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THE BIG BASS AND THE "LONG FACE"

February 2, 2019
Fishing was one of David’s very favorite things to do. I will always treasure my memories of teaching him how to fish and seeing him become a good Outdoorsman. The outdoors is something we often enjoyed together. One of his favorite spots to fish was our Lake…York Lake…his Lake. This is a story about one of our many days on the lake. I believe David was 11 at the time.

In order to set this story up I have to first tell you about “Jimmy Houston”. Jimmy Houston is a renowned Tournament Fisherman, Outdoorsman and Outdoor TV Show Host. He has a cherubic face, silly hair style, real southern mannerisms and an infectious laugh. David love watching his show and actually, at the time, they both had very similar hairstyles…that classic “Bowl Cut”. Well, one of Jimmy Houston’s trademark moves on TV was to give any nice Bass he caught a big kiss before returning it to the water. “Give me some sugar” he would say, giggle and return the fish to the water. David loved it and, of course, added this technique to his fishing style. I have some pictures of him smooching big Bass and he would really ham it up!

The day of this story was back before the age of Smart Phones with built in cameras and I always kept a camera in my Tackle Bag to capture those special “Fishing Memories”.

David and I were fishing the lake from our 14 Foot Starcraft with Electric Motors, bow and stern…our “York Lake Fishing Machine” and having a pretty good day as usual. We were fishing with what they call a “Texas Rig”, a killer rig in York Lake for sure. It is made up of a scented rubber or soft-plastic worm on an offset hook with a slip sinker above. The way you fish it is to cast, reel in the slack and just jig or bounce it off the bottom. When a good fish takes the offering you can feel it or see the line start to run out away from the boat. I taught David to count to 3 and then to set the hook…fish on!

Like I said it was a pretty good day with lots of action and lots of fish but the fish we were catching at the time weren’t anything exceptional as far as size goes.  They weren’t what we call “Picture Fish”. Of course, David would unhook the fish and still give them his usual Jimmy Houston Smooch before returning the fish to the lake.

We had just about covered the whole lake and were working the cove on the way back to the boat dock when David suddenly stood up and I saw his rod deeply bent. He snapped the road back to set the hook and it actually looked like he had snagged the bottom to me. The Rod and the line didn’t appear to be moving. “It’s a big one, Dad, I can feel it!”

“Are you sure? It looks like you’re snagged to me”, I said staring at the line motionless in the water.
“I’m telling you it’s a big fish!” I was just about to repeat that I thought he was snagged when I saw the line suddenly zip out and his rod sharply arched further. “Wow, hold on”, I said. “Easy, easy.”

He played that fish very well for an eleven year old and I, myself, got pretty damned excited when he finally brought it to the boat. “Wow, easy, easy…I’ll get the Net!” We brought that big Bass into the Boat and it was indeed a Monster! My scale told us it was just under 7 pounds!

David was absolutely beaming as he held the Fish up by its’ lower Jaw. “Dad, take a picture…hurry!”

I fumbled through my Tackle Bag but couldn’t find my Camera! Damn, it suddenly hit me, I had just cleaned and reorganized the Bag and must have left the Camera on my workbench.

“Dave, I don’t have the Camera…sorry.”

His beaming face sharply turned into a scowl and then drained into a long face as he placed his trophy back into the water. “I’m really sorry, Dave and that really was a Trophy Fish, too. You’ll catch another one.”

He put his fishing rod down and we rolled into the Dock. He didn’t say another word as we got into the Truck and drove up the hill.

“ I may have forgotten the Camera but you forgot to give him some sugar.” David’s long face cracked a very slight smile. He sure didn’t want to but he did.

David, the Mouse and the Rite of Passage

October 27, 2018

If you have a home in the country you often have houseguests. It’s a fact of life. We’ve always enjoyed having company and none have ever over-stayed their welcome…except of course, for the Mice! There is no way in getting around it. Either you have a housecat or you have to employ other means of “maintenance”. We couldn’t get a cat because we did not live there full time so I had no choice but to use Deconand keep traps out. I found peanut butter to the most effective bait.

 

The height of the invasion tends to occur at the change of seasons and you have to be vigilant. For extended periods you may see no signs and catch nothing then suddenly…snap…snap!! It’s just a part of Country Living.

 

David was afraid of mice but still had feelings for them. Paradoxically, he didn’t like to see them trapped but he liked seeing them or any “sign” of them even less, especially near his cereal box!

 

I always told him that it might seem cruel but mice are vermin and will take over if unattended. He was kind of okay with it after a while, understood it had to be done but always left the dirty work up to me, his Dad.

 

When he moved up to the country full-time he was often alone during the week. Although family and friends were there on the weekends during the week he was on his own.

 

Well, early one weekday evening I received a text from him. We both studied Spanish and texted each other in Spanish often. I really loved that, it keep me on my toes with the language.

 

Tienes un ratón en tu casa.” [You have a mouse in your house].I replied: “Te llamare”. [I’ll call you].

 

He told me on the phone that a mouse had just scampered across the floor while he was playing X-Box and it freaked him out.

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“Did you see where he went?” I asked and he replied that he had. I then told him to put a trap right where he had last seen the mouse. “How about I use cheese, Dad?” “No, use peanut butter you’ll get him for sure!” “Okay, Dad, will do, good night.”

 

The next morning I texted him: ¿Lo consigue? [Did you get him?]. He replied: “Si, no hay mas raton en la casa”. [Yes, no more mouse in the house]. “Bueno!” Well, that was that, he had trapped his first mouse and I thought it was an accomplishment. I don’t recall, however, ever speaking about it again.

 

After David left us I found the following little poem among his many things. I tend to believe that he wrote it down that morning after he disposed of the mouse. The mouse he knew he had to trap but really did not want to…

 

Estoy solo

las personas no me quieren,

Deseo algun queso, pero nadie lo dara a mi

El Raton solo deseos queso, alguien deben lo da queso

TRANSLATION:

I am alone
People do not love me,
I want some cheese, but nobody will give it to me.
The Mouse just craves cheese, someone should just give it cheese

buffalo chicken soup

September 22, 2015

fb memory sept 22 2013 he made us buffalo chicken soup it brought me here thanks for sharing

Let's Dance

April 4, 2015
Facts and Figures - Let's Dance

During the Summer David came in the house, handed me a CD and asked: "Did you know Stevie Ray Vaughn did the Guitar Work on David Bowie's Let's Dance?" I told him, no, that I never realized that. Stevie Ray was one of David's very favorite Guitarists. He smiled and said: "Check this CD out, Dad. I got hold of a track and laid the guitar down over it myself."


Give it a listen, especially towards the end of the song...  

"Light of the Tags"

March 31, 2015
I recently posted a picture of David's Mom, Ann along with two of her friends, Caralyn and Debbie in Prescott, AZ. Ann had asked me to take a look at two photos recently posted on Face Book. She said there was something "odd" about them. The first time I looked at the photos I looked right through it but the second time I looked all I could see was the "Light of the Tags". It may only be coincidence but there is "light" refracted from somewhere in these photos and it certainly looks like and appears to be exactly where Dog Tags would be.

David's Dog Tags, a Campanile Family Heirloom were unintentionally lost in the immediate aftermath of our family tragedy. They were a gift from his Grandfather Anthony, Ann's Dad who was a Sailor in WWII . One set was given to David and the other to David's cousin, Anthony. Both boys cherished them and wore them around their necks on a chain. I'm sure Anthony will always continue to wear them. Ann so wanted to recover these tags  but unfortunately they were lost. After seeing this, I choose to believe that they have found her...

"Strat Skills"

February 2, 2015

David was always very athletic. Although he never developed a great love of baseball or basketball, he was absolutely passionate about football and soccer. He was one hell of a wide receiver for Seton Hall Prep. He was fast and had tremendous hands. I'm not sayiing that because he is my son, I'm saying it because I saw it on the field. I don't believe I ever missed a game! My most treasured "football" memory is when his team went to the championship game in his senior year. They did lose to Don Bosco Tech in that final game but what a game and what a year!! They were a great team and what great kids! Most of them remain friends to this day.

While he was playing football he also joined a soccer league in Morris County and used to drive up to Mt. Olive to practice and play  in that metropolitan league or whatever it was. When he decided to do something there was no stopping him and he became quite the Soccer player in short order. He made the Soccer team when he went away to attend school at Jacksonville University but I was unable to attend those games.

Like me he also loved the outdoors as is evident by a lot of the pictures on this website. One of my biggest surprises, though was an email that I received from him while he was attending school in Jacksonville. Now, I've been playing guitar since I was eleven years old but David, like many kids, enjoyed music but never really expressed any "special" or extra interest in it. Until...

The subject in the email said "Strat Skills" and when I opened it up it was a music track of David playing a Fender (Squire) Stratocaster! WOW!! Literally out of nowhere, he was amazing (and you can ask his Uncle Tom who also has been playing guitar for ages). The level of his skills in just a few short months was beyond belief. It was astounding and what a God-given talent!

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