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Dear beloved friends and family,
We created this memorial to give all of us a place to share our many memories of Dave. He touched so many people - more than we ever realized - and it is our hope that by sharing these memories we'll do what he would have wanted us to do -  stay connected, expand our horizons, and in the process have fun & a good laugh - preferably with a bottle of (cheap!) wine somewhere nearby.  He would have liked that. 
Peace. 
Kate & Bill 

October 26, 2023
October 26, 2023
Hi Dad
There was this one time I remember asking you who you voted - and you replied that you held your nose and voted for someone, can't remember who. Anyway, I recall your general view of most/all politicians wasn't particularly flattering. Naive me, I remember that was rather cynical. Well, if you think it was bad back then, holy shit - some (alot?) of our elected representatives are just horrible, ignorant human beings. So now I too have become that cynical-hold-your-nose-and-vote- for-the-lessor-of-two-evils voter. Hard to believe with 300+ million people we can't find someone with intelligence, integrity & vision that can inspire us and unite this country. In the words of Bonnie Tyler - where have all the good men (and women) gone? So, on that uplifting note - Happy Birthday! I miss you. 
Love, Will 
October 31, 2022
October 31, 2022
Dave - so miss your sense of humor! Boy do we need it these days! Sandy due to retire from State this year- how time flies. I can’t decide what to do- but will retire soon I think. Miss you. Katie
October 31, 2022
October 31, 2022
Happy Birthday Dad! 
I started this post on the 26th, it's now the 31st. We just had our 40th class reunion. I still remember calling you and telling you I thought I had made a big mistake! As always, you listened and offered encouragement, but didn't push me one way or another. And in the end, it all worked out. That was just one of many times I sought your advice as a young man. Thank you for being there all those times, all those years.  Miss you, Love Will
June 21, 2022
June 21, 2022
Hello Dad
Thought a lot about you these past few days. Father's Day. US Open. All reminders of the time you pasted. Hard to believe it's been 10 years. Still miss you greatly. Miss our talks. We were out on the boat this past weekend - as with the last two seasons - we took you with us - so hope you're enjoying water! Still have the 1929 Silver Dollar that I use as a ball marker. Just another reminder of you.  Love, Will
October 26, 2021
October 26, 2021
Hey Dad
Hello from Paris and happy birthday! As Sara and I tour the sites, I am reminded of your encyclopedic knowledge of history. As i got older I was always amazed and in awe of your depth and breadth - I only wish I had paid more attention when I was younger! ;)
Miss you,
Love, Will
June 18, 2021
June 18, 2021
Dave I think you might have passed on this year- no travel, masks and political divisions. But Sokoloff’s are well- Sandy and Peggy in Jamaica- kids and their kids all on the East coast now. Miss your input on life and fun take on all things. Katie
June 17, 2021
June 17, 2021
Hi Dad
Hard to believe it's been 9 years. Makes me sad - I do so miss talking with you. Summer is here in Annapolis, boat is in the water and the Navy golf course is looking good. Joined another start-up in January. This one is agriculture - it's fun and I am learning a whole new industry. Sara is still on the mend, but almost fully recovered - lots of discipline on her part and plenty of PT.  In other news - they boys moved here during COVID & are literally just down the hall. It is really nice to have them so close.  Love you, Will
October 27, 2020
October 27, 2020
Dave- so wish you were here to share your thoughts about the current political morass and covid. Well we do live in interesting times and I am sure you, dad and mom are having a grand ole time wherever. We miss you
Katie
October 27, 2020
October 27, 2020
Hi Dad
Thought about you a lot yesterday. Miss you. Been a busy summer and now fall is upon us. We are going to have to get used to east coast weather again! We were having a great summer here in Annapolis - on the boat, on the golf course, biking, hanging out with friends.....then Sara's bike accident - fortunately we have great medical professionals in this country, but it was scary for awhile there. She is back on the road to a full recovery and things are slowly returning to normal. Or as normal can be with COVID and the narcissistic, racist  idiot we have the White House!  Love, Will
June 17, 2020
June 17, 2020
Hey Dad
Been a crazy start to the year! COVID-19 hit. Scoop's prospects are pretty dim & I got laid off. Left my apartment in SF & have spent the last 4 months in Annapolis. Once the quarantine restrictions lifted, we have been able to get out and about. Bought a boat! The plan is spend the summer on the water or on the golf course, and come September I'll start looking for another gig.  We'll see.  Miss you!
Love, Will
October 28, 2019
October 28, 2019
Hi Dad
I know I shouldn't have to wait to this date to write something. Lots going on here, lots to share.  As you know Bloom (finally!) went public last July, and this spring I finally decided it was time to move on - after almost 14 years. The game plan is to move back east - Annapolis. At least partially. We are going to be bi-coastal for a year while I get settled into my new job at Scoop.  (Again - this didn't post - definitely operator error!).  Anyway - happy birthday Dad.
Miss you!
Love, Will
June 18, 2019
June 18, 2019
Life always seemed more exciting and fun with you around. Miss you and all the adventures.
June 18, 2019
June 18, 2019
Hi Dad
Happy Birthday!! I know - a day late and a dollar short! (I think was one of your favorite sayings.) I had a decent excuse though - we're in Italy and the whole region was without wi-fi.  Anyway - Sara and I just spent the past week biking through Tuscany. We're in Rome today and then off to Florence tomorrow. Brings back many childhood memories.
Love,
Will

PS. For some reason this didn't get posted back in October.
June 17, 2019
June 17, 2019
We are thinking of you yesterday and today. Remembering how much joy you brought into our lives. You spent time and love with Nick, Ana and Alex. We all miss you.
October 27, 2018
October 27, 2018
Hi Dad
Happy Birthday!! I know - a day late and a dollar short! (I think was one of your favorite sayings.) I had a decent excuse though - we're in Italy and the whole region was without wi-fi.  Anyway - Sara and I just spent the past week biking through Tuscany. We're in Rome today and then off to Florence tomorrow. Brings back many childhood memories.
Love,
Will
October 26, 2018
October 26, 2018
Will raise a glass of red in your honor Dave!
Miss you and dad and mom and the great adventures we had in Turkey and Morocco together- cheers
June 17, 2018
June 17, 2018
Hi Dad!
Hard to believe it's been 6 years. You probably know already (!), but we finally filed our S-1 this past week. Been quite the journey and I do miss talking to you about it. 
Love Will
October 29, 2017
October 29, 2017
Hi Dad - Happy belated birthday!! I figure at this point in your life - what's a few days?! :)
Love, Will
October 27, 2017
October 27, 2017
Remembering Dave- a friend in all seasons an always fun!
June 18, 2017
June 18, 2017
Hi Dad
I know we spoke this morning, but I still wanted to write and say hello again. It's hard to believe it's been 5 years.  We miss you.
Love, Bill
October 27, 2016
October 27, 2016
Always think of you Dave and thank you for the great joy and sense of adventure you brought into our lives over the years. Wish I could share a glass of wine with you. :) Well I had one anyway yesterday. Wish you were still here.
October 26, 2016
October 26, 2016
Hi Dad
It's been a crazy year and even crazier past 6 months! Really miss being able to talk to you. I think we got it all sorted. 2017 is shaping up to be an exciting year! 
Love you!
Bill
October 27, 2015
October 27, 2015
Hi Dad. Thought about you a lot recently. Miss you. I hope you're someplace interesting with a glass of wine in your hand & surrounded by good friends.
Love, Bill
October 26, 2015
October 26, 2015
Raising a glass of red wine in a toast to you Dave! Fond memories always
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
A: "Now Dear.... You're a day older- and I'm a day late"

D: HA
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
Missing you Dave! Summer is here and wishing you could once again stop by to grill some fish and open a bottle or two.....
October 26, 2014
October 26, 2014
Hi Dad!
I know you hate birthdays, but today you'd be spry 82 and we'd be wishing you a happy birthday whether you liked it or not! I miss talking to you - getting your advice and insight on just about everything - work, current events, history, sports, music, and life. 
Love, Bill
October 26, 2014
October 26, 2014
Happy Birthday Dave!

I thought of you while hiking along the ocean side in Carmel on this beautiful sunny day. I know how you liked the sea and then I giggled to myself when I thought you would not have liked the hiking part. But you would have been proud because Bill and I brought wine!  ;)

Miss you,
Sara Thayer
October 26, 2014
October 26, 2014
We miss you Dave; remembering a fabulous trip to Eastern Turkey with you, mom and dad. An adventure from start in Lake Van to finish in Trabajon on the Black Sea.
June 17, 2014
June 17, 2014
Was thinking of Dave and my father, Boris, this past father's day. What fun we had searching for fossils, skiing, sailing, visiting ruins in Turkey. Very precious memories. The spark of adventure was always present when Dave was around. I miss his sense of fun and adventure and will cherish his invaluable support to my family always.
October 28, 2013
October 28, 2013
I still find it hard to believe that Dave has passed on. He was a huge part of my life from a small child to a middle aged adult...and was ALWAYS there to help. I would go for years not seeing him...and then he would arrive....a bottle of wine in hand...and we just picked up where we left off. He taught us all how to enjoy life. We miss you Dave!
October 26, 2013
October 26, 2013
Happy Birthday Dave! We are all thinking of you.

Miss you,
Sara
October 26, 2013
October 26, 2013
Hi Dad
Just wanted to wish a Happy Birthday. Thinking of you.
Love, Will
September 13, 2012
September 13, 2012
I had the honor and pleasure of being Dave’s friend. I also had the special privilege of conducting Dave’s estate sale. Hundreds of people attended the sale and all wanted to know about the man who had owned all those wonderful things. Just as Kate noted, all his treasures are still being treasured. Thank you Kate and Bill…and thank you Dave.
September 7, 2012
September 7, 2012
Dear Dave,
Im sorry we didn't get much time to hang out as a family, but the time we did spdnd together was Awesome. You enriched all of our luves with yoyr knowledge and compassion, and miss it everyday that you are gone. I hope u are in a safe place and having a great time cause we are all looking forward go seeing one day. Thankyou. Love Nick
September 5, 2012
September 5, 2012
Uncle Dave was a wonderful man, he was always happy and always seemed to have so many stories to tell. I remember when he would come to visit us in Key West when we lived there. He taught us how to make pizza for lunch and he we always tip the surf board over. He always had something funny. Never did I see him without a smile. You will be dearly missed and forever loved.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Remembering Dave will always bring a smile to my face. He was so full of life and always fun to be around. My memories are of cooking with him, he did the fish and I did the rest, many laughs and fun conversation. Dave was a big part of the Sokoloff family, there is empty seat at the table.
August 30, 2012
August 30, 2012
My dear family,
I remember Dave as fun loving, always a wonderful host. 2 incidents come to mind: The RV trip we all took and dinner on the houseboat with raccoons! I know how much you miss him, but he is always with you -memories will never fade. Love, Ann

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October 26, 2023
October 26, 2023
Hi Dad
There was this one time I remember asking you who you voted - and you replied that you held your nose and voted for someone, can't remember who. Anyway, I recall your general view of most/all politicians wasn't particularly flattering. Naive me, I remember that was rather cynical. Well, if you think it was bad back then, holy shit - some (alot?) of our elected representatives are just horrible, ignorant human beings. So now I too have become that cynical-hold-your-nose-and-vote- for-the-lessor-of-two-evils voter. Hard to believe with 300+ million people we can't find someone with intelligence, integrity & vision that can inspire us and unite this country. In the words of Bonnie Tyler - where have all the good men (and women) gone? So, on that uplifting note - Happy Birthday! I miss you. 
Love, Will 
October 31, 2022
October 31, 2022
Dave - so miss your sense of humor! Boy do we need it these days! Sandy due to retire from State this year- how time flies. I can’t decide what to do- but will retire soon I think. Miss you. Katie
October 31, 2022
October 31, 2022
Happy Birthday Dad! 
I started this post on the 26th, it's now the 31st. We just had our 40th class reunion. I still remember calling you and telling you I thought I had made a big mistake! As always, you listened and offered encouragement, but didn't push me one way or another. And in the end, it all worked out. That was just one of many times I sought your advice as a young man. Thank you for being there all those times, all those years.  Miss you, Love Will
Recent stories

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March 28, 2013

"My Dear... why don't you go over there and get us a couple of glasses" (more of a statement than a question-

The famous words before being introduced to a foreign topic. 

September 25, 2012

A few years back one of Dave's grandson's (Grant) was doing a school project and needed family stories, and Dave shared the one below.  It's the story about how he saved an owl from becoming owl soup. It is an amazing story!



 

The Owl and the Pussy Cat


A True Story 


By David M. Sullivan 



One rainy winter Friday night in Istanbul arriving home at our apartment, I found Shirley hors de combat in bed fighting a heavy cold. She said "Dave please take the children out to dinner; I am to ill to prepare meals" Into the car went Kate, Robert, William and I and we drove up the Bosphorus towards the Black Sea to select one of the many seafood restaurants along the water. 

We arrived and were walking towards the lokantasi restaurant when we saw three young Turkish men, one holding a shrouded form in front of him. As we approached closer we saw that they held a very big owl whose eyes were an angry fierce orange orb about the size of a gold dollar. In our pidgin Turkish we asked the young men why they had an owl and Robert picked out the word "Chorba" in their reply. Chorba means soup. They were selling the bird for making owl soup. Kate, who was about fourteen at the time, became incensed and insisted that we must save the owl by buying it from the heartless brutes. 



Overwhelmed by her fervid pleadings we bargained and got the owl for 300 lira, about $3.00 at that time. As we approached the restaurant I was relieved to see that the owl's legs were well bound thus immobilizing its talons We entered the restaurant and checked our outer garments at the hat check counter and to free my hands we also checked in the owl. We ate a delicious meal and exited with our owl after a healthy tip to the concierge for minding our beast. 

Our intention was to release it the next day, Saturday in the Belgrade forest outside Istanbul.

Arriving home very excited, we awakened Shirley in the dimly lit bedroom and revealed our acquisition. Groggy from medication and sleep she could only weakly exclaim" Oh no! not another cat!" Meanwhile, our housecat, Sambo, immediately sensed the presence of another animal in the house so we put her into a bedroom and locked the door because all our doors had French door handles and Sambo knew how to leap to the handle, grab it and let her body weight open the door. 

Leaving Shirley to her delirium we proceeded downstairs to the living room. Our idea was to cut the bonds tying the owl to see it walk or hop about in anticipation of its release on the morrow. Bonds cut, the owl took a step forward and fell flat on its face! Thinking its legs were unsteady due to the bonds, we tried three more times. The owl could not walk! It fell every time. We had purchased a sick owl! 



On Saturday, instead of the Belgrade Forest, we were at a veterinarian's office where it was confirmed that we had purchased a sick owl and antibiotics were issued. At home just off the living room was a walk-in closet with, in a thick wall, a window overlooking the Bospohorus. We wedged a wooden crosspiece between the window frame and set the owl upon it. There it sat for two weeks as it was given thrice daily eyedroppers full doses of antibiotics and after the first week little meatballs. 

It is interesting to note that an owl's upper beak curves over the tip of its lower flatter beak thus creating side openings into which we could insert the eyedropper and later on push in meatballs. Other owl facts: We determined that the owl was a "European Eagle Owl" the largest owl in Europe. It stood about 18" and had a wing span of approx. 4'. When angered or frightened it would turn itself into a white ball approx. diameter of 2' of extended feathers with its head lowered into the center of the ball ,feathers extended, eyes ablaze, emitting a fierce cawing, clicking call. 



Meanwhile, Sambo became intensely curious about the scent she detected in the closet. We would not let her into the closet not knowing what could happen because we knew Sambo to be fearless and the owl to be wild. Finally, the owl could be heard flapping its wings on its perch and later trying to fly in the narrow closet only resulting in knocking many garments to the floor. It was Friday night, two weeks to the day. Tomorrow to the Belgrade Forest for Owl Launch! 

As before, we took the owl out of the closet to the living room floor to see it walk and move about. However we forgot about Sambo. She quickly appeared over our heads at the top to the staircase and immediately went into the feline stalking mode. Down below the owl had spotted the cat instantly but made no move other than to rotate its head to keep the cat always in site as it moved slowly slowly step by slow step down the staircase. Note that an owl can rotate its head 180 degrees without moving its body. 



After ten or so minutes the cat reached the floor 90 degrees to the left of the owl; then crawled under a sofa in front of the owl, next under a chair 90 degrees to the right and finally under a wrought iron drinks bar directly behind the owl. The owl without moving its body had observed every Sambo step. We held our breath. Something would happen! 

Suddenly the two animals were flying! The cat slightly behind the owl. Over the sofa they went sliding across the width of a dining room table and CRASH!! into a picture window overlooking the dark Bosphorus and freedom. Racing after them I brushed Sambo away and grasped the owl. We were delighted. Sambo had inspired a test flight of the owl. We knew that it could now fly so tomorrow would truly be Owl Launch Day. 



Saturday morning we placed the owl into a large wicker basket with a top and drove to the Belgrade Forest where we parked and walked deep into the forest carrying the owl. We found a small clearing and took the top off the basket walking back about fifteen feet to see what would happen. Soon the owl's head arose over the rim of the basket and it surveyed the surroundings. After a moment it climbed up inside of the basket causing it to tumble over after which the owl could calmly walk out of the opening. It stood for a moment studying the terrain and then with a powerful leap was airborne flying low between the trees but finally crashing to the ground when a wing was blocked by a low branch. 



We had made a mistake. We took the owl too deep into the forest. A big Eagle owl does not take off vertically like a small bird. It needs open space to rise off the ground and gradually gain altitude. Back into the basket went the owl as we marched out of the forest to a nearby meadow where we repeated our release procedure. This time the owl took off like an avian 747 gradually gaining altitude becoming smaller and smaller in the distance as we watched.

We were about to head toward the parking lot when Bill noticed that the owl was turning. It circled back and finally flew overhead about 200 feet in the air above us. 

At that moment it seemed that the owl tipped its wings as a sort of thank you and then disappeared over the forest trees. We went home happy. The owl did not become chorba. We did not acquire "Another Cat". We had had an unforgettable experience with a magnificent wild creature.


 

Algorithm Dave.

September 24, 2012

Dave working on a task he originally delegated- Priceless  

Andrew's Algorithm solution to Dave's Delegation Madness.

Dave Delegates > Do Nothing > Be Patient > Dave will work hard


 

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