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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Findlay Leggat, 37 years old, born on May 31, 1951, and passed away on July 6, 1988. We will remember him forever.
December 28, 2023
December 28, 2023
Another Christmas gone by without you Findlay and another lonely new year but it’s another year closer to being with you I miss you so so much you took part of my heart with you I have never been the same since you died you are my only love and soulmate I will love you always and forever yours only Sheila ❤️XXX
July 6, 2023
July 6, 2023
I cant beleive its 35 years since I lost you Fìndlay I can remember watching you leaving to go to the station to get the train to Aberdeen waving and crying because I was going to miss you but every chance you got you phoned me and on the 5th you never called I just thought you were doing overtime and the next morning I seen the news about the piper I thought your younger brother was on it and later on he phoned and I was so glad to hear from him and he told me you were on the rig i told him no and he kept saying you were i remember screaming and the kids heard me and when they heard it was screaming that day will stay with me until the day i die ! I love and miss you so much it hurts i am so lonely i swore when the police came to tell us you were missing pressumed dead that i would never be with anyone else through respect to you and i have kept to it ad i still love you so so much and will do until we meet again until then i love you to eternity Findlay Sheila xx
June 1, 2023
June 1, 2023
Happy heavenly birthday Findlay another missed birthday that we haven't had to celebrate with you the years have passed so fast since you were taken from me and I miss you more and more every year you took a peice of my heart with you when you died I have not been the same since I lost you I feel lost and so lonely I think about you all the time I love you so much it hurts I wish for one hour I could talk to you to tell you how much I love you ! Until we meet again I love you to infinity ♥️  Yours forever Sheila
July 8, 2022
July 8, 2022
34 years since I lost you Findlay and I still remember that horrible day as if it was yesterday I though we had the rest of our lives together but it wasn't meant to be its not fare ! I miss you more each year I wanted us to make more memories with all our grandchildren and great grandchildren they would have loved you so much they all know who you are ! I feel as if I don't have long in this world and I am not scared because I know you will be there to meet me and we will be together for eternity! I love you so much Findlay always have always will forever until we meet again ❤️ xxx SHEILA
June 1, 2022
June 1, 2022
Another year another birthday apart from you Findlay Happy Heavenly Birthday to you my beloved husband I came so close to being with you as I feel so lonely without you I miss you so much my heart hurts I cry at anything ! I miss your touch your voice your arms around me waking up next to you when you were home your phone calls when you were away at work I miss everything about you  hope you and our family had a nice day yesterday up in heaven on your birthday 71 st year you have 9 grandchildren and 2 great granddaughters all of who never met you but know who you are ! Am sending you lots of hugs kisses and lots of love up to heaven I had a candle on all day and night for your birthday I love you yesterday today for eternity yours always and forever Findlay until we meet again  
December 24, 2021
December 24, 2021
Another Christmas without you Findlay as each year passes I find it harder being without you I came so close to being with you but I don't know if it was you or god the stopped me with all that's going on in my life just now I just didn't want to be hear without you but am getting help now ! If only I could see you for 1 hour be able to hug you hold you you knew how much I love you always will forever until we meet again ! Merry Christmas in heaven to you and all our family ! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH YOURS FOREVER SHEILA ❤XXX
May 31, 2021
May 31, 2021
Happy heavenly birthday Findlay ! Its the day you would have been 70 years old another birthday of your I've missed being with you ! You have plenty of people to spend your birthday with in heaven I just wish I was one of them I miss you more and more each year when your were taken from me part of my heart went with you you were my friend my love and my soulmate I will love you until my last breath and can't wait until we are together again until then I send my love to you always and forever ! ❤ xxxx
July 8, 2019
July 8, 2019
31 years Findlay I can't believe it I remember watching you leave and waving goodbye to you and NEVER thought that was the last time I would ever see you again you took half of my broken heart with you life has not been the same until we are together again ! I will love you until my last breath and beyond I miss you so so much it still hurts I gather you were with us on Saturday as the car in front of Findlay had FWL IN THE REGISTRATION as we were leaving Strathclyde park after laying flowers and messages to you until we meet again Findlay you are always in my heart and thoughts I love you forever Sheila ❤️❤️❤️
May 31, 2019
May 31, 2019
Happy heavenly birthday Findlay another year without you I hate it ! You and all the rest of the family who are with you will be having a good time today for your birthday I am so envious that I can't have you here with us today but I don't need special days to miss you I miss you every day of every year since you were taken from me I will blow a kiss to you tonight along with my eternal love until we meet again forever yours Sheila xxxxx
May 18, 2019
May 18, 2019
Miss you Findlay so much hopefully it won't be to long until I join you I don't have any use to anyone anymore and I have missed you so much since you were taken from me I love you so much it hurts and there is nothing that takes that pain away !
May 18, 2019
May 18, 2019
Hi John thank you very much for your lovely message about Findlay I'm sure I remember him telling me about it sending my best regards to you and your dad ! This was just Findlay helping others !
May 18, 2019
May 18, 2019
Had been told about Findlay from my dad, Findlay had saved my dads life on the cormorant alpha, shown my dad the picture of Findlay and it brought my dad to tears, r.i.p. findlay
July 6, 2018
July 6, 2018
Another year without you Findlay the day I lost you you took a big piece of me with you I don't like the person I am I never go out anywhere only to walk the dog I get up in the morning iron clothes have a shower and then just don't want to go anywhere as when I see a couple I am so jealous because it could have been you and me but it wasn't to be WHY were you taken from us you were a good person a good father and husband one of the things that keeps me going is knowing I will be with you hopefully sooner rather than later until then forever yours I love you til my last breath and after
July 7, 2017
July 7, 2017
Love you Findlay always & forever until we meet again forever yours SHEILA 
July 7, 2017
July 7, 2017
Hi Findlay another year has passed since you were taken from us far too early our lives have never been the same the kids have their own families some of them have their own place and Jordan has a daughter of his own now you would love them all as I do very much ! I know you have baby Hope with you love her Findlay and love her from us all too she was a little fighter but things got too much for her she's with the best person ever ! Our family have drifted apart which hurts me very much because all I ever asked for was for them to be close so when I go they would have each other to share their grief ! But I can only hope this comes about its in gods hands ! I miss you Findlay so much it hurts I long to be with you but I have our grandson staying with me until he finishes school and uni then he will be ready to start the next phase in his life he's so clever Findlay ! You would have had a ball with them Findlay Reiss is a lot like you in nature as is Jordan they get on with everyone and enjoy themselves when they go out and can they drink ha ha !your granddaughters and great g/ daughter are all beautiful your grandsons are all very handsome too must take after you then right ! I LOVE YOU FINDLAY MORE AND MORE EACH DAY UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN ALWAYS & FOREVER YOURS SHEILA
June 3, 2017
June 3, 2017
Hi Findlad happy heavenly birthday I bet you had a lovely time which your heavenly family round about you and baby Hope I bet she's a papas girl love her as we all would love her her mummy really misses her as we all do ! Well your great granddaughter turned 3 on the 2nd of May she's a little beauty and a little madam but so funny they have all grown up so fast that's Jordan 26 Ashleigh is 24 Reiss is nearly 22 Darren is 21 Ethan is 15 Findlay is 7 Holly is 6 going on 26 ha ha and Amelia is 7months she was christened last Sunday and we missed it as we all got lost as I never took my invitation to get the name of the church and we went round every church in wishaw we ended up getting there but it was too late I was so sad we never got to see it ! I have your 3 grandsons staying with me
July 9, 2016
July 9, 2016
28 years has passed Findlay I can't believe it's been so long I remember it like it was only yesterday and I miss you more than ever ! Lots have happened in the past years some not so good our family has fallen apart and I don't know how to fix it ! It's eating away at me I sometimes think I would be better off with you I sit in the house looking at 4 walls and my mind goes into fast forward video of all the things that have happened if you were here and other things that we were meant to share together but never got the chance I always remember telling I wanted to go first as I could not handle being left on my own not knowing it was really going to happen that way just as well you don't know what is in front of you and live day by day I love you now as I have always loved you always and forever until we meet again Findlay
May 31, 2016
May 31, 2016
Happy heavenly 65th birthday Findlay hope your surrounded with family and freinds on this special birthday I will raise my glass to you tonight even if it's only juice to toast my husband freind and soulmate and my only true love ever you took a big part of my heart with you when you were tragically taken from us I love and miss you so much ! Your grandchildren are all growing up so fast and your great granddaughter is 2 now they are all so handsome and beautiful you have another grandchild on the way too in October You would love them so much as I do ! I can't believe you have been gone for nearly 28 years this year I remember that and will until I die so tragic for us all I will love you for the rest of my life and beyond until we meet again you have my eternal love ❤️❤️ Sheila
October 29, 2015
October 29, 2015
Hi Findlay your granddaughter Ashleigh is having a party for her engagement to Martin wish you were here I don't go to anything because I'm myself and everyone else are in couples ! The longer it is since you were taken from us the worse it feels for me ! I don't really want to be here anymore I want to be with you because I miss you so much it hurts ! Love you always and forever ❤️
October 12, 2015
October 12, 2015
Hi Findlay you have a 17 month old great granddaughter called Orla she's so beautiful and full of energy she keeps us on our toes ! She's so like her daddy , we are all well and miss you so much ! I miss you more and more each year that passes ! I❤️ You always & forever until we meet again
October 12, 2015
October 12, 2015
Hi Allison ! Thank you for leaving the message about your partner knowing Findlay , I would like joe to get in touch ! I've only met about 6 men with going back and forward to Aberdeen to the inquirery in 89 I'm on Facebook if he would like to get in touch with me on that ! Look forward to hearing from Joe !
October 11, 2015
October 11, 2015
Sheila, my partners name is joe mc call, he travelled with findlay, during 1985 through to 1988, joe would like to get in touch , to share some stories, joe was in his 20's then, and has fond memories of your husband x
July 6, 2015
July 6, 2015
27 years ago tonight you were taken away from us far to soon Findlay you took part of me with you as I feel so insecure without you because you were all I knew my soulmate friend and husband who I will never replace EVER ! I will love you always & forever until we meet again know that your in my heart always ! Sheila ❤️
May 12, 2015
May 12, 2015
Love and miss you so much Findlay ❤️Always & forever

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December 28, 2023
December 28, 2023
Another Christmas gone by without you Findlay and another lonely new year but it’s another year closer to being with you I miss you so so much you took part of my heart with you I have never been the same since you died you are my only love and soulmate I will love you always and forever yours only Sheila ❤️XXX
July 6, 2023
July 6, 2023
I cant beleive its 35 years since I lost you Fìndlay I can remember watching you leaving to go to the station to get the train to Aberdeen waving and crying because I was going to miss you but every chance you got you phoned me and on the 5th you never called I just thought you were doing overtime and the next morning I seen the news about the piper I thought your younger brother was on it and later on he phoned and I was so glad to hear from him and he told me you were on the rig i told him no and he kept saying you were i remember screaming and the kids heard me and when they heard it was screaming that day will stay with me until the day i die ! I love and miss you so much it hurts i am so lonely i swore when the police came to tell us you were missing pressumed dead that i would never be with anyone else through respect to you and i have kept to it ad i still love you so so much and will do until we meet again until then i love you to eternity Findlay Sheila xx
June 1, 2023
June 1, 2023
Happy heavenly birthday Findlay another missed birthday that we haven't had to celebrate with you the years have passed so fast since you were taken from me and I miss you more and more every year you took a peice of my heart with you when you died I have not been the same since I lost you I feel lost and so lonely I think about you all the time I love you so much it hurts I wish for one hour I could talk to you to tell you how much I love you ! Until we meet again I love you to infinity ♥️  Yours forever Sheila
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