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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Gerald J. Hacker Sr. "Opps", who passed away on October 2, 2012. "Opps" was an amazing husband, father, grandfather, uncle and friend.  We will love him and remember him forever as he touched all of us in many ways. 

Gerald J. Hacker Sr. “Opps” Age 72. U.S. Navy veteran. Beloved husband of Andrea “Bunny” (nee Oliva). Devoted father of Jerry Jr. (Alison) and Mark (Mindy). Loving grandfather of Olivia, Sam, Madison and Cristian. Dear brother of Joanne Anastasia. Also survived by many loving relatives and friends. 42 years of service with Westinghouse/Schindler Elevator Co.


 

October 2, 2023
October 2, 2023
Your family has been thriving.  I’m sure you are so proud of each and everyone of them including Bunny with a brand new hip. I recently dreamt about you! You and Bunny were sitting on a couch and you had your arm around her. You guys were kissing, hugging and laughing. As you always loved to say, “It was a good day”!  You’re forever in our thoughts and prayers, and we miss you like crazy. Please remember to keep us in your prayers. Love Eileen & Jimmy xoxo
October 2, 2023
October 2, 2023
We were at the cemetery yesterday to visit you. As always, it was a time to reminisce about the many humorous moments we had together. You are missed so much. I have to believe that you are watching your grandkids thrive and grow in every way. We are proud grandparents for sure!!! Eleven years is a long time for you to be gone...sad day for the kids and me. As long as you know we all love you so much and you are never forgotten, then all will be okay. You have always been my OAO...One and Only!
August 8, 2023
August 8, 2023
Happy birthday, Bro. One would think that it gets easier as time goes by to adjust to life without loved ones but that’s just a myth. We still miss you very much and that will never change until we’re reunited. As you know, Buns is finally going for her much needed surgery. We’re confident that you and the family will use your petitions for her speedy recovery. We love you Bro. Tell the family we love and miss them too. Eileen & Jimmy XOXO
August 8, 2023
August 8, 2023
Happy Birthday Unc, I can't believe you left us so early in life. You were so special to me an my kids I can't thank you enough for all you have done for us and how special you were for us. I will never forget you driving me around in your truck so I would go into labor with Thomas, you said the bumps in the road would bring it on! And I can't believe I let you do that LOL. Today you would be so so so proud of all of them! And you would be so proud of your babies and their babies as well. Mark and Jerry take such amazing care of Aunt and I know you are so happy about that.  Love you and see you on the other side one day! #neverforgotten #soberniece
August 8, 2023
August 8, 2023
Happy 83rd Birthday hon! It doesn't take a birthday or anniversary for me to think of you because you are in my thoughts every single day. I have never stopped loving you and being grateful for what we shared...especially our children. Miss you...your laugh...your enthusiasm...your craziness...your comfort...and your love.
August 8, 2023
August 8, 2023
Happy Birthday Dad. Miss you every day. Going to toast you today with a chocolate marshmallow malt. 
October 2, 2022
October 2, 2022
I can’t believe it’s been 10 years. I miss you every day. I wish you could be with us to watch your amazing grandkids, although I know that you are with us in spirit. I love you and miss you dad.
October 2, 2022
October 2, 2022
10 years ago God called you home. We know you’re at peace but that doesn’t change the fact that we all miss you and wish you were here with us. So many times we’ve said how proud you would be of your family and their accomplishments. Such a legacy you have left behind, and for that we are so proud of you and are forever grateful you were in our lives. We love you very much Bro. Keep smiling down on us and pray for us until we meet again. We love you, Eileen & Jimmy xoxo
October 2, 2022
October 2, 2022
10 years has been an eternity, but also feels like yesterday. I miss you every day and wish you could have been here to see your grandchildren grow and thrive and to see to world evolve. I know you are watching from above...hopefully laughing, forming opinions and watching over us. Love you. Jerry Jr.
October 2, 2022
October 2, 2022
I'll never forget 10 years ago today hon. Losing you on this day turned my world upside down. There have been so many changes in our lives but thank God, so many happy events among those changes. I'm so sorry you missed them! I miss you so much and that seems to never change. Our family is wonderful and I feel you lovingly watch over us. I love you and look forward to when we can be together again. I will try not to be sad because I believe you are in the happiest place with God. XXXX
October 2, 2021
October 2, 2021
So many moments in our lives remind us of you. That’s a good thing because you are always with us in our hearts and minds. We love & miss you Bro. Eileen & Jimmy xoxo
October 2, 2021
October 2, 2021
I can't believe that we are without you for 9 years. I miss you, your love, your strength and your enthusiasm for life. Love you always!
October 2, 2021
October 2, 2021
We miss you each and every day. Love you dad!
August 8, 2021
August 8, 2021
Happy Birthday dad. Miss you each and every day.
August 8, 2021
August 8, 2021
Happy Birthday, Bro. We are sure you’re very proud of your family and how attentive and loving they are to Bunny. She definitely made the right choice moving close to them. We miss you so much and wish you could be here with us but that’s being selfish because you are no longer suffering in pain but are enjoying eternal life with all our ancestors. We love you, Eileen & Jimmy xoxo
August 8, 2021
August 8, 2021
Happy Birthday Hon! Thanks for being in my dreams the entire night. You were still doing things "your way"! Made me laugh this morning instead of being sad. I miss you more every year. Thanks for watching over all of us this year. It's been a wonderful year for your kids and grandkids!!! We all love you very much and think of you always...especially me.
October 2, 2020
October 2, 2020
Eight years without your humor is eight years too long. We miss you so much, Bro. On a positive note, there is no quarantining in heaven, and since you have God’s ear, can you put in a word to end this pandemic? We Love You, Eileen & Jimmy xoxo
October 2, 2020
October 2, 2020
I can't believe it is 8 years since you are gone hon. You are always with us. Your name never comes up without a funny story attached to it! Jerry, you certainly impacted all of our lives and are loved. Today Olivia (Pudd) was helping a kindergartner in her speech therapy class. The girl asked Olivia out of the clear blue if she had any grandparents in heaven because her grandpa just died! There is no doubt in my mind you were telling us through that child that you are still with us. I loved you for 49 years and still do. You are always my OAO!
October 2, 2020
October 2, 2020
Missing you Dad every day. 8 years seems like an eternity...but also seems like yesterday. You have made a major impact on all of us and we are blessed to have our memories. You are with us each day. Love you.
October 2, 2020
October 2, 2020
We miss you each and every day. We know that you are with us in spirit. Love you dad.
August 8, 2020
August 8, 2020
Happy 80th birthday Bro!!! In the words of your brother-in-law:  “We know if you were here for the last six months you would’ve volunteered to be the pandemic team leader for our family giving us daily updates and making sure we place safe to stay safe.” We love you & miss you always, Eileen & Jimmy XoXo
August 8, 2020
August 8, 2020
Happy Birthday dad! Took Cristian for his first ever White Castles. I knew you were smiling when Cristian said: “THESE ARE GREAT!!”  We bring Madison back to Villanova on Wednesday. We’ll be sure to hit Pica’s when we are there. Miss you!!!
August 8, 2020
August 8, 2020
Happy 80th Dad! I hope your enjoying a big bowl of ice cream with lots of hot fudge! Your impact on all of us will last forever. You are truly missed and loved every day. Love you, Jerry
August 8, 2020
August 8, 2020
Happy 80th hon! You'll be young forever. Wish you could be on this exciting new adventure with me...made possible by your kids and family with their generosity in every way. I am taken care of like a queen!!!! I know condo living would not be your thing...but who knows...this is outstanding. I will continue to always want you with me and love you always. Hope your celebration today is even better than the one at the track!!!! Hard to beat that one. LOVE YOU FOREVER
October 3, 2019
October 3, 2019
Missing you everyday, Opps. I know you are always looking down on us. Love you always! -Pud
October 2, 2019
October 2, 2019
Seven years seems like an eternity when it comes to missing our Bro. Your family is thriving and your grandkids are no longer “kids”! I’m sure you know just how much we love and miss you. You are forever in our thoughts and prayers. Love Eileen and Jimmy xo
October 2, 2019
October 2, 2019
Love and miss you hon. Can't believe it's 7 years now. Your grandkids are amazing!!!! Your sons are amazing!!! Your daughter-in-laws are amazing!!! Can't get any better than this...only if you were with us!
October 2, 2019
October 2, 2019
I miss you every day. I know that you are beaming with pride about your grandkids. You are always on our mind and in our hearts.
August 8, 2019
August 8, 2019
We think of you and talk about you often. No doubt you have impacted all our lives in a good way. Happy birthday Bro. We love and miss you very much. Eileen and Jimmy XoXo
August 8, 2019
August 8, 2019
Happy Birthday honey. You wouldn't believe the goodness and accomplishments of your family! Keep an eye on those grandkids so they continue to strive to be the best people they can be. You are loved and missed always. xxxx
August 8, 2019
August 8, 2019
Happy birthday Dad. Hard to believe it's been almost 7 years! thinking about you and missing you always!
August 8, 2019
August 8, 2019
Happy Birthday Dad. Miss you every day. Hope you are enjoying an ice cream roll today!
June 16, 2019
June 16, 2019
Happy Father's Day hon! Missing you always...always in my thoughts! Love you. Enjoy the day with our dads. Your boys and families are more than fine. Good job hon!
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
We all miss you very much. Today is just one day of the countless days we remember you with sadness but also with laughter because of all your funny quirks that we miss so much (like how you pronounced "sorry" and "pillow" ;-). You must know and I'm sure are very proud that you are blessed to have such a loving and supportive family. You left the love of your life (Bunny) in good hands. Rest In Peace, Bro, and keep our loved ones entertained until we are all reunited. Love, Eileen & Jimmy xo
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Too sad to say much today. It seems like an eternity!  Your children and grandkids are awesome and I know that you see that. With all our faults, we must have done a few things right! I know you will continue to watch over our family. Miss you and love you every single day.
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
We miss you dad. I know that your grandkids are keeping you smiling!
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Hard to believe it's been 6 years...feels like yesterday. Miss you and love you very much. I know you are looking down upon us.
August 8, 2018
August 8, 2018
Happy Birthday dad. I know that you are with Madison and me on our college tour this week. Love you and miss you very much.
August 8, 2018
August 8, 2018
Happy 78th birthday honey! Time is moving so quickly. We miss you beyond words. You can be so proud of your family and the "Hacker" name. The boys have certainly brought much honor to that name and you.  Thanks for the amazing sons you gave me and for taking care of all of us so well in your lifetime. Jerry, Alison, Olivia, Sam and Mark, Mindy, Madison and Cristian have made my life happy and filled with love. You are loved by all...especially me.  God continues to bless our family. I thank Him every day! You are my OAO!
August 8, 2018
August 8, 2018
Wish you were here to celebrate your 78th birthday. There are so many things we miss about you that keep you forefront in our minds. Our faith reminds us that you are in a better place so enjoy your birthday with all our departed loved ones. Happy Birthday, Jerry. We love and miss you very much, Eileen and Jimmy xo
October 3, 2017
October 3, 2017
Love & miss you very much Bino! I think about you so, so very often - mostly because you were my #1 fan and I knew when I was in need of advice you would be the first in line to help me no matter what. I knew there wasn't anything you wouldn't do to make me smile and you only wanted the absolute best for me. P.S. your two sons are looking out for me now and doing a great job so don't worry. Love Eva xo
October 2, 2017
October 2, 2017
Missing you so much, Opps. 5 years feels like just yesterday. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. I'm so happy knowing you're always watching down on me, Sam, Madison, and Cristian. (And hopefully sending me some good luck during midterms week!!) Love you always. 
-Pud
October 2, 2017
October 2, 2017
Hard to believe it's been 5 years. It still seems surreal and truly unfair to lose you so early in life. However, you have made a lasting mark on all of us that has filled us all with love and laughter. Dad, I love you and miss you very much.
October 2, 2017
October 2, 2017
One thing I've learned in the 5 years...time passing will never make me miss you less. We had great times and challenging times but we shared them TOGETHER. I miss that "together" so much! I can never thank you enough for the sons we have and the families they have. God bless you. I pray for you every single day. I dream of you every night...so please...just let me sleep a little :)! Love you honey.
October 2, 2017
October 2, 2017
I miss you. Thanks for teaching us so much and for always being there when we needed you. I know that your grandkids are making you proud! I love you.
October 2, 2017
October 2, 2017
Yesterday Jimmy and I were in Michigan City and ate at one of your favorite places, Swingbelly's. We miss your excitement introducing us to new places that made your "favorites" list. We reminisced about you through dinner as Jimmy ate fried lake perch in your honor. Rest in Peace, Bro. We miss you very much. Love Eileen & Jimmy xo
August 8, 2017
August 8, 2017
Happy Birthday Dad! Love you and miss you every day. We will try to get you back-to-back World Series Championships but we need some pitching help. Throw the deuce!
August 8, 2017
August 8, 2017
I often think of you still.....what a tribute that you are still with us all even though you are gone. You were like a second dad to me....a man we all could always count on. I hope you can look down at Tommy Jr.....you would love cubby cheeks.  love u Unc.
August 8, 2017
August 8, 2017
Happy Birthday Honey!!! Miss you very very much...time doesn't make it easier. I'm sure you are happy knowing what wonderful sons, daughter-in-laws and grandchildren you have. They are all amazing. You also would be pleased to see who your nieces and nephews have picked to be their loves in life...and I know you would be the first to sneak ice cream and chocolates to their little ones! You loved to misbehave and it still brings smiles to our faces when we think of everything you would do. Friday night pizza is not the same for everyone since you are gone! You definitely left your mark on all of us. My life is good and my only complaint is that I can't share it with you now. You are close to me and in my dreams almost every night...and in my prayers. Loving you always....
August 8, 2017
August 8, 2017
Miss celebrating your birthday over a pizza and a glass of wine pre-ordered by you - whether I wanted it or not :-). I bet even at 77 I'd be telling you that you must be dying your hair because I never saw any gray. I'm always thinking and praying for you; please do the same for me because it's not easy getting older. One thing is for sure, you will remain forever young in my mind and always be close to my heart. Happy Birthday, Bro.
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October 2, 2023
October 2, 2023
Your family has been thriving.  I’m sure you are so proud of each and everyone of them including Bunny with a brand new hip. I recently dreamt about you! You and Bunny were sitting on a couch and you had your arm around her. You guys were kissing, hugging and laughing. As you always loved to say, “It was a good day”!  You’re forever in our thoughts and prayers, and we miss you like crazy. Please remember to keep us in your prayers. Love Eileen & Jimmy xoxo
October 2, 2023
October 2, 2023
We were at the cemetery yesterday to visit you. As always, it was a time to reminisce about the many humorous moments we had together. You are missed so much. I have to believe that you are watching your grandkids thrive and grow in every way. We are proud grandparents for sure!!! Eleven years is a long time for you to be gone...sad day for the kids and me. As long as you know we all love you so much and you are never forgotten, then all will be okay. You have always been my OAO...One and Only!
August 8, 2023
August 8, 2023
Happy birthday, Bro. One would think that it gets easier as time goes by to adjust to life without loved ones but that’s just a myth. We still miss you very much and that will never change until we’re reunited. As you know, Buns is finally going for her much needed surgery. We’re confident that you and the family will use your petitions for her speedy recovery. We love you Bro. Tell the family we love and miss them too. Eileen & Jimmy XOXO
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Thursday time day

October 2, 2018

Jerry and I would go to my cousins for lunch every Thursday  big fight pizza I liked mushrooms never won funny thing every so often with I am somebody  telling first time jerry and I where on job shut down kid I need matches  I don’t smoke  we are going to fix elevator  we did  after that tool box always had  matches I tell that story a lot 

Friday Pizza Night at Phillies

October 5, 2013
We, the sisters (Gloria Jean, Bunny, Maureen and me - Eileen) and significant others would go to various pizza places for dinner on Friday nights. Phillies is one of our favorite places. We usually sit in the back room because we're sometimes a big group (when other family members & friends join us) and lets face it - we're loud. No one ever wanted to figure out the bill, tip and how much each one owed. Jerry was always amazing at it (a numbers savant), figuring it out in a couple of minutes. He did make a mistake or two along the way and when we overpaid, Bunny made sure that he paid us back the next week with interest (maybe a beer or a glass of wine). Not too long after he passed away, we went to Phillies and sat in the back room. It never seems the same without Jerry there with us. But on this night, we were all being simpletons trying to figure out the bill and saying that we wished Jerry was there to help us out. Next thing we know there is a loud knocking on the door. The thing is, as many times as we were in that back room, none of us ever knew there was an emergency exit door. We all turned around to see where the knocking was coming from and then we all turned back and faced each other with shock on our faces. A few of us at the same time said "It's Jerry, lets let him in". We thought maybe he was inpatient with us trying to figure out the bill and wanted to be let in to help us. We sure do miss you Bro.

Jerry is still with me!

October 2, 2013
I have to share this story. It's a year today that you are gone Jer and you are in my every thought throughout this year. Today I knew it would be even more difficult so I made up my mind that I would stay very busy. I decided to take the covers off the kitchen chairs and freshen them up a bit. This required removing some unusual screws. I was so happy because I found a weird screwdriver in the garage and removed the first cover from the chair. When I tried to get the other covers off the screwdriver was not working on those screws. I went to Ace Hardware and they told me I needed an Allan key. Knowing Jerry had some someplace at home, I decided not to buy the one I needed. Well, after an hour of searching through every tool box and drawer in the garage, basement, and closet, I found three that were too big. I was totally frustrated and upset. I was in no mood to go back to Ace because I was looking at the clock and it was 2:40 and I was reliving the events that led to his passing at 3:00 last year. I gave up and I went into the garage to put the tools away in his tool drawer. As I opened the drawer, I pushed a plastic packet that Jerry kept small emery boards in and the packet fell on the ground....and there it was...the perfect size Allan key!!! I knew Jerry was there with me at that very moment...and that is what got me through the day!!

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