November 27, 2023
November 27, 2023
A big big HUG from me and all my family, thinking of all of you these days and through every year. Take good care of each other.
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November 26, 2023
November 26, 2023
Much much much love to all of Emma's dear friends and family today. It is very special to know that there are so many still coming together, cherishing and remembering the time we had with beautiful Emma. Hugs from Milan
November 25, 2023
November 25, 2023
Looking at universities today Emma - with Ben - so Lily must be considering them too. Where has the time gone? 7 years ….
Thinking of you and wonder what you would have made of it all xxxx
Thinking of you and wonder what you would have made of it all xxxx
November 25, 2023
November 25, 2023
Dear Emma, we all remember you so well from Sao Paulo to Mylor and I am always reminded of you when I look at the stone you gave me from the beach in Falmouth. We miss you and send much love from all the Flemings.
November 25, 2023
November 25, 2023
The sun was shining today. We walked and remembered you, as we often do. Thinking of all who loved you today, especially Eric and the children ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ x
November 25, 2023
November 25, 2023
Miss you so much Ems - the laughs, the tears, the silly dances, the hugs and of course the tea and cake! I hope you are enjoying the wonders of Heaven. Big hugs xxx Piggles xxx
November 25, 2023
November 25, 2023
Sending love to all xxxx
October 11, 2023
October 11, 2023
Happy birthday amazing Ems. Love you loads. Xxx
October 11, 2023
October 11, 2023
Barely a day goes by when I don't think about you and your four beautiful children. I often remember random conversations and parenting tips you shared. Last week I remembered the one about eye drops! I wish you were here still. You would be so proud of your amazing legacy. I saw Gigi collect her prize at Mayfield in the summer, and it was such a bittersweet moment. Sending love up to heaven for you, my beautiful friend xxxxx
October 11, 2023
October 11, 2023
Sending love and thoughts Emma xx
October 11, 2023
October 11, 2023
Sending so much love today xxx
October 11, 2023
October 11, 2023
Sending love to all who remember the lovely, loving, fun arty and sporty Emma, on the day of her birthday. Your legacy lives strong!
November 25, 2022
November 25, 2022
A big hug to all of you. Hoping everything is going well. Take care of yourselves.
November 25, 2022
November 25, 2022
Loving thoughts to all of you who miss Emma, especially BIG hugs to the whole Sandor tribe and to Sarah.
November 25, 2022
November 25, 2022
Sending so much love xxx
October 12, 2022
October 12, 2022
Happy Birthday Emma, and much love to your gorgeous family. I think about you often and carry you in my heart always xxx
October 11, 2022
October 11, 2022
Sending love to the Sandor tribe from Milan, Emma is in my heart: I miss her and I am thankful for all the years of our fun friendship all the way from 1987, love to you all
October 11, 2022
October 11, 2022
Happy birthday Emma - thinking of you xxx
October 11, 2022
October 11, 2022
Happy Birthday Cuz!!! We miss you everyday and always in our thoughts. Love you loads. Xxx
December 1, 2021
December 1, 2021
Dear Emma, I only want to tell you that I pray every day for you and your parents, and I always think, and I believe, that your soul will protect your family forever. I trust you will follow them step by step, especially in the most significant moments of their life; heartful hugs to you and your family.
November 25, 2021
November 25, 2021
Hugs to all of you who come together today remembering our dearest Emma. Special loving thoughts to Eric and Sarah, Samuel Columbus Lilly and Gigi. I will always miss my beautiful and fun friend, love from Milan
November 25, 2021
November 25, 2021
Thinking of you and your lovely family today Emma - sending love xx
October 12, 2021
October 12, 2021
Rememeberng dearest Emma this week. She regularly comes into my mind as do you Eric and your incredibly beautiful and inspiring family. I often wonder how our conversations would have gone around parenting and managing with the chaos of family life during these early years; her calm and confident, yet real manner helped through those early days of motherhood. I miss our interactions and hold dear those few precious 1:1 times we had. Her legacy lives on in your family and is a great testament to the beautiful tapestry God creates with all our lives. There is the Eternal, which I know she will be present in, and there is also the now which God uses all of us to colour and create. Exactly what He has done with Emma's life.
Blessings to you all moving forward xx
Blessings to you all moving forward xx
October 11, 2021
October 11, 2021
Dear Emma. I’ve had to take a minute to write something here, as had forgotten it is your birthday today. The minute taken was actually because I dreamt about you, Eric and the family last night; waking up this morning thinking, why did I dream about you all.... and now I know.
In the dream you were wearing white, (a white trouser suit) and you looked beautiful - I was helping you dress each child in “colour” - you told me that you wanted them to be happy, bright and seen...... Samuel wanted a knitted “rainbow” and I had to go and find the yarn.
Thank you for coming into my dreams on the Eve of your birthday. We all think about you so often.
All my love Emma and happy birthday
In the dream you were wearing white, (a white trouser suit) and you looked beautiful - I was helping you dress each child in “colour” - you told me that you wanted them to be happy, bright and seen...... Samuel wanted a knitted “rainbow” and I had to go and find the yarn.
Thank you for coming into my dreams on the Eve of your birthday. We all think about you so often.
All my love Emma and happy birthday
October 11, 2021
October 11, 2021
Really struggling to believe it’s five years since a warm birthday lunch for Emma with Naomi at Bewl.
Sending so much love to you and your young today Eric and remembering Emma with huge love xxx
Sending so much love to you and your young today Eric and remembering Emma with huge love xxx
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021
Hi Eric,
Sorry if we did not keep in touch before. It has been a very long and demanding time. We miss Giacomo a lot, at home and in the office.
Thanks for the books, we were delighted to receive them.
We hug you tightly and wish everyone a Happy and Blessed Easter.
Chiara, Zeno & Luca
Sorry if we did not keep in touch before. It has been a very long and demanding time. We miss Giacomo a lot, at home and in the office.
Thanks for the books, we were delighted to receive them.
We hug you tightly and wish everyone a Happy and Blessed Easter.
Chiara, Zeno & Luca
November 25, 2020
November 25, 2020
In this horrible year without hugs, l would like to send a warm hug to everyone who loved Emma, I also think about
her all the time. Vicky I don't know you but today, with your message, Emma's laughter became real again.thanks.happy thanksgiving.
her all the time. Vicky I don't know you but today, with your message, Emma's laughter became real again.thanks.happy thanksgiving.
November 25, 2020
November 25, 2020
Dear Emma, I believe your soul is always next to your family, the closest souls in your existence. I always pray for you.
A big hug.
A big hug.
November 25, 2020
November 25, 2020
Oh Dear Emma. Four whole years without you. I miss you. I wish you were here, in my moments of upset and stress and need, I do miss your presence and guidance and warmth and help. You were my mentor my church mummy, my saviour at times. I just can’t believe you’ve gone. I miss you so much everyday. SO SO much. Please look down upon me on occasion and guide me. I hope you’re having fun up there. Xxxx
November 25, 2020
November 25, 2020
Sending love to all of you today. Abixx
November 25, 2020
November 25, 2020
My darling Emma - as I’m sure you know, I think about you every single day. I know that you are there - looking on - but I do miss your wise words and laughter. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone who misses you. All my love xxx
November 25, 2020
November 25, 2020
4 years ago Emma... and never, ever forgotten. Thinking of you and your family today xxx
October 14, 2020
October 14, 2020
Our true essence, our soul, is eternal and immortal. The souls of our beloved ones are always close to us and we will meet them again in this life or another. A big and heartfelt hug to all of you.
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
Dearest Emma, I think of you often. Little things remind me if you all the time. Thick fluffy milk on a cappuccino and crispy croissants. Happy birthday to you. We all miss you a lot. You were such a ray of sunshine. Lots of love Sarah xxx
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
Thinking of you today Emma and know that your 50th birthday would have been the party of all parties xXxx Happy Birthday gorgeous girl x
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
A warm and heartfelt hug to all of you who are thinking about our gorgeous friend Emma today. Emma I have known you for 30 years, you appeared as a bright star in my childhood and you have been a loving and fun friend for so many years. Not growing old together really hurts. We lost our beautiful and beloved Giacomo to covid this year and no one could say good bye to him. I hope you two can hug and drink the best of wines together, as you would.
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
Happy fiftieth birthday Emma! I’ve been thinking about you a lot recently. And I miss you terribly. Keep shining bright up there. Xx
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
How time flies. Today would have been your fiftieth birthday! But you're in a place that is timeless; eternal; perpetual beauty, peace and joy and life and worship of the One who always brings hope. Thinking of and praying for your lovely family today especially.
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
Thinking of everyone today....Happy 50th Birthday Emma....I bet you are having the most wonderful party in Heaven xx
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
Happy 50th Birthday beautiful Ems! What amazing party it would of been. Love you loads. Xxx
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
Remembering Ems today: Happy Birthday gorgeous girl! You're 50th would have been so much fun! xxx
March 28, 2020
March 28, 2020
So many thoughts of you over these last few days and weeks Emma - conversations with Jackie about Restore, and having to postpone our annual walk in your memory due to this awful virus.
And wondering what your take on this situation would have been.
A lot of cooking for your family and as care-packages for others I imagine - I vividly remember the one you did for me in 2009.
And hunkering down with your family, enjoying the wonderful sunshine.
And calm.
And prayer.
Just very glad that you weren't mid-treatment in the midst of it all. xxx
And wondering what your take on this situation would have been.
A lot of cooking for your family and as care-packages for others I imagine - I vividly remember the one you did for me in 2009.
And hunkering down with your family, enjoying the wonderful sunshine.
And calm.
And prayer.
Just very glad that you weren't mid-treatment in the midst of it all. xxx
November 25, 2019
November 25, 2019
So, Emma, as you know I talked to you today..... before I was even aware that today marked the 3rd year of your passing.
I talked to you and asked you “what would you say to that?” ... (the situation I find myself in.)
And your answer came through.
Be happy Emily
Live and love for the moment.
And, as always Emma you are right.
We all think of you and miss you.
What a truly lovely lady you are ❤️
I talked to you and asked you “what would you say to that?” ... (the situation I find myself in.)
And your answer came through.
Be happy Emily
Live and love for the moment.
And, as always Emma you are right.
We all think of you and miss you.
What a truly lovely lady you are ❤️
November 25, 2019
November 25, 2019
Dear Emma, in all the times that I had the pleasure to meet you, only once I could see you cry, but it didn’t last much, because very soon you came back to smile and this episode made me think how strong you are, no matter which problems were bothering you, you always tried to face them and tried to think positive and overcome your fears. This is what I read from that episode and I believe you taught me, you taught us, to think positive and overcome our problems and obstacles, no matter what. So, thank you Emma for that precious lesson, thank you for your positivity, generosity and kindness, thank you.
November 25, 2019
November 25, 2019
3 years.....you’re always in my thoughts Emma and all the wonderful things you taught me and did for me. You always knew what to say and how to say it, and you were always there just when I needed you the most. I’m sure you’re watching your beautiful family grow from above. I miss you. Happy heaven birthday. Xxxxx
November 25, 2019
November 25, 2019
Love you loads Ems! Miss you everyday and always thinking of you. Will never forget how amazing you were. Xxx
November 25, 2019
November 25, 2019
Emma,
Can it really be three years? I am sure that you are up there with a smile, watching over Eric and your lovely children, family and friends.
Miss you very much, Frequently in our conversations, always in our thoughts, forever in our hearts.
x
Can it really be three years? I am sure that you are up there with a smile, watching over Eric and your lovely children, family and friends.
Miss you very much, Frequently in our conversations, always in our thoughts, forever in our hearts.
x
October 11, 2019
October 11, 2019
I think about Emma all the time, her friendship is a gift that I will always cherish. I take this opportunity to send out my love, all the way from Milan, to Sarah, to Eric and to all of you amazing kids
October 11, 2019
October 11, 2019
Thinking of you today Emma......there is always such an Emma shaped hole at so many, many events, meetings, church etc etc. Happy Birthday in Heaven.....I'm reading a book about Heaven at the moment - it sounds epic, hope you are having the most wonderful time! xxx
October 11, 2019
October 11, 2019
Thinking of you Emma as always xx
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November 27, 2023
November 27, 2023
A big big HUG from me and all my family, thinking of all of you these days and through every year. Take good care of each other.
November 26, 2023
November 26, 2023
Much much much love to all of Emma's dear friends and family today. It is very special to know that there are so many still coming together, cherishing and remembering the time we had with beautiful Emma. Hugs from Milan
November 25, 2023
November 25, 2023
Looking at universities today Emma - with Ben - so Lily must be considering them too. Where has the time gone? 7 years ….
Thinking of you and wonder what you would have made of it all xxxx
Thinking of you and wonder what you would have made of it all xxxx
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Emma's blog
July 5, 2017
by Eric Sandor
Emma wrote a blog with photos and commentary of some of our holidays in 2015 and 2016, which can be found here:
January 17, 2017
December 2006, Florida
I love this picture of Emma as it epitomizes her so well. So beautiful, stylish and elegant, even for a day at the park and making sure to have the essentials of a cappuccino & pastry!
Order of Service - Front Cover
December 21, 2016
by Eric Sandor
Attached is the front cover of the order of service from Emma's funeral. The subsequent pages and back cover follow below. You can browse through the pages by clicking on the front cover image and selecting "Next" from the image viewer.
Audio recordings of the speeches and the Entry, Exit, and Closing music are in the Gallery (Audio) section of this website.
The slideshow shown after Eric's speech can be seen here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZxolmKcBi5E&feature=em-upload_owner
The video of the entire service can been seen here:
https://youtu.be/jlsagMZxlPQ