My dear friend,
It has been a while that I did not come here. I have not forgotten you, will never forget you.
I have often brought you greetings from our friend and sister, Joan Ngowo. Every time I spoke with her she would remind me that she is “old school” and that it is her children who make use of the apps in her phone. We would laugh over it and I would tell her to upgrade so that she can visit this website one day. She would answer “Bea, no try me oh. When you go there again, tell Hildah say I dey….”
I come here today with a heavy heart! I come here today to tell you that Joan is no more! Joan died 2 days ago, March 26, 2024 in Lagos where she lived. Joan died exactly 3 years after her husband died and in the same month (March 28th, 2021). Joan is on the way to meet you, Hildah or have you already seen her?

Joan’s departure re-opens my old wounds of grief and I cry beyond consolation!
Today I grief for Joan Ngowo,
Today I grief for Renee Ewene Sendze,
Today I grief for Mado Tangie,
Today I grief for you, Hildah!!!!

Helas, I am left alone! How can this be? How can this be? Na true say dis life no balance! When you meet Joan, tell her that I am heart broken! You must all be re-united by now and enjoying the heavenly bliss! I am sad, very sad! I am sad beyond consolidation!

My dear Hilda,
Your usual charming smile has left me devastated. The vacuum nature created is growing bigger and bigger. On your birthday sister, I would have screamed to wish you a happy birthday but even with your shadow, I can't find just the smile on your portrait that reminds me of who you were. How kind, generous, helpful, Godfearing, and sociable you were. Your personality was full of qualities that have dotted the missing gaps in my life. It has never and shall never be the same without you and that is the reason you shall be forever missed..

Happy 56th birthday Honey!! You are in our thoughts always!!

Hello darling,
It is a decade already since our Heavenly Father called you home. God is watching and blessing us in many ways. Yes , we have days I think your presence could have helped, do not worry , God will send solutions. Continue to pray for all of us . You are forever missed.
Amen!
Windely

It is yet another anniversary of your travel on that long journey, the journey of no return! Losing you feels like having a page torn from the book of my life. A chapter that was filled with laughter, childhood memories, young girls shared secrets, unforgettable adventures, and a bond that transcended mere friendship. No matter how much time passes, the memories shared between us will never fade away. Continue to enjoy in the Heavenly Mariapolis!
Forever Remembered!

Hello sis
It's been a while that I came here, but you have been constantly on my mind. Just saying hello and to tell you that I ma doing well, bit at work and family. ❤️ you always.

Hello darling,
Just woke up thinking about you and our legacy. If there's anything we are not doing, please reveal it . We are constantly working to improve in all aspects of life. I hope you have reunited with Ni Adolf . Have you ? What kind of stocks are you discussing? Heavenly stocks may be? You are truely missed.
Love always,

Forever missed, Loved and Cherished. Thinking of you today as always♡

Happy Birthda Mom!! We miss you, and I know you're rejoicing with the angles. Thank you for sending me a special someone to help me. Life's been getting better and I'm finally starting to feel free. 

Hello darling,
It is nine years already yet it sometimes seem like it was not long ago. We stand strong and united despite the storms that come and go. This year we lost a pillar stone in Ni Adolf .. Yes Ni Adolf.. I know and believe you all are praying for all us. We thank God for our time together . Bye Bye

Missing you my friend! Some days I try to understand your early departure from this world; other days like today, it is just hard and confusing....and I end up here! I look at your pictures, I read the stories as if it were the first time... I shed a tear...I talk to you...then resign myself to fate! Keep watch over us, my angel. Forever missed!

Really would appreciate a chance to see you again! I try to forget, but it doesn’t satisfy me. You know I woke up this morning yearning to see your face. I did pretty well to almost completely forget and you would understand why if you saw how it just pulled me apart. If there’s anything I can do to honor you, I just ask that you reveal it to me. 

Friend, thinking of you this evening and bringing you this sun flower, reminiscence of the light you were to us! That smile on your face, that contagious smile is engraved in my heart, my dear friend. Continue to watch over us, sweet angel. Missing you.....
Bea

Hello dear,
The family just went through another challenging year and by the Grace of our father we are all doing well. Continue to pray for us till we all meet in their father’s house. Happy belated birthday !!!

yes, 8 years, still feels like yesterday. 

Eight years already, feels like yesterday.
Rest well sister.

Hildah,
8 years since you left us,
Yet it seems like yesterday!
Today I light yet another candle
In your memory!
In a better place you are,
So they say!
I'll forever love you!
Forever miss you!
Bea

Hello Friend, today I bring you this little flower in memory of our sisterhood and friendship....I miss you today like I missed you yesterday! You are forever in my heart, Hildah. I know you are looking downing on us from heaven and beaming that your contagious smile. Keep smiling sis, till we meet again. I moved to Dakar in August and still struggling to settle down. Will visit you here more often once my feet are on the ground. Love you always.
Bea

Darling,
You are always in our thoughts especially around early December of each year. This has been a challenging year all the same with the advent of COVID -19 and several deaths in the family. We remain thankful to God for his love , mercy and grace. The family has been together for the last 8 months after living apart for the past many years. We are also thankful for the bundle of joy God has blessed us with.. Pray for us and rest assured God will guide us through all situations. You are surely missed!!!

Hi Hildah it's been a while and I know you are quite relieved to be where you are considering what's happening here. I know if you were here you'd have much to say about what is happening and what to do about it. Thank you for the spirit you brought to this world I miss it. You would be totally proud of your sons.

My dear Hildah, 7 years today since you went on that long journey, that journey where one goes and never comes back! Seven years, yet it seems like yesterday. I miss you....but thinking of it, it is better you are not here to weep for our beloved homeland. Pray for us, my angel, pray that we may know peace and be spared of the covid pandemic!

Did I just read from Ma Caro's post that Papa and Mama have joined you? I did not hear that. It must have been a wonderful family reunion over there! Greet them for me. Love you always. Bea

I can;t believe it's been 7 years already! I hope you are resting happily with Mami and Pa by your side now. May your sweet soul rest in perfect peace. Keep praying for the family you left behind. Peace !!

Hi Sister.I was in Pittsburgh a couple of months ago to bid Pa farewell and took advantage to visit your forever resting place. Hope you remember seeing me. It was so peaceful and serene at your resting place I wanted to spend the whole day with you but atlas I had to spend some final moments with Pa and family too. You see how COVID-19 is ravaging us? I envy you because where you are now covid is not even a thought in your mind. I know you feel sorry for us. Please continue to intercede for us. Covid is not our potion. We hope you know that we missed you but we are consoled by the fact that the Almighty wanted you closer to Himself. Please tell Him we need a helper. If He cannot send you back He can atleast send us another helper. One thing I know for sure is that we miss you. Watch over us. We love you. Tell Mama and Papa Mobit to help deliver us from this covid.
Nkaime Norbert...............

A Flower for you today, my dear friend!

It is October, the Breast Cancer month, and I remember you!
You may have lost that battle, but you are in a better place now!

Good morning Friend! Got up this morning with you in my thoughts. Stopped by to say hello. I am sure from the heavenly mariapolis you see the devastating effect of covid-19 on the world. We are strong and doing our best to keep safe! Intercede for us, you, my angel in heaven. Love you, love you, will always love you, even in absentia!
Bea

My dear Hildah,
Thinking of you.....and still wondering how distance separated us for many years and now you left! I know you are in a better place and smilingdown on us. Christmas was quiet but good. Ngowo sends you greetings as always. Miss you, miss you Hildah! Forever in my heart.

Bea Fontem

Hello darling,
Time blows by fast, it has been six years already since you went to meet our heavenly father. A lot has changed but all in all, we remain humble, extremely grateful and thankful to the Lord for his steadfast love and guidance.
As we all march on, you will always be in our thoughts.. Remain blessed !!!

Dearest Big Sis,
it has been 6 years now that i have not heard that encouraging voice, have not seen that beautiful smile!. you are always on my mind.
Continue to rest at the bosom of your creator. love always.

Thinking of you and family at this time of the year. Rest in perfect peace and pray for us all till we meet again!
Ma Caro

My dear friend,
Thinking of you this Sunday morning just like I do almost every day. I come here to see that your smile. I come here every time I think of you and I do that so often, even if I do not leave a word. I just look at your picture and talk to you and watch you smile back at me. You are forever in my heart, Hildah! Take care dear and continue to intercede for us. Still missing you! Beatrice

My dear Hilda, this time of year always brings fresh memory of you and your departure. See how grown your boys are. Be comforted that they are doing their best. You and Windely did a good job bringing them up. May you continue to rest in peace. Happy birthday!
Ma Carol

Hello Friend,
I heard that time heals all pain and I still wonder why I feel this way about your absence. I miss you, Hildah! I really do. Yesterday I called Joan Ngowo and we talked and talked about you and concluded that you are in a better place now! You see, you may be gone, but you are forever in our hearts! I light this candle, for Joan and I, for that is what you were the us, the bright light that always shone in our teen days! Beatrice

Hello darling!!!
It has been five years already and we are mighty strong, prayerful, meek and moving on. Thank you again for the time God gave us together and more important how we lived. We truely missed you and will see you when God calls us home. Bye
Windely

5 years has gone by but still seem like yesterday.
Everyday we miss you but I know you are in a better place
Mom, Dad and us all will never forget the good memories ... and hope be see again as the Lord desires

Hey Mom!
Happy Birthday!! Dad told me you would have been 51 today. Damn you old haha. I miss you. There's not a day when I don't think about us in the Kitchen.... talking laughing. I miss jumping in your bed and hearing you say"Scotty get out of my bed your too old." I wish you could see me now. Living in Nyc, pursuing acting. Remember I used to tell you "Mommy you gonna see me on Tv". Its gonna happen soon and you'll know had the greatest son in the world. Anyways Mom let me let you go. I have to go bug my Dad now since he's all I got left.
Bye Mom
Love you
-Till we meet again

Darling Hildah,
It has been four long years since you went to prepare a place for the rest of us. The transition has been very challenging , nevertheless ,we remain humble and thankful for everything God has blessed us with. Pray for all of us , especially that we  seek the Lord from whom all blessings flow and be assured of eternity. Thank God for the many things he allowed us to do together for 26 blessed years, your will be forever missed.

Friend, I came to say hello to you on this particular day, the anniversary of the day you left us. I came to talk to you...I told you many things but you just smiled back at me.I am comforted by that smile and I have no doubt that you are with the Angels and singing the Christmas carols at this time of the year! Rest in Peace my dear. You're forever in my heart, Hildah! Bea

You will always be one of my junior sisters missing in action with us still here. There is a tug at my heart when I think of you not being with us but then I know that you are at peace and I can smile happily also. Do well where you are Hildah because I know you are sharing what you believe wherever you are. Love Ma Stephanie

May God's candle keep your sweet smile always alive with us. Pray for us. REST IN PEACE!!!

Dearest Hildah,
It is always very painful this time of the year remembering how you left us, thinking of what could have been and the milliard of possibilities. God clearly had a plan for you in a better place. We will all be together someday and until then rest in eternal peace .

It seems just like yesterday. Fare thee well. Waka fine.

Dearest Sis Hildah it just seems like yesterday. The reason is because i think about you all the time. Sis though you are not here you are always on my mind! Love Always

STILL MISSING YOU AND WILL CONTINUE TO LOVE YOU AND GUIDE US AS WE GO THROUGH THIS SINFUL WORLD TILL THE DAY WE JOIN YOU.

Sister, continue to miss you. Still love you. Know you are there with other love ones. We, you left behind continue to pray until we meet on that day.

As you are missed, I can see your light shining on all of us. We will forever remember you.
RIP.

My dear friend, it still seem to me like it never happened! I still see you beaming with that your beautiful smile! Am comforted, knowing that you are now in a better place. You are forever missed, Hilda! Rest in Peace my dear friend!

My Dearest Mama, it's been 3 years and we still miss you so very much, but I know you are in a good place. Most of the time it seems like I hear your voice calling me, or consoling me. You always reassured , you always cared for me. When I was able to care for you, you were gone. I am so consoled because I know you are with the Lord. I will never stop thanking you. Even though you are not with us physically, your spirit, and your doctrines, your teaching and your encouragement leaves within me and I use it every blessed day of my life. Love you dearly and will forever miss you until we meet again.

I think of you often Hildah and I remember your beautiful smile. It is time for your beautiful smile and heart to come again to all of us who love you and remind us of our loving connections as a family.

2 years and I still hear your voice. Miss seeing you but happy to have so many strong memories that make me feel like I can show up in Pittsburgh and see you there. We will talk in person again my sister.

Hi Hildah, I think of you often and smile because you did that for me. I know that it will still take a while for me to get used to you not being here with use but it is nice to know we had you for the time we did. God did a good thing when he decided to give you to us.