Harold Wayne Griffith was born in San Jose California on January 11, 1949. His parents were professional chemists, and math was a family experience. He grew up in Campbell when there were orchards everywhere, and as a teenager he and his brothers were very excited by the young electronics industry. He was an Eagle Scout, an honors student (often), a gifted athlete and graduated from the University of California Santa Cruz with a degree in Community Studies in 1972. Harold bought his first house in Santa Cruz in 1974 and lived in Santa Cruz County for the remainder of his life. He chose to live a simple life, and was deeply respected and loved by many people who will truly miss his helping hand, caring heart, and his unique sense of humor.
Harold was a builder, auto mechanic, paralegal and landlord in his professional life. A self-taught handyman who could fix or repair anything, he had a passion for helping people to learn how to do practical things.
Around 2000, he built a modest country house--from the foundation to finish--by himself, with occasional advice from contractor friends and casual labor--because he wanted to demonstrate that an ordinary person really could build a house.
He was a man of wide interests with a vast knowledge of history. A true believer in the democratic process, he taught himself the law so that he could participate in the legal process. It did not take long for him to become well known in certain circles for his careful and thorough work on tax law and legal issues involving building and planning. Inside him was the deepest motivation to seek truth, honesty and straightforward dealings from government agencies and individuals.
Harold is survived by his wife, Virginia Hunt, his sisters Beth Hocker, Bernice Denham, Sylvia Little, Maricyl Rosewitz and Margaret Young and his brothers Charles Griffith, Paul Griffith, and Fred Griffith, and his nieces and nephews.
No formal services are planned, as he requested.
In lieu of flowers or donations, Harold would undoubtedly prefer that people save (not spend) their money for their own future lives.
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Leave a tributeJohn Crivello
Last year the proof was found, and this year the Mayflower Society accepted my application through Mayflower Passenger George Soule.
Thanks for your research, encouragement and support. Still forever missed.
Nick
now that you've cashed in your chips,
and gone on to the Happy Hunting Ground,
I can finally get a few words in edgewise!
-Ain't Life A Trip?!!
Harold was usually very forthright and forceful.
(Does forceful equate to motor-mouth?)
I'm not really sure if he fully comprehended that I was far less conservative or libertarian than he was
(in fact, sometimes I'm a flaming Lib-ur-AL,
perhaps even a rad-dick-cul,
depending on what the issue is, - although I'm also sometimes cun-serv-uh-tiv,
and am even re-act-shun-ary on a few issues [E.g.-I'd like to bring back a limited version of corporal punishment in the public schools!).
However, he was usually so entertaining, and sometimes educational, that I, more often than not, just let it slide, in order to see what he would come up with next.
[E.g.-I'm sometimes so Lib-ur-AL that I even supported Obamcare. (What's even worse is that I think that Canadian-type single-payer health care system would be even better!!)]
As I said, Harold was usually very forthright
(a lot of folks thought that he was much too forthright,
and some of his brothers and sisters were reported to have been worried that someone would shoot at him!).
But like the do-dah man said,
'You've got to play your hand,
Sometimes your cards ain't worth a damn,
If you don't lay 'em down...."
Listen Holmes,
We don't come into this life with an instruction manual. So the best that we can do is to keep our eyes open, observe what's going on,
use prudence and act accordingly,
and especially learn from experience!
It helps a lot to study the writings and/or sayings of the philosophers, both Christian and otherwise,
- those philosophers that people know and acknowledge,
and also those philosophers that have the good fortune to be unknown.
Listen Holmes,
Harold was a true original philosopher, whether he or others recognized it or not! He usually had some kind of witty thing to say, or something that was not witless to express, and I frequently learned from him.
Listen Holmes,
He once told me that when he was a contractor, that before he set his crew to working, he would ask each man how he was doing that morning, and
if the guy answered with something like, "I'm doing great; my wife laid me really good last night, and this morning she made me pancakes with maple syrup", then Harold would know that he would be getting good work from that guy that day, and not to hassle him very much. But if the guy would answer in the negative, or was being evasive, then Harold would spotcheck his work more, because the guy was just not in the groove.
Listen Holmes,
Harold also said, more or less, that we should not be proud or boastful about anything, because we're all just a bunch of little screwups trying to do the best we can, - "just a bunch of little screwups screwing up now & then, so it's no good trying to get a big head about it; let's just do the best we can..."
Listen Holmes,
Finally, I think that Harold would appreciate these few excerpts from "The Grateful Dead":
"Truckin', got my chips cashed in,
Keep truckin' like the do-dah man,
Together, more or less, in line
Just keep truckin' on...
...Arrows of neon and flashing marques out on Main Street,
Chicago, New York, Detroit, and it's all on the same street,
A typical city involved in a typical daydream,
Hang it up, and see what tomorrow brings...
...Truckin', like the do-dah man
Once told me,
'You've got to play your hand,
Sometimes your cards ain't worth a damn,
If you don't lay 'em down....
...Sometimes the light's all shining on me,
Other times I can barely see,
But lately it occurs to me
What a long strange trip it's been...
...You're sick of hanging around
and you'ld like to travel,
Get tired of travelin' and
you want to settle down.
I guess they can't revoke your soul for trying,
Get out of the door, get up
'n look all around...
Truckin', I'm a goin' home
Whoa, whoa baby, back where I belong.
Back home, sit down 'n patch my bones
'n get back truckin' on...
...get back truckin' home...
...Sometimes the light all shining on me,
Other times I can barely see,
But lately it occurs to me
WHAT A LONG STRANGE TRIP IT'S BEEN!!!!!!!!!!!"
...
-Harold Griffith, as remembered by brother-in-law Richard Rosewitz
Harold was interested in the genealogy I had been working on and went further by visiting the places his family came from including going to Wales. He visited Ohio and went to see the grave stones of his 2nd great grandparents in eastern Ohio and also visited Griffith, Indiana. He found cousins, visited with them and really got to know them.
Harold and Ginny were great hosts. We usually stayed with them when we visited and they often hosted Thanksgiving and the special occasions we traveled to California for.
Last time Paul and I visited, it struck me how similar the two brothers were in looks and personality. They really enjoyed the banter back and forth and had a way of seeing things as they really were.
We will miss him!
Serenity forever more.
He truly cared about people and was always there to help. Always.
His will to do good made the world a better place, and I will miss this great man.
Harold Sitting here I am thinking of what to say and all I can do
is smile How wonderful You made so much of a difference
all while making me (and I am sure so many others) smile One of a kind that was Harold We will miss you forever TY for sharing your life with us
Harold stands for and remain a remarkable stalwart, marveled prodigy, and an astonishing paradigm for righteousness in government dealings.
May his legacy live on and grow in the harts and minds of all that rise to honesty, integrity, and righteousness for mankind.
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Our Hero
My wive and I were at our whits end with a court case we had been fighting for years with more than a half dozen attorneys hired by us who all took us to the cleaners with no positive results. A friend told us about this guy name Harold in the Santa Cruz area who might be able to help us. We contacted him and my God he turned out to be MORE than we could have hoped for! This legal genious with his wisdom of the justice system not only helped us prevail in our court battles but helped my wife personally with regards to her emotional well being during her fight with the court system by making light of it all and showing her that it isn't as serious as one might think and that he would be there to help her throughout our ordeal. He met with us many times even driving to the bay area to help, NEVER EVER once asking anything from us in return. Even asking, then demanding he let us pay him either with cash or help on his rentals, he rejected our offers of help and just always said that he was glad he could help. I am 60 years old and in all that time I have NEVER met a human being who helped me personally soooooooooo much out of the goodness of their heart and NEVER asked for anything in return!!! We will forever miss this hero of ours..............................................