The one thing I remember when I found out you had cancer, was saying "why you?"  I remember you saying "why not me?"  "I am no better than anyone else!"  You had the best outlook on your illness, and always put your trust and faith in God...saying, as the song goes, "I'm A Winner Either Way."   As with dad, knowing you are in Heaven and with dad helps me to cope....but I still find myself going through the house to tell you something, and realizing you are not there.  I miss you, mom!!    Love, Kathy