- 57 years old
- Date of birth: Jan 19, 1953
- Place of birth:
San Antonio, Texas, United States - Date of passing: Dec 26, 2010
- Place of passing:
Sugar Land, Texas, United States
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Let the memories of Gloria be with us yesterday, today and forever! | ![]() |
This memorial website was designed and created in the memory of our precious loved one, Gloria Perkins Rylander who was born to Dilcia Brown Perkins and Neal Perkins, Sr. on January 19, 1953 and passed away on December 26, 2010. We will remember her forever and her spirit will live on. This special tribute, for Gloria, is a way to reflect and share the wonderful stories of a woman who selflessly served her life to God, her devoted husband Cornel; her daughter Heleva (Gene); her son Jamal (Marilyn); her grandchildren: Kiauna, Ebony, Jaedon, Joseph, Mason, Imani, Madison, Tanzie, Brandon, Brittany and Darius; her sisters: Ruby Hilliard (Oliver), Alice Snowden (James), Brenda Dillon (Douglas); her brothers: Neal Perkins Jr. and Charles Perkins; her nephews: Undra Jackson (Taneka), Marcus Jackson (Vernice), Jabari Snowden; her nieces: Aisha Adams and Kamaria Snowden. Her brother-in-laws and sister-in-laws: Brenda Williams (Mark), Ronald Rylander (Bobbie), Malika Sabah, Gretchen Dotson (Leonard), Denise Rylander, Jesse Lee Rylander, Jr. (Bea), her maternal nieces, her maternal nephews, her cousins, her friends and her community. Gloria has reached out to so many for so long, our gratitude to her is immeasurable. Please take the time to share your stories, memories, and special moments as a personal way to honor someone so important to us all . . . we love you so much Gloria, but God loves you more. RIP until we come Home!
Homegoing Services: Monday, January 3, 2011
Holy Trinity Missionary Baptist Church
Dr. Richard Jewel Rose - Pastor/Officiating
Final Arrangements Entrusted To: Richardson Mortuary
"Happy Mother's Day Gloria - I know you are enjoying the day with Momma, Aunt Francis, Aunt Sis, Grandma, Aunt Stella, Aunt Fredell, Babysister, Aunt Moosey, Aunt Bessie, Mother [Rylander] and all the other women of God that have passed on. I just never imagined losing one of my sisters or brothers although we know all will leave this earth; it's still a hard pill to swallow. I love you!"
"Well Gloria, this has been a rough year and a day doesn't pass that I don't think about you and Momma. My heart is still heavy and yesterday I finally went to your "old" house in Stafford. As I sat in the driveway the new owner came and initially was a bit startled but after I explained my presence he was so compassionate. I really miss you so much, things are NOT the same. I love you Gee!"
"I miss you Mrs. Rylander i pass your picture in our home and stop to say hello or sometimes even vent to you about my problems.You would always tell it like it is no matter who i spoke about. I wish you were here. I need some time away from the stress. I hope your looken down on us with a smile beautiful and healthy. I love you dearly. Your Daughter in Law"
"Gloria, this is truly a difficult day, a day of rejoicing but also a day of missing you so much. This year has passed so fast and yet my heart still aches. I know that God doesn't make mistakes and you are enjoying Heaven and family members that went Home before you. We are moving to our new house and I think of you everytime I look at our grapefruit tree. I miss you so much. RIP Gloria"
"My dear sister in law it has almost been a year since your passing. It was hard for me to express how I felt, today I have the strength and courage to speak of my feelings. I have missed you my dear sister and like many others often pick up the phone to call or visit your house but cannot. I have kept in contact with your family, children, grandchildren and my brother we miss you."
"Hey granny. Wow im missing you so much. Nothing is the same anymore. Thats okay, because now I kno that you ARE in a better place. No more pain that u have to go through. Im moving soon to go live with my dad n oklahoma. I know this is gonna be hard for pawpaw because he doesnt wana see me go, but im gonna pray on it. I love you so much granny I just wanted to stop by and say how I miss u."
"Hey Gloria, it is so hard and everyone is really still struggling with your passing. Often, I find myself saying let me call you and then reality sets in. It is so hard Gloria and you know that. Ok sis, until next time . . . I love you and appreciate all that you taught me growing up! In 2012 I am going to start cooking . . . and that's no joke but I am laughing at your response!"
"To The Love Of My Life; Dark and lovely foxy lady. I must share this with you. Crane Worldwide has been very and strong support with me since your home going Gee. From the president down to the last. Financially,spiritually, and personally. I thank the Lord for them. This little light of mine I do let it shine, everyday and everywhere I go. GOD IS GOOD"
"Hello Baby Girl; Sugar Pudding; My Friend; My Partner; My Love. I'm feeling a little better and getting stronger, but I'm still lonely and half empty Gee. Hey check this out honey. Your husband won employee of the month, for Feb. I was so happy and excited when they called my name. You know this is a first for me and I am enjoying everyday of the benefits that come with it. Love you baby."
"Gloria, Safe in His Arms - Because the Lord is my shepherd, I have everything I need. He lets me rest in the meadow's grass and He leads me beside the quiet streams, He restoreth my failing health and He helps me to do what honors Him the most; that's why I'm safe, safe in His arms. When the storms of life are raging, and the billows roll; so glad He shall hide me safe in His arms. RIP G!"
"Hello my beautiful black queen. Love you baby, and I miss everything about you honey. The little things and the big things. No matter what I was going through you were always there for me. Our love is so wonderful. You're in Heaven showing me some love, and I'm down here still loving you. You are the love of my life sweetheart. Thank You Jesus"
"Hey Gloria, I know that you already know, today has been an extremely rough day for me and I come here for my comfort as I shed my tears. You, Momma and Daddy are in Heaven and there every day is great but here on earth, it's difficult, but like I said, you already know! There's a lot that I need to talk to you about and I will tonight. I love you so much my sister, rest Gloria rest."
"Hey Gloria, I went to the bowling alley (Saturday) for the first time since you went home and I know you were happy that I bowled in your spot! The team was so happy to finally win 4 games. Doug went to work and I went to spend the night at Esh's house and I saw you clearly in my dream telling me to come and give you a hug. Wow, I sat straight up . . . it seemed so real! RIP my sister."
"I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you. The Late Sam Cook, on one of his records sweetheart. I know there was no doubt in your mind, how much I loved you and you loving me. I'm lonely for you honey, but I'm a little better and holding on to the sweet memories. Doing the best I can Gee. I'll write a letter to you one day this week. Thank You Jesus for sending to me the love of m"
"Hey Gloria, stopping by to let you know that Jabari passed his physical agility test for the Houston Fire Department; he also passed on the family being there to cheer him on but we know you, Momma, Daddy, Mr. Snowden, David Lee and all the other family angels were there. Jay is one step closer to accomplishing his dream of becoming a Houston Firefighter. Love ya sis, talk to you soon, Brenda"
"I miss you honey; I miss everything about you. At the same time, I cannot thank God enough for choosing me for you and you for me. He has truly blessed the both of us and we have lived as one. We have had so much fun together my beauty queen and I have the pictures and the memory to hold on to. There is only one that I love more than I love you baby, and his name is JESUS our Lord."
"To Cornel, The Rylander Family, and sister Brenda.
It seem has though it was just yesterday when I head Gloria had past. Gloria will surely be missed. Thanks for sharing this beatiful tribute of her life. My prayers will contiune to be with you and your family.
Your, Friend and Fellow Bowler, Emmitt and Lois Warren"
"Cornel, I'm sure the pain you are feeling seems unbearable. The love you and Gloria shared as a couple was evident in your behavior and on your faces. What a great love!!!!! You made sure that she knew without a doubt that she was your everything and she assured you of the same. Gloria's love lives on in your heart as well as the hearts of her entire family."
"Heleva, I had the pleasure of hearing about the love you had for your mother and know that there isn't much people can say to comfort your loss. Although I did not personally know your mother I know she meant the world to you and your beautiful daughters. Know that you and your family are in my prayers and I pray that God oversee each one of you."
"T-Gloria, it has truly been a pleasure having you as a part of my life. I enjoyed the moments of sitting there with you and my Mother listening to stories, gossiping, and laughing about different events. My Mother, the Morris family, and I will sincerely miss you, but we understand that you grew weary and just needed to rest your head on the Lord's bosom.
Love you T-Glo, Tanika (Tan)"
"To Rylander, Brenda and Faye,
I am so sorry for your loss,but do know I am praying for you all! There are no words I could say to ease your pain,but time does heal! Gloria will be missed but never forgotten because she will forever live in our hearts! To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord and what a wonderful place to be. May God give you comfort & peace! Love OD & Patsy"
"Oh Gloria, it’s a New Year and it’s very difficult to watch others enjoy it when it brings up the void that I feel. Holidays and special anniversaries will be so difficult for me. I continuously find myself intensely reliving the last days we spent together. My heart ache so much my sister, so much, so much, so much."
"To my friend Gloria and family,
I find it so hard to believe that you are gone. You are my trusted friend. I think of the many years we have gone to the bank and sit most of the night counting bowling money. Memories bring great comfort at a time like this but there are times when grief takes over for a while. Rest in peace my friend."
"To my extended family; There is no words that I can say, because I know that all, knew where my heart is when it come to family, Brenda my daughter, Gloria a true friend, a hugg and kiss will be missed on Sat. Alice our friendship started years ago and is still strong even if we do not see each other every day. Cornell and family, Remember God is your strenght.
Gloria RIP"
"Brenda,
As I reminded you in the e-mail, as you would always to remember to "always put God first", He is a comforter, a healer, wonderful counselor, and only He never makes mistakes. Much love and prayers to you and family. God only picks the prettiest flowers and know that she was plucked for His glory. May Gloria rest now."
"God creates all fruit and who better to pick the fruit when it is just ripe for picking, otherwise, the fruit can fall off or go bad, so Brenda I know that this is a very sad time, but God knows exactly when to pick the fruit when it is just perfect and ripe. God be with you and your family, as I know you will miss her dearly, but remember that she is not far, but just went home to our Father God"
"My Dear Sister Brenda,
God is just so awesome. When things appear so hard to understand, just look up and remember that it's God's plan. I lost my sister last year to cancer around this time. My joy is in knowing that she is with the Lord. Cherish those rich memories of the calmness, caring and all the love that your sister shared with others and gain strenght from them. God bless you."
"Brenda, prayers/condolences on your loss. It is difficult, and you'll be able to come back strong and I wish you the best in being able to cope with those difficulties. Please also know that there are many out here in this wonderful ministry who share in your loss and who remain ready to continue to support you in all you are dealing with. All the best."
"Brenda, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your sister. Although we know she is now with her Saviour and in a better place it is still painful to feel the physical loss of her. She is now an angel on your shoulder and there whenever you need her. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and hope the coming days will be easier..All my love,Diane"
"Good morning Mrs. Brenda, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister, I send me deepest condolences to you and your family in your hour of bereavement. Know that I am prayer for you and your family and should you need me for anything please don't hesitate to give me a phone call as I am here for you!
Be blessed,
Warmest Regards,
Marvell"
"No one else can do it and nothing else will heal the hear except the love and comfort of our Jehovah Rahpa!!! I pray that His understand transcends throughout your family where everyone knows that His perfect timing and will shall be done for His purpose alone! As a Christian, we believe, obey, and understand the transition to glory and being with our Master but as Man in the flesh its hard."
"Bren, you and your family are always in my prayers. I know this is not the ideal time to go through this situation as I encountered the same last year with my grandmother at Thanksgiving and then my Step Father at Christmas so I truly understand your situation right now. One thing we can be sure of is that God is our Keeper, Comforter, and Refuge in a time of remorse and grief."
"Brenda, I am praying for you and your family. God will get you through this difficult time and you will come out a better person. These are the times in our lives that make us grow stronger and closer to God. It hurts but we all go through it but we seem to get stronger in time. You can do It! In Christ, Randy"
"Hey Cornel may god give you the strength to deal with losing your other half. The last 9 months i have talked to you on a daily basis and there wasnt one day you didnt mention Gloria and the glorious matrimony yall shared and with your belief and love for god just know she is in a better place now, pain free looking over you sand smiling
RIP Gloria Rylander"
"Brenda, Please accept my condolences. May your sister's soul rest in perfect peace and may God's love fill our hearts and homes with a gentle peace, the peace that passeth all understanding. I pray that this new year will be a year of renewal, breakthrough and abundance for us all. In Jesus' name I pray. All will be well in our Lord and Master, Jesus' name. Amen. Your Sister in Christ"
"To the Rylander family, I met Ms. Gloria and her husband Cornel many years ago. We bowled against each other for many years until recently when Cornel came to me and asked for my help so Ms. Gloria would't have to bowl each week. I did it because it was her. We spent many Superbowl parties at my house. Now the real party begins. I luv u Ms. Gloria rest baby in peace."
"Heaven has gained another beautiful angel! I thank God for the wonderful times my family (my brother Myron) shared with Ms. Rylander. Continue to carry on her legacy Heleva & Jamal through the many blessings she has left here on Earth. I love you and may God's healing power throughout this difficult time protect & keep you all."
"Heleva, my thoughts and prayers are with you & your family. Your mom always had a smile & laugh for me anytime I saw her. Her love for you was very apparent and I know this is very difficult for you. Have faith, God will see you through and Ms.Glo is no longer in pain - she's smiling down on you and your family. I love you dearly. Khris"
"To the Rylander, Perkins, and Dillion's Families.
My prayers and thoughts are with you in the loss of Gloria. I met Gloria through bowling and she gave the gift of laughter and I am sure dried her share of tears. She left her mark on many lucky lives through the years. In the memories she left, her spirit will shine bright. I know she will be remembered always."
"Brenda, I am so sorry for the loss of your sister, but as you are well aware, GOD makes no mistakes. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Again, you have my deepest sympathy. Until we speak again, take care, and know that God will not put more on us than we can bear. Through all, life and death, He will see you through...Joy cometh in the morning! All the best, Bernie"
"Brenda,you and your family are in my prayers. I just looked at the site in memory of your sister and I am so touched. I will pray for you and the family to have the peace of God even after the 3rd. Blessings as you do all that you have to do for the homegoing. Happy belated birthday! I meant to send you a message but time has be going by so first :-) hope you had a great day! Cate"
"Brenda, all I can say is "GOD KNOWS". He saw fit to share your sister with you for many years but now he wanted her to come HOME. Stay strong and remember He never gives us more than we can handle. I like to look at it as I now have another Angel that has my back. We Love you and never doubt that!. Love Darrell, Brenda and Lauryn Williams"
"To the family: God is in control of our lives and everything in heaven and in the earth. We are the works of His hand, we belong to Him. He will never leave us nor forsake us. Put your trust in Him and He will direct your path. "Call upon Him and be still and know that He is GOD." When you are weak, God will show Himself strong on your behalf."
"To my extended family hold on to Glo’s memories knowing that we all will reunite with her one day. I am so lost for words but I say farewell my Friend, until we meet again. Family members, friends hold on to the memories forever and ever. My thoughts and prayers are continuously with you and may God bless you all is my prayer. Big Man (Mr. Hill)"
""TO THE RYLANDER AND PERKINS FAMILY, I AM TRUILY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE PASSING OF MY SISTER IN CHRIST, AND MY FRIEND "GLORIA PERKINS RYLANDER" MY HEART IS SADDENED, BUT GOD MAKE'S NO MISTAKE'S. I KNOW THAT YOUR HEART IS HURTING, BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT "GLORIA" IS IN A BETTER PLACE, FOR SHE IS NOW WITH THE LORD. TODAY YOUR HEART IS HURTING, BUT JOY COME IN THE MORNING. LARRY & NIKKI PAYNE"
"To my big sister, it’s amazing how 54 years has passed, we are all adults now, gone our separate ways but the common denominator will always be the love that our family has. I sit here thinking about growing up and all the fun times we had, I think about how humble you were and that I have never seen you mad. Gloria I can’t believe you are “Gone Too Soon” rest on our Father’s bosom, rest Sis rest."
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