- 46 years old
- Date of birth: Dec 22, 1966
- Place of birth:
Nyen Momo Division, NW Province, Cameroon
- Date of passing: Nov 29, 2013
- Place of passing:
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
|Let the memory of Hildah be with us forever|
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Hildah Nanji (Mobit), 46, born on December 22, 1966 and passed away on November 29, 2013. We will remember her forever.
It is always very painful this time of the year remembering how you left us, thinking of what could have been and the milliard of possibilities. God clearly had a plan for you in a better place. We will all be together someday and until then rest in eternal peace ."
"My Dearest Mama, it's been 3 years and we still miss you so very much, but I know you are in a good place. Most of the time it seems like I hear your voice calling me, or consoling me. You always reassured , you always cared for me. When I was able to care for you, you were gone. I am so consoled because I know you are with the Lord. I will never stop thanking you. Even though you are not with us physically, your spirit, and your doctrines, your teaching and your encouragement leaves within me and I use it every blessed day of my life. Love you dearly and will forever miss you until we meet again."
"My dear friend, it still seem to me like it never happened! I still see you beaming with that your beautiful smile! Am comforted, knowing that you are now in a better place. You are forever missed, Hilda! Rest in Peace my dear friend!"
"As you are missed, I can see your light shining on all of us. We will forever remember you.
"Sister, continue to miss you. Still love you. Know you are there with other love ones. We, you left behind continue to pray until we meet on that day."
"STILL MISSING YOU AND WILL CONTINUE TO LOVE YOU AND GUIDE US AS WE GO THROUGH THIS SINFUL WORLD TILL THE DAY WE JOIN YOU."
"Dearest Sis Hildah it just seems like yesterday. The reason is because i think about you all the time. Sis though you are not here you are always on my mind! Love Always"
"It seems just like yesterday. Fare thee well. Waka fine."
"I think of you often Hildah and I remember your beautiful smile. It is time for your beautiful smile and heart to come again to all of us who love you and remind us of our loving connections as a family."
"2 years and I still hear your voice. Miss seeing you but happy to have so many strong memories that make me feel like I can show up in Pittsburgh and see you there. We will talk in person again my sister."
"Hi Hildah, I think of you often and smile because you did that for me. I know that it will still take a while for me to get used to you not being here with use but it is nice to know we had you for the time we did. God did a good thing when he decided to give you to us."
"You set the right path for those of us you left behind. We will try to follow your footsteps. I know you are having a good time in your new home accompanied by our creator. Keep on guiding us to do only what is right here on earth, until we met again. You will forever be remembered.
Dr. Gahkembah E. Mobit"
"Dear Hilda, it's been a year already since your departure. Please say hi to your fellow angels and continue to pray for us!!!
"we remember you..be always at peace with God's grace"
"Sister it seems just like yesterday . It's still unreal. Fare thee well"
"My Aunty, dear Aunty! I thank you for everything you conveyed to me. Thank you for teaching me to always do the right things, and for showing me how to be an example to others. Thank you my Aunty!!!"
"REST IN PEACE MAMA HILDA"
"It’s been just a few years since I knew you but the memories we shared will last a life time. Fare thee well!!!!"
"I was taken aback with the notice from Emmanuel of Hildah. May Nanji, the boys and the entire family find comfort in reflecting moments of the time God shared His angel with you. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers. Sharing one of my moments....we were cooking hot wings when you all stayed in the first floor appartment in Highland shortly after Scott was born. The beauty of her smile and spirit will always be remembered."
"Sister Hildah, your passing away leaves a great void in our lives and is a profound sadness for the entire Mobit family. You graced us with your love and taught us how to love. We are eternally grateful that God blessed us with you as part of our family. You will be greatly missed and carried in our hearts forever. May your soul rest in peace until we meet again."
"I knew i was going to meet you one day, but the good lord took you to his home, i guess it is better than this one.
Even though i never saw you, your good deeds are being shared and manifested by my friend and your love ones
RIP Ma Hildah, till we meet."
"Ma Hildah i can't remember the last time i called you this name because Granny has always been in my mouth. you were the Best friend, and second mother that i have ever had and still lost. Only God knows the pain i have in my heart but i believe he Loves you more.
Ariella: Granny only Gods knows why he took you away this soon, i will always love you."
"Words cannot fully express our sadness. Hildah you brightened not only our lives but those of the other patients who had the pleasure of meeting you. Your spirit is strong in our hearts and your laughter will remain in our walls. You will be missed.
-Loving you through space and time. Everyone at RIMC"
"We were in shock and still are, to learn of Sister Hilda's passing on. We heard of the illness but could not imagine that the end was so near. We are consoled with the knowledge that you are at rest. This is because we know, just as you knew, that, "to live is Christ and to die is gain." May you now rest in His bosom where there is no more pain, sorrow, or suffering. We will forever remember your calmness, gentleness, and soft-spoken nature. Adieu!"
"Hi Hildah, I don't know any other way than to talk with you like you're still here. I know I we will be together again because God has promised it but I miss you terribly, and I haven't quite gotten used to the idea of you not being here yet. . But I am happy that you are at peace and no longer suffering. So make a home for the rest of us for when we come, okay. Don't worry about the boys, they will be fine. we'll make certain of it. You were a great sister and friend and I am happy God allowed you in my life.. Love, Steph"
""You were a wonderful woman of God maman Hilda. And only God know what is better for us. Love you and miss you, rest in peace""
"HILDA THE SISTER YOU WILL HATE TO LOOSE AND REGRETE TO MISS FOREVER
The morning you went to eternal sleep, we cried and try to bring you back to no avail. Deep black sorrow is what remains live in your absence Praise God that we had you here for 46 years. But all those birthdays and family events is what I fear. My dear sister rest in peace until we are joined together. I find it so very hard to believe that you have gone and I must grieve; I call out your name -- you answer not, and I look for you in every familiar spot. Everything seems so strange and surreal, I ask everyday is it a dream or real?
Where are the soft brown eyes of affection? Where is the laughter and talk of childhood reflection? Where is the loving care when I was sick or sad? Where is the generous soul for which I was glad? Where is the forgiving and understanding heart? Where are the bonds that were there from the start?
I miss all the little ways you showed you cared, For there were so many good moments the family shared with you; Looking back on our life’s assorted scenes, I realized you taught us what love truly means; You were my trusted confidante and best friend, On whose loving support I could always depend. I look at your smiling face in all my photos; Memories flood my mind as I touch the mementos From the happy times you and the family have had, But now these bring tears and make me sad; For the time together went by in a wink, Life was not as long as we’d like to think.
Sometimes memories bring comfort and make me smile, but there are times when grief takes over for a while; Friends offer gentle words and prayers to console, and tell me what has happened to your loving soul; Can it be true what they say of time healing grief?
Is it enough when they say death has given you relief? Now I will be looking down at your name on a cold hard stone That says little of the loving light you have shown; It tells nothing of the wonderful person you were, And only serves to remind me of the painful loss I endure; But I know your kind soul wants no tears or pain, Instead you’d want warm memories and love to remain.
Although I cry and stand grief-stricken by your departure, I promise not to forget the loving memories you gave; But still I miss you so very much my dear sister, And your caring words I once again long to hear; My heart’s only solace is one day I will see you as before, Beckoning me to come join you on that white distant shore. Can we believe what others say of a better place, where our beloved ones rest in God’s warm embrace? I should be happy you’re free of pain and sorrow, and rejoice that you’ll always have tomorrow. How can I then be so heartbroken and selfishly cry, Return to me from that peaceful place where you lie!”
Days have gone by. But my fears are high. If love was all we needed to live. Then my love would be to give. Family misses you well. Friends’ misses you swell. May we see each other and dwell. That we may swell together. My dear sister sleep now and may your soul rest in peace"
"Mama, I am so short of words to express the shock, confusion and hurt I feel to learn that you have left us. Small as I was you left for the states and I only heard from you and saw you on pictures that you sent to us. I will forever remember your loving and soothing voice which did me much good. Rest, Mummy in God’s bosom."
"Oh MAMA, WHAT A WONDERFUL MOTHER YOU HAVE BEEN TO ME, WHAT A BEAUTIFUL HEART YOU HAVE, WHAT AN ANGEL. THANK YOU A MILLION FOR OPENING YOUR DOOR FOR ME WHEN NO ONE COULD, THANKS FOR YOUR PATIENCE,ALL YOUR COUNSELLING AND ADVISES. BECAUSE OF YOUR GREAT WORK TOGETHER WITH YOUR LOVING FAMILY.I"AM A PROUD WOMAN TODAY. I COUNT MYSELF THE MOST BLESSED FROM THE DAY I SET MY FEET IN YOUR LOVING HOME.TRULY YOU WERE AND ANGEL SENT FROM HEAVEN TO GUIDE ME THROUGH THE MOST DIFFICULT PERIOD PERIOD OF MY LIFE. I WILL MISS YOU PHYSICALLY BUT I KNOW YOUR SPIRIT LEAVES AROUND ME AND MY FAMILY. I'AM CONSOLED KNOWING THAT YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE AT THE RIGHT HAND SIDE OF GOD, NO MORE PAIN, AND NO MORE SORROW. LOVE YOU DEARLY MAMA. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU.MY PARENTS, SIBLINGS AND NINA WISH YOU A FAREWELL TILL WE MEET AGAIN."
"Anty i will miss cooking with you and waking up in the morning hearing gospel. Its sad your gone it will be hard but you are in a better place now. Me and Eugene are still getting along and fighting alot less. I will miss you so much."
"My Darling Sis Hildah,
I have not been able to accept that you have left us to be with your creator, consequently I have not yet called your home! I do not know how to handle this, the pain is so much. Sis I still hear that sweet voice of yours telling me that it shall be well when MK passed on. You gave us so much hope yet I was drowned in so much pain that i did not realize that you were in pains my sister. You stood very tall in times of trials and tribulations, what a wonderful example you were! You always put everyone else before you. What a heart of gold you had. The family has lost a pearl. I have lost a dear friend and counsel. I do not doubt where you are now. You have ran the race and you have fought the good fight! Rest in his bosom my dear sister. The lord has received one of his best. Miss you so much and Love you lots Sis! Hamba Kahle."
"Antiii how loving you were even when you bearly knew our faces you still had us in mind God has a very important reason for every action and deeds of him thats why he is the mightiest man you are gonna be right beside him with the joy and the happines we cant offer will forever miss you RIP"
It has been very difficult to accept that you are no longer here and I can't stop thinking of you. In Britain your friends are awaiting your second visit. Sister Joyce, your humble host rang me to find out what to do with your pajamas which are hanging in her wardrobe which was left as a sign of eventual return.
You were passionate, compassionate, cared for the sick, gave to the needy and me without hesitating, inspired people, you valued everyone, you respected people the same way as you expected them to respect you and others. You were a good listener, a good communicator, in fact, a sample of every good aspect of human life. Good people never last. We believe your spirit is peaceful and is waiting to resurrect when the Lord's trumpet shall sound to announce His second coming. Amen
Helen Ijang A"
"My dear Hilda,
Although we are missing so very much already, we take solace in the fact that you are spreading your sweet broad smile at us and wishing we would stop mourning, for we realize you are now where you belong, by the side of our beloved Jesus. Please prepare a place and always intercede for us because we know you took a leap ahead because God needed you too. May your kind spirit dwell in perfect peace!!!
"Dear Hilda, you have answered God's call, we will all miss you dearly, may your soul rest in peace. You are now a spirit in the likeness of God's Angels."
"I have just seen this, and am in total shock!! Don't know where to start. Did not even know that you were sick? am in shock! but God's plans are the best, he knew what will be best for you, hence the reason you are with the angels wright now. I will definitely remember the soft spoken, humble, caring and loving person you were. I should have called you often, but in my heart of hearts I still thought about you and the family. I pray for your spirit, travel in peace and be with the good lord, for we shall meet again. Love you sister!!
To Nanji and family, may God give you strength and peace at this time."
"My dearest beloved wife,
It is so sad to realize that you are not physically with us but I believe your spirit will always be with me. You meant everything to me and the boys and our love will be forever. Despite setbacks,you gave the family your best all the time. I will forever cherish the time we spent together reading the bible, helping others, planning for the boys and yes.. travelling. Thank you for being my best friend ever. God wanted you more and we can never question his decision. May your soul rest in eternal peace ."
"MAMA HILDA GONE TOO SOON YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART RIP AUNTY LOVE U"
"Sister "BYE BYE""
"Oh heart, if one should say to you that the soul perishes like the body, answer that the flower withers, but the seed remains. We love you mama"
"In the night of death, hope sees a star, and listening love can hear the rustle of a wing.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
"In the night of death, hope sees a star, and listening love can hear the rustle of a wing."
"When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight."
"Love here on earth
Love beyond the grave
There are no roads
Our love for you can't pave."
"You have touched many lives with your humility and kindness. We will surely miss you Hilda! I am sure you are in a better place now. May your soul rest in peace."
"God called you to his heavenly home, part of his great plan.It's hard for us but you are pain-free .Love you and miss you forever."
"Ma Hilda seriously!! hm this hard very hard. the smiles, love, joy and comfort you brought to the family will be remember and that's what am holding on to. May your gentle soul enjoy in heaven. C'est le chemin de tout le monde que son ame repose en paix en preparant le chemin pour nous vivant
"It's often said, that “life is best understood looking backwards.."
Hilda will be deeply missed by many, including my family. Our lives intersected for several years in which she made a lasting impact in our hearts. Me, my sister Rachael and my cousin, have fond memories of many wonderful and joyous times we spent together with Hilda and Nanji. May God grant Hilda eternal rest.
May God’s profound grace and abiding strength continue to sustain those she left behind.
My sister, Hilda, sleep well for your work on this side is over and Now you can sing with the angels!!
Rest in Peace,
Emmanuel & Family"
"Rest in peace. You were really an engaged person..."
"Love you but God loves you most.
You will forever be remembered."
"Mama, you will forever be remembered.
Love you but God loves you most."
"Mama Hilda, you will forever be remembered.I'll miss your beautiful smile but find comfort in the fact that you are in a better place and pain- free."
"Mama Hilda,you will forever be remembered.I sure miss your beautiful smile but find comfort in the fact that you are in a better place and pain-free."
"LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, YOU WILL FOREVER BE REMEMBERED.
I'LL MISS THAT BEAUTIFUL SMILE OF YOURS BUT I DO FIND COMFORT IN THE FACT THAT YOUR ARE IN A BETTER PLACE AND PAIN- FREE."
"Did I tell you that I love you?Yes I do,I truely love u. Safe journey. Don't forget to intercede for us all the time. Greet all the faithful departed for us."
"No more pain,no more sorrow,no more.....no more,you left us bleeding but we take comfort in the fact that you are in a better place. You lived a God fearing life,no doubt you are where u are now. Rest peacefully and overlook our trespasses. Adieu."
"Sister,I didn't realize God's time to call you home was so near. I kept promising to come and see thinking that I could turn the wheel of time. I now realize how short sighted i was by thinking that. I wish I had known that you were on your way home. I was chasing vanities thinking we still had time together. Little did I know that u will go home before me/us. I have always known you to be a fighter ,little did I know that there comes a time when u can fight no more,when its time to go home.Home at last,home at last,home at last. Fare thee well. Prepare a place for us,we will have a lot to talk about when we meet again,we will catch up on all the missed moments. We are heart broken but we know that u are in a better place. Extend our love to all the faithfull departed. Tell them we miss them so much and that we are still trying to cope with their absence. Tell Brother Mike to call me when he can.Tell Augustina that we loved her but the Great One loved her more. Tell Mama Singum that she now have 6 Grand kids and that i am a Tanyi now.Tell Grace that she can come back at anytime she wants. Tell Deborah that our hearts are still bleeding and that it was not fare for her to leave us the way she did. Tell her to at least show a sign that she is ok and watching over us. We hope u guys prepare a mansion for us. Fare thee well."
"AUNTY HILDA you were diagnosed with cancer a couple of years ago. you could've given up on life then, but you didn't. you kept on fighting. I learned a lot of things from you when ever i spoke with you on phone , but few days ago was the worst thing hearing of your death . Continuing to fight to survive. Never giving up. You fought till the very end until you just realized you could not fight anymore.you realized that you should just let go and be with the great man above and go to the great place above. I can't believe you are gone. you will always remain in my heart good bye"
"...I'm very sadden by this painful situation, you were a great mother and friend to all of us...please rest in peace and forever our people will remember who you were but most importantly your help and actions for our Cameroonian communities. Please rest in peace... we are going to miss you…
Please receive our deeper condolences.
Forever love...forever Ma'a Hilda...
"Sister Hilda, thank you for the solid foundation you laid for me, and the family in the United State and beyond. I belief you are serving your creator now. I miss you in person, but your spirit still surrounds and guides me. Prepare me a place, such that when we meet again I will not be a stranger. You will forever be remembered."
"My God Hilda, you scared the living crab out of me the first time you went to the hospital. When you came out and we talked, your voice sounded so strong and I said to myself, "Thank God she is back". When I said I will be in Pittsburgh in December and will see you, you laughed and said, "Whether you go come meetup me oh!". It was only after you went to the hospital again and things turned south that I thought to myself, "Oh my God, maybe you meant what you said" that I might not meet you when I come in December. Whoa!!! you were right. I am grateful I got to talk with you one last time; thanks to Chris. I still wish I had one more time to talk with you again. I tried though but at the time God said the time to talk with Flo has past, you can only talk with me now.
Hilda I am sitting here looking at your pictures and crying but to be honest with you, it all still seems to me like a dream; it hasn't sunk in yet. I told you I started going to church again and every Sunday I will go up front to pray for you. One day the pastor asked me what my problem was; I mumbled in tears and said, a lot but I have a sister who is in critical condition. We bowed our heads down in front of the church and he prayed for you. I guess it was too late and God could not hear my prayer anymore.
I really miss you Hilda, but I understand the pain you were going through. I am grateful that our Father has called you home to be with Him in heaven; an added angel to intercede for us and watch over us. Please be sure to hang a lot around your loving husband Wyndely and your kids, Scott and Dasi to give them the peace that they so badly need at this time to cope with the loss of your physical presence. To everything, we give thanks to God. Rest in peace Hilda, until we meet to part no more. I will cherish the memory of our peaceful stay in Pittsburgh. Peace Perfect Peace!!!!"
"She was so nice, helpful and always open for help and advises.
The last time i saw her was in May 2013 when she helped me preparing with my taxes. May God bless your soul.
I will miss you for ever!"
"Ma'a Hildah I still didn't believe that 3 weeks ago when I came to the Hospital ,things seemed to be on control that day and you stand up and walked to the bathroom. And I said to myself " Thanks God,because she can stand up and walk by herself." Unfortunately things had changed few days later when you went back to the Hospital.I am deeply sad .I hope all the Angels are with your this time I am writing and you can see us, and especially for nice family from above. Stay in Peace. Your name and action in the Community will remain in my mind."
"Laying a flower in honor of the garden of love you created in all our hearts."
""l love you and l will miss you forever,rest in peace Maman Hilda""
"Love You and will Miss
You are in a better Place"
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