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This memorial website was created in memory of Gilbert (Gil) Paul Wilson, loving husband, father, brother, brother-in-law, uncle and friend.  We will remember him always. Please feel free to share any stories, photos, videos, or celebrations of Gil's life here online.  The more the better and don't be shy about posting funny stories, we can use some laughs.

Visitation
Tuesday, November 22, 2016
3:00 pm until 9:00 pm
Glueckert Funeral Home Ltd.
1520 N. Arlington Heights Road (4 blocks south of Palatine Road)
Arlington Heights, IL  60004. 

Memorial Service
Wednesday, November 23, 2016
10 am
Our Saviour Evangelical Free Church
300 North Schoenbeck Road
Wheeling, IL  60090. 

Interment is private.

In lieu of Flowers the family suggests donations be made in his memory to your favorite charity or one of Gil’s:
        Salesian Missions
        Guiding Eyes of the Blind
       

 

August 31, 2021
August 31, 2021
Dear Gil!! Love you and miss you and your family!! Would love to be out tonite celebrating your birthday! You're with God now and all your family who love you! I guess you can't beat that for a great birthday!
Thinking a lot of Helen this morning and how leukemia took her away from us too soon. 5 years old, crazy. the Cure of Leukemia was supposed to be here by the year 2000!! Children and adults are still dying from it. Maddening.
Love you!! Your Cousin Rickie
November 20, 2018
November 20, 2018
Two years since your passing dear cousin! I can't believe your whole family is gone! Your parents, sisters Helen and Merry, brother John. Even one of your nephews gone. Garret Wilson. It's so sad. I'm trying to do some genealogy on the Wilson, Partipilo and Duebner family so that Reed has some idea where he came from. Praying for you! Miss you so much!
November 20, 2018
November 20, 2018
It’s been two years since Gil passed but his memories are still alive with me. I remember all the good times. Rest In Peace
November 19, 2018
November 19, 2018
I miss him even though the years and miles separated us.  Choices and decisions I made in my life were taught to me by Gil. Knowing he is no longer an email away will be tough. I am a better person for knowing him.  I will see you again my friend...
September 2, 2018
September 2, 2018
Hope your doing well in heaven. Will see you again someday my good friend!
November 19, 2017
November 19, 2017
Paul and me remember Gil with love, not only today, but everyday. He was a great guy, and he will be forever missed. May the love and support of family and friends continue to comfort your hearts. We love you!  ❤️
April 7, 2017
April 7, 2017
I just heard that Gil had passed.Altho it has been years since I had talked to Gil I will alway have such fond memories of such a great guy. We grew up a block away from eachother and hung out every day. All thru grade school and high school. When I got my first apartment I asked Gil to get it with me and we became room mates. Two punk teens that new everything. Lol We had some great times togetber and I will miss him.
December 1, 2016
December 1, 2016
A week and a day Dear Gil, I look at the red rose that Donna so nicely gifted me with and smell it's sweet smell. It is opening up nicely and slowly so that I can savor it for a while yet. I think mostly now of Donna and Reed for you are in a happier place my cousin. I prayed last night that you and the rest of the family were in heaven with God enjoying the goodness of eternal life. Now my prayers are for Donna and Reed that they may be comforted by their memories of you.
November 28, 2016
November 28, 2016
My sincere condolences .. worked with Gil back in 1996 on a Quality Success Story "Heartland taxes Indiana" .. his contribution was invaluable, was truly a pleasure to work with .. will keep him in my prayers.
November 28, 2016
November 28, 2016
We are extremely sorry for your loss and it is with great sadness that we leave this message. We hope you and Reed find some comfort in this hard time. May God bless and keep you both.

Your friends at NWSRA.
November 28, 2016
November 28, 2016
Donna & Reed...words can not express by sympathy for the loss of Gil...a loving husband, father, and friend. I remember the night we (Donna & I) met Gil for the first time and we became friends instantly. I vividly recall the big group cruise and Gil being the life of the party. We were all truly blessed to have known him and the world a better place for it. Rest in knowing that he is now at peace. Much Love to you both!
November 27, 2016
November 27, 2016
Hello, Donna and Reed,

As the Thanksgiving weekend ends, I wanted to share with you this thought. It was wonderful to share with you the special thoughts and memories during Gil's memorial service, both at the wake and at the church. I was very sad for his loss, but then I kept thinking how lucky we all are that he was part of our lives. We had the chance to share special times with him, he made us laugh, and that alone is reason enough to be happy and thankful that we knew him. His warm smile brought much joy to many, and I consider myself very, very lucky to have called him a friend. When these next few days, weeks, and months become challenging for you, just remember how lucky you both were to have had him as a husband and father. Not a lot of people out there are lucky enough to have a "Gil" in their lives...  I love you!!! XXOO  ~Janette Peterson~
November 25, 2016
November 25, 2016
We first met Gil when we moved to our neighborhood years ago. He went out of his way to welcome us and enjoyed our weekly chats. Our dog would cry hearing Gil and Misty approaching, and he never once passed our home without coming to our yard and greeting his awaiting friend. You will be missed, dear neighbor. This place will never be the same without your smiling face.
November 23, 2016
November 23, 2016
I first met Gil at Continental airlines and then FedEx..both me and my wife knew him at Continental in the 70s=great Guy

Best Regards Linda and Larry Creamer
November 23, 2016
November 23, 2016
Donna and Reed, thinking of you at this sad time, so sorry for your loss.
November 22, 2016
November 22, 2016
My condolences to Gil's family. I am sorry for your loss. I count it a blessing in knowing Gil.
November 22, 2016
November 22, 2016
We used to hang out in high school. I will always remember him as a happy, fun and loving man. Although it has been many years since we last spoke, he will always remain a part of my life's history and growing up without him would have been different.
My condolences and heartfelt sorrow for his family and everyone who's life he touched. God bless you my friend, heaven just got an angel
November 22, 2016
November 22, 2016
Sincere condolences to Donna and Reed. I first met Gil on a vacation and what a trip it was! He was a funny guy, sincere and caring. He will definitely be missed! Donna, anything you need, please call!
November 22, 2016
November 22, 2016
I first met Gill in the mid-eighties, we initially had some common interest, but what I remember most was his great sense of humor. As the years past I moved out of Illinois, but we continued to stay in touch through emails. He would send me pics of Reed as he grew up. He was very proud of him, and it was communicated through those emails. This past spring he and Donna came to Florida for a visit. It was really nice to re-connect with him after all those years. I had always found him to be genuine, and honest. My condolences to both Donna, and Reed. He will be missed.
Beau Jensen
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
We will miss him, a good friend with a huge heart. He made the world a better place.
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
I met Gil when I first came into the Central Region training department. We were all on the 6th floor in Itasca. He would come and go because of traveling and so would I, but we always had great conversations. As time pushed on we moved to a larger facility and this one time Gil said I met someone and she is the one, Donna it was you! I was so happy he found someone to cherish and be cherished. Then came Reed, OMG, he really was over the moon. My sincere deepest thoughts and prayers are for you and your family.
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
I was very saddened to hear this news today though I never met Gil. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Reed and your family.
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
I first met Gil in 1985 at FedEx and spent a good deal of time with him in Memphis as we were both being certified to teach our respective classes. Gil would make a friend at a restaurant (or a bar) within minutes with his warmth, generosity and friendliness. He was a good friend and helped me a great deal in those years and I'm glad that we were able to keep in touch via the Internet in later years.  I was blessed to know him and call him a friend.
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
I first met Gil working for Continental airlines in Chicago in the mid 70s. A great, generous guy; funny and sincere. My condolences. I will miss his funny emails.
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
Donna and Reed, I am deeply sorry for the loss of your loved one. While I didn't know him very long, he will definitely be missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Love and God Bless, Alisha and Andrew.
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
Gil was a great guy. Many years ago I met Gil. Gil gave me a hat he had purchased in Europe. The hat was new. It was a grand gesture. That hat is gone now too, but it lasted for many years. I am fortunate to have have met Gil. My condolences to Gil's family and especially John Anderson and John's sister. I will be on an airplane on Tuesday morning headed for Arizona and will miss the memorial. God bless Gil!!!
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
Dear Donna and Reed... we are so so sorry to hear of Gil's passing .. please know that you have been and continue to be in our daily prayers. God Bless you
❤️ The Heikkila's
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
My first love at 14 years old. My love and condolences Donna and Reed. I know what a wonderful person he was and he will be so missed. I can't believe his entire family is gone.
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
Big Smile, and great sense of Humor. First time I met Gil was on the plane to Florida for a Cruise. He was wearing a paper toilet seat cover around his neck. Also he did the best tug boat horn imitation. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
With love, Jon and Kathy
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
Fond memories of Gil during grade school and high school. My condolences to his family.
Liz Fiore
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
So sad & sorry to hear of your great loss. Donna, you & Reed are in our thoughts & prayers. Mike & Vicki Kropp
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
Donna and Reed, we are very saddened by your loss. Gil was an amazing man who enjoyed making others laugh. He will be truly missed. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. We love you. ~ Paul and Janette Peterson ~
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
Our sincerest condolences Donna & Reed. Your loss will be shared by many who admired, respected and enjoyed their contact with Gil. He kept us here in NC connected via email with Arlington Heights and the Chicago area.
Sandy & Jim

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August 31, 2021
August 31, 2021
Dear Gil!! Love you and miss you and your family!! Would love to be out tonite celebrating your birthday! You're with God now and all your family who love you! I guess you can't beat that for a great birthday!
Thinking a lot of Helen this morning and how leukemia took her away from us too soon. 5 years old, crazy. the Cure of Leukemia was supposed to be here by the year 2000!! Children and adults are still dying from it. Maddening.
Love you!! Your Cousin Rickie
November 20, 2018
November 20, 2018
Two years since your passing dear cousin! I can't believe your whole family is gone! Your parents, sisters Helen and Merry, brother John. Even one of your nephews gone. Garret Wilson. It's so sad. I'm trying to do some genealogy on the Wilson, Partipilo and Duebner family so that Reed has some idea where he came from. Praying for you! Miss you so much!
November 20, 2018
November 20, 2018
It’s been two years since Gil passed but his memories are still alive with me. I remember all the good times. Rest In Peace
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November 26, 2016

My name is Grant Wood, I just recently retired from Fedex Canada, after a very rewarding and successful career, which I can only thank Gil for. I first met him in December of 1988, when I was sent to ORD for my 727 Weight & Balance training.Back " in those days" this course took 2 weeks to complete,and i can coubt the times Gil would review our manual WB homework from the previous night, and in front of the entire class he would rip up my hard work, and yell out, " Wood, I'm going to ship you back to Canada, if you don;t get this #^&&**  correct tonight. So after 2 weeks of hard work, late nights, and even having to " stay after school " some days, I proudly completed Gil's WB class. I can remember saying to myself, " one day I'm going to be the Gil Wilson of Canada"...and because of his mentoring during those 2 weeks, and my absolute respect for this man, I had a wonderful career as an Instructor for Fedex Canada, and recently retired after close to 29 years of service.Gil and I stayed in touch over those years, and after he left Fedex,and a few years ago, much to my surprise I received an email from him, and we continued to check in on one another.....so just today, 11/26 i received a message from a U.S. instructor telling me of Gil's passing. I am shocked, I'm sad,but above all, I'm a better man for having been blessed with knowing Gil, and having the opportunity to have sat in his training class back in "88".To Donna, and your family, my deepest sympathies. Take comfort in knowing that Gil touched many lives over the years, and that his memory will live on, because of the man,the husband,the father, and the dear friend that Gil Wilson was to all that knew him.

November 23, 2016

Hi I am a second cousin of Gil's my Name is Rachel Duebner Bodzioch. My Father Harry Duebner was a younger brother of Gil's Grandmother Helen Duebner Wilson, or as he and his siblings called her, Rayma!
There is not much I remember about Gil as we were growing up. When he was a brand new baby I know I couldn't touch his head because of his soft spot, I do remember that. Now that I look at his baby pictures I see a head full of curly hair so I doubt very much I would've found his soft spot.
Gil's soft spot was his heart, his big as all outdoors heart. He was very sensitive as a child and shy. Yes I would call him shy, at least at family gatherngs. And we had a lot of family gatherings. Back when Gil and I were growing up, families visited each other on Sundays. Stores were not open on Sundays back then. The most you could get is the Sunday paper and a quart of milk at the drug store. I can't even remember gas stations being open but Walgreens was. So you went to church and then kept your nice clothes on and went to visit relatives. During holidays such as Thanksgiving which is coming up tomorrow or Christmas, Gil's mom Anne Partipilo Wilson would cook and bake for days. She wrapped many presents both big and small for everybody! She decorated her home like it was going to be in a magazine. So let's cut to the chase and say she went all out and tried to make it the happiest most magical experience you can imagine. 
Gil's older brother John and their little sister Merry were very animated and boysterious!  They had sister who died when she was 5 yrs 8 months old of leukemia and she was a lot like Gil. More reserved, a deep thinker. I remember actually that Helen, or as we all called her "Little Helen" and I  would sneak away to her room which was adorable all decked out like a log cabin or we'd go to the basement to play with her child size kitchen set and doll furniture. We'd play house and I bet sometimes we'd pull the boys into it to be Daddy (Johnny) or our little boy (Gilbert).
In all of our days together as cousins I don't remember much of Gilbert as I said he was a quiet child and a little shy. Probably a great way to stay out of trouble as a middle child, nobody's going to notice you if you're under the radar, smart boy!!
As we grew into teens our lives split. He was busy with his life and I mine. We didn't visit much anymore life got complicated with, well, life. Johnny moved to California as soon as he graduated from high school. Unfortuately, Gil's parents got a divorce so as far as visiting we'd see Anne on separate occasions and Ken mostly as he was my Dad's nephew. I hung with Merry as we became of drinking age so we'd go to bars to dance and of course drink. She moved not far away but far enough away that I wasn't interested in driving all the way out there anymore. Gil was busy working at the airport and meeting girls!! LOL!
Whenever I would run into Gil which wasn't a lot he'd be happy and loving and happy to see me. If he was in Chicago he'd make sure to stop by my mom's apartment in Jefferson Park to say hi to her or he'd stop by the store she worked at, Knobe's Stationery Store, which perked her up and made her really happy because by now she had lost my dad.
Gil and Donna made sure they sent us lots of pictures of Reed which made my mom and I happy to see the little guy growing up. Now I wish to heck we had made arrangements to run over or have them come over so we could've met Donna and Reed in person. So stupid that we let other things get in the way.
Gil and I have kept in contact through email for years of which I probably have most every email he sent me over time. He liked to send jokes even when he was battling cancer. He'd also sent warnings about safety issues. Worried about my family's safety. He sent me a book in the mail about God once which I will cherish the rest of my life now. I didn't realize he was a Free Evangelical for many years, the same religion my older daughter has chosen. Yet, he was never pushy about his faith but we had conversations about God and the hereafter just like I did with "Little Helen".
So that is my story about Gil. Long and not really full of information or funny stories. In conclusion, I'd like to say he was one of the best cousins/friends I've ever had even though we didn't see each other often. 
 

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