This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Alfonza Stakley, MD, 74, born on November 5, 1939 and passed away on February 17, 2014. We will remember him forever.
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Leave a tributeBLESSINGS TO THE STAKELY FAMILY.. I hope this message finds you all safe and healthy.
I will always feel blessed because of my relationship with Doc and the comfort and well-being that our partnership has allow me to provide for my family.
His spirit still keeps me. I know I'll see his soon..
My uncle was a gentle and gracious man. I will always remember and appreciate his example.
He and his wife worked hard to pull everyone together and I am grateful they took advantage of the opportunity to connect everyone while it was possible.
I'll always remember Dr. Stakley, his friendlyness, we met years ago maybe 27 or 29, and he always treated me like a friend, I'll never forget the time he and his beautiful wife come to me house, just pick some real fresh collered greens I had in my garden, I try to get him to give me a phyical to see if everything I was doing was right, he would look at me and say, you don't need me, keep doing what your doing and you be allright, he would always shout this out to me. I believe this was his way of let me know he was & has pray for me to have long life, I'm now 83years old, I miss you" every Sun I look over and see you beautiful wife, and I see her strengh, she too misses you" she also know that your in God hands and she too will see you again. much love to your family. Bigmomma
Continued Blessing / Love
Stephanie Joseph
Thank you for sharing Dr. Stakley with us. He is one of the greatest examples of Christ that we have ever met. My wife Debra and I LOVED our visit's to his office. Most of which were not for medical purposes but because we enjoyed talking to him. He inspired us. He was like the Holy Spirit a comforter, counselor and friend. We miss him already.
We will continue to keep you family in our prayers. "What a wonderful God we have - He is the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the source of every mercy, and the one who so wonderfully comforts and strengthens us in our hardships and trails. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (TLB)
With Deepest Sympathy,
Jon and Debra
Our prayers are with Mrs Cynthia and the rest of his family.
Don and RoseMary Brown
My family and I are so grateful to have had Dr Stakley as our family Doctor, he has been both a Blessing and a Comfort to us, we will miss Him and his Ministry very much. You are in our prayers.
Even through I'm not there with you now I feel your strength.
He was my parent's (Gogo and Tua Vaimili) doctor.
It was his way of making them feel comfortable in every visit. His knowledge in medicine was awesome, but what stood out was his customer service, humility, sense of humor and especially his way of making elderly Samoan parents understand more about their health and what needs to be done to stay healthy. He will be dearly missed in the Samoan community...
Our prayer is that comfort will be upon the Stakley family during this difficult time. Also his awesome team and staff in his Carson office, stay strong as his legacy lives on through your work.
'Ia Manuia Lou Malaga Dr.Stakley'
Love Always,
The Vaimili's
I was so sorry to hear that Dr. Stakley had passed away. I am a fellow CCC member and Dr. Stakley’s patient. He was my doctor in the late 1990s and I returned to him in Jan. 2013. He was just as caring and compassionate as always. I could see he was dealing with some health challenge, but Dr. Stakley didn’t allow it to hinder him from caring for his patients. He would not rush you and he listened to you and took notes of what you said. I remember in the 90s, he had asked me why I didn’t come in and have a medical problem taken care of sooner? I was foolish for waiting and replied, “I work in Sun Valley and its hard taking time off from work.” The doctors after him didn’t follow-up on the recommendations of the specialists, so I returned to Dr. Stakley (never should have left). I am very grateful for having known Dr. Stakley as one of his patients. I will miss him.
My prayers go out for you and your family that our Heavenly Father’s love is comforting you in your loss. God truly heals the broken hearted. May He surround you with His lovingkindness and tender mercies. Its good news to know that when we are absent from the body, we are present with the Lord. And death has no victory over us in Christ Jesus.
Keeping you in my prayers
Your sister in Christ,
Lenora Drew
Blessings to the Stakley family during this very special time.
Mark Tarrant
Leave a Tribute
BLESSINGS TO THE STAKELY FAMILY.. I hope this message finds you all safe and healthy.
I will always feel blessed because of my relationship with Doc and the comfort and well-being that our partnership has allow me to provide for my family.
His spirit still keeps me. I know I'll see his soon..
A Special Mighty Man of God.
I got to know Dr. Stakley, through his wife Cynthia, we became friend at CCC, at which time she was the President of our women fellowship.I met Dr. Stakley at one of our womens retreat, he like Apostle Price, wanted to always be with his lovely wife, Cynthia. on different occasions I would ask him question about difference vitamins, the importance what to take so I could be healthy he would always tell me I don't know what your during, but what ever it is keep on during it" you don't need me.every time he see me a church, we would laugh out loud" I did let him know that I like vegetables and that I grew collard greens in my yard, would belive the next day they came over and pick a batch" WOW that was the kind of man he was, down to earth, He was most of my senior friends Medical Dr. He took care a lots of my friends just through prayer, like it was stated he was a prayer worror"he knew who was the healer.He had Wisdom, Knowlege,and a doer of God Words. Oh yes I miss seeing him, special on Sundays, I always would look across the roll and see them together. and now Cynthia still sit, but the other sit is not empty, she is surround with family and friends, my condolance go out to you Mrs. Stakley, Our God is awesome" and he'll take you though this, I promise, I'm going to share some of Mrs. Stakley photos of her back in the day" she was one of our greatest Presidents of our CCC womens Fellowship, alone with other presidents . God bless this family
BigMomma
A Friend, Doctor, Prayer Warrior
I met Dr. Stakley many years ago at Crenshaw Christian Center. I had the awesome opportunity to sit on the Executive Board with him. My family started going to see Dr. Stakley (affectionately called DOC) and found him to be a warm, caring physician who treated the whole person: spirit, soul and body. Doc was a family doctor -- and might I add that there aren't many of them left. He listened to you, prayed for you, and treated your illness. I know God heals and he uses the hands of man to do it. Doc allowed God to use him to treat his patients. He was also an example of Jesus with skin on because he connected with the patients, he showed genuine concern for us, he prayed for us, and he encouraged us. Then he would prescribe what we needed for the illness.
My husband was seeing Doc because of his heart condition, arthritis, and a battle with gout. I recall on one visit that Doc encouraged John and let him know that there are many that have worse cases of gout and their limbs are deformed because of it. He told my husband that he could get through his challenges with his heart and other illnesses by taking his meds, keeping his blood pressure in check and following Doc's simple orders. John highly respected Doc and I think sometimes just went over to the office just to get his opinion and prayer. He always felt lifted when he left Doc's office.
In September 2013 John had a stroke. I called Dr. StaKley and kept him informed of John's progress. When he was released from the nursing home, he went to Doc whenever he was not feeling quite right, and Doc was always there for him. Doc noticed that John was a little depressed, and he gentle and kindly ministered to him to lift his spirits and get him back on track.
We will truly miss the doctor, friend, encourager, and the prayer warrior that Doc was to us. We know he is rejoicing in Heaven because he has an opportunity to see Jesus face to face and he has rewards beyond what we can imagine.