親愛的履遵吾妻

欣逢诞辰，普天同庆，你出生豪门千金，垂情於我，真的是三生有幸。你对我的爱情天長地久令我终生难忘。

如今我已垂垂老矣，旡依旡靠，寄居在美西，仍然想要落叶归根。但不知道是到台湾还是大陸。到时候再说吧。人生在世过眼云烟，云遊四海也是消遥自在，旡牵无挂，但愿身体健康，与世无争，乐得寄情山水，做个自了汉！

永远爱你的馀定

親愛的履遵吾妻

今天是我們結婚六十週年紀念日，我在這裡特別問候你向你說聲感謝你給了我很多人間的榮華富貴，世間的一切妻財子樂，美滿家庭。你照顧我岳父和女兒孫輩，分享愛心真心善待親友，旡怨旡悔，這麼偉大的奉獻精神，令人感動我因為能力不足沒有給你物資上的滿足，這是我最大的遺憾。

我現在寄居在南加州，慧玲對我不錯但是為了長久之計，我還是想落葉歸根，回到台灣或者大陸舟山養老。我三月回台北去看過二家老人院，士林和林口長庚養生村都很好現在長壽也是很麻煩我希望保持身體健康頭腦清楚，生活可以自理，不要變成別人的負擔。善用自己的資源，安享天年。

履寧年初因為老人癡呆症被家人送到療養中心，以前他常常打電話給我，有時候一天幾次，現在已經沒有消息了。小弟也不想去看她。人老了真的是很可憐這樣的日子真的是沒有意義。小弟分不清楚血親和姻情的分別和輕重，頑固不化，自以為是，我們勸說他也沒有用處，非常自私自利。孤獨老人也很可憐

永遠愛您的餘定

親愛的履遵吾妻

欣逢華誕，敬祝安息主懷。

我們的好朋友李賽西最近去世，安葬在你的墓園，和家人團聚。你們可以經常在一起聊天散步，大家有個伴。再也不會寂寞孤單。

囡囡到舊金山開會，順便去看看履寧和小弟。他從台北專程探病，姐弟情深。小弟現在去看宋建章牙醫植牙，明年初還要再來幾個月正式裝上新牙。

今天囡囡和寶寶明明從LA開車過來見面，好久不見，到時候可以多聊聊天。

我最近和阿江聯絡，他還是一個人住在LV。他真是個精明幹練的女強人。

永遠愛妳的餘定

親愛的履遵

欣逢八秩華誕，舉世普慶，祝你永生，安息主懷。

餘定敬賀

親爱的履遵吾妻千古

光陰荏苒，不知不觉间你已经離去十一年了。十年生死两茫茫，人生在世不称意者十之八九，知己难求，徒呼奈何！往事如烟，良辰不再。经过生離死别，回首往事歴歴在目。

在疫情蔓延以来，我在纲上和同好一起练习太极拳。最近文汉也恭与其盛，很高兴每星期见面聊天解闷。我身体尚称健康，请勿念。願你在天之灵安息主怀。

爱你的馀定

親愛的履遵吾妻千古

中秋佳節快樂。今天又是中國國慶日，正好是你的生日，普天同慶，大陸上舉辦大型活動，這真是良辰吉時，值得慶賀。

美國現在疫情猖狂，我們都被迫在家閉䦕自守，生活無聊，真的是天災人禍，希望這樣的日子早日結束，恢復正常生活。此地友好紛紛搬到老人公寓去退休，這樣就可以解決吃住問題。在美國子女沒有意願照顧父母，尤其單身老人孤苦無依，只有住在老人院過日子。我在聖城暫時寄住，遅早也要走這條路，也許考慮搬到台北長庚養生村或是金塘鄉下養老。希望自己身體狀況保持健康，這樣才不會變成別人的負擔。我今年八十四歲，身心還祘健康，趁著頭腦清楚很想為家鄊貢獻所學回饋社會。求上帝保佑

願你安息天家。

愛你的餘定

親愛的履遵

相別十年無限思念之情。最近突然小毛病逝，痛失至親，深感人生無常，録蘇東坡江城子一首以表懷念深情。

十年生死兩茫茫 不思量 自難忘 千里孤墳無處話淒涼 縦使相逢應不識 塵滿面鬢如霜 亱來幽夢忽還鄉 小軒窗正梳妝 相顧無言 惟有淚千行 料得年年腸斷處 明月夜短松岡

祝安息主懷。

餘定

親愛的履遵

今年明明大學畢業了，現在開始在囡囡家附近一家法國公司上班，他對工作充滿熱情活力十足，將來很有希望出人頭地。寶寶在洛杉磯建築事務所工作，他喜歡加州氣候溫暖，大學同學都在這里有伴。現在老大家二個兒子完成學業，他們出頭了。記得妹妹當初叫我們幫助永慧設立獎學金，以後可以去佛州上大學，價廉物美，這是很好的投資。剩下的三個男孩子成績不錯，我們也可以放心了。願你永息主懷。

永遠愛你的餘定

Dear Gloria,

Happy birthday. I am thinking of you on this auspicious national holiday day of China. Millions of people celebrate and cheer the birth of new China. I always joked about the coincidence in your honor. May you rest in peace.
Love you forever.

Richard

Dear Gloria,
Yesterday was our 56th wedding anniversary. You left us nine years ago. I miss you all the time. Your classmates Angela from Chicago passed away many years ago. Her husband George Yang is living in SF. We kept in touch by email. Another of your classmate Cherry Chi lives here. She played mahjong with Jean once a week. Tom has a girlfriend Wang. Patricia met them in Taiwan. She is traveling in Japan with Liam and Owen. Liam is taller than Patricia now. BB is working in LA. MM is working in West Chester close to home. May you rest in peace. Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
You will be 77 years old today. Happy birthday to you. May you Rest In Peace in heaven. Christopher graduated from USC and started working in LA. Alexander will be graduated from LeHai next year. Time certainly flies. Miss you.
Love,
Richard

I miss you Mom today, and every day. Christopher and Alexander speak of you often. We are lucky they have such great memories, you will always be a part of their lives. 
It has been a very hot, muggy, rainy summer, you would not like this weather! 
love you forever,
Marjorie

親愛的履遵 你離開我們已經有整整八年時間，我覺得你好像一直都在我身邊保佑我和我們的家人。你的愛心永遠和我在一起，我經常想念你。我很幸運遇到愛我的伴侶和我共度晚年，互相有照應體諒，不會寂寞無助。我最近左眼白內障手術成功，右眼也要修復，現在視力恢復正常。我已經通過筆試和視力測驗正式取得加州鴐駛執照，並且申請汽車執照掛上加州的車牌。這樣我就正式成為加州的居民。這裡天氣四季如春，是退休的理想地方，希望能安度晚年。祝福你永遠安息天庭。愛你的餘定

親愛的履遵 上星期三個女兒女婿和六個外孫一起去憑吊你的墓前獻花致意，也是大家對你的追思和感恩回饋，希望你能感受到他們的誠意，不愧你對他們的養育之恩。我今天中午帶著慧玲和老大一家再度去探望你，一年來難得再見，心情非常複雜，看到我名字刻在你的墓碑上也算了卻一點心底的深思。最後我還是會陪伴你到永遠。今天請卞道明夫婦吃便飯，又去他家拜訪，他已經開始洗腎，每天四次，左腳腫大疼痛，行動不便，精神不錯，幸好有老婆照顧，也是他的福氣。人生在世身體健康狀況最要緊，求你保佑我的身心健康足慰生平。欣逢新年祝你安息主懷。愛你的餘定

Dear Gloria
Happy birthday! I am settled down in San Diego for almost a year. I had good fortune to be with our dear friend Jean. She is so nice to me with loving care. I enjoy her company very much. We will take care of each other for the rest of our lives. Please give us your blessing. May you Rest In Peace in heaven.
Love, Richard

親愛的履遵
今天是你的逝世紀念日，願你在天之靈安息主身旁。我會好好照顧自己想念你的愛和情。
永遠愛你的餘定

親愛的履遵
時光荏苒我到聖地牙哥已經三個多月，慧玲右肩手術成功復健治療非常順利，現在已經開始如以往一樣每週打二次麻將，我在人手不足時也上㘯偶而逢場作戲客串一下，好在輸贏在十元以下無傷大雅，就是好久沒有打十三張要動腦筋，反正閒著好玩趁機交些朋友。消磨時間。我身體健康狀況良好請不要為我擔心。清明節快到了祝你安息主懷。餘定

親愛的履遵 今天是你的75歲生日紀念日，也是中國大陸國慶，普天同慶萬眾歡騰，也是魯炳炎太太的生日，真是太巧了。我剛剛去加州回來，和慧玲到墨西哥遊輪，然後在他家住了一個禮拜，他對我很好，帶我去吃美食，為了我燒拿手菜，他真是賢妻良母，又能幹又聰明，你一定會祝福我們吧！我也去曾治津家去住了一個禮拜，他們二夫妻對我也好，大家聊天懷舊，非常想念妳。洛杉磯同學身體健康情況不太好，都老了。今天下午去接明明回家，容容也會帶小孩去囡囡家，大家難得聚在一起聊天吃飯。愛妳的餘定
難得聚在一起。

親愛的履遵 我又喜歡一個聰明能幹的女孩，我們要一起去旅行了，希望你能祝福我們吧！爱你的餘定

Dear Gloria,
Time certainly flies. Six years passed by since you left us. So much goes on in 2016. Both Michelle and Patricia came back to the USA. Patricia will bring Liam and Owen to visit you tomorrow in your memory. I really appreciate her thoughtfulness. See you tomorrow. Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
We went to LeHigh University to visit Alexander for his concert last month. He was elected Student Senator. I am really proud of him. Marjorie invited me for weekend to meet MM.
Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
Happy birthday. Do you know Helen has the same birthday as you. She is always happy and cheerful. Jean had a minor stroke and was under rehabilitation in Seattle. Cindy called and she missed you a lot. Patricia also remembered you in wechat and she missed you so much. So much love and care. We all missed you very much. Love, Richard

親愛的履遵 今天是中秋節，祝賀佳節快樂。月有隂晴园缺，人有悲歡離合，此事古難全，但願大家平安健康快樂成長。容容和小弟去錫蘭旅遊，Rob一家去日本玩，我和囡囡去理海大學參加明明大提琴演奏會，晚上去紐奧良餐廳吃飯，慶祝他生日。他在哪裏上學很好，他還當選學生會代表，這小傢伙真是要得，將來一定有出息。❤️愛你的餘定

Dear Gloria,
You left us five years ago. We miss you all the time. Life is different without you. I just came back from China last week visiting Patricia, Liam, Owen in Shanghai. Tom was so nice to join us from Taiwan. Patricia is organizing my birthday party in Taipei. She is so nice to me. She said she missed you every day. Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
Last year Rob was initiated to PLHK at PL International convention in Taipei. Now Marjorie is going to join PLUS sponsored by PLNJ. You must also be happy to welcome both of them as member of PL family. Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
Happy Mother's Day! Your cousin from Ningbo is coming with his wife and Simon to pay respect to you this morning. Such a show of affection for your love and caring. Simon is doing well with two children and have a lovely family now. Love. Richard

Dear Gloria,
又到了清明節，你離別我們將滿五年。時間過得真快，寶寶已經讀大學二年級，明明馬上要上要上大學，我已經是七十九歲老人，每天過的是沒有意義的日子，只有用打太極拳混日子，希望身體健康不要成為別人的負擔。永遠愛你的Richard

Dear Gloria,
Merry Christmas and happy new year!
Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
I had Cateract procedure on the right eye today. I was successful. I hope it will improve my eyesight.
Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
Patricia will attend Lunying's service with Howard, Deanna. Michelle is not willing to go. That is fine. Everyone has her own idea and feeling. She can not forgive her unhappy memory in Taiwan. I hope she will get over this soon. Love, Richard

Der Gloria,
龍音昨天去世，小弟終祘鬆了一口氣。剛才打電話給小弟給他聊聊，請他多保重身體。龍音住院幾個月，在生死関頭徘徊，對小弟精神負擔很重，現在他也可軽鬆下來了。
Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
Liam just celebrated his ten years birthday yesterday. Owen will be nine years old after the new year. Time certainly filed away so fast. I do not know what lay ahead of me. Just pass time day by day.
Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
Happy birthday! May you rest in peace.
Love, Richard

Dear Gloria, I was away for more than two months. Now I can visit you more often to talk to you, to see our marriage portrait, to water the plants. Marjorie is moving to Terrytown, NY soon. But I will be with you as long as I live. Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
中秋節快樂
Love, Richard

Dear Gloria, My sister passed away last week at home. My poor sister lived a tough life. It is a blessing for her to live such a long life. Lungyin is still in hospital under chemo treatment. Poor Tom suffered with her for a prolong sickness. Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
You left us four years ago. Our love for you will last forever. I am in Taipei right now. Our 51 wedding anniversary just past days ago. It is so painful to remember you any place any time. You will be in my heart as long as I live. Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
I am visiting my sister in Taichung. Unfortunately she is sick from lung infection and under treatment In hospital.. She is 92 years old. And very week. May God bless her and help her recover quickly.
Love, Richard

Dear Gloria, I came to Hong Kong yesterday. I met all the family members for dinner. It was heart warming to see them.
Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
I am going to Shanghai tomorrow to see Patricia, Liam and Owen. We all miss them so much. I will ba back 9/7. See you then.
Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,
We had a great birthday dinner with family on Marjorie's birthday. I was so surprised to see Michelle came all the way from Hong Kong.
We had a big birthday party on May 31 at Lambertville, NJ. Howard, Rose, johnathan and Kate came from Chicago and Boston. It is Marjorie's 50th birthday. She gave a speech and mentioned her memory of you. Very touching. Love, Richard

Dear Gloria,

I went to the Memorial Day service at holy root in the open air with hundred of friends and relatives. Rev. John gave a sermon of history and memory for the holiday. It is heart warming. With love, Richard

Miss Chen:

When you are in Taipei we have a good time and share your experience with us.Have a peaceful rest forever.

Richard's classmate
Chunglin Hsu

履遵姊：I miss you .

Dear Gloria,

Happy Mother's Day. You are a great mother to our three daughters and a great grand mother to our six grand children.

Love,
Richard

There will be a memorial service on Memorial Day may 26, Monday at 9:00 in the moring at Holyroodcemeterynj

Dear Gloria,

It is Ching Ming today. It is raining all day today long. But it is getting warmer every day. Spring is around the corner. I miss you very much. May you rest in peace.

Love,
Richard

we miss you Mom.

love,
marjorie