My friend for over 40 years, Dr. David D. Avery, died at his home in
Masonville, Colorado on Friday, December 02, 2011. Dave will be sorely missed
by his wife, Mary, daughter, Michelle, son, Matthew and his extended family, of
which I consider myself a part. Dave and I both were only children, but over
the years I called and considered him my brother because I knew if I called
needed help or advice he would give it to me. Dr. David Avery, a retired
professor of Psychology at Colorado State University, will also be both
remembered and missed by many of his former students and colleagues. Dr. Avery had conducted research and published numerous articles on Physiological
Psychology. He was also a textbook author and an author or co-author of
numerous chapters in edited scientific textbooks. Dr. Avery epitomized the
“scientist/professor" model. He was a rigorous scientist who enjoyed teaching
and training both graduate and undergraduate students. Dr. Avery was all about
conducting ethical research and explaining empirical data as the basis for the
scientific study of behavior. I cannot begin to describe or explain Dr. Avery's
contributions to his Colorado State University undergraduate students, graduate
students and scientists all over the world. Therefore I would like to pay
tribute to what Dr. David D. Avery meant to me personally.
Dave and I met over 40 years ago when both of us began as students in the
Psychology Ph.D. Program at the University of Houston. Although both of us had
been undergraduate students at UT, we never met there. Dave and I met when we both began to work in Dr. Daniel Sheer's physiological/experimental laboratory. We developed a friendship very rapidly most probably because we both loved sports, eating and drinking Scotch. Although I was 2 years older than Dave, he taught me many things about “life” because I was a small town country boy and he was a wiser big city guy-By the way, we often described each other in more profane terms--if you get my drift. We both played football in high school—he loved playing defense and I loved played offense-so we had many debates about who was “tougher” and/or “smarter”--defensive players or offensive players. I think what Dave and I had in common was a extremely strong competitive spirit which served us well in graduate school and throughout life. Another passion Dave and I shared was fishing. However, I had never fished in salt water along the Texas Gulf coast before I began graduate school at the University of Houston. Dave taught me how to catch red-fish, trout and flounder when other fishermen around us were not catching fish. Dave had some funky names for baits, flies and rigs we used when fishing such as the “UT fly” and the
“Longhorn Spinner,” which as you might expect involved the orange and white
University of Texas colors. I “taught” Dave how to play Contract Bridge and we
became a winning team in the graduate student “lounge” and the UH Student
Union. Because of our success as a team, Dave and I decided to write a
programmed text on Contract Bridge. However, we dropped our plans for this book when our wives, Mary and Maurine, beat the Bill & Dave team repeatedly when we played against them on the weekend. Dave and I learned to play shuffleboard in the bars down on Navigation Blvd. with the dock and refinery workers and we actually won quite a few beers betting on this game. We really didn’t get into any fights over this game because as Dave would say, “Bill could talk and laugh his way out of any argument.”
After Dave graduated from University of Houston(UH) and completed his
post-doctoral fellowship, he joined the Psychology faculty of Colorado State
University in Ft. Collins, CO. I completed my Ph.D. a year or so earlier and
joined the Psychology faculty of Texas Tech University in Lubbock, TX. Maurine
and I and our children, Alicia, Melanie and Marty and Dave and Mary and their
children, Michelle and Matt, visited each other at least once a year and went
camping and fishing together in Colorado and Wyoming. Dave and I taught our
children about tracking deer, elk, cougar, moose and bear in the Wind River
Mountains of Wyoming. Dave even told our children that the Indians, native to
these Wyoming mountains where we were camped would pick up a deer pellet (i.e., poop) and bite down on it with their teeth to tell how old the deer tracks
were. Our children were all spellbound by the stories that Dave would tell as
we sat around the campfire in the evening. Dave “guided” me where to fish in
Boulder Creek to catch a 7 ½ pound rainbow trout on a fly rod. Dave and I
taught our children how to catch, clean and cook trout in the mountains over an
open fire. Dave was the leader in teaching our children to know and follow fish
and game laws, conservation, and respect for the environment. When Dave, Mary, Michelle and Matt visited the Landers home in Lubbock, TX, we would eat, drink and laugh a lot. Since Maurine and I played the piano and guitar, all of us
would sing and play songs from John Denver, The Kingston Trio, Jim Croce and
the Oak Ridge Boys. Our children, Alicia Landers, Michelle Avery, Melanie
Landers, Matt Avery and Marty Landers would put on nightly shows after supper.
These “shows” were made up by our children and consisted of them putting on
strange “costumes” and singing, dancing and playing the piano and flutes. After
we finally got all of the children off to bed, Dave, Mary, Maurine and I would
sit up half the night and drink and laugh and talk about the “good old days”
when we were young and poor graduate students.
There are many other things I could share with you about my “Best Friend
Forever”, David D. Avery, but I’m going to “wrap it up” for now. Dave was my
brother, which biologically I didn’t have!! He was a mentor to me on many
things and sometimes my alter ego. I will never forget all of the things he did
for me and my family. I just hope and pray that he’s in a place where he won’t
be suffering physically, has plenty of fish to catch and cook, and a never
ending supply of golf balls to drive down the course.
Good-bye, Dave!! I’ll never forget you as long as I live!!