This loving memorial website was created in memory of Daniel Jay Everly, 60, born on November 15, 1955 and passed away of a heart attack on January 11, 2016. Daniel was preceded in death by his wife Jan, daughters Rebekka and McKenna, and son Noah, both his parents, Ralph "Tom" and Peggy and brother, Mark.
Daniel held a PhD in Psychology and licenses in Chemical Dependency and Social Work. He worked for Ohio Department of Rehabilitation and Correction and was passionate about providing drug rehabilitation for the prison population. He was also a hostage negoitator and during a training session was accidentally shot by a fellow officer suffering multiple spinal injuries. After serving as the Warden of Orient Correctional Institute, he was appointed Ohio State Chief Drug and Hostage Negoitator and worked for ODADAS, Ohio Department of Alcohol and Drug Addition Services until taking an early retirement due to his spinal injuries.
Prior to his work in Ohio, Daniel was a proud veteren serving in U.S. Army bewteen 1982 - 1988. He was a behavioral science specialist assigned to the Peace Keeping Multinational Force and Observers, Sinai, Egypt earning the Army Achievement Medal. He was later assigned to the U.S. Army 98th General Hospital in Nurnberg, Germany. He was honorably discharged with the rank of sergeant.
Daniel or Chugger, a nickname bestowed upon him by his father, or Fa by whom he was called by his brothers, loved his family and friends, his dog, Stella, rock 'n roll, his bike and had a wicked sense of humor. He always had a dollar to spare for someone in need and was always looking out for underdog. He found strength attending Compassionate Friends and AL-ANON family meetings where ever he lived. His many kindnesses will be remembered and he will be missed. He was a poet warrior and Papa to his beloved children.
Daniel was cremated and services private. Please make a clothing donation to the GoodWill and think of him.
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Love, Gene Caligari
This is the last time I will visit this site and say some words; as each time I do; it becomes increasingly painful to do so.
I believe you are in heaven.
I hope and pray I get there and that we shall meet again.
Love;
Roger
Gene- Brendan's Dad
It has now been a year since your passing. You are thought of every day and missed. Miss Stella is doing beautifully, but there are times she looks so sad - I think she is thinking of you. Until we meet again.....
Happy Birthday. Thinking of you today more than usual. You are deeply missed. Until we meet again......
Gene Caligari- Sedona, Arizona
Have mercy on your servant in peace, O God; grant him rest.
Thank you for letting me know you.
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I had the privilege of meeting and then working with Daniel starting in July 1985 in Nurnberg Germany. He was co-counselor with our other dear and mutual co-worker/friend Frank Herrera at the drug and alcohol Residential Treatment Facility -- 6 week inpatient intensive rehab--where I was newly stationed. Although I was their supervisor, they were the leaders and heart of their treatment/patient care therapy group.
I learned SO VERY MUCH from Dan and Frank -- truly a dynamic duo and excellent team. Both men are unique, and together Dan and Frank brought their experience, strength, hope, passion, skills, and considerable humor to the patients, and the staff.
(And, as a fellow veteran and Army Medical Service person, I also want to point out that Daniel's earning the Expert Field Medical Badge was no small accomplishment!! )
Daniel experienced so many losses in this life, and he carried deep, deep pain. Trauma truly impacts us at a cellular level. He fiercely and beautifully loved his children (Papa's Posse) and my heart was broken for him for having outlived them--I believe that is one of the hardest things a person could have to face.
"I am grateful, Dan, that you are no longer in physical and emotional pain. I hope and trust that you can now see and know how you are deeply loved and respected.
I can't think of Frank without thinking of you, and vice versa. We miss you, and look forward to seeing you later.
Love outlasts death. Memory Eternal, my friend.
With love, Annette."
Your good friend, Gene
The tribute that you have posted is so wonderful.
We spoke of him at our last meeting on Friday evening. Although shocked, warm regards were expressed by all who knew him and had a chance to speak with him since he joined our group.
He will be missed and we will never forget him.
I have passed the information over to our Newsletter editor to be put into our February newsletter.
Thank you again for letting us know.
Our sincere condolences,
Vivian & Tom Gano
I know we have only been friends for a few years since you moved to Collingswood,NJ. You moved here almost 3 years ago and you were one of the few wonderful residents and friend that I have made here and I have been here 15 years. You never complained about anything and was always a pleasure in anything that was going on. We had a common love, a shitzu, both the same age but Lola was all black and Stella was black and white. They became great friends as Dan called me on Monday morning and Stella was in his apartment. I went and picked her up and brought her to my apartment so she had plenty of love. She reminded me of Dan, always pleasant, and loving, There was never anything that came out of his mouth that wasn't warm and despite his unbelievable tragedies in his life he always had an attitude of love towards all people. I was his property manager where we lived and we laughed and joked about some of our misfits that live here, I I knew he was a wonderful, compassionate, loving man as every time I talked to him I felt better and calmer. The world and all his neighbors and friends here that he made will miss him and Stella very much. The world will be missing another wonderful man but I'm sure he will be in great company until we all meet again,your friend Joanne
Jack
I suppose all people have those who hold a special place in their hearts. Not only are you my cousin but for the longest time my closest friend. We go way back to the time of my birth and share not only a lot of common genetics but more importantly a tight family with so many common life events, the good and the sad.
However, do be warned, in the next level at some unexpected time, I definitely plan on pounding you through one complete rendition of Johnny Cash's Susie Q. Perhaps we could finally find together and chat with Mary Stockum live and in the flesh (instead of in some hide away cememtery in the sticks of Coshocton!).
There was a time in my life, when you were my best friend and we shared so many good and sad times together, that have only been surpassed by my life with Sabina. I know times got tough for you and the years wore you down perhaps, but nevertheless you have something special about you that I will miss dearly.
How ironic that my last email to you contained the song I had recently written called, "Hard to say goodbye". Little did I know then that the song was about you.
I will see you sometime down along the line.
Your cousn and friend,
Jeff
Knowing you are with your children makes this bearable. Stella will be loved and cared for but she misses you so much. Until we meet again.....
I know you are with your children, our parents and grandparents and our brother. You and I discussed that one of us eventually would be the only remaining Everly and that it would probably be me because I was the eldest and in poorer health. Just like you to go and prove me wrong. Well, I'll be joining you all soon enough. Have a fat one waiting for me.
Babe
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