweetie
Merry Christmas to you and all our critters. Smudge, Steffi and Laverne say "Hi!". We all love you and miss you. I saw something on YouTube where a kitten climbed up a woman's leg. When she laughed, she sounded just like you. It was nice to hear.
Love Always,
Joe, Smudge, Steffi and Laverne
June 5, 2022
June 5, 2022
My Wonderful Clareen
It's been 6 years since you've gone to Heaven. It doesn't seem that long but the years go by quickly. I've missed you every day. I'll love you always.
Joe, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi 
May 9, 2022
May 9, 2022
Happy Mother's Day.
Laverne, Smudge and Steffi say they love you. You get to play with all your kitties and doggies anytime you want. They're keeping you busy. I love you and miss you, Sweetie.
Joe
April 17, 2022
April 17, 2022
Hi Sweetie
Happy Easter. You're probably having a big celebration in Heaven today. I hope you and all the people you love (and doggies and kitties) are happy. I love you and miss you. So does Laverne and Smudge and Steffi.
Love You Always.
Joe
February 28, 2022
February 28, 2022
Happy Anniversary to my One and Only Sweetie.
It would have been 30 years. That's a long time. You made me happy the entire time we were together.
Love you Always.
Joe, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi.
February 14, 2022
February 14, 2022
Happy Valentine's Day to my favorite Valentine.
We officially started our life together today in 1991 when we got engaged. I was so happy.
Love Always, Sweetie.
Joe, Smudge, Steffi and Laverne.
February 1, 2022
February 1, 2022
Happy Birthday Sweetie
Laverne, Smudge and Steffi said to tell you they love you and they miss you.
And me, too.
Love Always, Joe
February 1, 2022
February 1, 2022
Happy Birthday my dear sweet cousin. Another year gone by...miss you so much. Always thinking about you. With love.
December 25, 2021
December 25, 2021
Merry Christmas, Sweetie
Wish Jesus a Happy Birthday for me. And a Merry Christmas to all our little creatures we loved. You are missed every day. I will love you always.
Joe, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi
December 4, 2021
December 4, 2021
Dear Sweetie
Our wonderful Skwootch is in your hands now. I know you'll take good care of her. She'll play with you and her kitty friends.
June 5, 2021
June 5, 2021
Dearest Clareen
Today marks 5 years that you've been gone. I miss you every day. You are the best thing that ever happened to me. I will love you forever.
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
Happy Mother's Day, Sweetie
Smudge and Steffi want you to know they love you. Skwootch & Laverne love you, too. Smudge saw the groundhog and a bunny the other day. They came by to wish you a happy mother's day.
Love you always, Joe
February 28, 2021
February 28, 2021
Hi Sweetie
It's our Anniversary today - 29 years - wow. I don't know how you put up with me. Smudge, Steffi, Skwootch & Laverne send their love. And me too of course.
February 14, 2021
February 14, 2021
Happy Valentine's Day to the sweetest Sweetie ever.
We got engaged 30 years ago today.
All my Love Always.
Joe, Smudge, Steffi, Skwootch, Laverne and all the outside critters.
February 1, 2021
February 1, 2021
Happy Birthday Sweetie
There's a big snowstorm today that prevents me from coming to see you but you are always in my heart, thinking about you every day. Missing you lotsa.
Skwootch, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi send their love.
February 1, 2021
February 1, 2021
Happy Birthday dear cousin...as always...thinking about you...missing you.
December 25, 2020
December 25, 2020
Merry Christmas to the most wonderful person ever. I miss you and I will love you forever.
Joe, Skwootch, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi
June 5, 2020
June 5, 2020
Dearest Clareen. It's been four years. I am so sorry.
"How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul can reach. ... I love thee with the breath, smiles, tears, of all my life and ... I shall but love thee better after death."
Joe, Skwootch, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi.
May 10, 2020
May 10, 2020
Hi Sweetie
Happy Mother's Day. The cemetery has been closed for a while because of the virus so I haven't been able to come see you. But today it was open and lots of people were there. Don't know if it will remain open but I'll try again next week. Skwootch, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi send their love. I will always love you, Sweetie.
February 29, 2020
February 29, 2020
Happy Anniversary, Sweetie.
Today is our real 7th anniversary.
You thought this was the ideal day to get married. I thought it was good because it saved on anniversary presents.
Love You Always.
Joe, Smudge & Steffi, Skwootch and Laverne.
February 14, 2020
February 14, 2020
Happy Valentine's Day
The flowers I left on your birthday are still in good shape - they're frozen.
Love Always, Sweetie.
Joe, Smudge and Steffi, Skwootch and Laverne.
February 1, 2020
February 1, 2020
Happy Birthday, Sweetie.
Hugs and Kisses.
Love you always.
Joe, Smudge and Steffi, Skwootch and Laverne.
February 1, 2020
February 1, 2020
Always thinking about you and missing you so much. Happy Birthday dear cousin.
December 25, 2019
December 25, 2019
Merry Christmas Sweetie
I miss you so much. Love Always.
From Skwootch & Laverne, SMUDGE & Steffi, all the outside critters
and Me.
June 5, 2019
June 5, 2019
Today is your Third Anniversary in Heaven. I miss you every day. I will love you always. Much Love from Joe, Smudge, Steffi, Skwootch, Janey and LaVerne.
May 12, 2019
May 12, 2019
Happy Mother's Day, Sweetie, from all of us - Joe, Smudge, Steffi, Skwootch, Janey and LaVerne and the deer that visited us the other day.
Love you always.
March 1, 2019
March 1, 2019
Our cute little Rosie is with you now, Sweetie.
Take good care of her.
Love you.
February 28, 2019
February 28, 2019
Today would be our 27th wedding anniversary.
Happy Anniversary, Sweetie.
Love you and miss you.
Joe
February 14, 2019
February 14, 2019
Happy Valentine's Day
We got engaged on this day in 1991. It seems like a long time ago but the time went by fast.
You'll forever be my Valentine.
Love Always.
Joe and Smudge and Steffi and Skwootch, Rosie, Janey and LaVerne.
February 1, 2019
February 1, 2019
Dear Sweet Clareen
Happy Birthday. You are missed every minute of every day. Love You Always. 
Joe, Smudge and Steffi and Skwootch, Rosie, Janey and LaVerne.
February 1, 2019
February 1, 2019
Happy Birthday...always thinking about you....miss you.
December 25, 2018
December 25, 2018
Dearest Clareen
Merry Christmas. You were a wonderful person. You were always in an up beat mood. You never had a bad word for anyone. I miss you so much.
Love and Kisses from Joe, Skwootch, Rosie, Janie, LaVerne, Smudge and Steffi.
June 5, 2018
June 5, 2018
June 5, 2018
Today marks your 2nd year in Heaven, Sweetie. You are missed every minute of every day. I will love you always. Love, Smudge, Steffie, Skwootch, Rosie, Janey, Laverne and Me.
May 13, 2018
May 13, 2018
Dear Clareen,
Happy Mother's Day.
Love from all of us: Joe, Smudge, Steffi, Skwootch, Rosie, Janey, Blackie and all the outside critters.
February 28, 2018
February 28, 2018
Happy 26th Anniversary, Sweetie
Love You
February 14, 2018
February 14, 2018
Happy Valentine's Day
Valentine Forever
Love Always
February 1, 2018
February 1, 2018
To my dear sweet beloved cousin who I so admired…Happy Birthday

Miss you so much.
February 1, 2018
February 1, 2018
Happy Birthday, Sweetie
Love you and Miss you a lot.
Joe, Skwootch, Rosie, Janey, LaVerne and Smudge.
December 25, 2017
December 25, 2017
Merry Christmas, Sweetie
Skwootch, Rosie, Janey, Blackie, Smudge and Steffie say "We Love You and Miss You". I do, too.
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February 29
February 29
Happy Anniversary, Sweetie
This is our real one - number 8. I think it's neat how Fred suggested the 29th and we just looked at each other and said "Yep, that's it". We used to go to Red Lobster for our anniversary until the shrimp started giving us a tummy-ache. I'll have to find something special at Shop-Rite to celebrate.
I will always love you, Sweetie. Joe, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi.
February 14
February 14
Happy Valentine's Day to my bestest Valentine. I was going to come see you today but it snowed a lot yesterday and I chickened out. Laverne is lying down next to me now. Oops, she just got up. I think she's looking for something to eat, so I'll go feed her.
Love you always, Joe, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi.
February 1
February 1
Happy Birthday, Sweetie
You're probably having a big bash in Heaven to celebrate. Make sure to give my love to all the kitties. I love you lotsa and miss you terribly.
Love Always, Me, Laverne, Smudge and Steffi.
Recent stories

1988 - DC, VA

August 19, 2016

In October 1988, we went to Washington, DC on a long weekend to see the AIDS Quilt.  It was quilts laid out on the lawn of one of the parks in town co-memorating people who had died from AIDS.  Lots of people were there and lots of quilts.  From there we went to Williamsburg, VA - a recreation of buildings from the 1770's.  On the way home, we took the Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel onto the Delmarva penninsula.  It was late but we decided to catch the Cape May-Lewes ferry.  We got there just in time to get the last ferry of the day.  After the three hour crossing, we took the Garden State Parkway home - another three hours.  I think we got home something like 2 in the morning with work the next day.

Another Date

July 23, 2016

One time before we were engaged, we went to the Museum of Natural History.  It's a big place and we walked all over.  Clareen had more energy than I did - I had to lie down on the benches.  On the way home, Clareen asked "What did you like best today?"  I said, "The dinosaurs".  She goes, "Huh.  I thought you'd say "being with me"".  I always did after that.

First Date

July 5, 2016

We started dating in 1988.  Our first date was to Space Farms in Sussex, NJ.  I never heard of the place.  We got on the highway and drove forever it seemed until finally we got there.  It's a zoo.  We roamed around and saw the animals.  We had lunch there, too.  On the way back, we played miniature golf at a place in Garfield that's no longer there.

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