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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Harold Starkman, 84 years old, born on May 17, 1930, and passed away on April 11, 2015. We will remember him forever.
Dad today is your birthday and I always love and miss you. Steve called from Florida and it sounds like he wants to make amends. We’re both in our seventies so it’s about time. Have a Happy Birthday in Heaven dad. Your daughter, donna
Dad I’m sorry I missed your birthday yesterday but nothing compares to how much I miss you. I don’t recall if I told you that Zak and Thata are having a baby and they just bought a house. You said people live on through the memories of their loved ones so I guess you’re still living. I called your old phone number where Delores was living and it was disconnected. Sorry to say she never got you a headstone and I just can’t afford to. I love and miss you dad. Love, donna
Dad, It's Father's Day and I miss you and love you. Zak says "hi". I hope you are running with the clouds. I can't say "Happy Father's Day" because you are not here. I can say how much I love and miss you. Love, donna
Dear Dad, It's your 91st birthday and I miss you terribly. I hope you are running with the clouds no longer bound to a wheelchair. Zak says Happy birthday. Much love Dad, donn
Dad, I was working on my computer and I have a picture of you and me when you were in Whitehall, 08/27/2015. It really touched me. I love and miss you terribly dad. I hope you are running among the clouds and rainbows, no longer bound to a wheelchair. Steven and Cathy moved somewhere in FL. I had their old address, We had another falling out cause of Cathy. He took after you a lot. There is a pandemic going on. It is the Corona virus 2019 when it started and has killed millions of people all over the world. Dad I am so sick with my esophagus which is causing me not to be able to eat or drink. I had two operations and I am getting worse. Maybe I'll be joining you soon. I love you Dad. With much love, your daughter donna
Dearest Dad, I miss you on Father's Day. I hope you are running among the clouds no longer bound to a wheelchair. I love you with blessings, your daughter, donna
Dearest Dad, Today would have been your 90th birthday. I miss you so much dad and I hope you are running with the clouds and happy. I love you dad and I do miss you. Much love, donna
Dear Dad, this is the 5th year of your passing and I want you to know I love and miss you. There is a pandemic going on and I am so ill Dad. I am glad you didn't have to go through pandemic. I hope you are running in heaven. I love and dearly miss you. Much love, your daughter, donna
Dearest Dad, It is February 8 and mom would be 90. I miss her terribly and miss you too. I am in ill health and suffering. I hope you are running in Heaven. I love you dad. donna
Hi Dad, It is November 2, and it snowed on Halloween. I am so ill and don't want to be here any longer. I love and miss you dad and I know you are with the universe now no longer bound to a wheelchair. I love and miss you dad, donna
I miss you dad and I hope you are running through the clouds with the sun on your back; no longer confined to a wheel chair. I will always love and miss you dad. Your daughter, donna
Dad, it is June 3 and my health is really declining. I'm sorry I don't come here often due to health issues. I love and miss you dad. Sleep in blissful sleep. Love your daughter.
Hi Dad, Your birthday is in two days and I hope I am up to visiting your grave. I have not been well for a long time and I hope I can get out of bed to visit you, but you are always in my heart. I love and miss you dearly, donna
Hi dad, I love and miss you. I hope you are flying with the stars. I hope you never feel pain again. I feel so sad that Zak moved to San Diego; the last of my family. Steve and Cathy are moving to Florida May 29, 2018. They don't come to see me even now. I can't drive far. I wish I could cry on your shoulder dad. Love, donna
Hi dad, I wanted to say that I am thinking of you even on Christmas, I always love and miss you and hope you are running free in the sky but keeping warm. With all of my love, your daughter, donna
Dad, Uncle Josh died at 101. Your only sister, Aunt Bea is alive but must be going through hell of losing her beloved. I miss you dad and I will always love you. I hope you are running through the clouds of happiness. Much love, donna
Dad today is August 20 and I am crying. I really miss you. Zak got engaged yesterday to Thata. When he moved to San Diego it took a great toll on me. Andy had twin girls Thursday. I don't want to be here dad I am in pain and lost my will dad. I am so alone and I am so sad. I hope you are happy and at peace. I love and miss you dad. donna
Dad, It is July 25 and I lost my will to live, I have lived my life and want to be next to Michael. I miss talking to you even though you could not remember what I said. I will always love you dad and I will always miss you. With love, your daughter, donna
Hi dad, it is 5/4/2017 and I always hear in my head your answer on how to remove glue "hot water". You were right; you're born, you live, you die and that is it. Zak moved to San Diego which really is killing me. I miss you and love you dad, donna
It is new years eve dad and I miss you. I wish your mind was clearer before you left. Thank you for things you don't even know you did for me and Zak. He is moving to San Diego, so I am very alone. I love you dad, donna
Hi dad, I hope to be near you very soon. I am sick of this earth, I lost all of my loved ones and I do not want to go on. I hope you are happy dad, love, donna
Hi Dad, I hope you are in a happy place. I am not, I miss all of my departed loved ones including you dad. I hope you can run with the wind and no longer stuck in a wheelchair. I love and miss you dad. donna
I finally got my cemetery plot next to Michael back because you donated it which was unbelievable to me, but you were different than most. Zak is now going back to South America for at least six months........maybe more. He wants to find himself. I found myself and I want to be next to Michael so I can get a lot more rest than I normally do. I am in a lot of pain from nerve damage in my mouth and both feet. I miss you dad, and I forgive you for what you did to me by donating my plot. I had to buy it back, but no one will ever be able to take it again. I learned from you that the only person you can depend on is yourself. Much love dad, rest in peace, your daughter, donna
Hi dad, I hope you are in heaven and out of misery. I miss you terribly and Zak is in South America for a couple of months and then he will go to CA and get an apartment. I hope you are right; that I will meet someone again. I hope you can see me. I forgive you for anything you did that hurt me. You did not know right from wrong sometimes because of the way you were raised. Hopefully, out of your loss I will be able to re establish a relationship with my brother that you used to call evil. He is not evil, but was hurt as a child. You actually said that I invented the name but that was not true because I always/all ways left my door open and in my heart loved and still love my brother. Now that we are getting to a point in life where days go fast and any moment can be the last, I want to try to have my brother a part of my life. Rest in peace dad, love, donna your daughter and tax deduction!
Dad it is Christmas; a day you never celebrated. I am here with Zak and I miss you and I love you and I hope you are in peace and I hope you are back with mom. I love you, donna
Dad, you heard me up in heaven and I want to thank you. I have been through hell; your "girlfriend" was not a good soul, and that was your choice. You are now buried next to the grave of mom, I hope you can both get along in wherever the soul goes after this life. My tears are great for you, mom and Michael. I miss your strong shoulder to cry on. In the end you were right about Steven. I miss and love you dad, and it took your lifetime for you to really believe the love I have always/all ways had for my dad, father, daddy; the man I knew who I believe loved me after all these years. Life if short dad, and your end was not a golden one and I will try to learn from your own hell that life is precious and needs to be lived each day to the fullest. Rest in peace dad, donna and Zak says "he feels much closer to you now"....
Dad, I hope you are happy. I will never understand why you would take my plot next to Michael. If you wanted to hurt me, well you did. I forgive you for everything because you were the only dad I ever knew. I love and miss you, donna
Dad I love you and miss you. You are no longer bound to a wheelchair and you can run through the clouds by day and stars at night. If you see mom here is your chance to love again the love of your life. May you rest when weary in the arms of the Lord. Please don't look down on me for I think it would hurt for you to see my tears of grief. Your sister, my auntie Ann, was buried one week after you.