Hepworth Xigagane Hlongwane aka Tendai Mothisi
  • 36 years old
  • Date of birth: Aug 2, 1976
  • Date of passing: Apr 19, 2013
Let the memory of Hepworth Xigagane Hlongwane be with us forever
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Hepworth Xigagane Hlongwane aka Tendai Mothisi, 36, born on August 2, 1976 and passed away on April 19, 2013. We will remember him forever.
Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 3rd August 2016

"August the 2nd marks the anniversary of your birth.
It's been 3 years since you departed and not a day goes by without a thought/s of you & I get now that it's in our hearts,our memories,our dreams you will forever live...differently but a very real part of us. Yesterday was too hard that's for sure. You would have turned 40 and the biggest #mindphuck is still not knowing what to do really on days like these. A candle still seemed appropriate; & sure enough Tenashe made the birthday link and started singing"

This tribute was added by Majuta Mtisi on 2nd August 2016

"My brother even today, I am struggling to make peace with your absence in my life. You have been a great brother, I always remember you with emotion. The journey we have travelled together makes it difficult and impossible for this day, your birthday, to pass without the emotion visits me. When this day comes I feel your presence though we can't catch up, I do that by myself and have faith in me that you do the same. Majuta"

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 19th April 2016

"So many questions.Not enough answers. As far as logic can go the heart is still not satisfied...prompting the mind to seek more reason.  
What I know in this moment is that all questions are answered completely by love. I smile because I know you know that. And it's at this moment of reckoning, I know you are smiling back and I have no questions...only love."

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 30th March 2016

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This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 30th March 2016

"Ke go gopotše Xigagane...
Just got home from a drive le Tinashe bumping Lemar reminiscing about days when we did those drives bumping Lemar...not the same.
I miss you motho-waka.  Kudu kudu ka matla a go se lekane le selo... A ke tsebe gore ke dire eng."

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 2nd August 2015

"sending a #specialshoutout to the heavens as we remember u on ur birth day ❤"

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 22nd June 2015

"So this doesn't get better with time?!? OK, so what must happen now?"

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 19th April 2015

"Most times I wish heaven had visiting hours...especially today. Ke dula ke go gopotše hle monna."

This tribute was added by Majuta Mtisi on 13th September 2014

"On a day like this you would say, apeya bogobe re bese nyana. Le lebotlolo nyana"

This tribute was added by Majuta Mtisi on 13th September 2014

"Mapikeri would be very proud right now. You took the journey with me my brother and delivered me, now I know what to do!"

This tribute was added by Majuta Mtisi on 7th August 2014

"I miss you my brother,  we had great time together. The love we shared, I will forever be greatful for God given opportunity to share those moments together."

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 6th June 2014

"Got Lemar  "it's not that easy" on repeat. Thinking bout you."

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 27th April 2014

"27 April 2013, stood at your graveside knowing that life as I knew it,was over."

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 18th April 2014

"I cherish the love and joy you gave me."

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 18th April 2014

"Rest well my king"

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 18th April 2014

"Left me with a beautiful daughter...a living memory of you but your absence is absolute grief. No warning no goodbye, but memories of you will never die. Days pass but thoughts of you always stay, wondering if you see me...if you see us. Do you?"

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 18th April 2014

"Words are few, thoughts are deep"

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 16th April 2014

"T & I went to visit koko ko Mams this past Sunday. A beautiful day spent with Ntsako,Tiyani,Glen giving us a "show" of note in prep for Easter #chucklesfordays. Ke dula ke go gopotše ka nako tšohle"

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 13th March 2014

"Miss your beautiful soul."

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 9th February 2014

"Nano is growing..had no way to reach her on Friday but all is well.I know she had a fab bday. Mine is a few days..missing you"

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 9th February 2014

"Friday 7 Feb '14, 10 months later..your replacement ko SARS appointed.
I remember @ ur memorial they spoke about the inspiring leader you were and how brilliantly you executed your work (*shine). You were outstanding in more than 1 area of  your life. I wish I could replace you and just fill the hole in my heart, the hole in my life. Tendai you are simply irreplaceable."

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 6th February 2014

"Well..........what else can I say? You lived, did your thing and now you gone, that's it. You gone.....*sigh*"

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 6th February 2014

"Thinking of you my love. I miss you dearly, wondering what it would've been like to have you walk with me on this parenthood journey. you were the best dad to Nano, I know for a fact you would've been awesome with our bundle..i wonder if you see us, if you feel us, if you miss us like we miss you. oh God"

This tribute was added by Selaelo Maraka on 29th January 2014

"Gone too soon..."


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