- 36 years old
- Date of birth: Jan 12, 1974
- Date of passing: May 4, 2010
|Let the memory of Jake be with us forever|
"Just heard a song on the radio and not sure why but you came to mind. This happens often which usually starts with a smile and ends with memories. Instead of being sad, I am happy that we had a chance to make those memories and wished we could have made more. We miss you and Johny both but I know we will be together again in time. Love you!"
"Today for some reason was a hard day. It seemed that almost everything made me think of you which made me cry and wish that you were here with us. I so miss feeling like a complete family and without you here there will always be that missing part. I try so hard to be strong for myself and our kids and then there are times I just can't hide it. I miss you so much it hurts. I love you!"
"Happy Father's Day Jake/Daddy! Another year sad/hard year without you in our lives. You would have been an amazing father and daddy to our kids. They are both doing amazing. I can't believe they will be 1st graders next year. In the fall I plan to register Roslyn for cheer with her good friend Cora and Carson for flag football. Carson has a huge passion for football its crazy! I think Roslyn will follow in her Aunt Jennys footsteps with cheerleading. They both LOVE to read. The kids made you a father's day card for you with love. Miss you so much always and forever!"
"Happy 10th Anniversary to my Angel in the sky. Miss you being here with me, Roslyn and Carson. Today will be a hard day for me even more so then other days because I always thought that we would be celebrating together. Until we can be reunited in heaven again you will always be loved and thought of. I love you babe always and forever."
"I always thought that you would be here with us to celebrate your Birthday but the sadness of knowing that you never will be will never go away. Crying and sadness are now s big part of our lives, we miss you and Johny so much. I know 6ou are both always watching over us but, oh , what we would give to have you back. Fly High My Angel, Happy Birthday, I love you and miss you!"
"Happy birthday! I miss you. I miss Johny too. Your never forgotten."
"Happy Birthday Jake/Babe/Daddy! Sure do miss you being here with us as we celebrate and remember you today and always. You will never be forgotten and always loved by the 3 of us. Myself, Roslyn and Carson are sending you birthday kisses from us to you in heaven. May you rock out today and always. We love you!"
"Today is such a bittersweet day for me. Yes it is my birthday and for that it makes me smile. Its also the age that you were when you left us and are no longer here on Earth to experience life with me, Roslyn and Carson. I just wish that there would have been something that I could have done to have changed the events of that day years ago. There's never a day that goes by or that will go by that I won't stop thinking about you and loving you. You will always have a piece of my heart with you and you will always be in my heart. I love you!"
"Another year has come to a close and I cant stop crying , we've been through our 5th Christmas without you and our 3rd without Johny and it still seems unreal. You both should still be here with us because the pain and sadness of losing you never goes away and never gets any easier. You would have been so proud of your beautiful children, Roslyn and Carson.,they are so smart and you would have been an amazing Father to them. We keep your Memory alive to them and we always will. Take care of Johny, you are forever in my heart, I love you and you with all my heart.
"Another year is coming to a close without you in our lives. So many things have happened since you have been gone. I wish that I could sit down and talk with you about all of them. Roslyn and Carson love school which makes me so proud. Carson is picking up on music like you wouldn't believe. You would be so proud of them. Motley Crue is performing for the last time tonight which makes me think about all of our concerts that we have been to and all of the good times that we have shared with each other. I miss you and love you so very much. I so wish that we could be together ringing in the New Year."
"Some days are just so hard without you in our lives. I look around all the time and see so many couples and families happy and then I look at myself and I just cry. Why can't we be happy like our family and friends. I almost don't want to be on Facebook anymore because I'm so tired of seeing all of the happiness and wishing that was me/us. Without you it just doesn't seem possible and it makes me cry. I miss you so much!"
"Today our babies or I should say kids now since time is flying by so fast are 5 years old today. I always wonder what our live's would be like had you still been here with us. I know you are watching from heaven and are so very proud of them and how much they have accomplished. I know you will be sending lots of birthday wishes their way today.We love you and miss you so very much! Love you Jake/babe."
"I'm having a sadder than normal day today, I can't believe you left us 5 years ago. I think about you and all the fun family memories we all had and then I cry. My heart is always heavy with sadness, I just wish we had you and Johny here with us and I'll never understand why you were both taken from us. I always wonder how our lives would have been if you were both still here with us. Our lives will never be the same, I miss you and love you with all my heart!"
"Our dear sweet Jake how much you are missed!! 5 years have gone by and the pain and heartache is still with us. Wish I could give you a big hug and tell you how much we love you. I know you are in a better place and you are at peace. God Bless you Jake you are always in our hearts. Janice"
"I can't believe that you have been in heaven for 5 years. Thank you for sending me signs from you on our Anniversary because it made that day better for me instead of so sad. Always missing you and wishing that you could be here with me and to watch Roslyn and Carson grow. You would have been an amazing father/daddy to them both. Every time they have a field trip or a school function I always wish that you could be there with me to help them celebrate it. So much that I am thankful for that you have given me or that we have shared. So sad that we can't continue on with may more beautiful memories. Love you and missing you always!"
"Dear Jake, I am sending hugs today to let you know we all think about you and johny all of the time. We know that one day we will all get to hang out again and talk about music and life lol Please know that you have soooo many people that think of you daily!! Hugs to you dear Jake! p.s...how's my cali dog???? God Bless you Jake!"
"Happy 9th Anniversary Baby! No matter what ups and downs may come my way there isn't a day that I don't think about you. Today was one of the happiest days of my life and I'm so glad that it was shared with you. I always wonder where we would be today had you still been alive. Even though you are gone you will never be forgotten! I love you baby and always will! My heart will always have that special place in it for you!"
"Had a nice birthday party for you today with all the family we all sure miss you a lot l think of you and Johny all the time watch over your babies till we meet again I love you. dad"
"As you celebrate another Birthday in Heaven, I can't stop the tears from falling. I wish you were here to see your beautiful children, Roslyn and Carson. You would be so proud of them and been the best Daddy ever and we will always keep your memory alive to them! We miss you and Johny so much and your beautiful memories will be forever in our hearts! Happy Birthday, we love you and miss you!"
"I wanted to wish you a very happy birthday! I know you are in heaven looking down on us and you know we all miss you so until we meet again, rock on! Love you and miss you."
"Jake, today your beautiful babies Roslyn and Carson, are celebrating their 4th Birthday! They are precious, beautiful children that you would have been so proud of and they would have been so proud that you were their Daddy! They will always be proud of you because we will always keep your memory alive to them and let them know how much you would have loved them! Take care of Johny, I love you and miss you both so much!"
"Jake the years have slip by sooo guickly and yet we all miss
You so much. Me and your mom think all the time about what a great dad you would have been to Carson and Roslyn I just don't know else say I love very much Dad"
"I can't believe you've been gone 4 years! The pain and sadness of l
osing you is as sad today as it was that day 4 years ago. I cry all the time, because I miss you and Johny so much! It just isn't fair, our lives are so sad. You were a wonderful, loving son that we were so proud of and we love you and miss you very much!I"
"Dear sweet Jake another year has passed and my heart still aches. I think about you and Johny everyday. It is hard but I think of all the wonderful memories I have of you as a child and a young man and cherish them all.I miss and love you Jake. Janice(you never called me aunt)!"
4 years ago today.. heaven gained an amazing angel. The whole family misses you so much ! I'll never forget that smile.. and today, im remembering your smile and all the good memories. We love you! Rest in peace♥"
"4 yrs ago I lost my love, best friend and the father of our unborn babies. I'm so very thankful and blessed that your love, thoughts and memories will never be forgotten and will continue to live on through Roslyn and Carson. You would be so proud of the them. No matter who may come and go within our lives you will never be forgotten and will always be remembered. We love and miss you so very much and always will."
"Hi Jake, Just want to tell you that you are not forgotten by any one, we all keep you in our everyday lives, whether it is a song we hear, a picture or just seeing your little ones, you are still here with us in some way! God bless you and may he keep you in his arms until all of us meet again! What a party that's gonna be huh? Love, Shannon and Chris Inman"
"Today we would have been celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary. I want to say Happy Anniversary babe! Will always and forever love you and miss you!"
"Jake, I didn't even realize this was here but I'm so glad to have found it. Nearly four years gone and I still think of you often. Anytime I pass a Cici's Pizza. Anytime I hear Motley Crue. Anytime I eat a Jack in the Box taco (and contemplate your recommendation that they can be used for wall repairs). So many laughs we shared. I know you'd be so proud of Carson and Roslyn Misty shares so many great photos and they look to be growing up fast like our boys. Time passes, people come into and out of lives, but know that your memory still burns bright my friend. Rest in peace."
"You would be so very proud of our baby girl today. Roslyn sang her ABCs for me today and I praised her like crazy! They are both so very smart and I'm so very sad that your not able to be here to see their growing and learning. We love you and miss you so very much and always will no matter what may happen in our lives."
"Happy 40th Birthday Jake. We miss you and Johny so much. I think of the memories I have of you boys and I smile and cry at the same time.you were surrounded by so much love while you were with us and you are still surrounded by love only now in the kingdom of heaven.Rest in peace my beautiful nephew .I love and miss you Janice"
"Aww, Jake, I always thought that on your 40th birthday that we would be be celebrating with a big party and you and Roslyn and Carson playing the air guitar to Motley Crue, Home Sweet Home but God needed you as one of his Heavenly Angels! My tears are falling and our days are so sad without you and Johny! It just isn't fair and we are missing you and loving you so much! Happy Birthday, Jake, we miss you and love you!"
"Happy 40th Birthday Jake/Daddy! The 3 of us are so blessed to have you as our guardian angel that watches over us and keeps us safe from all bad things. We love you! May you rest in peace knowing the 3 of us are safe and doing well."
"Dear Jake, just want to send a great big hug to you today and say that you are still missed so much by so many! your babies will carry you on and as we watch them grow, we know that you are watching over them and growing with them. God has a special angel! P.s. thanks for helping my cali!! give her a hug!"
"Wow. 3 years. Will never forget the day I got the phone call from my mom. It was rough. I got a picture of you and Johny on my night stand. I miss ya."
"3 years ago today was one of the saddest days of my life, the day you went to Heaven to be an Angel! Oh Jake, my heart is so broken! Most days I can't believe you're gone! i just wish you were here with your all of us and especially your beautiful babies, Roslyn and Carson! Your memories live in my heart everyday! I'm crying as I write this because I miss you and love you everyday! Mom"
"3 years ago today I lost the love of my life(you) and the father of my babies because it was when you died. I miss you so much! I so wish you were here with me and our babies. You would be the best daddy ever! I hate that I can remember the day just like it happened yesterday. You should be here with us and not gone! Thinking of you and loving you always and forever! XXX OOO!"
"What a sad day for me without you. Today we would be celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary together. We should be together not apart. I miss you so darn much that it hurts! I want nothing more then for you to be here in mine and the kids lives and to know that we can't and won't ever again makes me want to do nothing but cry. I love and miss you so much babe XXXOOO."
"We missed you and Johny so much yesterday on Easter and everyday!! People say it gets easier as time goes on but not for us! It seems so unreal that you're both gone! I think about you every minute of everyday and miss you more than that! You're always in my heart, I love you! Mom"
"Happy Easter Babe/Daddy, we love you and miss you so very much each and everyday. Roslyn looks so very beautiful and Carson is so handsome. Sure wish you could be here to celebrate today and everyday with us. Always know you are and will always be loved. Many kisses and hugs from us XXX OOO."
"You would be so proud of Roslyn and Carson for going potty all by themselves and for making it accident free during naps. I think about you daily and about all of the good times we shared. Oh how I miss everything we shared and would love more then anything for us to still be creating many more memories with our kids. We love you and miss you so much! XXX OOO"
"Hi Jake. Happy Birthday. I miss you buddy, I always got you and Brian's bday mixed up but actually Brian and I went to your grave yesterday. I really miss you. We miss Johny as well. I love you man"
"Oh, Jake, I miss you so much and I hate that you are not here with us on your birthday and everyday! I look at pictures of you and pictures of you and Johny together and I can't stop crying! Our lives aren't the same without you boys here. Happy Birthday, Jake, we love you and miss you more than you could ever know!"
"Happy Birthday Daddy/Babe. Wishing you were here celebrating your birthday with us instead of in heaven. Our babies are getting so big and so smart. Sure am missing you, your humor and your presence. We are loving you always and forever. Many Hugs and Kisses from us XXXOOO."
"Thinking about youand missing you so much on this Christmas Day. As we have our 3rd Christmas without you,it doesn; it doesn't get easier. Thinking back on all our Christmas's together as a family make me smile and cry! Johny is spending his 1st Christmas in Heaven and I know the two of you are sharing many memories together. Missing you and loving you everyday! Merry Christmas! Mom!"
"Merry Christmas Baby/Daddy! Sure do miss you being here to share each special day with us. You would be so proud of how smart our babies are and how big they are. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't wish you back in our lives. Christmas just isn't the same since you've been gone. I still have yet to put up lights or a tree like we used too every year. We love you and miss you"
"Dearest jake, I still think of you as if you are here sometimes. My whole family misses you more than you know. The days of talkin about music with Chris, Linz, and me and how Chris wanted you to jam with him and I even gave you the stage lights lol, we get to see you through those two wonderful babies.I will light a a candle for you this Christmas to let you know we are thinking of you!"
"We've had yet another Thanksgiving without you and our first one wish without Johny. I cry all the time , I miss you with all my heart and I know you and Johny are together but I wish you were both still here with us. As we face the holidays again filled with sadness, I will always remember all the beautiful memories you boys left us with. I love you and miss you soo much!"
"It's so sad to see yours and Johny's headstone next to each other. I can't believe this is all real. I know you and Johny are watching over each other but it still doesn't ease our heartache. Roslyn and Carson are getting so big and when they look at your picture on Misty's Grandma's wall they say Daddy! We will always keep your memory alive to them, we miss you and love you. Mom"
"Jake, I know we didn't talk but I know I can say I miss you. You were such an amazing person. I can still remember seeing that smile on your face when I seen you. Your babies are so cute. I wish you were still here to see them. You were such an amazing guy. This made me cry a little. Rest in peace Jake. Love you<3"
"I know you still hear me when I talk to you but today I could really use your presence and your feedback...everyday is hard but days like today seem a little harder.."
"Hi, Jake, You have some beautiful tributes here. I was one of your teachers at St. Bernard's School. I just found out about your passing when reading Nicole Stimac's trubute. I had such a great class and was privileged to have you, Marc, and the others as students. I welcome hearing from your family and friends. Please tell my son and daughter (Jill and Jeff) Hi and I miss them, too."
"JAKE...I didnt know this was here and I am so VERY SORRY that I havent been here, I think about you all the time...now Johnny too...I guess I feel like a fan of yours...I got the guitar pic your brother gave me to remember you buy.I wish I could see you both one last time to say goodbye. you and johnny take care of each other and give each other a hug for me,miss you both so much, love ya"
"Yesterday I created Johny's Memorial Website, I'm so sad all the time that we've lost both of our boys. I know you're together but we'd rather have you here with us. Roslyn, Carson and Misty came and spent a week and a half with us, it was a wondderful time, your babies are beautiful. You and Johny please take care of each other and always remember how much we love you and miss you both"
"Three weeks ago today was another sad day for all our family. It was the day your brother, Johny went to join you in Heaven. Oh God, I don't know how to get through this. I know you'll watch over each other but I just wish we had you back. My tears keep falling my heart keeps breaking and the sadness will never go away. Take care of each other, we love you and miss you both, Mom and Dad"
"dear jake it,s Dad,i know you,ll be with all the guys at the Golf outing tomorrow. this has been a trying day but I,m just thankful of all the good memories you left behind. Love Dad"
"Two years later and it hurts just as bad..but I want to thank you for all you have brought to our lives. I wish we could be making more memories with you in them but we will cherish the ones that we already have and smile about those. So thank you."
"It has been 2 years since you left us and the heartbreak is still the same. Memories of you as a baby,a little boy and a young man does bring a smile to my face and we cherish those memories. We love you and miss you. Janice"
"I never thought I'd be writing a memory of you. You should still be here with us, I've been cryin since last night and I cry everyday over you. 2 years ago today was the worst day of our lives, so many times i close my eyes and imagine that when I open them, none of this will have happened. Oh Jake, we miss you so much and we have a hole in our life that will never be filled. I love you!"
"Jake, I miss you. It's been 2 years now and I dont like putting together a golf outting in your memory. It's sad. It's painful for everybody but I try to think of all the fun times we had together. Alot of good concerts this summer you would of really liked. You will never be forgotten."
"Everyday of my life is so sad since you passed away. Sunday would have been your wedding anniversary, Friday will be 2 years since you passed away and Saturday is your Memorial Golf Outing. We shouldn't be having memorials for you, you should be here with us. I cry every day, some days I just don't how I make it through, but your memories and God help me. I love and miss you, Mom."
"April 29th would have been our 6th wedding anniversay together. I'm so sad that another year is spent without you in our lives. You mean so much to me and the saying is so true that "you dont know what you got til it is gone.: I've lost so much and would love more than anything to have you back again. Love you babe!"
"Once again we're having an event without you here with us. It's Super bowl Sunday and I'm thinking about how we always went to your house for Super Bowl, you being gone just makes me so sad, I can,t stop crying or hurting. We will never stop missing you or loving you. I love you. Mom"
"I pointed to our picture that we had taken at JCP and said daddy. No sooner did Roslyn and Carson point at you and say daddy which made me happy and sad. I sure wish we could all be together as a family and grow old together. We think about you everyday and will be loving you always and forever XXX OOO! Misty, Roslyn and Carson"
"jake, thought alot about you today , like every other day. I know your in
a better place but It doesn t make it any easier, We all sure miss you
Love you Dad ."
"Happy Birthday Babe/Daddy! We love and miss you more then you can possibly imagine. Sure wish the 3 of us could be celebrating your Birthday with you. You will never be forgotten and always thought of each and everyday. Love always and forever Misty, Roslyn and Carson XXX OOO!"
"Jake, I just wanted to tell you Happy Birthday, we are all missing you today and everyday. But I know I have some comfort knowing you are celebrating in some GREAT company. We love you."
"Happy Birthday Jake! Not a day goes by that we don't think of you, share a funny story about you, or just cry because we miss you so much! There is a void in our family that will never be filled. We miss you so much! We Love you!!! Jenny, Brandon, Kaden, Kylen, and Kameren"
"Hi Jake, Happy Birthday! I miss you. You were the one person that always called me on my bday and unfortunately I can't call you on yours. It's a sad day.....I think about you all the time."
"Today is your Birthday and our 2nd one without you here. I can't stop crying, I cry everyday, I just wish you were still here with us. I'll never get over losing you, you were a wonderful, loving son and it's just so hard to know you'll never be here again or never see your beautiful babies, Roslyn and Carson. We love you, Happy Birthday"
""Happy Birthday Jake we love and miss you soo much and think about you everyday. I know you are with your grandma,grandpa and uncle Jimmy in the kindom of heaven and I know you are at peace. Love Janice"
"I have been thinking of you lately and then saw that today is your birthday. We miss you and it is sad to know you aren't here with us but God has a plan and we will contine to think of you and remember you until we see you again."
"I'm going to be celebrating my 32nd Birthday and I'm sad to know that I will never get the chance to celebrate it with you or be able to receive a sweet, loving and thoughtful gift that you would give. My Birthdays will never be the same again nor will yours because I will always be thinking about you and missing you. I love you babe and miss you so very much!"
"It's January1, 2012 and we're starting another New Year without you and it just makes me cry everyday. I just wish you were here to see your beautiful babies grow up, you would be so proud of them and Misty, she is such a good mom. Our lives will never be the same without you and we will have sadness everyday of our lives, but we will have happiness in having your babies here. We love you"
"Happy New Year Babe! I sure wish that we could be spending the new year together with our beautiful babies. I think thank Carson is going to follow in your footsteps and be into computers which is awesome! You should see him sit down with the laptop toy that your parents bought and him act like he is typing. They are so smart and wish you could be here to see it. Love and miss you!"
"It's Christmas night and I've been crying a lot today. You should be here with us and not gone. I don't know why you left us, it just isn't fair, I just miss you so much. I never knew I could ever have such pain and heartache in my life until you passed away. I'm so thankful for all the great Christmas memories we have of you. I love you and miss you"
"Christmas is only a few days away and I'm so sad about spending another Christmas without you. The 4 of us should be together enjoying one another. I miss us picking out a tree and inviting the kids over to help put up the lights. Its so sad to know that we will never get to celebrate with our beautiful babies or exchange gifts. We love you and you will be forever missed babe/daddy."
"Jake, it's been so long. While I wasn't around much after leaving for the Marines...there is nothing that can replace the 3 years of freedom and friendship that only a big black truck and you represent in my memories. I still remember singing out load with the windows down and nothing but the road ahead. In many ways you represent the laughter in my heart. You are remembered!"
"I thought of you today, I think of you often. I just wanted to tell you that we miss you very much but we know you are watching over all of us and you are at peace. You are always in our hearts. Until we meet again."
"I think about you everyday Jake . I see someone who reminds me of you and I think if only that was you. It makes me sad. I know now that you are in a better place and at peace but that still doesn't stop the hurt that everyone who loves you lives with everyday. you are forever in our hearts and prayers."
"It's the night before Thanksgiving and I haven't stopped crying all day. We always went to your's and Misty's house for Thanksgiving and now it makes me so sad to know that we'll never do that again, Oh God my heart aches so bad. You were so proud to have all your family at your house. You were our precious son who we will forever love and miss."
"Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and we should be celebrating it at our house with our family and we can't which makes me so upset and sad. I didn't sleep much and was up crying because I miss you so much! Another year of holidays without you is so hard. Darn it Jake you should be here with us. I heard Home Sweet Home on the radio and just broke down crying. Love and miss you!"
"While I was about to get up and start my day you came into my mind this morning. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you. Roslyn and Carson are getting so big! They are so darn cute and smart! You would be so proud of them and would have been the best daddy ever! We love you babe/Daddy!"
"Dude, I went to see Motley not too long ago, they played Home, I cried. There are about ten thousand songs that remind me of you, I pretty much lose it on every one. Which is actually pretty funny cause sometimes I'm playing in front of people. They just think I'm drunk. Love!"
"I think of you often and miss you more each time. I will see you when the roll is called up yonder because I too will be home."
"There are so many times that a song comes on the radio and all I can think about is you and how I would love to share this moment with you. Sure miss going to concerts with you and going to see Metal Studz and Rebel Train. I love and miss you!"
"Jake, I miss you alot. You were more than just my cousin, but my best friend. Nobody had your charm, wit and extraordinary sense of humor. I wish you were still here. Watching bands is not quite the same. Forever Marc"
"Oh babe how much I miss you so! You were such a fantastic handyman who could do just about anything around the house. There are so many things I wish you were here to fix. You would have been an awesome teacher to Roslyn and Carson. We love you!"
"You would be so very proud of how beautiful and wonderful our babies have turned out and so wish that you could be here to see them learn and grow. We love you so much and there is not a day that goes by that we don't think about you. We love you and miss you!"
"Jake- I just want you to know how much I miss you. It's really hard to get through the day sometimes, but I know you wouldn't want us to be sad all the time. I know you know I loved you very much, till we meet again. Love Dad"
"This website is a beautiful tribute to you Jake. We all miss you so much. We will never forget you and will make sure your babies remember and know how much you love them. I miss your witty sense of humor and your warm smile. You will forever be in my heart."
"This tribute is from Jake's beautiful babies, Roslyn and Carson. We would have been so proud of the great daddy would been to us. We will forever love our daddy and keep him in our hearts. Even though he's now our Guardian Angel, he will always be our daddy. We love you, Daddy."
"Jake, We love you and miss you everyday! You would be so proud of Kaden and Kylen and you would just love Kameren!! We will never forget you! You are forever in our hearts!"
"jake i remember when we were kids and i broke my arm and u ran into mom and said mom johnys hurt then i thought i was gona be a migit u remember,my life will never b the same without u jake i love u"
"I wake up every morning amd look at your picture on the wall and cry.You were a wonderful son and we loved you so much. Our tears fall freely and we will forever have heartache. We know you're in heaven but it's not the same as having you here with us. We love you Mom and Dad"
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