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Friends received Tuesday January 13, 2-4 and 6-8 PM at CHARLES W. TRENZ FUNERAL HOME, INC., 11110 Frankstown Road, Penn Hills PA. Funeral Mass was Wednesday, January 14 at 10:30am at St Bernadette’s Church in Monroeville PA. 

Internment at Mt Saint Macrina in Uniontown, PA.

In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made in David’s name to the Alzheimer’s Association, 1100 Liberty Avenue, Suite E-201, Pittsburgh, PA 15222, to the Brother's Brother Foundation in Pittsburgh, or to a charity of one’s choice.


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January 7
January 7
Thinking of you today Dad. We are flying back from New Zealand, and we remembered when you and mom came with us to NZ - and you were so excited to visit the Southward Car museum and Lake Taupo and the pumice rocks. Mom misses you, but she and Barb are happy and safe at their apt in NJ and doing ok. Love to you and thinking of you always. -Amy
January 7, 2022
January 7, 2022
Always thinking of you Dad on the day of your passing, now 7 years ago. Mom has so many wonderful memories of trips you took together and keeps them close. Times are hard as we are still dealing with a pandemic, but our family has stayed strong together.  Finn is getting taller and lanky like you, and Rowen will graduate high school this year! We're doing our best to all take care of mom and keep her safe. Also, I found some pictures you saved from your Gulf research engineering days and they are a treasure. Everyone misses you, most especially mom. Love you. -Amy
September 10, 2021
September 10, 2021
Happy 92nd birthday Dad! Both Aunt Beth and Aunt Ann have joined you now, and I imagine you all dancing up a storm. Mom and I think of you often, and all the trips you took together and with Joe and Ann. Finn is growing like a weed now and he reminds me of you in your skinny teen years. You would like our dog Tucker. And Mark and I celebrated our 20th anniversary yesterday. Time is flying. I wish you were here with mom, hope I can convince her to be closer to me soon! Love you dad, we miss ya lots.
January 7, 2021
January 7, 2021
Thinking of you today, Dad. We’ve had a global pandemic for more than 9 months now, and people cannot visit their family members who are sick at the hospital. I’m glad we were able to be by your side. I miss your sense of humor so much. Mom has been strong and amazing this year in Pittsburgh on her own, doing walks with Aunt Barbara and staying healthy. We all can’t wait before we can get vaccinated and be able to see and visit each other again. Love you Dad.
January 7, 2020
January 7, 2020
My dear Dave--
Many times I'm reminded of you with your paintings in the game room and certain items mostly in our bedroom.
I'm still hanging in there doing art, exercising, and a few trips to visit the kids, but I still miss your pleasant personality and our special marriage. The kids are growing up so fast and Bob's two girls just had their 2nd birthday.
Love you always-----------------Joan
January 7, 2020
January 7, 2020
Thinking of you always, Dad. Its hard to believe its been 5 years since you passed away, and we still miss you dearly.  I wish you could see your grandchildren growing up, and meet your new grand-dog Tucker! 
Love you so much - Amy.
September 10, 2019
September 10, 2019
Dearest Dave-

Had problems with my password a day or two ago, but today I found it and I am wishing you a most eventful birthday - your 90th . All of the kids and Barb have extended their birthday thoughts to you on this very special day. Think of you often, especially when I am painting and fondly remember how beautiful your paintings were--
   Love,  Joan
January 7, 2019
January 7, 2019
The years have passed so rapidly, but I still fondly think of our days and years together. All of us are remembering you today, and we still miss you. This is a great way to show our thoughts and prayers.
January 7, 2019
January 7, 2019
Dear Dad,
We lost you 4 years ago today, but we still miss you. As a hard worker and a good dad, you were a great example to all of us. I can remember so many good times with you while I was growing up and as a young adult. I am grateful, but all I can do is to pass it forward. I am sure that is what you would want.
December 25, 2018
December 25, 2018
Christmas Day 2018
This has always been such a nice holiday for our family, but over the past few years everyone lives out of state. I do have chances to visit the kids - Bob, Tom, and Amy - throughout the year, but they are now celebrating with their own families in their own homes.
Still think of the many good times we had thru the years and you are in my memories always-----                            Joan
January 28, 2018
January 28, 2018
January 28, 2018

We're all thinking of you today and remembering all the great times and great trips we had over the years.
Forever Missed has been such a great place to leave messages .
January 28, 2018
January 28, 2018
Thinking of you always dad. We have friends whose parents are suffering from Alzheimers and we are able to help them, but it reminds me of the difficulty you must have gone through. Yours and mom's support and belief in me, throughout my career and life, was more important to me than I ever knew, in becoming who I am.
September 10, 2017
September 10, 2017
Grandpa was a nice grandpa and I loved him. I liked looking at his pictures and i have his skinny legs too. His paintings were amazing and i think they should be in an art gallery. I remember when i used to play with puzzles with him and color and eat ice cream with him.  
From Finn Goring
September 10, 2017
September 10, 2017
Happy 88th birthday, Dad. Thinking of you this weekend, trying to keep our sense of humor in all we do. I know you would be proud of your grandkids growing up so big this year. We visited Fallingwater last weekend and I know how much you always loved that place, and the beautiful trees around it. Miss you and love you always.
September 9, 2017
September 9, 2017
"We're all thinking of you today --your 88th birthday, and we all
remember all the great and funny times we had together through
the years."
                Joan and family
January 7, 2017
January 7, 2017
We're all thinking of you today and always, Dad! Love you. Many hugs.
January 7, 2017
January 7, 2017
The months have passed so fast - and I still miss you. The days preceding January 7th are tough.

Still treasure all the good times we had over the years. We were blessed--

Love,
Joan
January 7, 2016
January 7, 2016
Thinking of you all week Dad, it was a year ago today that we held your hand and said our final good byes. I miss you so darn much, and just love you and Mom dearly. 
So many things in life to thank you for - like giving me the confidence and drive to always do my best. And a good sense of humor. Oh - and for the long skinny legs. Those have definitely been a plus too. ;-)
December 25, 2015
December 25, 2015
December 25, 2015 - my thought of the day

It is our 1st Christmas that we haven't shared in over 55 years, but I am happy that we can cherish many, many wonderful family Christmas memories of more than a half century.
                                 Love always,
                                        Jo
September 14, 2015
September 14, 2015
Memories of our travels with Dave and Joan in Europe - the
Churchill and Berkshire suites in London, making a TV commercial in Rome (CAPACINO!!!), gelato in Florence every night, tulip gardens in Amsterdam, the view of Venice from St, Marks, the night train from Amsterdam to Venice, and many more. Remembering hurts.
                              Tom and Shirley
September 10, 2015
September 10, 2015
Thinking about Dad all day long yesterday...86 years ago, you were born. And I am super glad about that. I watched your funny video when we interviewed you when you turned 70, and laughed and laughed. Missing you, Dad.
September 9, 2015
September 9, 2015
Thinking of you on your 86th birthday and still remember all of the great times we shared over 53 years with friends and family.
                       
                               Love,
                                  J
February 13, 2015
February 13, 2015
Dave was fun, that's what I remember. I met Dave thanks to art. We were members of Penn Art Asso. and I was also lucky to be his art instructor at CCAC Boyce Campus for several years. Dave's artwork was carefully painted with attention to details other's would miss or refuse to take the time to paint. Joanie and Dave sat next to each other in art class and shared ideas, materials and their good spirits with each other and all classmates. Dave gave his family lasting works of art to treasure for generations. 

Dave was also wiz at Ping Pong and he hustled the 20 year olds in the Student Union. Students would see this tall white haired fellow come up to the table and ask to play. I can only imagine their first thoughts but their shock and awe was apparent immediately when he unzipped a flat case.  "OMG! he brought his own paddle!" Dave's reputation grew. He was the guy to beat at Ping Pong even into his 80's. His gentle and easy going personality was an asset and blessing to many students.

It was a pleasure to be in Dave's company and to have known him.
February 8, 2015
February 8, 2015
(excerpt from eulogy 1/14/15)
Speaking for my wife Ann-Marie and myself, we will miss Dad very much. I would like to share a few aspects of my father that everyone may not be aware of. 

Dad never forgot the humble beginnings of his own life. He always treated people of all backgrounds and abilities with respect. Learning this served me well in my time in the Navy and throughout my life.  He also had a special empathy for those that needed more family warmth. 

He also showed us that working hard is an honorable endeavor.  I recall this trait in a few ways that weren't always easy to appreciate while growing up. Whenever something in the house or one of the cars needed to be fixed we were compelled to join him in the effort. Both Tom and I (and 'cousin' Bruce) were inspired by this 'make it work attitude' to be engineers.  Dad also required that we earn money to pay for 1/2 of our car insurance - not so easy in the late 70's but it made me appreciate my mobility and freedom.
January 19, 2015
January 19, 2015
(excerpt from Eulogy, 1/14/15)

We will miss my dad. But, we've been missing pieces of him for a long time now. His painting, golfing, tinkering with cars and appliances became things of the past a few years ago. Of course, his variably funny jokes, his sense of rhythm and dancing, his goofy humor and whistling, and his love for Joanie continued on to remind us all that he was still here.  I recently saw a saying 'Life isn't about surviving the storm - its learning to dance in the rain'. I think we all figured out how to do that the best we possibly could have over the past few years.

Dad’s final passing is still very fresh in our minds. We know that angels were watching over him, and God had a plan for him - we listened to God and played our roles like violins and bassoons in an orchestra in those final months - each coming in to play our part when he needed us. He made sure Dad had a final place to rest with wonderful care and loving people - and that Dad left our world peacefully, surrounded by loved ones, and not alone.

I looked through so many pictures last weekend. We know his childhood was hard. But he persevered, and had an incredible, amazing life, filled with lifelong friends, family, hard work, fun, getting to see the world, and appreciating it through art, music, dancing, laughing and love. Joanie was his love, his organizer, his memory – and he never wanted to leave her side. Everyone I spoke with at the funeral
remembers Dad being kind, strong, funny, loving, brilliant, and hard-working. His paintings are now a wonderful legacy for our family. What a better role model could we have in a father?

Dad - You are always with us. Now, perhaps more so than ever. You raised and shaped us to be strong, smart, hardworking and funny people, loyal friends and spouses, and wonderful parents. We will not let you down. And we promise to take good care of Joanie.

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January 7
January 7
Thinking of you today Dad. We are flying back from New Zealand, and we remembered when you and mom came with us to NZ - and you were so excited to visit the Southward Car museum and Lake Taupo and the pumice rocks. Mom misses you, but she and Barb are happy and safe at their apt in NJ and doing ok. Love to you and thinking of you always. -Amy
January 7, 2022
January 7, 2022
Always thinking of you Dad on the day of your passing, now 7 years ago. Mom has so many wonderful memories of trips you took together and keeps them close. Times are hard as we are still dealing with a pandemic, but our family has stayed strong together.  Finn is getting taller and lanky like you, and Rowen will graduate high school this year! We're doing our best to all take care of mom and keep her safe. Also, I found some pictures you saved from your Gulf research engineering days and they are a treasure. Everyone misses you, most especially mom. Love you. -Amy
September 10, 2021
September 10, 2021
Happy 92nd birthday Dad! Both Aunt Beth and Aunt Ann have joined you now, and I imagine you all dancing up a storm. Mom and I think of you often, and all the trips you took together and with Joe and Ann. Finn is growing like a weed now and he reminds me of you in your skinny teen years. You would like our dog Tucker. And Mark and I celebrated our 20th anniversary yesterday. Time is flying. I wish you were here with mom, hope I can convince her to be closer to me soon! Love you dad, we miss ya lots.
Recent stories

Fixing Everything

January 7, 2017

When my dad was a teenager, I heard stories about 'Frecks car' that they bought with their crap game winnings.   I heard about how my dad took the car apart, and put it back together. 
I heard about how he survived his time in the army in Labrador, fixing stuff.

He fixed everything in our house. He kept appliances alive for far longer than expected,  and perhaps long than my mom wanted (thinking about that dryer :-). 

My aunt and grandma would always drop off whatever appliance was broken - a hairdryer, a curler, etc. for him to fix. 

He was always under a car tinkering. He kept all of our cars intact. He knew everything about my first Honda civic, even noticing the different hood than the original, although i never openly admitted about the accident I had where i had to replace the hood. 

When Mark and i bought our house, he set up a workbench in the basement - for Mark.  Its on my life's list to clear it off and organize it better. And learn how to fix things.  

My brother Tom calls it 'the knack'.  He got 'the knack' I think, and goes on to fix things and build things himself. Somehow the passion didn't get passed to me, but i always respect those who have 'the knack'.  

My mom has given away many of his workbench tools to places like Habitat for Humanity, and neighbors, and each of us kids.  Hopefully 'the knack' will live on in many of us. :-) 

87th birthday

September 9, 2016

      Thought of you on your 87th birthday today and still cherish all the great times, trips, and memories we had during our years together.

                                                 Love you always,
                                                               Joan 

On the water!

March 13, 2016

Dave and Joan joined us on our boat many times over the years, it was always a great day even if it rained and we cought no fish. I uploaded a great picture we found of Dave and Nicholas taken many years ago. It shows Dave's love so much!
The file was a pdf, I hope it loaded. If not I will re-scan as a jpg. 
Hope all are doing well. 
Grace, Parke and Nicholas 

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