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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Evelyn Harthcock, 94 years old, born on October 18, 1920, and passed away on September 18, 2015. We will remember her forever.
September 19, 2016
September 19, 2016
As I remember Evelyn as we mark the anniversary of her passing, I remember her kind heart and her love for talking with people and sharing her experiences. While I have many things she gave to me over the years, the one most precious is a beautiful set of napkins from Thailand - brightly colored and beautifully patterned. They set a beautiful table and remind me of her each time I use them. 

"Well done good and faithful servant!"
September 18, 2016
September 18, 2016
Time runs very fast, you have been leave me for one year. But your beautiful smile is in my heart for ever. When I saw the picture at my home, I still feel you are still close with me. I believe one day we will meet in the heaven, together, and forever.
September 30, 2015
September 30, 2015
The Harthcocks have been a special part of my families' life for many year - we were first blessed by their visit to Alaska where they stayed with me for several days and from that time on we grew to love and appreciate them.  Who would have through our path would pass again later in Southeast Asia - both in Thailand and in Malaysia where they helped teach two months in an intensive English class - what a blessing they were to both their students and to me personally.  When my parents came to visit Thailand we also were privileged to spend a day with the Harthcocks and were gain blessed by out time together.   They were always easily identifiable by their matching clothing as the walked hand in hand - their love for each other was inspiring.  And while Evelyn has left to be with her Saviour in heaven and will be sorely missed - it is comforting to know she is free of her suffering.   God bless you Gary as you continue on the journey - you are both such an inspiration to me and my parents.    My own father died on a mission trip to Southeast Asia and I truly believe that your example of never being too old to serve was something that inspired him to continue to come and serve so many times in Southeast Asia himself.   Love and prayers,   Rodney Duncan and Cynthia Duncan (mom)
September 28, 2015
September 28, 2015
Dear Gary and Evelyn,

You don’t know us - but we know you. We also live in Chiang Mai, and have known you from afar for awhile.

We have a great memory of you from one Sunday morning at The Gathering. This was when John Duncan were pastoring. John stood up in front of the church that Sunday morning, with you two - Gary & Evelyn - standing next to him. He was interviewing you.

I believe at that time, Gary, you were 90 or so. John was asking you about your lives, your work, your writings, etc.

Then, he asked you a final question, and we will never forget your answer.

John: And so, Gary, what’s next?

Gary: Well — our long-range plans are….. [at this point you were interrupted by the congregation’s outburst…]

John: Ninety years old and still has long range plans...

So classic. We love that about you - you’ve both given your lives to God to do with what He wants. You have never given up. What an example you have been to us.

We pray for you to have peace and contentment. May you trust God during this time and look forward to the long-range plans He has for you.

Love,
Mark and Fran Wakefield
September 26, 2015
September 26, 2015
Dear Gary,

The day we heard Evelyn went to be with our Lord I had a flood of memories of our times with you both. You have blessed our family in so many ways. The first time I remember meeting you 14 years ago what stuck in my mind was your matching clothes. It wasn't long before we saw the love you both of you had for all people and your desire to see all people know Jesus. You loved on our kids since they were 1 and 4 years old. The two things I remember Evelyn most for was 1) her fairy bags and thoughtful notes and 2) her ability to go into my kitchen and teach my helper how to serve things "just right" to make my table beautiful in our early days in Thailand. She was a woman that just always made you feel so special and had a knack of making things beautiful. I loved the way she always seem to make the most of every opportunity to help people and share the love of God. So grateful for all the Christmas Day meals we had with you through the years! We love you, Kim, Quintin, Kati and Nathaniel
September 24, 2015
September 24, 2015
First read about the Hartcocks in the Commission Magazine and hoped that someday I would get to meet them in person. Soon afterwards we met in Chaing Mai at the Empress Hotel during AGM. I helped them sell their items and we soon became forever friends. We spent many Sundays having lunch together after worship. Remember their welcome above the meeting place: Come to know Him better - Leave to make Him better known. Thanks Gary and Evenlyn for enriching my life by the example of your lives of love, generosity, and faithfulness. I am blessed for having known you both. Psalm 115:16 "Precious in the sight of the Lord is death of His saints." Precious indeed! Our eternal home awaits us as well. Until He comes...Lila
September 22, 2015
September 22, 2015
Dear Gary,

We heard of Evelyn's "home-going" and know that she will be missed by everyone but know that she is in the presence of the Lord. You both have been very faithful servants of the Lord and will be rewarded for it. Please know that you are in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers. You two have been, and are role models for us during the years. You're special to us! Romans 8: 35-39.

With Christian love and prayers,
Gerald and Brenda Burch
September 21, 2015
September 21, 2015
Gary,

We forever treasure singing the great hymns of faith with you and Evelyn; the laughter in your Ulaanbaatar apartment; the joy of starting the first church there alongside your leadership; the wisdom you speak into our lives; and your prayers that sustain us. We love you both. We appreciate your tireless service for the Lord. You inspire us!! We pray the Father's comfort for you in this long journey as you wait to stand with Evelyn once more singing our Father's praise alongside her.
M C
September 20, 2015
September 20, 2015
We wanted you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time and for the days, weeks, and years ahead. You both have always displayed the sacrificial service to Christ that we desire to follow with our own lives. Since coming to East Asia in 2007, we have used your materials (A True Story) continuously to share HIStory with all that the Father has brought into our lives. Thank your for this wonderful resource and the example you have been and will continue to be for us personally and for our ministry. May Father continue to use you, Gary, to bless many in Thailand.  The Clarks
September 20, 2015
September 20, 2015
"Auntie" as I knew her was one of the most special persons I have ever met. She was so kind, thoughtful and loving and she enjoyed sharing with others her activities around the globe. She was always thinking...always planing what to do next to help someone and to spread the gospel. She was an inspiration to me and when I look around my home and see many reminders of her - gifts she gave me over the years - I am so thankful that she shared herself with me! I pray now for Uncle Gary for I know he will miss her terribly. Much love, Joan and John
September 20, 2015
September 20, 2015
Dear Gary,
We are very saddened to hear of Evelyn's passing, but one thing is for certain-heaven is now an even sweeter place. Just being in her presence was an honor and a privilege.
Your love for each other and all people everywhere, your lives of selfless service, your generosity, and your passion for sharing the gospel serve as an inspiration to us all.
We pray God will continue to strengthen you and bring you comfort, joy, peace, and purpose each moment of every day.
Sending you a long-distance hug and love all the way from Colerain,
Charles & Leah Newsome
September 20, 2015
September 20, 2015
Heaven rejoices at the presence of our beloved friend, Evelyn Harthcock, after a lifetime of preparing for this journey to her eternal home. My late husband, Jim, and I enjoyed several years as neighbors with Gary and Evelyn with blessings untold and tremendous fellowship. Often they were helping us or we were helping them in preparing for and receiving guests, students, other company personnel and especially international visitors who frequented their home. Only God can know of the tremendous impact of their many books, each using their special skills in the finished books they shared. Their editions have been and are vital to help nationals of many different countries become more fluent in English and, more importantly, to find "the way, the truth, and THE LIFE." I personally have used their books for years while serving in international missions and when stateside. Mine and Jim's lives were spiritually enriched as we served God through the love of and ministry with Gary and Evelyn.

Gwen Allen
September 20, 2015
September 20, 2015
Dear Gary

Our loss is heaven's gain. We feel sad for missing our dear sister but we rejoice at the hope of seeing her again in heaven. May the Lord bless and comfort you at this time.
Much love
Aileen, Perry and family
(Australia)
September 20, 2015
September 20, 2015
Dear Gary,
Evelyn has entered into her reward, the arms of her Savior she loved and served for so long. You both are such and inspiration to us. May His love and strength sustain you until you meet again.
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
I met Gary and Evelyn in 2005 in Chengdu. It has been ten years since we know each other. We have many good memories and Evelyn likes to smile and talk .I feel I can talk to them freely. Something I can not share with my parents but I can share with Gary and Evelyn. They are not only my friends but also my parents, my spiritual guide. She will be always in my heart and we will meet in the heaven one day. I love you , mom !
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Gary:
thank you for being a part of my life, and my church, Central Baptist of Melbourne. Thanks you for helping Central in its ministry with other groups. Thank you for visiting with Evelyn in my home, sharing my breakfast, and my life. Harry Sauter
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Gary:
John and I have been so very grateful for our friendship with you and Evelyn. I am happy to think that John was one of so many there in heaven to welcome her home. I know they are rejoicing together, and that brings me great comfort. With love and prayers from Jennifer Duncan
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Gary and Evelyn were a blessing and light to so many. Even thought I did not know her/ them personally, I often heard of and were aware of there good work and sharing of the Gospel in so many places through their long life and journey together. God's continued peace and blessing on Gary.
  Hal with Brenda,
  The Hostetlers of Panama, Bahamas, Trinidad, and other places.
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
I am so sorry to hear about Evelyn's condition.

        She and Gary were such a blessing to me when I was in Thailand. I lived two floors down from their apartment in the same building.

        I had the privilege of go up to their apartment and fixing their computer. During that time I got to know them quite well as good people, good Christians and most of all Gods servants.
        As anyone who knows them, they love to take people under their wing and get to know them.

        I have and will continue to pray for them both and the family.

        Love them both and may God Bless and Keep us all during this time.


Paul Swaffer
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Evelyn Harthcock
Gary, my now deceased wife Betty and I first met you and Evelyn in Liberia in early 1986. We had just arrived and were waiting to get housing in Grand Cape Mount County. We were trying to take every opportunity to work with others to get a feel of what ministry was like in Liberia.
We went with the two of you out to a rural school near Ricks Institute where you were teaching school children. This was our first missionary experience in Liberia and we always cherished it.
Because we were located in a remote village, we did not have the opportunity to get to know you very well but from time to time got to visit with you. 
In the years that followed, we kept hearing about different places in the world where you went to serve. We were amazed at your continued service, and prayed for you from time to time.
From experience, I know how hard it is to lose one with whom you have loved, lived, and worked with so many years. I also know that God does not forget about us and through the Holy Spirit brings healing after a loss.
Gene, my wife of 7+ years, and I will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers both for the emotional distress and for your physical wellbeing.
Your brother and sister in Christ,
Cliff and Gene Hobbs
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
I had the privilege of living with and getting to know Evelyn and Gary in Cambodia while I was a Journeyman. They were so faithful to be patient with a young independent girl of 23. They were like my parents there and I took so many lessons from their love for the Lord and an example of complete surrender to His will from them. Evelyn was faithful to have breakfast for me everyday. She let me fix her hair, taught me how to make homemade pimento cheese, spaghetti sauce, and who could forget her famous yeast rolls! I had no idea the gift that was being given to me at that time. Gary was always teaching me about horticulture and Orchids. He could grow some of the most beautiful flowers. His ever present smile and gentleness and patience was so evident in every situation. They were so inspiring to watch as they wholeheartedly work with the monks at the local wat and became parental figures to them.
It was a true blessing and an honor to have been able to serve along side both of these two amazing friends.

Sincerely,
Cindy Dill Gilreath
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
My mom, Lila Cox, and the Harthcocks are dear friends and she introduced me to them while visiting in Thailand. Gary and Evelyn were the highlight of any day you spent with them. We visited the orphanage outside of Chiang Mai and watch them faithfully witness and share the love of Christ. Visiting the dormitory (again in Chiang Mai) and Gary relaying the honor bestowed upon them, only confirmed their impact on the lives of all they came in contact with.

Even while Evelyn has been so ill, Gary is overseeing a printing project to have the 7 I AM booklets printed in Polish. Another evidence of the great work and legacy of this precious couple.

I am blessed to know them and call them friends.

With all my love,
Sue Schultz
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
I have read Garys letters and they have touched me so. GARY an Evelyn Im praying for you and have been. What a blessed life you have had with one another. Cheryl Kirk Antigua
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
To Friends of Evelyn Harthcock,

It is not an accident or a surprise that Evelyn passed over to be with the Lord from a hospital in Thailand. When the Harthcocks sold their Florida business at age 55 and headed overseas, it was to enter a new phase of whole life service to their Master.  They chose to live out every day the Lord gave them serving as missionaries and investing in the people they love. They could have gone back to the US, but chose to plant themselves in Thailand. Their love and witness to the hospital staff in Chiang Mai meant that Evelyn really was at home with her family for her last months. 

Gary and Evelyn served well in a number of countries, but our knowledge is based primarily on their work in Southeast Asia. At a time when IMB work in Cambodia was still new, the Harthcocks contributed some extremely valuable treasures to the work. Of course, for all that have been touched by them, there were the warm relationships with both colleagues and local people that characterized their lives overseas. How could anyone not feel part of a team, even a family, if Gary and Evelyn were involved?  They cared for each adult and each child and their warmth impacted all who worked with them. The second contribution was perhaps even more valuable. Gary and Evelyn pushed through myths about what was an acceptable approach to evangelism. They did not speak the local language and sometimes ignored cultural mores, but they loved people and loved them enough to tell them about Jesus. They did not invent storying, but their English language Bible stories have communicated the good news to thousands of people. Gary and Evelyn showed us that monks can be some of the most open people in a Buddhist country. In other words, they quietly and graciously pioneered new paths that others tread today.

We will pray for Gary as he grieves the loss of his best friend. We will carry the memory of Evelyn’s smile, joy, and commitment everywhere we go. 

Don and Anne Dent
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
I was blessed to know and work with Evelyn and Gary when they were serving in Antigua. They both made such a positive impression me that throughout my career and into retirement I virtually always used them , when I spoke about missions in churches, as examples of extraordinary missionaries. Both of them influenced me in ways unseen by them, but were significant to me.
I thank God for their influence on my mission service and my spiritual life.
Mickey Searcy
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
I could list many things relative to Gary and Evelyn and their service while they lived here in Melbourne, FL.

Three things stand out. 

1. At times, Gary attended the SS class that I taught and many times added great comments and spiritual blessings to the discussions.

2, Gary and Evelyn spent the night at my home on occasion, and Evelyn always complemented me on my breakfasts, which she said were great Sousthern breakfasts.

3. Gary, i believe, helped start the Korean church which was one of our plants.

We loved them here at Central Bapist in Melbourne, and will always have fond memories.

Harry Sauter
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Our Dear Evelyn,

You have truly been a light from God in the lives of so many folks in many places throughout the world during your lifetime! We just want to tell you that we love you very much and are thankful for the ministries you and Gary have performed.

We remember first meeting you all in Antigua and you invited us into your home where we enjoyed a delicious meal. What a great cook and wonderful hostess!. We realized then, as so many have, what a wonderful couple you all are!

After we left Guyana, you all went there and ministered for a good period of time and were fondly remembered by the Guyanese people. We later saw you in Thailand, where you were in a mission meeting not far from where we were in a meeting with others from China being held in Ching Mai. We remember that Gary invited us to consider coming to Thailand after our time in China and serving along with you all. We missed many blessings along the way by not being able to do that.

Surely a crown of righteousness awaits you in Glory with our Lord Jesus. We will soon join you at the great Banquet Table.

Thank you for the life you have lived for our LORD!

Charles and Mary Love
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
To my dearest Uncle Gary,
You may not remember me. My name is Sarah Rohde. I was the only missionary Kid (MK) in Guyana South America, where you served. I know it was one of many places God has sent you and Evelyn to serve and be used for His purpose. You and Evelyn touched my heart and life in such a great way. I learned by watching you what a surrendered life of service to our God looks like and the joy it brings. You both were family to me. I am honored to have been a part of your life of faith and witness the love you have for each other in faith and be challenged by you to step out from the ordinary.

I will always remember the surprise high school graduation that the mission set up for me in 1995 and your role in it. I still have the poem you wrote for me called "higher education" . I read it often and smile when I am reminded of you and Evelyn. ( I attached a picture if it)

May the sovereign God of all comfort be with you. May He be glorified in your pure love for Evelyn in these final days and use your example of sacrificial love to change the hearts of many, like He has done in the past. Your emails and updates have warmed my heart and increased my knowledge and understanding of God, of faith and of true love between a husband and a wife.

May God hold you and keep you ever strong and surround you with people to love you, and care for you as you have so faithfully and selflessly done for others

Love
Sarah Rohde (daughter of Paul and Janet Rohde missionaries to Guyana South America )
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Gary & Evelyn,

Although we have never met either of you, we feel we have a kindred spirit with the two of you through Jesus Christ our Lord & Savior. We met you both through reading Gary's book "His Eye His Hand". Chele Caughron, our dearest friend, whom we know personally, gave Mary a copy of the book in 2006 and after reading it, we feel we do know you and Evelyn. Chele has kept us updated for some time on your situation and then we got on Gary's email list and have been getting updates on Evelyn's condition. Our church, Maple Grove Baptist in Maryville, Tennessee have you both on our Prayer List. Your emails are so encouraging as you are facing and preparing for Evelyn's departure to her "New Home". Gary, you have touched so many lives with your amazing strength and dependence on our Almighty God. His grace is sufficient for our every need and you have proven that to so many.

God Bless You both and we pray God's peace will continue to surround you.

Mac & Mary McCain
Maryville, Tennessee USA
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
, I have known Gary and Everlyn since I was a small boy probably 65 years ago. We were in the same church and Gary and my father did church work together. When I was about 9 years old I admired a New Testament he had. He said if I would read it he would give it to me. I said I would. He gave it to me and I read it. I still have it! I remember him ad Evelyn as a sweet and gentile couple who loved the Lord and wanted to serve him, which they did, of course, and I have been amazed at the longevity of their service and their desire to keep at it for life. Gary said he would retire when the devil retired. May God bless both of them richly and lovingly at this point in life. We love you, Gary and Evelyn. Rejoicing in the Lord, Tom Adcox
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
I had the great honor of serving, for a short time, with Gary and Evelyn in Guyana,
South America. They were always so positive in any situation and sincerely
loved everyone unconditionally. I praise the Lord for missionaries that have served
in so many places, under so many types of situations, and are willing to encourage
other missionaries, as they ministered to the nationals. God bless each "seed"
planted and I know they will have much fruit for their efforts.
I pray that these last days will be filled with the peace and comfort of the Lord
Jesus Christ.
Love and Prayers,
Rita Roberts
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Bette and I met Gary and Evelyn during their brief time in Guyana. It was long enough to appreciate their Christian character and amazing ENERGY. They were a real blessing to us.

Warren and Bette Rice
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
My name is Abraham Kamara from Liberia. But I am currently a U.S Naturalize Citizen living in Chicago. I am one of the Harthcocks spiritual sons. They are my role model and mentor. I learned to live independently from the Harthcocks. They treated me like their son. In fact, they wrote about me in the book called “Help Me Small.” They name the story title inside the book as Courage To Change. I remembered Evelyn introducing me to her guest and saying “Gary loves him very much.” I wished to attend her memorial service; but due to financial constraint I will not be present. Please share this scripture with her in 2Corinthians 12:8-9, Paul said three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. I wished Evelyn a perpetual rest in the Lord. For Gary, the Lord is carrying him on his shoulder and will continue to give him the support to overcome this health storms as the Foot Print tract writer wrote(Isaiah 43:2).

In Christ,
Abraham Kamara
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
We remember Evelyn and Gary from their visit to help us landscape the yard of our newly constructed mission house in Guadeloupe, French West Indies. The year was about 1977or1978. They were a delight to have in our home. We were so at ease together. I remember having made a plate of chocolate fudge for their visit.

I noticed that as Evelyn and I prepared for the evening meal and were bustling about from kitchen to dining room setting the table, putting serving dishes on the table, etc., that Evelyn snatched a piece of chocolate on many of her passes to and fro. Finally she said to me, “Florence, please put that candy away. I am a chocoholic. It is so good and
I haven’t enough will power.” 


We have followed with great joy the ministry of this great couple. Their lives have truly blessed so many and
honored our Lord. Love until we meet at the Throne.

Florence and Wayne Frederick
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Dear Gary and Evelyn,

You have been such an encouragement to our family and a picture of perseverance.  We love that you say you won’t retire until the devil does.   What a sweet example you are of joy and peace to each other and those around you!   Thank you for your steadfast love of the Lord!

Charlie, Ann, and Abby Bone
  And our married daughters:  Ruth and Ellen
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
We met Gary and Evelyn when we transferred from Central to South Asia, but our team was, at that time, based out of Chiang Mai, Thailand, where we met these wonderful people. We lived in PT Place, down the hall from Gary and Evelyn. Other than our teammates, Gary and Evelyn were the first people we met. Their love of people and wonderful sense of hospitality were felt by everyone who knows them. Almost immediately they invited us to go to dinner with them, and many times we were able to share a meal with them, hearing of the wonderful ways God uses them in ministry. They, of course, share freely of the materials they were writing to use the Bible stories in easy English for many peoples around the world. We continue to be amazed at the many nations who have been touched by this precious couple. They are a joy to know and we look forward to the day when we might have a more complete story of all they have done and all the lives they have led to the Lord. We marvel at their stamina and willingness to do all for the Glory of God and the spread of His Kingdom.

Every Knee, Every Nation,
Marvella & Glen Thompson
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
I know many people have a special connection to Gary and Evelyn
Harthcock, but I can truly say that I wouldn't have been given the
gift of life without them. You see, it was Gary and Evelyn who took,
some might say rescued, my mother from her home country of Guatemala
and brought her to the U.S. at the age of 17, 10 years after losing
her biological parents. If it wasn't for their kindness to take her
in, teach her English and southern etiquette that we all know Evelyn
was passionate about, my mother would have never met my father, and
they wouldn't have the 40 years of happiness they have spent together.
Furthermore, I wouldn't be the person I am today, for it was those
early mornings my parents loaded my sister and me in the car to see
Grandmami and Grandpapi in Florida to celebrate the birth of Jesus
that Evelyn would bake a cake for each year; the numerous hand written
letters I would receive from faraway lands that they bravely traveled
to reminding me to have faith in Him; or the two hour lesson on how to
set the table - all of which I'm infinitely grateful for. Today,
because of my grandparents, I have faith in the Lord, for he gave me
life, and an amazing family, and a grandmother who always showed the
power of kindness over fear and taught me to be polite while
appreciating the diversity of the world. That is how I will always
remember Evelyn Harthcock...a mother to many.

Love you always Grandmami,
Catie
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Dearest Gary and Evelyn,
We first met when we both lived at PT Place in 2000. We were on the 2nd floor and you were on the 5th floor. A few times we got to take you to church in the hotel as we had a car and you did not. You both showed us the Galae Restaurant the first time we went there. It was delightful and we shared it with others as they came to town. I do have pictures of you both through the years in your 80's and we got to be at the Ribbon cutting of the Harthcock House for Grace International School. We have had the privilege of knowing a student at GIS that lived at the Harthcock house whose parents were in S Asia. We came back to the US in 2002 and returned at the end of 2003 back to PT Place. This time we were on the 3rd floor and you were still in the same place on the 5th floor. You introduced us to Khun Gai who was working at the hospital where you are now. Later she went to work someplace else, but we loved her as well. Khun Gai was a precious friend.

I loved being able to take cassettes and then CD's to have copies made for you and other materials to help in your ministry. You were always so sweet and thoughtful. I loved running up the stairs to check on you and seeing you arrive by song than as I walked under our apartment building in the evenings.

I must tell you that the two of you gave us the most memorable evening in Chiang Mai. First you invited us to dinner as we were returning to US in March of 2006. You did not say where, just you wanted us to come to dinner. You took us to the hotel across the street, had flowers placed on the table, name cards as to where to sit, offered us the most expensive dinner on the menu, had a man lined up to come play the violin as we dined, and wrote us a poem that is framed and hanging on our bedroom wall today.

Thank you for being the sweet servants that God called out and you responded to many places in the world. You and my friends Buck and Pam Rusher and Martha Taylor met in Mongolia and they are friends of ours as well. I love the spoon licking stories. Thank you for loving the monks and sharing Jesus with them. We love you and you both hold a dear place in our hearts.

JOY,
Sharon and Robert Barber
Knoxville, TN
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Dearest Gary and Evelyn,

What a beautiful testimony both of your lives have been to the LORD JESUS...whom you still serve so faithfully. As Gary stated some years back, "When the devil retires - so will I." COUNTLESS ONES around the world are so blessed because you have remained faithful to the calling HE PLACED UPON YOU BOTH and never considered retirement an option. ONLY heaven will account for the lives that will offer a deeply grateful... "Thanks for giving to the Lord - I am a life that was/is/will be changed."

When Buck and I arrived on our first of 3 volunteer visits to Ulaanbaatar, Mongolia in September 1993, we were SO BLESSED to have been given a room in the same "hotel" as the Harthcocks. Besides going with them to church and meeting several women for me to visit during the week, they literally fed us breakfast everyday for most of the month we were there. While Gary and Evelyn taught Medical English to doctors and Buck worked at 1st State Hospital , I would take my small calculator and tugrigs [ like Monoply money} and walk all over "UB" trying to find a loaf of bread, some eggs, some butter, some "sausage" and perhaps a small jar of jelly. What fun we had preparing breakfast, praying over the day to follow and enjoying whatever HE provided. A tradition developed during clean up - "Spoon licking" and thus an exclusive club was formed by the 4 of us! The memorial you sent me when Buck went "HOME" in 2010 is a treasure still!!!

I can honestly say - " Gary and Evelyn...your lifestyle and verbal witness - your "unoffical mentoring" of Buck and me strongly influenced our call to serve the Lord in Mongolia until this day!!!' I remember during your years in Cambodia that Evelyn's hugs and birthday cakes revealed HIS LIMITLESS LOVE to some Buddhist monks that chose to de-robe and surrender their lives to Jesus as Savior and Lord. To HIM be all the Glory. 

We were only able to visit you once in ChaingMai, but of course you treated us to an amazing cultural outing and wonderful dinner!!!  Gary, as you have continued to so lovingly care for Evelyn and keep us informed , thank you my brother. Your "challenge" to memorize , meditate on and speak scripture as an encouragement to others is challenging me!!! Our actual days together were really very few during a 22 year friendship, but the impact you and Evelyn are STILL having upon me is DEEP and ONGOING.

Until we all meet again IN HIS PRESENCE, may HIS PEACE be your comfort and HIS JOY be your strength.
TA HOER ...MASH IX HAIRTAI SHUUUU, [much love to you both]
Pam Rusher
Psalm 13:5-6
[Jonesboro, Arkansas]
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
In honor of Evelyn Harthcock from Frances Reese

I remember what a blessing Evelyn was to me as Young mother of four, as she taught our ladies Sunday School class. She was a loving caring person to all. She was always helping others. She and Gary, in Christian love, brought young Carmen from Guatemala to the states so she could complete her education. Carmen was living with an aunt after both her parents died. As her aunt had many children of her own, it would have been a hardship for her to pay cost to allow Carmen an education after the seventh grade, so that was impossible in that country. They offer to bring her to the U.S. On a student visa to supply that need and let her live with them there in Hendersonville, North Carolina. As Carmen did not speak English at that time, and Evelyn was a school teacher, Evelyn taught her this new language. Evelyn became as a real mother to Carmen.

The last year of Carmen's visa came and the Harthcocks were finally offered their dream to be missionaries in the Virgin Isles. One problem was there was not a school there for Carmen to continue her education. They again saw to her needs by contacting my husband and I about caring for her, so she could finish that education in the US. What a gift they gave us to have this sweet young lady join our family for a time. We treasured her as one of our own, thanks to them.

Evelyn always shared their mission experiences over the years wherever they were. We knew first hand how God seemed to open doors for them to share the gospel. What a life of loving and sharing through the years and s great role model for all whose lives she touched.
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Dear Gary and Evelyn,
   We are so honored to have you as a brother and sister in Christ, as well as mentors for us. We have always seen the love of Jesus expressed through the lives of both of you. You two have worked so very well together as a team, and we remember many times your wearing matching outfits together in Chiang Mai. That reminded us of the unity you have as a couple and the unity in the Body of Christ.
   We have many fond memories of fellowship times together in Chiang Mai. You always called us when we were on our "down time" from the teaching route with LEAD and either invited us to your home or to a local restaurant for a meal. When visiting your home at PT Place, we were impressed with seeing many "stacks" of English Bible materials you had written and were preparing for basically free mailouts to many areas and countries. It was exciting to listen to many testimonies of how God was working in so many lives around you. We both felt that you never met a stranger. One time visiting in your home, we remember seeing a large picture that reminded us of a mural with the both of you in the center surrounded by an enormous crowd of Buddhist monks dressed in bright orange robes. You two had a wonderful relationship with the monks and had opportunities to teach them English Bible while you were in Cambodia for ministry. God has used you both as a funnel of his love to those about you. Your trip to visit us in Myanmar was a special blessing to us and to those who met you. Even as we traveled to the southern part of Myanmar to see Ann Judson's grave, you never stopped seeking ways to share Jesus wherever you went.
   You both have been our "role models" in exemplifying the walk toward Christlikeness. We have appreciated your hospitality on many occassions and especially your love and prayers on our behalf. In your desire to spread the Gospel as far as the mountains of Tibet, you followed the Lord's leadership, and the Lord sent a young Tibetan to you; later, the new believer took the Gospel back to the mountains of Tibet. What a testimony!
   May the Lord continue to bless you both as you walk through the days ahead. Jesus will reward you both and say, "Well done, thou good and faithful servants." In the days ahead remember the following verses of promise:
Isaiah 43: 1b-3
1b "Fear not, for I have redeemed you;
I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
2  When you pass through the waters, I will
be with you; and when you pass through the
rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you
walk through the fire, you will not be burned;
the flames will not set you ablaze. 3 For I am
the LORD your God, the Holy One of Israel,
your Savior." (NIV) Bible
With our love, hugs, and prayers--Until we meet again.....
Gerald and Brenda Burch (IMB Emeritus Missionaries to Japan, South
and Southeast Asia
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Such precious memories of Evelyn and Gary from Voinjama, Liberia.
We enjoyed going to Aunt Dee's on Tuesday for their Potato greens and rice. This was the big event of the week for us, as Aunt Dee's was the only restaurant in town. We would take our pots there and fill them up and bring them to our house and enjoy our meal together. It didn't take much to entertain us.

And then, there were the perms and haircuts--the perms for Evelyn, of course. Gary got the haircuts.

They were both such encouragers and certainly were the epitome of "Positive Attitides".

We celebrated Evelyn's last birthday in Liberia by putting balloons on their car and then, going to Aunt Dee's for our "traditional" potato greens and rice". Precious memories.

We look forward to our reunion in Heaven with Evelyn. 

Our love and blessings to Gary,
Kenneth and Joyce Nicholson
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Dear Brother Gary,

Denise and I join our prayers with the many now praying for you and Evelyn. We remember very fondly our time of serving the Lord together in Antigua, Leeward islands and the many lives touched with your selfless service. The Medical and Dental Clinics, the Agricultural Project, your good support of the ministry at the Central Baptist Church where I was pastor at the time, are all remembered with much gratefulness. May you find the Peace and Comfort and Presence of our Lord Jesus Christ to be very real to you and Evelyn - always!

Lambert & Denise Mills
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Dear Gary,

God blessed me through you and Evelyn when you served in Liberia several years ago. It was special to watch the two of you serve so selflessly and lovingly in Zwedru. The GA and RA camp staffs and I passed through Zwedru one day, headed down to Harper for GA / RA camps. You and Evelyn hosted us in your home ... served a delicious meal to all 6 of us ... let us rest a while before continuing the drive ... encouraged us with some of your personal stories ... and sent us off with a blessing and prayer for the journey ahead of us.

I admire how you and Evelyn have served so faithfully all these years. Thank you for showing all of us how to live for the Lord and serve others in His name. You have done it so well. You continue doing it so well. 

With all my heart, I believe there will be many, many people in heaven who came to know Christ through your faithful sharing and loving in the name of Jesus. Amen!!

God bless and keep you in His constant care!

With love and gratitude,

Debbie Moore
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Tommy and I have great memories of Evelyn and Gary. When we moved to Chiang Mai, Gary and Evelyn took us under their wing and taught us to love the Thai people. They showed us how to witness at monk chat and to witness using their simple English books.( I have used them here in Little Rock for ESL.) each July Gary celebrated his birthday at our house. Tommy and I enjoyed working with them, sharing meals, and just hanging out together which always turned into a learning session for Tommy and me.
We love Evelyn and Gary and look forward to enjoying Eternity with them.
Blessings in Abundance,
Beverly Mays
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
A Tribute To: Gary and Evelyn Harthcock

                    by
               Lester and Fonda Boyd

We would like to pay tribute to two very faithful Christians whom we have known since 1964.
Lester first meet Gary in his first Evangelism class at Fruitland Baptist Bible Institute he was his Professor. The next year Gary became the director of the school and became Fonda's boss. Fonda was manager of the bookstore and a snack place called the Duck In.

As Director of the school Gary and Evelyn were good role models and mentors for us. After graduation (1967) the next time we were together was on the mission field in 1976. As fellow missionaries in the Leeward Island Baptist Mission, we worked together on projects, prayed together about many concerns and had good fellowship together.

We went home on furlough in 1980 and Lester found that he had to take care of his mother for the three years. After her death we went back to the Board and they sent us to Suriname South America. We discovered that Gary and Evelyn were in Africa. We kept in touch by letters until we met them in North Carolina while on our first furlough from Suriname. Gary and Evelyn were on their way to China to teach English as a second language. Their faith, skills and willingness to follow the Lord whenever and wherever He lead them was again a great inspiration to us. We continued to follow their ministry through newsletters.

Since retirement we have kept up with them through Skype first from their home in Chiang Mai, Thailand and then from their hospital room. As our dear friends and mentors they continue to inspire us with their enduring faith in the their Lord.
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Dear Gary,
I have been following your journey with Evelyn during her illness. It has been a long time since
we communicated with you, but I have prayed for you and Evelyn during this difficult time.
I have been touched by the stories you shared on internet, and appreciate your wonderful care-giving and
total attention to her..
I remember in Missionary Orientation at Pine Mountain, GA, what a great time we shared. Both of you
were a blessing to Leslie and me during those memorable days. I know that your missionary service was
meaningful and a blessing to all with whom you worked. We had a wonderful 5 years with IMB, and
unexpectedly had to resign near the end of our first furlough, due to Leslie's health. He developed
very high blood pressure while in the Bahamas. God had other mission fields in Texas where we
served from 1981 - 1998.
I have been retired here in Waco, living in my family's missionary home, for the past 16 years. My dearest
Leslie departed for heaven in a split-second highway accident as we were changing drivers near Ft. Worth, TX.
on June 27, 1998. He was hit while preparing to enter the driver's side door by a huge waste disposal truck,
and while I looked out the passenger window, I saw him hurled out on the highway. He was killed instantly,
and I suffered a major heart atttack from shock. The little church in Arlington, TX. where he was pastoring
was so loving and wonderful to me for the 3 months I stayed there. I felt a need to leave Arlington and move
to Waco, as we were only 6 months from retirement and moving here.
God has blessed me with wonderful friends and a loving church, which has been the main focus of my life.
I teach Adult women's SS, sing in the choir and Joyful Sound ladies ensemble, and love teaching ESL with
our International ministry, and mentoring in Kid's Hope USA with a little Hispanic girl 13 years old. I have
shared with her once a week for the past 5 years. WMU and service in the Baptist Assn. have kept me
involved in missions.
My 3 sons, Robert, David and Paul, are all happily married and have added 5 grandsons and 3 grandaughters
to our family. What joy!
Know that my memories of you both are always beautiful, and bless me still.

My love in Christ, and prayers for you,

Eleanor Davis
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Dear Gary
Thank you for allowing us to share in your journey through your dear Evelyn's illness and final days. Your reports of the highs and lows of those days allowed us to share with you in prayer, and in empathizing in your joy in serving her and in your grief. We pray that our dear Lord will meet your need in this difficult time through His comfort, grace, and peace, as you remember her in love, and rejoice in her presence with her Lord.
In Christian love,
Reggie and Mary Ellen Hill
Retired from Trinidad and Bermuda

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September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Dear Gary,

I remember with great gratitude the first time that I met you and Evelyn in Antigua. The two of you hosted me in your home and during the visit you gave me a tour of the agriculture project that you were doing in Antigua. From that very first visit, my love and respect and admiration for both of you has grown evermore. The two of you have demonstrated for co-workers, friends and neighbors to see the reflection of Christ in your lives. You have both lived your faith and spoken your faith in all aspects of your life. The Kingdom has been enlarged because of your faithfulness to our Lord.

These last years of your lives have been self-giving as you made the decision to remain in Thailand and to continue to be ambassadors for Christ to everyone you meet. I remember the many emails that Gary wrote regarding the ministry through correspondence that both Gary and Evelyn continued to individuals that you were no longer able to visit because of declining health, but you maintained that contact and encouragement to so many. As you were encouraging people on that side of the world, you were at the same time encouraging many of your friends as we were able to join you in prayer for your continued ministry.

Heaven's doors will be open wide as Evelyn is welcomed into the presence of the King. 

Serving the Lord together,

Carter Davis
September 19, 2015
September 19, 2015
Gary and Evelyn Harthcock are two of the most faithful servants of our Lord I have ever known. Gary and Evelyn became our (Carter and Charlotte Davis) friends in the early 1980s during our first term of missionary service with the International Mission Board. The Harthcocks warmly received me into their home in Antigua when I was on their island to lead a Sunday School teacher training workshops and other occasions. I found the Harthcocks to be loving people with a caring heart for everyone. I remember Evelyn’s faithful ministry to those in nursing homes and for those with illnesses and disabilities in need of medical help. I believe she may have even arranged for some to travel to places outside Antigua to receive the help they needed. Her life was built on relationships with others though her personal interest in them and their needs.

I am even recalling when Evelyn was used in the IMB video to promote the Lottie Moon Offering. I can still visualize her with the basketball. What a woman! She was used by God literally around the world and through the LMCO video she was seen all across the U.S.A.!

Following Gary and Evelyn’s departure from Antigua and their journey to other parts of the world, I followed their ministry through Gary’s faithful email letters. I never ceased to be amazed as I read Gary’s journaling of people he and Evelyn met through God’s intervention and how eventually those persons came to faith in Jesus Christ.  Sharing the gospel with the unreached peoples of our world was a burning in their heart and soul. Only eternity will reveal the impact of their lives upon the unreached brought about by their faithful going anywhere God sent them to share the gospel. My life was touched and inspired by their never-ending life on mission for the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Gary and Evelyn continually sent me (by “snail mail”) Bible storying materials they had written to encourage me as the Bible storying trainer in our region. I used their resources and shared with those I trained about Gary and Evelyn’s ministry of Bible storying in various parts of the world. Their experiences were a great source of encouragement to me and to all those in training sessions I led in our region.

Though the years, Evelyn and I have shared the same birthday! I still have and use a lovely bookmark from Thailand Evelyn sent me on one birthday. This marker is a constant reminder of a friend whose life has greatly influenced me.

Gary, your messages of hope and courage during Evelyn’s illness have flowed out of a heart of love for your precious wife. I have often share your letters to classes I teach in our church to give example of a deep love between an husband and wife. The tenderness with which you have cared for Evelyn have touched my heart and those with whom I have share your story. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to “see inside your heart and mind” the example of Christ’s love for His church as we have read about your love for Evelyn.

I Corinthians 2:9. “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love Him.”

And now, Evelyn knows!

With gratefulness to God for allowing me the blessing of knowing Gary and Evelyn Harthcock!

Charlotte Davis
IMB Missionary
Grenada and regionally Middle America and Caribbean Region
November 1976- March 2008
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As I remember Evelyn as we mark the anniversary of her passing, I remember her kind heart and her love for talking with people and sharing her experiences. While I have many things she gave to me over the years, the one most precious is a beautiful set of napkins from Thailand - brightly colored and beautifully patterned. They set a beautiful table and remind me of her each time I use them. 

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September 18, 2016
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Time runs very fast, you have been leave me for one year. But your beautiful smile is in my heart for ever. When I saw the picture at my home, I still feel you are still close with me. I believe one day we will meet in the heaven, together, and forever.
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The Harthcocks have been a special part of my families' life for many year - we were first blessed by their visit to Alaska where they stayed with me for several days and from that time on we grew to love and appreciate them.  Who would have through our path would pass again later in Southeast Asia - both in Thailand and in Malaysia where they helped teach two months in an intensive English class - what a blessing they were to both their students and to me personally.  When my parents came to visit Thailand we also were privileged to spend a day with the Harthcocks and were gain blessed by out time together.   They were always easily identifiable by their matching clothing as the walked hand in hand - their love for each other was inspiring.  And while Evelyn has left to be with her Saviour in heaven and will be sorely missed - it is comforting to know she is free of her suffering.   God bless you Gary as you continue on the journey - you are both such an inspiration to me and my parents.    My own father died on a mission trip to Southeast Asia and I truly believe that your example of never being too old to serve was something that inspired him to continue to come and serve so many times in Southeast Asia himself.   Love and prayers,   Rodney Duncan and Cynthia Duncan (mom)
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