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This memorial website was created in the memory of our beloved, Gennifer Canfield ("BB") Cross, 69, born on May 7, 1943 and passed away on June 12, 2012. We will remember her forever.

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Proverbs 31:25-31

"She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom,
 and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household
 and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed. Many women do noble things,
 but you surpass them all. Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
 but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done,
 and let her works bring her praise at the city gate."

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Memorial donations may be made in Gennifer Cross's name to:
   Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
   1275 York Avenue, New York, NY 10065
   
http://www.mskcc.org/giving

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Words cannot begin to express our gratitude to everyone who touched us during our time of grief. We thank you so much for honoring us with your presence; for your kind words; your prayers; your beautiful flowers; your cards; your emails; text messages; your telephone calls; your gifts and for your memorial donations to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center.

Thank you for your thoughful kindness at a time when it was greatly appreciated.

Arigato, Asante, Danke, Gracias, Grazie, Merci, Xie Xie!

God bless you!

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See "Her Life" and "Stories" tabs for Obituary, Eulogy, Funeral Program, Events, Testimonals, Condolence Messages, etc.  

May 7, 2023
May 7, 2023
Today, we remember our beloved mother who would have turned 80 years old. She was a woman who touched the lives of all those who knew her with her warmth, kindness, and love. Her memory lives on through her children, who she raised with care and dedication, and her grandchildren, who she adored and cherished.

Mom was a strong and resilient woman who faced life's challenges with grace and a positive attitude. She taught us the value of hard work, perseverance, and compassion, and instilled in us the importance of family and community.

As we honor her memory on this special day, we are reminded of the legacy she has left behind. Her love and influence will continue to inspire us and shape our lives for years to come. Though she may no longer be with us, her spirit lives on through the memories we hold dear.

Happy 80th birthday to a wonderful mother, who will always hold a special place in our hearts.
May 8, 2022
May 8, 2022
Hi Mom! Happy belated birthday and Happy Mother’s Day! Keep watching over us all. Love and miss you so much.
May 7, 2022
May 7, 2022
Hi mom just stopping by to wish you a heavenly birthday, continue to S.I.P in your Heavenly Father arms.
May 7, 2022
May 7, 2022
So one day I was in the kitchen. I wanted to mess with Mom a little by calling her Ginnifer. Mom was in her bedroom. She called me and I ran to her bedroom, "yes Gennifer. Gennifer did you call me."
She said, "girl who give you the authority to call me Gennifer. You must be out of your mind. A who you a called Gennifer. Keep it up and I will show you Gennifer."
A couple of days later I tried it again and I had to run. She was running after me. Saying, "a who you a call Gennifer. You must be out of your mind." In bringing this to a closure. I believe she has stolen time from us. Once time is lost you're unable to get it back. God is good all the time. I'd love to have seen her as her got older.
May 7, 2022
May 7, 2022
Happy Birthday Gennifer. Tomorrow Mother's Day you are loved. God bless
June 12, 2021
June 12, 2021
Hi mom today mark 9 yrs since you left us to be with your heavenly father, there's not a day goes by that I don't think about you, I honestly missed chatting with you, continue to rest in the arms of your heavenly father, forever in my heart.
May 7, 2021
May 7, 2021
Oh mama, Mama good news. To Him who is able to resurrect the dead. I will see you alive again. Happy Birthday. Happy Mother's Day.
May 7, 2021
May 7, 2021
Happy heavenly birthday mom continue to rest in the arm of your heavenly Father I love and missed you dearly forever in my heart.
June 12, 2020
June 12, 2020
Hi mom it's been 8 years since you leave us to be with your heavenly father, continue to rest in his arms,I miss you so much especially the little talk we used to have,you are forever in my heart you were the best mother-in-law ever someone who split justice, love and miss you mom, continue to watch over us.
May 7, 2020
May 7, 2020
Happy Birthday my dear Mom. I love and miss you very much. Watch over us!
May 7, 2020
May 7, 2020
Hey Mother Happy Birthday. Its your number 77th, double perfection. May God bless and keep you. Happy Birthday with love
May 7, 2020
May 7, 2020
My Dearest Mom - Today should have been so different on your perfect (77th) birthday – two numbers that I am sure the spiritual numerologist in you would find pleasing. Please know that I am THINKING about YOU – MISSING you – LOVING YOU – CELEBRATING YOU – this side of HEAVEN. Happy Birthday to the one who made me whole.
~Tony #1
May 7, 2020
May 7, 2020
Happy birthday mom,I know that you are having a grand time with your heavenly father,love and miss you mom. Forever in my heart
June 12, 2019
June 12, 2019
Hi mom it's been 7 years now since you went to be with your heavenly father, I miss you so much, but you are in a better place right now, continue to rest in the arms of your father. Forever love you mom your daughter-in-law.
May 12, 2019
May 12, 2019
Happy Mother's Day. You are forever missed.
Proverbs 31:25-31
"She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed. Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all. Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate."
May 7, 2019
May 7, 2019
You are daily missed. Whenever it gets close to your birthday I get very anxious. You are so missed. Happy Birthday. Love. Marie
May 7, 2019
May 7, 2019
Happy earth-strong in heaven mom I know that you are there having a grand time,missing you and I also want you to know that I achieve everything you wanted me to,continue to rest peacefully in the arms of our father. Love you forever
May 8, 2018
May 8, 2018
I light this candle to tell you, "I love you."
The flame reminds me of how much, "I miss you."
I leave this note, for I'll never forget you."
Rest Mother. may God bless you.
May 7, 2018
May 7, 2018
Happy earth-strong in heaven mom,I really miss you,we needed you but our heavenly father needed you more,continue to rest in His arm. I will forever remember the time we spend together here on earth love and miss you mom.
May 7, 2018
May 7, 2018
Hello Mother. Missing you much. Send us some wisdom! ~With Love Tony
June 12, 2017
June 12, 2017
Hi Mom it been 5 years now since you went to be with our father,I know that you are having a grand time,I really miss you wish you were here,but our father need another angel,so He choose you. I am happy to say that I thank God the day I met you and the years I spend knowing you. Continue to watch over us and you are forever in my heart,thank you for always directing me in the right path. Love and miss you continue to rest in Jesus arms.
June 12, 2017
June 12, 2017
Dear Mother.

I thought of you with love today, but that is nothing new.
I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too.
I think of you in silence.
I often speak your name.
All I have are memories, and your picture in a frame.
Your memory is my keepsake, with which I'll never part.
God has you in His keeping...
I have you in my heart.
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Missing you much.

~Tony.
May 8, 2017
May 8, 2017
Happy Bday mom. I miss and love you very much. RIP my dear mother.. love always your son...
May 7, 2017
May 7, 2017
It"s now Annmarie Cross in honor of you. I look like you, talk like you and even chew like you. I love you and everyday there is something more about you I miss. You'll forever be missed. RIP JCC.
May 7, 2017
May 7, 2017
Happy Birthday in Heaven Mom, I love you dearly and I would like you to know you have truly been a blessing in my life. I Thank God for the time we were able to share together throughout the years. Until we meet again, Keep watching over us. Love Yama!!
May 7, 2016
May 7, 2016
Happy birthday to a wonderful angel in heaven, I know that you are having a grand with your heavenly father. Wish you was here with us,but God needed you more my love for you will never die. I miss talking to alot, sometimes I wish God could just lend you to us again,but I would be selfish. Love you mom
June 12, 2015
June 12, 2015
Dear Mom,

Today marks three years since you left us.

You're in my bones, my blood and my heart. I would have to tear myself apart to let you go. I will never let you go. As long as I breathe, you'll be remembered...

RIP

Tony
May 6, 2015
May 6, 2015
Dear Mom - Wow - This is the 72nd anniversary of your birth. It still feels like yesterday and you're always ever present. Missing you always. Happy Birthday Mom.

With Love

 Tony
June 12, 2014
June 12, 2014
Well good morning Mother. It has been two years since. Your passing have made us all grow; we have no choice but to. We've grown knowing you've instilled great understanding in us. Thanks so much. Love you and rest in peace.
June 12, 2014
June 12, 2014
Namaste Mother - They say that time heals all wounds. I really hope so. 6.12.12 is still vividly etched in my mind. God knows how much I am missing you now. Loving you always, Forgetting you never. RIP.
~Tony
June 12, 2014
June 12, 2014
If tears could build
A stairway and
Memories were a lane
We would walk right
Up to heaven and
Bring you back again
I will never forget you ,
my dear cousin .R.I.P
June 12, 2014
June 12, 2014
Hi mom it been 2 yrs since you left us, but it seem like it was just yesterday we here talking about life and what it have to offer. Anyway you are in a better place enjoying your time with yor heavenly father.Love and miss you so much. continue to R.I.P
May 7, 2014
May 7, 2014
Happy birthday Mom missing you so much... I pray that you guide,protect and watch over us all. I will continue to honor your name. Bye the way happy early Mother'sDay. Love you always!
May 7, 2014
May 7, 2014
Dear Mother,

It's been two years since you left us.

However, those whom we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.

Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.

Happy Birthday Mom.

-Tony
May 7, 2014
May 7, 2014
Happy birthday to you mom who is celebrating it with your heavenly Father.We miss you so much, words can't explain how much I miss you. When I needed advice on what to do with certain situation you are always there.Sorry you are not here to give me the advice I need. Love and miss you mom you are the best mother-in-law ever.Enjoy your day with your heavenly Ftaher.Continue to watch over us as you always do when you was here on earth.Love and miss you so much.
May 7, 2014
May 7, 2014
Proverbs 31(29) Many women do noble things but you surpass them all. Happy Birthday, happy early Mother's Day. miss you and Rest. Love
April 19, 2014
April 19, 2014
Happy Easter to my Mother in law. Thank you for my beautiful bride Annmarie whom you gave birth to. Much more love your Son in law. Arthur Lee
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
Good morning Mother,
dropping in to tell you; you are missed very much. Love
March 7, 2014
March 7, 2014
Dear Mom - I have dreaming about you quite a bit lately. (Very good dreams...keep them coming). Still missing you much and will never stop loving you. I just browsed through the photos and read the tributes and other writings on the website and everything just underscored what a wonderful mother you ARE. R.I.P.
~
Tony
February 23, 2014
February 23, 2014
Hello Mother, just another day of thinking about you and wanted you to know I love and miss you very much.
Rest in Peace until we see each other again.
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May 7, 2023
May 7, 2023
Today, we remember our beloved mother who would have turned 80 years old. She was a woman who touched the lives of all those who knew her with her warmth, kindness, and love. Her memory lives on through her children, who she raised with care and dedication, and her grandchildren, who she adored and cherished.

Mom was a strong and resilient woman who faced life's challenges with grace and a positive attitude. She taught us the value of hard work, perseverance, and compassion, and instilled in us the importance of family and community.

As we honor her memory on this special day, we are reminded of the legacy she has left behind. Her love and influence will continue to inspire us and shape our lives for years to come. Though she may no longer be with us, her spirit lives on through the memories we hold dear.

Happy 80th birthday to a wonderful mother, who will always hold a special place in our hearts.
May 8, 2022
May 8, 2022
Hi Mom! Happy belated birthday and Happy Mother’s Day! Keep watching over us all. Love and miss you so much.
May 7, 2022
May 7, 2022
Hi mom just stopping by to wish you a heavenly birthday, continue to S.I.P in your Heavenly Father arms.
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January 25, 2014
Hello Mother, Just stopping by to tell you I love you and your memories will live on forever.

Missing you like crazy

May 7, 2013

Stopping by to say happy birthday to a wonderful mother-in-law, who are in heaven enjoying this day with her heavenly father.Mom I truly miss you, but heaven was missing an angel so God sent for you.I wish you where here, because when I had a problem or something bothering me I could come and talk to you.No one knows the bond we had and everyday I just can't believe you gone so soon.I will never forget the love we had for each other or things we use to do together.Love you mom you are the best ever.R.I.P. 

The Last Time...

May 7, 2013
Superwoman

The last time I saw Mom (in this life) was when I paid her a surprise visit for her birthday and for Mother's Day 2012.

Around that time, I was traveling quite a bit and was somewhat fatigued with very little desire for another 18+ hours flight. However, I felt compelled (rather commanded) to go and see her and made a last minute booking. I shared my plans with Tawana and a few of my siblings and told them not to blabber their mouths and they kept tight lips. I know there were no leaks, because when I saw Mom, she was pleasantly surprised.

It was so great to see her. Mom was looking quite vibrant and seemingly on the road to a full recovery. She was so vivacious and we even broached the possibility of visiting Hong Kong. I had a really good and memorable time with Mom. For Mother's Day we had a sumptuous Jamaican style breakfast. As usual, we had some good laughter and lots of chatter.

During my visit, Mom had a craving for some fresh coconut water, so me and Tawana drove all over Brooklyn until we found a couple fresh coconuts for her on Church Avenue. I watched in rapt delight as Mom heartily drank every drop of the coconut water before enjoying the pulp. That was the last thing that I did for Mom before heading back "home" to Hong Kong. In parting, I got a big tight lingering hug from Mom and she thanked me profusely for visiting and wished me God's speed.

That was the last time I saw and touched Mom (in this life).

I miss my Mom! You were a superwoman, yes you were!

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