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     Fayetteville- Emerson Jean “Emmi” Barbaro,10, of 151 Ellerslie Dr., Fayetteville, NC died Thursday December 27, 2012, while sledding with her best friend and brother, Julian, and her two cousins, at their grandparents home in Dassel, MN. She is survived by her mother and father, Heather and Richard Barbaro; her 5 brothers:  Ryan of Dexter, Michigan (his wife, Devon and children Andrew, Dane, Mae, Nora); Justin of Fayetteville (his fiancée, Callie); Brandon of Chapel Hill; Colin of Chapel Hill (his fiancée, Lauren); and Julian of Fayetteville. She is also survived by her grandparents, Barb and Craig Kay of Dassel, MN; Great grandparents, Orval and Alice Lea of Rushford, MN; Aunt Pamela and Uncle Eric Sandstede of Dassel, MN; Aunt Carrie and Uncle Joel Harmala, and cousins Greta, Ryan, and Darby of Pequot Lakes, MN; Aunt Leah Kay of Duluth, MN (her friend Michael Clark); Aunt Jeanette Bratti of Wantaugh, NY; Aunt Kathy and Uncle Charles Prentice of Inverness, FL.

     Emmi only lived 10 short years, yet she touched the lives of many. She loved Jesus and she loved life! She woke up every day with a smile on her face and joy in her heart. She was a great soccer player for the Fayetteville Force; ran several 5K races; completed 2 triathlons; and loved to swim, tumble, and flip. She dreamed of competing in the Olympics one day; loved to sing; believed in Santa Claus; and savored the good in all people. She conquered her small world with luminous laughter and boundless energy. She was never ready for bed, but always the first one up to start a new day. There were few things that Emmi wasn’t truly good at. She welcomed any challenge with relentless determination. She was never afraid of defeat and win or lose, the result was always the same… a beaming smile from ear to ear. Her small frame carried a big personality and an even bigger heart.

     Unfortunately, a tragic accident ended her life here on this earth. She now sings and plays for Our Lord in Heaven. We miss her so very much!

     A celebration of life will be held at Manna Church (5117 Cliffdale Road, Fayetteville, NC 28314) on Wednesday, January 2, 2013, at 6p.m. preceded by visitation from, 4:30 p.m. until 5:30 p.m. at the same location. Visitation will also be held on Thursday night, January 3, 2013, at Jernigan-Warren Funeral Home from 6p.m. until 8 p.m.

    Emmi had been trying to raise money for the American Heart Association. She would attend Julian's basketball games with her own handmade sign in the lobby in hopes of raising money. She was going to Jump Rope for Heart at her school Fayetteville Academy. 
In the near future, we will be organizing an athletic event to honor Emmi.
We miss her terribly, but we know that we will see her again one day. 

March 17, 2023
March 17, 2023
Emmi was in my ❤️ as I participated in the Myrtle Beach Half marathon on March 4th. Every time I do this run I can feel her spirit with me. It lifts me up and reminds me how fortunate I was to have known her. She will always be in my heart!!
December 27, 2022
December 27, 2022
Emmi will always live in my heart. I ran to the bridge today in remembrance of her impact on my life and so many other people. I can't believe it's been 10 years. She will be forever missed but never forgotten.
October 14, 2021
October 14, 2021
Happy 19th Birthday, Emmi!
You are forever with us.
The Smiths
May 28, 2021
May 28, 2021
Today we planted a butterfly bush in front of the Lower School in order to commemorate Emmi. I wish she could be here to celebrate with us as we are just a week away from graduating, but I know she is here in spirit and watching over us all as we begin to make plans for college.
October 14, 2020
October 14, 2020
We welcomed you into this world 18 years ago today. My first little girl!
Man I loved being your dad. You taught me so much about life; most especially, you taught me to slow down, hold hands, and savor God’s precious gifts.
I write this birthday wish with tears streaming down my cheeks, missing all you would have become.
Today we would have had a big party. Celebrating young adulthood. You would be pondering college and your future dreams. Would you play college soccer?
Instead we celebrate the gift you were to all those of us you graced with your presence. I love you Emmi. Happy Birthday to my forever little princess.
August 21, 2020
August 21, 2020
This would have been the start of your senior year. With loving thoughts of you, I am so sad that we cannot watch what you would have become. I know you have already made a difference in the world. Even more so than most people who live way beyond the years of 10. Nonetheless, the sadness overwhelms me. Sadness for your family and simple grief which sometimes spills into joyful tears when I think of your smile, your laugh and your big heart. How did I get so lucky to be your grandmother? I am grateful and I know that you know that-- and are influencing me every day. Love you Emmi.
December 27, 2018
December 27, 2018
With time, the things that make me care seem to change
Tears and laughter often reverse their roles.
The world switches from big to small
depending on the uncertainties that surround us,
while comfort packs its bags and moves from place to place,
never leaving a forwarding address
But through the impermanence of people and feelings,
you stay, as warm and as forever
as children’s summer laughter.
YOU. REMAIN. A. PART. OF. MY. HEART.
the part that doesn’t get crushed
beneath the weight of time passing,
YOU’RE THE PART I GIVE THANKS FOR EVERYDAY!
December 27, 2017
December 27, 2017
May peace be with you and your family.

The Dickerson Family
December 27, 2017
December 27, 2017
Thinking of you, mom, dad, and Julian today and missing you sweet girl. We know you are having an amazing time in heaven but our hearts still hurt here. We all miss your smile and your hugs. We love your family so much and send up prayers for comfort. May your life's legacy live with us forever. All of our love xoxoxoxox  - The Smith Family
December 30, 2016
December 30, 2016
After learning about Emmi's story this morning, my husband and I made a donation to the American Heart Association in her name since it was a charity she herself supported. Emmi's beloved spirit lives on!  #Randomactofkindless for Emmi!
December 27, 2016
December 27, 2016
Missing your sweet smile and your contagious laugh. You made such a difference in this world. THE sweetest soul. You were one in a million Emmi
December 27, 2016
December 27, 2016
Praying for your family today.
Love, The Dickerson Family
December 27, 2016
December 27, 2016
Sweet girl, you are missed every day. Your family, friends, and people you never knew think of you and miss you.
December 27, 2015
December 27, 2015
Thinking of you today Emmi! I saw the Angels all over these Christmas and you are the sweetest of all.
December 27, 2015
December 27, 2015
Thinking about you today, sweet girl, Mom, Dad, Julian, and all your family. We miss you! We think about you all the time and know that heaven is amazing and you make it even brighter! You made our lives brighter too. Thank you for touching our hearts, you will always have a special place there. The Smiths
October 14, 2015
October 14, 2015
Emmi, you will always be a blessing to everyone you touched. Happy Heavenly Birthday.
October 4, 2015
October 4, 2015
I've been thinking about you a lot lately, Em, we weren't ever close after academy soccer but you forever held a spot in my heart, you were such a bright soul, we all miss you Emmi, hoping you're breaking ankles up there.
December 27, 2014
December 27, 2014
Thinking of you, today, Emmi and your mom, dad, Julian, and all your family. I still see your smile and your beautiful eyes and hear your duck calls on the bleachers at basketball games. I still see your cartwheels and feel your arms around me giving me the best hugs! I heard the song "Christmas in Heaven" by Sarah Schieber and it made me wonder what an amazing Christmas you must have had. I miss you sweet girl and you will always live in my heart!
December 27, 2014
December 27, 2014
Dear Sweet Emmi,

Oh how we miss you. The world is just not the same without your smile, your laugh, your hugs, and your bright light. Thank you for teaching us how to be better people through love and kindness. Thank you for being Joel's friend. He misses your more than he will ever admit out loud. Thank you for sending the snow to us in Omaha this morning - it is all Joel wanted. Please give your brothers, Mom, and Dad extra strength today. They have the most indescribable pain and only your love can ease it. Help us all continue your legacy of making the world a better place. We love you sweet girl. We'll eat some Creme Brûlée in your honor today.

Love,

The Billingsleys
December 27, 2014
December 27, 2014
Emmi, you are truly an angel and your presence is still very much a part of our lives. We miss your sweet smile and bubbly personality but we know you are charming the heavens with your beauty. We love you!!
October 15, 2014
October 15, 2014
Emmi, you would be very proud of your big brother, he is turning into a special young man and leader. Your parents are pretty cool too :-) Dance with Jesus for us all. We miss you. Happy Birthday
October 14, 2014
October 14, 2014
Happy Birthday, sweet Emmi! We know that God is using you for His Glory. You truly touched and enriched our lives!

With love, John, Edwina, Justin, and Jalen Bellamy.
October 14, 2014
October 14, 2014
Happy Birthday, Emmi! What a beautiful day it must be in heaven. I know it's an amazing party you're having, but I hope you know I'm thinking of you and missing you today and every day!
Lots and lots of hugs and kisses.
October 14, 2014
October 14, 2014
Happy Birthday Emmi from Joyce, Bobby, & Bryan Evans
May 29, 2014
May 29, 2014
Emmi i wish i got to know you better. Emma Brock and I are like best friends now and she tells me so many joyful stories about you. I loved having you on my soccer team and you were a beast at soccer. One day when we are old and i go up to heaven me you and emma will have to play soccer and hangout! I miss you so much
April 20, 2014
April 20, 2014
I am so grateful I got to meet Emmi. She really left in impact on my life. I miss her so dearly much, but at the same time I have comfort that she is doing well. I cant wait till the day I get to be on your soccer team! We will dominate! We will win that championship game together! Even though i didnt get to go to the academy with you that last year, that never stopped us from hanging out! I'd call you every weekend asking can Emmi hangout today? oh goodness. I miss hanging out with you so much. love you so much and Im proud to call you my true BEST FRIEND
December 28, 2013
December 28, 2013
Rich, Heather, and Julian-I do not know you well, but was blessed to meet Emmi just a few times at FA during last years BB season. Her energy in the concessions stand was contagious and so charming. Since her tragic accident I have learned so much more about Emmi and your wonderful family. She touched so many lives! Joe Dowd has done a lot of work for us in the past years and he shared with me several stories of Emmi and Julian...he loves your children! I just wanted to express my sympathy again to you all...you have endured one of the hardest years that a family can experience. I am sure that you had times you didn't want to get out of bed and face the day without her....but you did. Your smiles, your energy, your zeal for keeping Emmi's memory alive is an inspiration to everyone around you and I will continue to pray for each of you.
December 28, 2013
December 28, 2013
I never had the privilege to meet your precious girl Emmi. I can tell you I've only heard the most amazing things about her through a mutual friend Sarah Pollard. Just looking at her pictures makes me smile. Such a gorgeous young lady. May God bless your beautiful family!!
December 27, 2013
December 27, 2013
Thinking about, praying for the Barbaro family and remembering Emmi today. Coach McCarthy and I along with our boys and girls soccer teams remember Emmi with a prayer before every game and we will continue to do so. Emmi will never be forgotten! God Bless
December 27, 2013
December 27, 2013
Thinking of you on this day. I can't believe it's been a year.i miss you soooo much.i hate not seeing you everyday at soccer.im praying for the barbaro family and I know emmi is in good hands.god will take care of her and i know she's having fun in heaven.-Maiya parrous
December 26, 2013
December 26, 2013
Celtic Blessing

“She does not leave, she is not gone,
she looks upon us still.
She walks among the valleys now,
she strides upon the hill.

Her smile is in the summer sky,
her grace is in the breeze.
Her mem'ries whisper in the grass
her calm is in the trees.

Her light is in the winter snow,
her tears are in the rain.
Her merriment runs in the brook,
her laughter in the lane.

Her gentleness is in the flowers
her sigh in autumn leaves.
She does not leave, she is not gone,
'Tis only we that grieve.”
December 26, 2013
December 26, 2013
Heather, Rich, and Julian,
I wanted you to know that I am keeping all of you in my heart today. 
Emmi brought so may gifts into this world. She touched everyone who knew her. I cannot believe she has been gone for a year. I think of your family and Emmi so often, and although this day reminds me of her passing last year, it has also given me an opportunity to revisit some wonderful memories I have of her. I remember seeing Emmi at the Reindeer run last year and telling her how much I loved her costume. She flashed me a big, toothy grin and we giggled together. She always made me smile. 
--Sending you thoughts of peace and courage to all of you and lifting each of you up in prayer.
December 23, 2013
December 23, 2013
Hi Rich and Heather. We're going to "Run for Emmi" too. With love and support from Chapel Hill. Mitch, Heather, Tyler, Sophia and Logan
December 22, 2013
December 22, 2013
Yesterday was the annual Ryan's Reindeer Run. Emmi's favorite event. It is by far, the best family celebrated event held at Christmas time each year, honoring Ryan Kishbaugh. There were many runners wearing pink Emmi shirts, memorializing her and letting the Barbaro family know that Emmi has not been forgotten. It truly was heart warming to see and feel the support shown by so many fellow athletes . Can't thank you all enough
October 14, 2013
October 14, 2013
Happy birthday Emmi. I wish more than anything that I could give you a birthday hug and see that beautiful smile. Miss you each and every day.XXXXXXXXXXX
October 14, 2013
October 14, 2013
We think about her often. Never forgotten. Remains in our prayers.
May 22, 2013
May 22, 2013
Rich and Heather,
Great job yesterday at the academy. It was a lovely tribute to Emmi and your words were very touching. It was heart breaking to see her classmates so upset but it also shows how much they love and miss Emmi. People never forget kindness and Emmi was a walking bundle of kindness a gift she got from you two. Thanks for all you guys do !
May 21, 2013
May 21, 2013
Emmi would sit in the gymnasium lobby during each game trying to raise money for the American Heart Association. She was the kindest and most caring person that I have met. I will miss seeing her beautiful face each day and that amazing smile that lit up every person. Love you, Emmi. My thoughts and prayers are with you forever.
February 7, 2013
February 7, 2013
I didn't know Emmi very well, but she ALWAYS had a smile on her face, and every time I saw her, I remember thinking about how pretty she was, and how she would be even more beautiful when she gets older. My family and I send our thoughts and prayers to you during this difficult time, but I know that Emmi will always be with you every step of the way. Rest in peace & paradise, sweet girl!
January 31, 2013
January 31, 2013
To the family of Emmi:
Our hearts go out to you in you loss. Truly God has a new Angel to look over you,
Martha & Ned
January 28, 2013
January 28, 2013
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers each day.
Joe and Violet Dowd
January 19, 2013
January 19, 2013
I was on emmies soccer team she was an amazing player.she made me laugh and smile every time I saw her!our team will never be the same!emmie and mrs.heather mr.rich and Julian you will be in my prayers every night!im really sorry for your loss!every time I'm on the soccer field I will think of emmie and play my hardest!she touched many people just like me!-maiya
January 19, 2013
January 19, 2013
For the Barbaro Family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beatiful girl. I know she was an amazing person. She is missed and will always be! your family is in my prayers. She is a beautiful little angel now. She's in a better place now. Thank you Emmi for all the lives you touched.
January 18, 2013
January 18, 2013
You are so wonderful... Your daddy is such an amazing person, he is so blessed to have a daughter like you. Your mother is such a strong and incredible rock to your family. Keep blessing everyone with your amazing beauty. You have touched more souls than could ever be imagined. Stay sweet and tell Santa and Jesus we all say howdy !!
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March 17, 2023
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Emmi was in my ❤️ as I participated in the Myrtle Beach Half marathon on March 4th. Every time I do this run I can feel her spirit with me. It lifts me up and reminds me how fortunate I was to have known her. She will always be in my heart!!
December 27, 2022
December 27, 2022
Emmi will always live in my heart. I ran to the bridge today in remembrance of her impact on my life and so many other people. I can't believe it's been 10 years. She will be forever missed but never forgotten.
October 14, 2021
October 14, 2021
Happy 19th Birthday, Emmi!
You are forever with us.
The Smiths
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January 28
Good morning sweet Emmi
mom and I spent the night at the condo. I believe it was the earliest time of the year that I took the boat out. 70 degrees on January 27. I cruised down the waterway to Grand Dunes, then turned around slowly enjoying the beauty of the morning. The water was glass, no wind, and very little boat traffic. It was an exceptional morning, spent thinking of you and your love of the water. I miss you!

Easter Sunday

April 9, 2023
11 years ago, I got up early and hid eggs along the waterway at Myrtle Beach. You loved racing  around the lawn, looking for the egg laden treasures, trying to grab more eggs than your brother. I always enjoyed your enthusiasm and your unconditional belief in the good in people. You left this earth believing in the tooth fairy, Santa Clause, the Easter bunny, and most importantly in the Risen Lord. I love you today and forever. Your earthly presence continues to be felt in the little things; your absence hurts. You’d be approaching your 21st birthday, yet I’m sure your enthusiasm for Easter egg hunts and your faith in Our Lord would be profoundly felt. 
Happy Easter sweet Emm
 
December 27, 2022
It’s been 10 years without Emmi
It’s almost hard to believe. It’s not the way I ever intended for her life to be. I had so many hopes and dreams for her. As a parent, her future in my eyes was so full of wonderful things. It wasn’t for me to decide though. She was only 10. In her short life she brought so much joy. Her sense of humor, her contagious laugh, her kindness, her love for one another, her faith are some of the things I loved about her. She didn’t know the impact she had on others. Why did she have to leave us soon? It’s because it was time. Going down the road of trying to figure out why is not a good place to go. It will be a never ending road. You truly have to accept that now is not your time to know. One day we will all be together and understand. Death is not the end. It’s just the beginning. Our time here on earth is just, but a small moment of time. No where in the Bible does it say that we will be free from hurt and pain on earth. While we are here, we are to love one another. Live life with love, faith, grace and kindness. Love is hard. I gave birth to Emmi, but never did I think I would watch as she started her eternal life. That’s what love is. It’s every beautiful and painful emotion you can have for someone you love. We are to try and live the best way that Jesus taught us. We will fumble along the way, but we still need to try and get back up and give it another shot. We are ALL gifts from above. Each and every one of us. One day we will all meet our Father. When, is not a question that can be answered. 
There are no words to ever describe what it is like to lose a child. At times I feel as if I can not breathe. Yet, I know she would not want that. The love never ends. I know in my heart she is cheering us on. Loving us and guiding us along this path we are on. As she said on the day she left us, “This is the best day ever!” It was her best day ever. She met her Heavenly Father. What more could I ever want for my daughter? She received the greatest gift of all. Eternal life✝️
I love and miss you so much, Emmi 
Emerson “Emmi” Jean Barbaro
October 14, 2002-December 27, 2012

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