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This memorial website was created in memory and honour of a dearly beloved and accomplished woman of valour, Pastor Dr. Debbie Antonza II, 46, born on April 9, 1968 and transited to eternal glory on October 31, 2014. She remains forever treasured in our thoughts.

April 9
How time flies, though we missed you, your memories still lingers on as we still see you in Gladys, Rachel and Immanuel. Continue to rest from your labour, Rev.14:13
October 31, 2023
October 31, 2023
It’s 9 years since you left us.
We still miss you, it’s still surreal how events get one caught up but memories remain ever fresh.
We still miss you Aunty Debbie.
You’re resting with our Lord till we all meet again.
April 13, 2023
April 13, 2023
Can't forget her forever, She inspired my zeal for my tract evangelism and I have printed and shared more than 5000 tracts since then.

Rest on Ma - you will be forever missed only this side of eternity, we will soon meet to part no more.

You are cherished.
April 9, 2023
April 9, 2023
Today, you would have clocked 55 years old. I celebrate you as you stand with the cloud of witnesses in heaven to cheer us on….give uncle Tama a high five…I know he’s not the hugging type…he is greatly missed. Love you continually and forever
April 9, 2021
April 9, 2021
"For the Lord Himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord." 1 Thess. 4:16 - 17
October 31, 2019
October 31, 2019
Dearly beloved and blessed of God , keep resting in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Much missed
October 31, 2019
October 31, 2019
Your legacy remains indelible in our hearts, your eternal rest has left in our life’s with eternal gratitude to God for bringing you to us. Rest on saint of God
October 31, 2019
October 31, 2019
Never forgotten.

Constantly remembering her relentless encouragement and beaming smiles.

Rest on daughter of Zion.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
Happy Birthday to a saint gone early. Am glad our paths crossed...because you left an indelible mark that will last for eternity. Our God is good!
November 1, 2018
November 1, 2018
You will forever remain fresh in my memories. You are simply unforgettable. I appreciate God for a life well spent. Continue to Rest In Peace
October 31, 2018
October 31, 2018
Much missed dear Auntie Debbie. The light of your life remains aglow in our hearts. Keep resting in Christ's bosom.
October 31, 2018
October 31, 2018
Forever is indeed a word I hold close to my heart. I remember today 4 years ago vividly but am more assured of eternity. The thought of you keeps hope alive.
October 31, 2018
October 31, 2018
Aunty Debbie, we miss you dearly, even though you're not here with us physically, you are always with us in our hearts and minds.
We will all meet again at the feet of our Lord Jesus on the resurrection.
Rest on in the bosom of our Lord till the day of Glory dear Aunty.
April 9, 2018
April 9, 2018
Happy 50th birthday dear Auntie Debbie, remembering you TODAY, and the continuous goodness of God since you left to be with the Lord. Keep enjoying the eternal celebrations of heaven until we all meet to part no more in Jesus name.
April 9, 2018
April 9, 2018
Today you would've been 50 years on earth. I thank God for a live well lived. She finished her race on time. We join heaven to celebrate this Amazon who lived for humanity....Pastor Dr(Mrs) Debbie Abuvini Antonza II. My Love for you transcends time.
November 25, 2017
November 25, 2017
So it's three years already!. Your legacy still lives, Your work still speaks. You are greatly missed.
October 31, 2017
October 31, 2017
Dear Auntie Debbie, you've been in our thoughts three years TODAY, and still counting. Always thanking God for being part of our lives. Your departure was sudden, albeit, this side of eternity still remains aglow with your light. Greatly missed. To God alone be all the glory (Deut.29:29)
October 31, 2017
October 31, 2017
Dear Aunty Debbie, I miss you much, it's now 3years since you went to the bosom of our Lord, I know you smile down on us each time from heaven.
October 31, 2017
October 31, 2017
Goodbye Debbie!

How do you say goodbye? How do you move on from someone who had been a part of your life for over 20 years. Hmmmm you left precisely two days shy of our 22nd wedding anniversary.
It happened so suddenly, without any anticipation. Definitely, unexpectedly. So saying goodbye was kinda forced....mechanical .... Spontaneous.
I still can remember it so vividly, as if it was last week. I came a bit late to the hospital that morning cos I over slept...a peaceful, deep sleep...from the Lord I guess. Lol.
The look in your eyes when I came in was like...I have been waiting for you...!!! Less than an hour later, you had left.
How can someone say goodbye at such dramatic exit. The next week was like a dream...so many activities, so many tears, so many fears...plenty drama...lol. How can I say goodbye to such a private person like you Debbie. You loved and cherished your privacy. Yes, you were public in your service but very private in your person. So here was I joining in this great celebration of life...with multitudes each mourning you in their own different ways...Thanks for friends and family.
Well, the realities of your departure have stared me in the face for the past 3 years. Life changed. I can't even describe it..but most of it is for good woo...I now can do many things on my own...things I took for granted because you were there...my helpmate...my wingman. But some aspects are hard. Like that nagging feeling of loss...separation...amputation.
I know that you have gone to a better place, I have no doubt you are very happy and contented. Am happy for you....all of us are...but we still think and talk about you with nostalgia. Sweet and sour. You were indeed an enigma, that silent but powerful force that can chip away at a mountain without notice, till the impact is felt only by the result produced. I miss you, I love you, we miss you so much.
Gladys, Richy and Immanuel are growing in amazing ways. I can't fathom the strength that Gladys exhibits...just reminds me of you. Rachel is growing into this beautiful lady and doing so well in school...and Imma is surprisingly becoming a man ...lol. There are struggles we are facing with your absence...but the Holy Spirit has been a strong tower. He has proved himself faithful and we are grateful.
Many of our family, friends, relations, colleagues and members find it difficult to come to terms with your departure...I hear it in their voice...I see it in their eyes. Death is a mystery indeed. A transition to glory...yet embedded with pain. I guess we, here on earth must also in a way learn to appropriate the glory you are enjoying. We must leave the pain and look at the gain in your transition. That way, we can enjoy the glory you are enjoying even here on earth. A woman in labour cannot hold on to the pain of childbirth after the child has been born! We must learn to embrace the joy, the glory, the peace and the presence of God you are enjoying and partake of it by letting you go.
Today, 3 years on I want to say goodbye Debbie. I choose to embrace your glory. I decide to say a proper goodbye fully understanding that there's a joy that is set before us, when we will all see him face to face. I choose to see you as the evidence that that glory is real...you are not late...you have only gone ahead of us. We partake in the glory of the inheritance promised us here on earth for which you are enjoying the fulness.
Bye Debbie
October 31, 2017
October 31, 2017
Dr. Debbie, still very alive in our memories. May God bless and rest her gentle soul. And may her faith and works continue to speak glowingly of the glory of her Redeemer.
October 31, 2017
October 31, 2017
Three years gone by...and yet your smile,laughter and voice are still in my head ,mind and heart...God remains sovereign in all..thank you Mum for all that you were..truly you left a beautiful legacy and that i will cherish for the rest of my life..Enjoy heaven,you ran your race and you finished gallantly..I Love you always and Forever..
October 31, 2017
October 31, 2017
Three years gone by...and yet your smile,laughter and voice are still in my head ,mind and heart...God remains sovereign in all..thank you Mum for all that you were..truly you left a beautiful legacy and that i will cherish for the rest of my life..Enjoy heaven,you ran your race and you finished gallantly..I Love you always and Forever..
October 31, 2017
October 31, 2017
Aunty Debbie, your presence has been missed by all. I struggled to accept your passing and i felt like writing here only validated my loss (I still do). But this year is different. i think i'm ready to try and as hesitant as it makes me feel, it is something i must come to terms with.
Life is fleeting and every feeling of pain and loss is not without purpose for God is versed in every single way your loss has affected us and He will carry us (as He has always done) through it with the most compassionate Grace. All for is Glory! I miss you Aunty, continue to find rest in His bosom.
October 31, 2016
October 31, 2016
Two years have come and gone...yet it seemed just like yesterday. My niece MaryJane Dogo called all the way from Dublin today, guess what she said...uncle, when you think of Aunty Debbie today, write down all the things she did to,impact and bless....wow! What wise counsel from the mouth of "babes and suckling so" Well I took the advice, started recalling all the good things you did in my life, the blessing God used you to bless and impact my life.
I remember when we met, there was that spark, and then it happened. Thanks for being a wise counsel in difficult times, thanks for being frank with me even when it wasn't convenient, thanks for being my greatest cheerleader, you believed in me, even when I was finding it difficult to believe in myself. Thanks for giving me 3 lovely children. Glad has so grown, she's so strong, wise and full of the spirit of God, you will be proud, Richy, has turned 21, now a woman! She's smart and kind and loving. Imma is an enviable son, composed and focused. I remember how you were always going around with him like your handbag, maybe God knew something we all didn't.
I cannot tell all you have done, but when I count the blessings and name them one by one, I thank God our paths crossed. I will always love you and be proud of you...miss you greatly
October 31, 2016
October 31, 2016
i have always loved the month of October because it's the month of my birth, then 3 days after my birth date in 2014, the sad unforgettable news of your demise hit me like a thunderbolt. 2 years down i have received this month with mixed feelings because of you. There are so many, many things i would have love to tell you now if you were here but... all i can say now is, i miss you greatly, fondly so.... you were one of a kind to me.
October 31, 2016
October 31, 2016
Dear Auntie Debbie, your memory lives on. All is well.
October 31, 2016
October 31, 2016
Deb,
Its just like yesterday. We miss you so much. The Lord has been our strength and comfort. Rest in Perfect Peace.
October 31, 2016
October 31, 2016
I can never forget this day cos its my sister:s bday.on this day and always,i remember you mummy Debbie,continue to rest with the Lord.miss you ma!
October 31, 2016
October 31, 2016
Remembering Dr. Debbie today, as always, and the smiles she put on our faces while here and the joy she brings to God's heart in eternity.
Rest on Pastor.
October 31, 2016
October 31, 2016
My precious Aunty Debbie.
Through our Church service yesterday, I remembered you and this particular day and events of the day also. Missing you is an understatement. Your influence in my life can never be forgotten. Keep on looking out for us all.
April 9, 2016
April 9, 2016
Deb,
Hardly a week passes that we do not say " if Debbie was here she perhaps would have added her counsel or perspective on......". Our family misses you so much and you continue to live in our heart. Continue to rest in the Lord.
April 9, 2016
April 9, 2016
Happy Birthday Debbie, I know you're in heaven but your memory here is still fresh. I choose to hang on to the legacies you left for us to emulate. You raised the standard of holy living, justice and fairness. You were an example of love and tolerance. You showed what it means to love and submit in a marriage despite my flaws, you accepted me just as I am...Christs standard for love. I appreciate you now even more after these two years. Thanks for being an example for me, the kids and the church. I love you
December 24, 2015
December 24, 2015
Debbie,
 I found it hard to drop a word because when I remember the godly sweet memories, the smiling face of a godly daughter of the Kingdom. Sweet memory still, we shall all meet with you again and with Him. You just went ahead of us.Debbie we are coming, yes we are coming to be together on the bossom of our Lord
November 18, 2015
November 18, 2015
I remember you today like always. Beloved mother, who knows it all before I speak and with tender love you provided solution. Thank you for a life well spent. You are forever in our hearts.
November 14, 2015
November 14, 2015
Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to Him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and His wife hath made herself ready. ... Blessed are they which are called unto marriage supper of the Lamb.... Rev.19:7,9 KJV. A blessed women called to the supper of the Lamb. Strength and comfort to all
November 5, 2015
November 5, 2015
I NEVER KNEW U ONE ON ONE, BUT I DID ADMIRE U FROM AFAR- U ALWAYS HAD A STEADY SMILE AND ALWAYS LOOKED UNRUFFLED. U CARRIED A SWEETNESS AROUND U EVEN WITHOUT SAYING A WORD.WHENEVER I SAW U THAT WAS WHAT U PORTRAYED. Hmmm..... GOD KNOWS BEST, TO HIM BE THE GLORY!!!
November 2, 2015
November 2, 2015
I remembered the last Christmas you spent at home and in particular, our final quarter thanksgiving service in which we danced out our hearts in humiliťy the Jukun traditional dance at the centre of the church and to the glory of the Lord.. It was excitement, joy and happiness taking those steps of dance after a long while. I could go on with lots of my encountered with you and your family but I purse here to say "MISS YOU MUCH" Mum. Continue to rest in the Lord.
November 2, 2015
November 2, 2015
With great respect, I remember this woman of God. It's 1 yr since she departed to heaven. I still feel her kind heart & humble spirit. Pastor Debbie, your beautiful smile soothe so much. Rest on!
November 1, 2015
November 1, 2015
Though a brief meeting with you while you were here, you gave my wife and I invaluable insights into the success of your over 20 years of marriage...In you we saw:
A pearl of inestimable value
A song of irresistible melody
A light of indescribable radiance
A heart full of unspeakable joy

...You live on, even in our hearts!
November 1, 2015
November 1, 2015
Wow, its been a year already. My dearest Aunty Debby, words cant begin to help express the loss we were dealt when God took you to be with Him. You were an amazing woman. Pretty of body with an exquisite soul. I celebrate you today and every day.
You have crossed the Rubicon in triumph.
November 1, 2015
November 1, 2015
Aunty Debbie, a year ago you joined the archangels. A beautiful woman you were, with a beautiful heart full of compassion, you left a legacy that is unbeatable. We love and really missed you!
October 31, 2015
October 31, 2015
"The Lord has determined our path; how then can anyone understand the direction his/her life is taking" Proverbs 20:24 [GNB]. We celebrate the faithfulness of God. Auntie Debbie let your light keep shining. To God be the glory.
October 31, 2015
October 31, 2015
Dr. Debbie (Baby Yanga), I don't like to remember this day, that you left us on this side of eternity; and I won't forget this day either, that Heaven gained you. Visiting you and praying with you at the National Hospital was a great encouragement for me knowing that you were a Woman of Faith. Rest on in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Adieu!
October 31, 2015
October 31, 2015
Aunty Debbie, it's really an honour to have come in contact with someone as beautiful as u. U were indeed a burning & a shining light. Rest on in d bossom of d one who loves u immeasurably. U live on forever in our hearts & mind. We luv & miss u.
October 31, 2015
October 31, 2015
My dear Debbie,

I finally pluck up the courage to write... Not that I expect you to click on a weblink to read this; but it helps us to relieve some pressure, this writing of our thoughts. In some ways these expressions in words minister grace to the hearts of those of us who are alive and remain on this dimension of things.

We say it's been 12 months already. But not to you. You are in the Eternal Now, verifying the efficacy of all that we have believed and experiencing the hope that we still hold on to...

It was a pleasure to have shared a patch of history with you, my sister. You left a warm radiance here. He, Who began this good work in all of us, will accomplish it. It hurts that you clocked out when you did but i am glad that our paths crossed at all. The memory of you is blessed in my heart.

Until we see again, we choose to leave our hands and hearts in the hands of the One who alone will reunite us all in His love...
October 31, 2015
October 31, 2015
There are no words to describe the pain i feel inside when i think about you....But you're resting from all your labours.....sleep well mum,you're a rare gem,a rare diamond... a treasure without a price tag...i love you always...i miss you so bad
October 31, 2015
October 31, 2015
My hero, mother and pastor, I am sincerely grateful to God for the opportunity of knowing you. l will never forget ur advice and prayers , Ur smile whenever u hug me. I miss u greatly. Sleep on great soldier of the Most High God . You will forever remain fresh in our memories. Rest in peace Mum.
October 30, 2015
October 30, 2015
I thank God that He gave me the opportunity of meeting Aunty Debbie before calling her home to Glory. Such a sweet, kind, and loving woman of God. Continued prayers for the family and church family. We will meet and fellowship again one day with the Father. Love you Aunty Debbie you are truly missed but never forgotten.
October 30, 2015
October 30, 2015
Your memory is always fresh and to think that it is a year already! I have learnt a lot from you that is only known to me which have kept me focused and more committed to the work of the Master. I can't erase that sweet voice of yours calling " Aunty Ayo" any time you need my attention. The thought of you keep me in check that Heaven is my goal.
Rest on my sweet Aunty.
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April 9
How time flies, though we missed you, your memories still lingers on as we still see you in Gladys, Rachel and Immanuel. Continue to rest from your labour, Rev.14:13
October 31, 2023
October 31, 2023
It’s 9 years since you left us.
We still miss you, it’s still surreal how events get one caught up but memories remain ever fresh.
We still miss you Aunty Debbie.
You’re resting with our Lord till we all meet again.
April 13, 2023
April 13, 2023
Can't forget her forever, She inspired my zeal for my tract evangelism and I have printed and shared more than 5000 tracts since then.

Rest on Ma - you will be forever missed only this side of eternity, we will soon meet to part no more.

You are cherished.
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October 23, 2015

My dear Debbie,

A year has passed yet it feels like yesterday. Just like a year ago we find it hard to believe that we should be writing a tribute to you. Your passing right under our very eyes was difficult to fathom.

My family and I have shared precious quiet times together with you and frankly when the church asked us to declare which pastors we were comfortable with among the church clergy, we recorded without any hesitation “Bishop and Mrs. Debbie Antonza”. This bond did not grow overnight as I watched you and Pat share knowledge, share the word and build that trust in each other which developed into a strong bond of friendship. Our family really miss you dearly.

I personally admired that passion you had to see women and children live in a safe environment which I believe attracted you to Crews Projects Ltd and the membership of the International Association of Emergency Managers. The speed with which you acquired Emergency Management knowledge and skills and became a dependable resource person for the organization in less than one year was unbelievable considering your other commitments as the President of the Praise Women for all Nations.

You were a pillar to our Emergency Management Workshop team and when we were called upon to deliver our Emergency Management workshop series to the Nigerian Defence Academy this year, there was confusion in the house. We did not and could not find a replacement for you as a capable, willing and consistently available resource person for this unique service. The Crews Project Team misses and will continue to miss you in every program.

Death is inevitable but as humans we have asked “Why Debbie and why so soon?” Only God knows why and we cannot question his omniscience. We take comfort that when the trumpet sounds, we shall meet again. So my dear Debbie –Rest in Perfect Peace. Adieu our dear pastor, friend and able resource person.

MAJOR GENERAL MARTIN C. OSAHOR (RTD) FNSE CON CEM® AND MRS PATRICIA OSAHOR FOR OUR FAMILY AND THE CREWS PROJECTS LTD TEAM.

My Darling Debbie

October 13, 2015

It's been a year now since you left us and transited into glory, though it seems like yesterday.  It's been quite an eventful year to say the least. I miss you dearly my love. Words cannot describe the vacuum you left behind. All I can say is, his mercy has kept us.

Am grateful to God for giving us over 25 years of a fruitful and glorious relationship. I still remember the first day we met and how you swept me off my feet...such an intelligent and beautiful woman. You were sent from heaven for me. You brought so much to my life and I can truly say, you were heaven sent.

Thank you Lord for Debbie!

I can still see your smiles, your dogged determinations and your quiet way of doing things and achieving great result without drawing too much attention to yourself. You set a standard for us to emulate. All over the world as I visit places, they still remember how even with few words, you impacted their life's. What s beautiful spirit you had, always smiling, always loving, always caring.

Wish you were here, but heaven has recalled you to rest from your labours, and we submit to heavens will. I love you.


Bishop Calvin Antonza II, Husband and friend

Our standard, our star, our love and our reason to be great!

October 10, 2015

The first scripture that comes to my mind at the thought of you is Proverbs 31:29, which says “Many women do noble things but you surpass them all.”

I have so much that I would have loved to say to you. Firstly, I would like to say thank you for being the most amazing mother. You were strong, thoughtful, constant and warm. You made our lives easier; we could always talk to you about anything. You gave the best advice and always pointed out the best in every situation. You once asked us what your legacy to us would be, we answered saying “family,” and you added that you believed in others being rewarded for their endeavors. You never compromised on what was right.

You were so beautiful in so many ways and yet you were modest. No one ever knows how much time they have left on earth and you gave us all of yours. We are eternally grateful to you and while we are sad you are gone, we are so proud of how you lived.

You will be remembered as much more than a role model, you will be remembered as our standard, our star, our love and our reason to be great!

 

-Gladys Salamatu Antonza

For and on behalf of Gladys Antonza II, Rachel Antonza II and Imma Antonza II

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