Our mom, Debbie Van De Riet, 64, born on March 22, 1951 has lost her life after a 7 year battle to Alzheimers. She peacefully passed away on Monday morning at 730am on January 18th.
Thank you to all our family and friends for your continued support to us while we learn how to live without the most precious gem in our lives. She was a very special woman to so many!!!
Please enjoy this video tribute of our beloved Mother.
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We ask you to please sign this guest book and leave a tribute about our mom who was also an amazing grandmother, a fun loving sister, an adored aunt and a loyal friend.
With love, Wanda & Wendi
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Leave a tributeI was Maid of Honor at her wedding, and glad to meet Wanda and Wendi when they were born.
Deb and I kept in touch for a few years as she lived her life fast and full, and I took a more measured path through my life. One of our favorite Campfire songs spoke of having "a lifetime of living to do",and I believe Debbie got a lifetime's worth of living done in her time.
I am glad for the time we had together, two feisty blonde girls from opposite sides of the highway.
"Gather round girls, and listen to my story, . . . and a lifetime of livin' I've had to do, a lifetime of livin' to do!" love, Jeri
Sorry for your loss. The hardest thing in life is to see someone you love go be with God. You will be with her again. Love you much.
Debbie's light brightened all our lives, and will continue to do so for each one of us.
Her smile, her laughter and her amazing attitude touched all our lives, and will continue to do so always.
We will carry her in our hearts, and in our memories forever. She was a most cherished and treasured forever friend.
It took some time, once we arrived, to 'break the ice' because I had an afliction called shy n bashful. Debbie was wonderful in making me feel welcome at any time (even when we were at my house). Debbie was one in a million by her personality alone. I cant remember ever seeing her without that big beautiful smile and giving that aura of love and feeling that she genuinely cared for you no matter what.
Im pretty sure it was something I must have done or didnt do that caused us to fall away from each other. Seems like it was a pretty busy part of our lives.
I figured Id make it up to her later, maybe next week, next month, next year. Soon that next year flew by, then ten more then twenty more and on and on.
Its one of those things we say when weve 'missed the boat', or opportunity to make our feelings known.
We need to let our loved ones know how much theyre loved as often as we can before we're not able. Its our loss, my loss. Debbie was a precious and loving person. I feel when we meet again she will welcome us with open arms and big beautiful smile.
What's wrong? Nothing.
You seem to be awfully quiet tonight while we were singing.
Do you want to talk about it?
Is your heart low in this feeling you can't describe to me?
I understand.
You want to be alone with me. I'll be quiet.
Why are you crying. I'll go away, but I know you wanted me to stay by the way you touched my arm.
I'll stay close beside you.
Are you sad because this is our last time together?
Don't be.
We've shared time and made precious memories to be held close to our hearts.
Keep these, and forever you will be with me.
Another one I can't take credit for writing but the sentiment fits exactly.
Someone no one can replace
If there's someone you can turn to
When you need a helping hand
If there's someone you can count on
To advise and understand
If there's someone you can sit with
and not need to say a word
If there's someone you think more
of as each year comes to an end
You're a special person for you've
Found a "Forever Friend"
I can't take credit for writing this but it is what is in my heart.
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A million times
I've needed you
A million times I've cried,
If love alone
Could have saved you
you never would have died.
In life I love you dearly,
In death I love you still.
In my heart you hold a place,
No one else can ever fill.
It broke my heart to lose you,
But you didn't go alone
Part of me went with you,
The day God took you home.