Young Adult Years
After graduating from High School Dershawn immediately enrolled at Glendale Commununity College to study Electronics while holding down a part time job for a few months. He was motivated and focused on his future continued his education online and went to work fulltime when he found out he and the love of his life, that he began dating while in high school, Tatiana L. Hubbard had a baby on the way. He could not be prouder. He admitted to me that he was a little nervous but he was going to be there for his son and this motivated him more to get an education and a career. After the birth of their son Dershawn Depreece Stuard Jr, (DJ) he decided that he wanted to join the military to better provide for his family and to complete his educational goals with the hopes of working for Boeing. Dershawn wanted to give DJ and Tatiana the world. He was so family oriented. I am so proud of the way he took care of and provided for his family (Tati & DJ). He would always spend time with his brothers, Tatiana, and her brother;. Dershawn had an owesome bond with his brothers and their cousin Marquis that they refer to as their brother. Dershawn tried to be the best role model being the big brother he would often talk to them about the importance of getting an education, being trustworthy, honest, and dependale. He also lived by his moto "Live life with no regrets".
THe day DJ was born was one of the prodest moments in his life. He vowed to Tatiana and myself that he was going to be the most devoted father in history and he lived up to that promise. I was so impressed at how loving and attentive he was to his son; it was impressive because of his age. Not too many 21 year olds are that involved but Dershawn was a very unique individual that marched to the beat of his own drum. He was not impressed by what others thought he should be but lived up to his own standards. DJ just brought out the best in him as a father.
Dershawn loved the Lord and he would always put him first in all he did. He would tell me I'm going to pray about and see what God says. He loved to read the Bible and would often come to me to answer questions that he had. I have to admit that it made me get in my word a little more often to be able to asnwer him when he came to me. He was actively seeking a church home but that did not keep him from worshiping and fellowshiping. He was baptised and truly belived in God and this gives me comfort in knowing that I will see him again one day.