This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved Mama/Mommy/Mum,
Helga Schmidt-Gengenbach departed this earth on October 7, 2016, with family at her side. She was born Helga Hunger in Dortmund, Germany in 1925, and after surviving World War II as a teenager, worked as a bookkeeper for a company that manufactured mining equipment. She married the love of her life, Siegfried Schmidt-Gengenbach in 1951, and together they emigrated to a new life in the United States in 1954, settling in the West Grove/Avondale, PA area. After continuing her bookkeeping work at Star Rose Nurseries and learning English on the job, she left to concentrate on raising a family. She was a devoted wife, loving mother, and tireless caregiver to family members as well as friends. As "the best Mommy in the world" she strove to raise her daughters with an appreciation of all things beautiful in the world, including lasting holiday traditions that brought endless joy. She loved plants, birds, music, singing, dancing, and above all, laughing. With a German song or saying for every occasion, Helga also provided all who knew her with endless supplies of delicious German food, especially baked goods and Christmas cookies. In 2012 she moved to Bishop, CA, to spend the rest of her days at Sterling Heights Assisted Living Community, which was very near one of her daughters.
She was preceded in death by her husband, Siegfried, and is survived by her daughter Marianne Schmidt-Gengenbach (Sue Mullins) of Crawfordville, FL, and Jutta Schmidt-Gengenbach (Jeff Holmquist) of Bishop, CA. Her departure leaves a giant hole in our hearts, and we will remember her forever.
As we celebrate Helga's long and amazing life, we invite you to make your memories of her a part of this memorial. She touched so many lives in so many different ways and in far flung places. Let this memorial be the gathering place for all those who knew and loved her.
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Leave a tributeI love seeing all these wonderful photos of your mom and family! I never met your mom while in Bishop but sounds like one amazing lady, wife, and husband. And if Jutta learned everything about German desserts from her mom, then I know your mom is one heck of a lady with a dessert skill set that would impress all:) Lots of love and light to you all:) Jim and Elysia
Edelweiss, Edelweiss
Every morning you greet me
Small and white
Clean and bright
You look happy to meet me
Blossom of snow may you bloom and grow
Bloom and grow forever
Edelweiss, Edelweiss
Bless my homeland forever
A daughter
A Sister
A Wife
A friend
A Mother she be
Close as an arrow to each of thee
Then she becomes a Mum to other
Oh how can it be
That the joy she brought may never again be
Oh, but yes, May the joy she brought continue to bring joy to all of ye
May your memories shine bright as you share the stories of she
As you wait until the day when she welcomes each of ye.
A tribute to Helga.
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Mum
Mum finally has her “window seat in Heaven,” but I’ve lost my favorite fellow Gemini. My sweet, beautiful mother-in-law, Helga Hunger Schmidt Gengenbach left this Earthly life just a few hours ago in the arms of Marianne’s sister Jutta, out in California. Words cannot begin to express my pain and grief. Mum, as I promptly called her to differentiate from my own Mom, was the most optimistic and fun-loving person I ever knew. How she carried on with such lifelong joyfulness in the face of tragic loss – of her brother to WW II, her mother and sister to breast cancer, and her beloved husband Siegfried to premature death – I will never know. But she was literally full of life, as smart as they come, could dissolve instantly into giggles, and lit up my world with her very presence. Mum had a funny rhyming German poem (and usually a song!) for every occasion from the mundane to the extraordinary. She was a beautiful soprano who loved Bach, Mozart and folk music, and held a world view way beyond her 91 years. She so graciously opened her world—her German homeland and her Pennsylvania home—to me in her stories and our visits to Avondale. We spent many hours together admiring Longwood Gardens, and many happy mealtimes talking about her family’s history. I can still hear the sound, in her delightful singsong German accent, telling me all about her work as a bookkeeper and “the band” of girls she ran with as a young girl in Dortmund before and during the war. I can still feel the warmth of her embrace after a long day in her pretty Avondale garden together, and I will forever see the twinkle in her eye when she walked Marianne down the aisle to marry me in our own garden. When someone with so powerful a presence and so magical a personality comes into your life, even for just 18 years, it changes you. I am forever changed by the magic, the grace and the memory of my Mum. She lived from June 2, 1925 to October 7, 2016, and is likely doing the Polka with her favorite dance partner Siegfried once again. I’ll see you in Heaven, Mum—and save me a window seat!