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Leave a tributeRest in peace."
I'm sorry that you are experiencing the mourning of losing a love one. Many if not all of us has experienced this, but I would like to share a brief scripture that will may just bring you comfort.
(Revelation 21:4) And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”
Thanks for reading.
But as Papa Ben always sai, " he's got a little Chapman in him; he'll be alright". and he will be;...we just miss him so!
Aunt Louise an Uncle Aubrey mdove to VA the last few days before he was born so I did not have the growing-up memories with him and Aubrey (they moved from Atlanta where we were nearby in Cartersville) but our granother lived with us an we got regular pictures and letters on the boys as they grew up and some nice visits ( incluing some not-so-good memories of Uncle Aubrey sunburning the soles of his feet and Charlie the dog getting lost on the way back home)
But I was (and AM) so happy Guy an Mary found one another and create Kellie! He had joy and much love in what was his too-short life because of them , more tha most of us have in a much longer span of time.
Guy has left holes in all our lives but such happiness and love from his having lived! We will pick back up where we left off when we get to the other side!
"Cousin Cacky"
And although I am happy for you, that there is no more sorrow or pain, I missed you so much and grieve almost every day. I miss your smile, even on the bad days.
I know you did not want to leave us alone, but I guess God wanted you back home. You loved us so much, you held on as much as you could. Then you left and went with God.
I wish I had just one more day, one more walk, one more smile, one more "you'll have that" But most of all I wish you hadn’t had to die…
You could be here with me now, talking, laughing, crying with me,
Sharing everything life throws our way, Enjoying each other.
I wish I could hold your hand one more time, I miss that most of all, being able to hold your hand; no matter what happens in the world outside you were a haven, knowing that you would be there whenever I came home. Whatever happens I had you there to hug and hold hands with. Now what am I going to do without you there.
You are loved so very, very much and always will be.
I didn't even realize that an entire year had passed already. Aunt Mary sent me a link to this page so I wanted to sit down and write a few things here. Remember when you and Aunt Mary got married? I remember this so clearly and I'm not sure why because I was so young at the time. I remember watching you two dance in the family room, downstairs at grandmas house. This is probably my fondest memory of you, and at the time you were pretty new to our family. I still can hear "The wonder of you" playing in the background in my head. I remember how happy Aunt Mary was that day and I'll never forget that.
I think my second fondest memory of you is around the time Kellie was born. You were so proud and so happy when she finally arrived. I remember being in high school around the time and I was taking a photography class. I wish I still had the photos that I took of Kellie as a baby laying on my sofa.
I remember driving home from grandmas in one of your older cars when Lora and I were still really young. There was a hole in the carpet in the back seat and the metal was slightly eroded. Lora and I would throw candy wrappers through the hole and jump on top of the back seat to watch them fly down the street from the back window. Even when we were being obnoxious you were always so calm and patient with us kids. I have no clue how you handled us sometimes all the while keeping a smile on your face.
I don't know if you ever really understood how important you were to so many people - especially your immediate family. But I knew and always knew because I watched it happen. I don't know if you ever really truly understood what an amazing gift you were. It was like you were custom made by some higher power to fit like a puzzle piece into so many peoples lives; filling these little empty spaces that no one else could have ever come close to filling. I watched you play different roles to so many different people as a husband, a father, a son, a brother, a uncle, and a best friend. You even were a father figure to one of my cousins. You filled so many peoples hearts with warmness and laughter and love.
The last time I saw you, you were working on something in the garage when I pulled up to the house - I think maybe a piece of furniture for Kellie's room or something? Which was completely typical of you because anytime I pulled up to your house or Grandmas house you were always working on something. Weather it was doing something in the yard, tinkering with something that was broken in the house, or fixing your car - you were always working hard on something, because that's what you did.
Thank you for being such an irreplaceable part of our family. I love you.
Love,
Eva
I'll always remember him as one of the gentlest people I ever met. Guy, sorry we wern't able to meet with Doug a few years ago. God Bless you. I know where you are. Hope to make it there when the Lord calls me.
John W. Minton
You, Guy Dove were an impeccable father to my best childhood friend Kellie Dove. You filled our days with unforgettable laughs and fun that I wont ever forget.
I remember when Kellie and I wanted to become actresses and you would bring out your old camcorder and film us dancing and singing and having a blast. We would ask you to record us over and over again and although I'm sure it got annoying at times, you still kept filming for us.
You brought us to your old job at the post office (I believe that's where it was, its been years) and you spent the whole day showing us around and spending time with us. You did a lot for Kellie and I. Like, bringing us to the movies, the pool and all of those times you brought us to Blockbuster where Kellie and I took forever trying to agree on a movie (laughs).
And maybe life isn't about the tragedies. Maybe life is about all those tiny moments that keep us going through all the darkness. The Little Things. I cant express to you my gratitude for being able to know a pretty spectacular and selfless person like yourself. Having you be apart of my childhood and growing up has made a difference in my life truly.
I will never forget your smile, wonderful presence and the love and care you showed to your family. God has gained a beautiful angel. I love you, miss you and will be seeing you.
Love your old pal,
Gabie
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Friendship
I met Guy when my car was stalled on Blecher, near the Post Office. He was leaving work and saw I was having trouble. He came over and offer his help. Not many people will do that these days.
I left my cell at home and asked him if I could use his to call AAA. Not only did he let me use his phone, but he stayed with me for the hour it took before they came. While waiting he talked about his family, you can tell he really cared.
I will never forget his kindness and willingness to help a stranger. We met for lunch a few times and I realize now that there were few people like him.
Thank you Doug for sharing that story. I think I remember meeting you that day.
Army Life
Guy and I served together in the 228agc from September 1972 until April 1975. We were discharged together. The picture of Guy standing on the ship deck was taken by me. We spent a week in London over new years. 1974. The picture of the three of us sitting in the Landcaster Gate Hotel in London. That's John Minton on the left. Guy on the right and me in the center. We drove his orange VW bus all over Europe. We both worked in the APO together. He inside and I drove a semi truck. I sort of lost contact with him after discharge. I actually met up with Guy and I believe Mary was with him when I was in DC sometime in the 90's. I got out the same time as Guy, graduated from Ohio State in 78 got married and went into the insurance business. I was stunned when I turned on Facebook two years ago to see the notice of his death. I hope all of you are copping well with your loss. He was a good friend and I had some great times with him.
Doug