April 25, 2013
April 25, 2013
Hard to believe it has been a year. Miss ya Goose. Love ya.
Please Join us for a Celebration of Life for Iva Mae Alexander Kobayashi
Saturday, October 6th, 2012
11 A.M.
First United Methodist Church, Dickinson, Texas 77539
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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Iva Mae Alexander Kobayashi, 87. Iva Mae “Granny Goose” Alexander Kobayashi, born on July 21, 1924 in Hemphill, Texas, peacefully passed away on April 25, 2012 in the arms of her daughter, Dickie Sue. Iva was preceded in death by her loving husbands, Dick Alexander and Toke Kobayashi; Her parents, Walter and Dona Tatum; and brother, Gaylon Tatum. She is survived by her daughter, Dickie Sue Fries and son in law Joe of Las Cruces, NM and son Richard Alexander Jr. and daughter in law Jan of Dickinson, TX; and grandchildren: Tom Deale and Annemarie, Monica Rico and Dustin, Samy Mears and Aaron, Dona Rowe and Corey; great grandchildren: Caroline, Celeste, Alexandria, Reagan, Alexander, and Gracie Mae; and many other close family members and life-long friends that she loved dearly.
Iva and Dick Alexander were known for being proprietors of Alexander’s Pharmacy in Dickinson, TX and being very involved in the local community. Iva was a devout Christian with an extremely strong faith and could often be found with a bible in hand or her head bowed in prayer. Her Lord and Savior was the central focus of her life and we are confident her smile was gleaming more than ever when she arrived to meet Him.
A celebration of life will be announced at a later time but will be held in late July 2012, when all family members will be able to attend. Please check back for more details.
Please click on the "Stories" Tab above and share your memories of Iva "Granny Goose" with the family. We would really love to hear them.
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April 25, 2013
April 25, 2013
It doesn't seem like a year has gone by since Aunt Iva Mae went to be with our Lord and Savior. We think of her often and all of the special times we spent with her.
God is our strength...
Love to all, Byron (Scooter) & Janie
God is our strength...
Love to all, Byron (Scooter) & Janie
July 21, 2012
July 21, 2012
We wanted to light a candle for Aunt Iva Mae's Birthday today.
God is our comforter.
Love and Prayers to all,
Byron (Scooter) and Janie
God is our comforter.
Love and Prayers to all,
Byron (Scooter) and Janie
May 27, 2012
May 27, 2012
I will be remembering you, your family and your seet Mama in my thoughts and i9n my hearat. Her light will be missed by all!
With love, Heather
Dr. Nattrakom's assistant
With love, Heather
Dr. Nattrakom's assistant
May 27, 2012
May 27, 2012
Our hearts go out to you and your family during your time of sorrow. Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your Mama. Our thoughts are with you during your jou8rney through grief. Peace, prayers and blessings.
Our deepest condolences,
Dr. Thomas Nattakom and Staff
Our deepest condolences,
Dr. Thomas Nattakom and Staff
May 27, 2012
May 27, 2012
Dear Sue and Joe,
May our Lord, who is the Good Shepherd, hold you very close as you grieve over your Mother"s death.
With sympathy, Karin McClain
Grief is the price we pay for love.
QUEEN ELIZABETH II
May our Lord, who is the Good Shepherd, hold you very close as you grieve over your Mother"s death.
With sympathy, Karin McClain
Grief is the price we pay for love.
QUEEN ELIZABETH II
May 27, 2012
May 27, 2012
We alll did love your Mother so much and felt she (and her family) were family. We hae many many fond memories as far back as Conroe! Then rearing our children together. We will see you in July. She was such a beautiful lady---both inside and out!
Love and Prayers,
Phraulene, Doris, Phyllis and Family
Love and Prayers,
Phraulene, Doris, Phyllis and Family
May 27, 2012
May 27, 2012
We are so sad to learn of Iva's passing. With love and friendship!
Pat Jaquez and Carmen
Pat Jaquez and Carmen
May 27, 2012
May 27, 2012
Sue, Joe and Family, We were all so sorry to learn of Iva's passing. We were so fond of her and her engaging personality. Dean and I enjoyed ou8r visits with iva very much. Thank you for having shared her with us. Much love,
Carmen and Dean Davidson
Carmen and Dean Davidson
May 27, 2012
May 27, 2012
Dear Sue, It was enjoyable visiting with your mother earlier and regret her passing. I know you will miss her as we all love and miss our mothers. Please accept my deepest regret over your irreplaceable loss.
Sincerely, Barbara Marrot
Sincerely, Barbara Marrot
May 18, 2012
May 18, 2012
I'm missing my Granny Goose today. I wore the perfume she wore today, and I kept thinking she was nearby. Love ya Granny.
May 9, 2012
May 9, 2012
Sue and Richard,
Aunt Iva Mae will always have a special place in our hearts. She was a blessing to us and we loved her. We have many fond memories and deeply miss her. She did so much for her family and friends. You and your families have our love and prayers always.
Janie and Byron (Scooter)
Aunt Iva Mae will always have a special place in our hearts. She was a blessing to us and we loved her. We have many fond memories and deeply miss her. She did so much for her family and friends. You and your families have our love and prayers always.
Janie and Byron (Scooter)
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Donnie Thomas
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
I am so sorry. We told stories today, mother and I in her honor. "
Donnie wrote: "So... I have a lot of words I could write... and I will, but for now just take a bit of time for this... think of our mothers.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBMPSu044gM"
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
I am so sorry. We told stories today, mother and I in her honor. "
Donnie wrote: "So... I have a lot of words I could write... and I will, but for now just take a bit of time for this... think of our mothers.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBMPSu044gM"
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Audrey Hoke Bain
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
"Our love and prayers are with you and the family. "
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
"Our love and prayers are with you and the family. "
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
"May God be with all of you in mind and soul." Butch Scarella
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
"May God be with all of you in mind and soul." Olivia Strom Tolbert
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Darla Tice Rakoczy
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
"I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sweet, vibrant, beautiful mother--how fortunate I feel that I got to meet her! Sending you good thoughts and prayers!"
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
"I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sweet, vibrant, beautiful mother--how fortunate I feel that I got to meet her! Sending you good thoughts and prayers!"
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Marilyn Hall McClain
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
"Dickie Sue, so sorry to hear about your Mom."
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
"Dickie Sue, so sorry to hear about your Mom."
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Jeanie Bullard Tidwell
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
"May the presence of the "God of All Comfort" be with you all as you go through the loss of your mother."
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
"May the presence of the "God of All Comfort" be with you all as you go through the loss of your mother."
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Daniel Bergeron
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Dona told me that Iva passed. I am very sorry for your loss. you guys are in our thought and prayers.
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Dona told me that Iva passed. I am very sorry for your loss. you guys are in our thought and prayers.
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Dave Gates
Shared by Richard Alexander on 05/02/2012
Dick and Iva Alexander were one of the truly handsome couples of the area...
Shared by Richard Alexander on 05/02/2012
Dick and Iva Alexander were one of the truly handsome couples of the area...
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Amy Garcia
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/04/2012
Amy wrote: "I'm so sorry that she is no longer here with you but you will have a reunion in heaven someday! I will be praying for you and your family."
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/04/2012
Amy wrote: "I'm so sorry that she is no longer here with you but you will have a reunion in heaven someday! I will be praying for you and your family."
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Georgia Hawk Chapman
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/04/2012
So sorry to hear about your MOM will keep you in our prayers."
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/04/2012
So sorry to hear about your MOM will keep you in our prayers."
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
David Bergeron
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/04/2012
David wrote: "Sorry to hear our loss. She was kind and always had a great smile on her face! She had a blessed later life being with you and Joe. Hope to see you'll on my next trip through Las Cruces."
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/04/2012
David wrote: "Sorry to hear our loss. She was kind and always had a great smile on her face! She had a blessed later life being with you and Joe. Hope to see you'll on my next trip through Las Cruces."
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Marla Janecka Enersen
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Marla wrote: "I loved how much you loved each other, the relationship you had with each other was so unconditional, not matter how out of sync your opinions where, you gave each other that right. You did the same for your daughter, it is beautiful to watch. Love her so much for making you for me."
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Marla wrote: "I loved how much you loved each other, the relationship you had with each other was so unconditional, not matter how out of sync your opinions where, you gave each other that right. You did the same for your daughter, it is beautiful to watch. Love her so much for making you for me."
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Judy and Tom Smith
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Dearest Sue, I was so very sorry to hear of your mother's passing! You and she had such a good relationship. I know you will miss her terribly. I hope you got to spend some quality time with her before she got so terribly ill. Tom and I will be thinking good thoughts for you, Joe and your family.
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Dearest Sue, I was so very sorry to hear of your mother's passing! You and she had such a good relationship. I know you will miss her terribly. I hope you got to spend some quality time with her before she got so terribly ill. Tom and I will be thinking good thoughts for you, Joe and your family.
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Polly McFadden (The Stamp Act)
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
"Sometimes it's hard to find the right words, but it's never hard to tell you how much I care."
Sue, I was sorry to hear about your Mother's death. I know how close you were to her and how much you will miss her being with you. I hope in time you can remember the many lovely times you spent together and that will help heal the hur
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
"Sometimes it's hard to find the right words, but it's never hard to tell you how much I care."
Sue, I was sorry to hear about your Mother's death. I know how close you were to her and how much you will miss her being with you. I hope in time you can remember the many lovely times you spent together and that will help heal the hur
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Judd, Jo Anna and Madi
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Dear Sue and Joe,
there is no way to0 lessen the sorrow of losing someone so precious to you, but please remember others care very much and wish you strength and comfort at this sad time.
Keep close to your heart all your warm memories, they will sustain and bring comfort as you mourn the loss of your mother. With love, Judd, JoAnna and M
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Dear Sue and Joe,
there is no way to0 lessen the sorrow of losing someone so precious to you, but please remember others care very much and wish you strength and comfort at this sad time.
Keep close to your heart all your warm memories, they will sustain and bring comfort as you mourn the loss of your mother. With love, Judd, JoAnna and M
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Retha Kelley
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Dearest Friend,
I just read your message. Oh Sue, I am so, so, sorry. I didn't know your mom well, but I fell in love with her the first time we met. I was just shocked, when I saw your e-mail. Is there anything I can do for you? I know you took wonderful care of her and she will be missed by all. When you are wanting to talk and go out, let me
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Dearest Friend,
I just read your message. Oh Sue, I am so, so, sorry. I didn't know your mom well, but I fell in love with her the first time we met. I was just shocked, when I saw your e-mail. Is there anything I can do for you? I know you took wonderful care of her and she will be missed by all. When you are wanting to talk and go out, let me
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
God bless you and your family. You had a wonderful mother and I enjoyed being there for her shower. Thank you and God Bless You.
(CV) Sylvia
Sylvia came from Gentiva Home Health Care and helped me give mother a shower the last several weeks. She was so gentle and sweet with mother. Mother felt so wonderful after she had her shower and put on a clean gown and climbed (with help) back into
(CV) Sylvia
Sylvia came from Gentiva Home Health Care and helped me give mother a shower the last several weeks. She was so gentle and sweet with mother. Mother felt so wonderful after she had her shower and put on a clean gown and climbed (with help) back into
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Marla Janecka Enersen
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Marla wrote: "I loved how much you loved each other, the relationship you had with each other was so unconditional, not matter how out of sync your opinions where, you gave each other that right. You did the same for your daughter, it is beautiful to watch. Love her so much for making you for me."
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Marla wrote: "I loved how much you loved each other, the relationship you had with each other was so unconditional, not matter how out of sync your opinions where, you gave each other that right. You did the same for your daughter, it is beautiful to watch. Love her so much for making you for me."
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Dear Dickie Sue, Richard and families, So sorry to hear of Iva's passing. What a beautiful Lady. Please know that Alexander and I have you in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Ricki & Alexander Bergeron~
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Dearest Sue, I am very sorry to hear about your mother. :( She was such a wonderful person and I am going to miss her! My prayers and love are with you and your family. "
Christine Smiggen
Christine Smiggen
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Maggie Hoeksema
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Wishing you strength, courage and peace at this sad time. You are in my thoughts.
Maggie
Shared by Sue Fries on 05/05/2012
Wishing you strength, courage and peace at this sad time. You are in my thoughts.
Maggie
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Sending caring thoughts your way. Love and hugs to you in the loss of your dear sweet Mom. Debby Mihalco
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Our hearts go out to you, Sue and all of your family on the passing of your mother.We know how important she was in your lives---you'll be in our thoughts.
Fondly, Penny and Bob Kaiser
Fondly, Penny and Bob Kaiser
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
We wish time spent with those we love could last forever...and in our hearts it will. With sympathy In your loss. We loved her!!! You are in our prayers.
Wyndell and Molly
Wyndell and Molly
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
With sincere condolences in your time of sorrow.Let me know if there is anything that I can do. Maude Beakley
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
May beautiful memories of a life lived to its fullest linger and the shadow of pain be lessened each passing day. Sorry to hear about the loss of your mother.
Bob and Toni Dunn
Bob and Toni Dunn
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Dear Sue, I hope it comforts you to realize that God is with you every moment---along with all the thoughts and prayers of everyone who cares about you. You and your family are in my heart and in my prayers!
Love, Alice
Love, Alice
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
No one has ever been a better daughter than you. Not only did you care for your mother, but you have been the best role model for Monica and Alee. I admire the way you show love day after day to your family and friends. I value being one of those friends.
With love, Stacey Somppi
With love, Stacey Somppi
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Iva was a wonderful Lady! Very special! I cared a great deal for her---so sorry. My Heart and my thoughts are with you and yours
Love you,
Deb Rico
Love you,
Deb Rico
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Dear Sue, I was so sorry to hear about your mom's death. I know, even when we know it is soon, nothing really prepares us for the loss of one we love so much. I rejoice for you in the fact that you could be her strength and comfort right to the end. I also know your heart will always be full of wonderful memories of your mom. May God wrap you in His arms of peace.
Love, Sherry
Love, Sherry
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
A mother is always precious and yours will be deeply missed. With our love and sympathy. We love you and Joe.
Karen and Mark Parmeter
Karen and Mark Parmeter
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Sue-
All of us here were deeply saddened to learn of the passing of your mother. It was always a pleasure to visit with her---she was a very special lady. Our thought are with you and your family at this time.
Jeff Bowers
Jeff was mother's optometrist here in Las Cruces
All of us here were deeply saddened to learn of the passing of your mother. It was always a pleasure to visit with her---she was a very special lady. Our thought are with you and your family at this time.
Jeff Bowers
Jeff was mother's optometrist here in Las Cruces
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Dearest Sue, Joe and Family. You are in our thoughts and your Mom will be missed. Love, Polly, Kamran, Shahla, Sherry, Keyon and Suraya
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Our love and prayers! Judy Hawbaker and Eric, Debbie, Heidi and Thomas Potthoff
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Dear Sue,
Condolences on the loss of your mother. Here are my best wishes that you will both celebrate and grieve her passing. Peace be with you during this new and different time. Sincerely, Joe Smith
Condolences on the loss of your mother. Here are my best wishes that you will both celebrate and grieve her passing. Peace be with you during this new and different time. Sincerely, Joe Smith
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Sue,
There are no words great enough to express how sorry I am for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. Please know I am here if you need anything.
Much love, Anita
There are no words great enough to express how sorry I am for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. Please know I am here if you need anything.
Much love, Anita
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Sue,
I am so sorry. I love you.
Tammie
I do not mean to send an impersonal email. I am on travel in New York. I will call when I am back home.
Forever Crimson!
I am so sorry. I love you.
Tammie
I do not mean to send an impersonal email. I am on travel in New York. I will call when I am back home.
Forever Crimson!
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April 25, 2013
April 25, 2013
Hard to believe it has been a year. Miss ya Goose. Love ya.
April 25, 2013
April 25, 2013
It doesn't seem like a year has gone by since Aunt Iva Mae went to be with our Lord and Savior. We think of her often and all of the special times we spent with her.
God is our strength...
Love to all, Byron (Scooter) & Janie
God is our strength...
Love to all, Byron (Scooter) & Janie
July 21, 2012
July 21, 2012
We wanted to light a candle for Aunt Iva Mae's Birthday today.
God is our comforter.
Love and Prayers to all,
Byron (Scooter) and Janie
God is our comforter.
Love and Prayers to all,
Byron (Scooter) and Janie
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Mother's 88th Birthday
July 23, 2012
by Sue Fries
On Mother's birthday and with great respect and love, Alee, Monica and I took her to her favorite restaurant, We ordered her favorite foods and celebrated her life. We talked about how much we miss her but how lucky we were to have had her for 87 years. We laughed and we cried. We know she would be glad that Tom was home from Afghanistan. We will always miss her and her great spirit. No one loves us like a mother does. We miss that so much! After lunch we took her for a ride like she used to love to do. Mother always enjoyed seeing the crops in the fields,the pecan orchards, the blue sky with white clouds and the beautiful mountains. These things gave her peace as they do us. We love you mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. We know you are in heaven and at peace.
Her Birthday Weekend
July 22, 2012
by Dona Rowe
It's bittersweet...Glad to know she lived 87 years with her family and friends beside her...but wish it could have been at least one more year... I'm missing her a lot this weekend...just the way she said my name, I miss. I love you Goose.
A Birthday Remembrance
July 21, 2012
by Janie Tatum
Aunt Iva Mae is especially in my thoughts today. She would have been 88 years old. Wish she was here to hug and take to Kelly's Restaurant for a birthday lunch and buy her a piece of coconut cream pie which she enjoyed so much. That's what we did on her birthday last year. Byron has some special childhood memories of Aunt Iva too. She made the very best sand tarts. God's Blessings to all of the family and her friends as we remember her birthday today.
Love, Janie and Byron (Scooter)