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James Bubear
  • 19 years old
  • Date of birth: Sep 27, 1991
  • Place of birth:
    Llandrindod Wells, Wales, United Kingdom
  • Date of passing: Mar 13, 2011
  • Place of passing:
    Bath, Somerset, United Kingdom
"We're Better Together" - to all my children in Spirit - William, James, Suzie, Terrence, Reilly, Peter, Sam and Cai xxx

I created this memorial page on 1 May, 2012, in memory of my precious son, James, brother to Amy and Hannah, who is in our thoughts each second of the day, and will forever be in our hearts.  The world has suffered a great loss, James, but this world's loss is heaven's gain, and I know we will meet again one day.  

Thank you to everyone who has left such beautiful tributes, and memories of James, on this page.  It uplifts us to realise just how many lives he touched, both those of people he knew and those who never knew him alike.  We're very proud of him, and through your memories, we've come to know a side of James we never knew before.

James' Facebook Pages also contained many memories and messages left for James. Many thousands of people gathered together on those pages to offer their help and support in the few weeks my son was missing, and this great outpouring of love towards a common aim will never be forgotten by any of us, his family. 

LETTER FROM HEAVEN

To my dearest family some things I'd like to say
But first of all to let you know that I arrived today,
I'm writing this from Heaven. Here I shall dwell with God above
Here, there's no more tears of sadness. Here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through
God picked me up and hugged me and He said "I welcome you.

"It's good to have you back again,
you were missed while you were gone,
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly, you are part of my plan
There's so much that we have to do to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do
And foremost on the list was to watch and care for you
And when you lie in bed at night, the days chores put to flight
God and I are closest to you . . in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth and all those loving years
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears
But do not be afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

1 wish that I could tell you all that God has planned
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand
But one thing is for certain though my life on earth is o'er
I'm closer to you now than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind
I'm walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go . . from that body to be free
Remember you're not going . . you're just coming here to me.

Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by ENU SINGH on 28th September 2016

"I haven't ever met you but I have a strong desire to meet you.
And I shall."

This tribute was added by ENU SINGH on 28th September 2016

"Hey Dear James
It is your birthday . Hope you are rocking it up there with all your buddies including Abhijeet . I wish you all the love and peace and all that you wish for . Keep some free time today to send some awesome msgs to your mom. Lots of love"

This tribute was added by laura tomei on 27th September 2016

"With tender thoughts of you James.... I remember your beautiful face . Happy Celebration in Heaven ! May you continue to meet with your loving mother and family members through cosmic travels xox"

This tribute was added by Barbara Paronto on 27th September 2016

"James, Happy Birthday... Every time I hear "Halo" I think of you.  Though I never knew you, I feel that I've gotten to know you thru the video clips and photos.  A bright guy with a fantastic sense of humor. Thinking of you, your Mom and your sisters today. Send them a sign today and reassure them that you are at peace."

This tribute was added by Marian Flagg on 27th September 2016

""Happy Birthday James".....lots of love to you and your family xxxx"

This tribute was added by Michael Bagan on 27th September 2016

"Hi James Happy 25th birthday my friend, thinking of you and all your family today lots of love to you all.xxx"

This tribute was added by Iris Kizler on 27th September 2016

"Thinking of my grandson James on this special day, his 25th birthday. Hope you have fun with grandad and everyone else up there. Lots of love and kisses, your Nan xxx"

This tribute was added by Donna James on 27th September 2016

"Happy birthday James, thinking of you on this day 25 years ago when you left the spirit world for your short venture into our physical world, and where your early departure has left a void that no one else can fill. Hope you are partying today with all your family spirit side! God bless xxxx"

This tribute was added by MaryLou Stripling on 27th September 2016

"Happy Birthday In Heaven Dear James <3"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 27th September 2016

"Happy 25th Birthday my beautiful son. Loved and missed so much. So much promise taken from us far too soon. You will never get to make your Mark in this world. Taken from us just as you were about to discover what your place was here. No longer can we watch as you grow into the special person you were meant to be. No milestones reached. No goals set. No memories made. Just a lifetime of unfulfilled promise and broken hearts. Love you so much, my James. Can't wait until that day I see you, and your brothers and sister, once more. Love Mum xxx"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 9th September 2016

"Love you to the moon and back, thinking of you always, precious son xxx About to move to a new, hopefully forever, home very soon and I know you'll be with us xxxx"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 16th June 2016

"I promise you
I'm always there
When your heart is filled with sorrow and despair
I'll carry you
When you need a friend
You'll find my footprints in the sand"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 10th May 2016

"Lord, we know You're always busy,
           For You've many things to do,
     But when sorrow overcomes us,
           Well, we need to talk to You.
     For we've lost someone precious,
           And they're with You there above,
     And it's someone that we needed,
           And it's someone that we loved.
     We are feeling lost and all alone,
           And though we do believe,
     We need You, Lord, to hold us up,
           To help us while we grieve.
     Please give us strength and courage, Lord,
           To bear what we must bear
     And nudge us when our faith is weak
           To remind us You are there.
     Give us hope for our tomorrows,
           Tell us life will still go on,
     Show us, Lord, that all this darkness
           Will be followed by the dawn.
     You have led us through so many things,
           You''ve pulled us through before,
     Hold us up, Lord, till we're through this
           And we are strong once more."

This tribute was added by Donna James on 15th March 2016

"Dear James, thinking of you and know that you are drawing close to your loved ones, friends and family who are holding you close in their thoughts, especially at this anniversary time. Love Donna xx"

This tribute was added by Barbara Paronto on 14th March 2016

"James, I never met you but I certainly got to know you a bit through the many pics and videos shared by your mom.  I do believe in the afterlife and I am sure you are watching over your family "enjoying the show".  You are not forgotten, James."

This tribute was added by MaryLou Stripling on 13th March 2016

"Thinking of precious James along with his loving family today on his 5th angelversary in Heaven."

This tribute was added by ENU SINGH on 13th March 2016

"James . It has been five long years now. Today is the day when you were born into the spirit world. This world's loss is their gain.  May you always awe the angels with your sweetness and cleverness. And plse always be the guardian angel of your loved ones . You will always live in our hearts. I wish I had met you but who knows... some day I will"

This tribute was added by Michael Bagan on 13th March 2016

"Hi James thank you for letting me know you are always around my friend.My thoughts are with you and your family today,love to you all xxx."

This tribute was added by Moya Griffiths on 13th March 2016

"Happy Angel Day James....am sure you are in a far better place but so sad for those left behind with only special memories of you..send a little sign today handsome to all of those that love & miss you so xxx"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 13th March 2016

"Five long years has gone by, my precious son, and with each passing day we miss you more. We realise exactly how much we have lost, and what a huge contribution you would have made to the world, and to our lives. Nothing will ever be the same. No one will ever come near to your place in our hearts. God Bless to my beautiful son ❤"

This tribute was added by Iris Kizler on 11th February 2016

"To my precious heart James, missed more than you'll ever know.  I hope Grandad is keeping an eye on you.  Love to him and all the rest of my family up there.  It will soon be 5 long years since you left us and I never ever thought you would be gone before me.  So sorely missed but I have such treasured memories of a beautiful, handsome and clever grandson xxxx Love your Nan xxxx"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 10th February 2016

"I have your photo as the wallpaper on my phone, James. Every time little Leighton looks at it he shouts "Mummy!" You look so much like your sister"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 10th February 2016

"Remember when they told you, Mum
That I was on the way??
Remember how you couldn't wait
To tell the world that day??

Do you recall the way you felt
When you first felt me kick??
And how you'd wonder just how long
'Till you'd stop getting sick??

And Mum, do you remember when
They laid me in your arms?
You loved me so from that first day-
You'd fallen for my charms.....

Remember all the silly things
That I would say and do?
And how some things made you so mad-
Like when I'd lose one shoe.

Remember when I started school,
And you were scared to death?
Remember how you hugged me tight-
Until I lost my breath??

Remember Mum, how proud you were
To see me as a man??
Your heart was filled with such great joy-
Just Mums could understand........

But somewhere deep inside of you,
You had such awful fears
That one day you would see me go,
And cry a million tears.

But Mum, I want you to recall
The way you prayed for me....
And how the greatest wish you had
Was for the BEST for me.

You daily called on God above
To walk by me each day-
Protecting me, and guiding me
In every single way.

You could not know my future here-
But you must understand,
The best for me was not to stay
But instead, to take God's hand......

And now, dear Mum, I wait for you-
And watch you find your way.
Just like you waited there for me,
I wait here for your day.

The angels know when you will come,
And they will summon me-
And when your final day is done,
Together we will be!!

So don't despair, and live in faith
And finish your life's task-
Comfort those that hurt so, Mum,
And give to all who ask.

Don't let bitterness prevail-
And every soul you see.....
Do for them the very things
You would have done for me.

Think of me with each kind deed
As you journey on life's way...
And remember, though I'm gone from sight
I'm with you every day."

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 9th February 2016

"I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with you...
Then I realised... you spent the rest of your life with me ❤"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 31st December 2015

"Another year goes by, James. Another year without our precious son, brother, grandson, cousin, nephew. And a new title - uncle. Two darling little boys who will grow up never to have the privilege of knowing you, your enormous wit and wisdom, your razor-sharp asides, your playing the devil's advocate in almost any conversation (and there were many). You are one in a million, and your loss is beyond words. To quote my older brother, your Uncle Steve, at one of your memorials:"A bright light doused too soon. So much promise unfulfilled".  Always and ever in my heart and my thoughts, each and every second"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 25th December 2015

"Happy Christmas James xxx Love and miss you more than ever xxx"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 23rd December 2015

"Our 5th Christmas without you, James.  Unbelievable how the years have passed, and still the pain lingers.  The memories never fade, but we can never make new ones.  You loved Christmas, the board games, the food, the sweets, the laughter ... and now you have to celebrate without us, as we are without you.

With the passing of time we all realise that you are in that other place, and we have no real need of earthly platitudes any longer.  The oak tree, the memorial sites, they all played their part in the grieving process, but they are no longer important.  What's important is that we KNOW you live on, and your memory lives within us all.

HAPPY CHRISTMAS 2015 to all my famalam in Heaven xxxx"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 14th December 2015

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This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 14th December 2015

"Thinking about you always my beautiful, intelligent, witty, handsome son. So lucky to have known you for 19 wonderful years. Can't wait until we meet again ... what a party that will be xxxx"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 5th November 2015

"❤ Happy Birthday to my first son, William,  born in 1986, who passed aged only 5 days. Forever in my heart. Love Mum xxxx ❤"

This tribute was added by MaryLou Stripling on 28th September 2015

"Happy 24th Birthday In Heaven Dear James <3"

This tribute was added by Iris Kizler on 27th September 2015

"Happy 24th birthday We had so many hopes & dreams for you James,  you are always in my heart & I will never forget you, give my love to your grandad Mike & everyone else up there with you. And come & visit me in my dreams sometimes love your Nan Xxx"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 27th September 2015

"Happy 24th birthday in Heaven to my beautiful son. Still so sorely missed, more as the years go by. I can't wait to see you again, meanwhile have a fantastic day with friends and family xxxx love and miss you so much. This long, tortuous road just gets longer. But you're nestled in my thoughts each and every second of the day. Mum xxxx"

This tribute was added by Julie Rowland on 27th September 2015

"James - thinking of you and your family on your birthday. So many hearts touched. X"

This tribute was added by Donna James on 27th September 2015

"Happy Birthday James, thinking of you and your family.  I was talking about you on Wednesday and my friend Marvyn remembered you as he was living in Bristol at the time.  You have touched so many people. God bless xx"

This tribute was added by Marian Flagg on 27th September 2015

"Dear James,

Happy Birthday wherever  you are........thinking of you and your family today xxxx"

This tribute was added by Amy Bubear on 27th September 2015

"happy 24th birthday bro...love you so much... have a blast xxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Kerrie Barbour on 27th September 2015

"Thinking of you today James and your family. Lots of love xx"

This tribute was added by Michael Bagan on 26th September 2015

"Happy 24th Birthday James my friend, thinking of you and your family today. Lots of love to you all.xxx"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 18th August 2015

"About my Son ..
The days will ALWAYS be brighter because he existed
The nights will always be darker because he's gone
And no matter what anyone says about grief
and about time healing all wounds
The truth is, there are certain sorrows that never fade away ...
... until the heart stops beating, and the last breath is taken"

This tribute was added by Bonni Lee on 19th May 2015

"Love you!!"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 19th May 2015

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This tribute was added by Iris Kizler on 22nd April 2015

"My dear James. I've been thinking of you a lot, as usual. My precious grandson. My special heart. We all love and miss you so much, James. What a gaping hole you have left in all our lives. Such a special, unique young man in so many ways. As your Uncle Steve said at your memorial service: "A bright light doused too soon. So much potential never realised".  Nan xxxx"

This tribute was added by Steve Kizler on 17th April 2015

"James I am finding things a bit tough at the moment,when I start feeling too sorry for myself I think of your mum. My sister is a remarkable lady, not only does she help me out, she has to deal with losing her son. I know its been a while since you were with us but she will feel losing you like it was yesterday forever. I can't imagine what I would do if anything happened to my boys. Perhaps I would acquire some God given inner strength like my sis.
Perhaps its you keeping your mum strong ,if so keep up the good work. We all miss you James and we can only imagine what path your life would have taken. It might be that no matter what you might have achieved during your life on earth,God had bigger plans for you.
Say hello to your granddad Mike for me...bye for now."

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 16th April 2015

"No words I write can ever say
How much I miss you every day
As time goes by, the loneliness grows
How much I miss you, no-one knows

I think of you in silence
And often speak your name
But all I have are memories
And photos in a frame

No-one knows my sorrow
No-one sees me weep
But the memories I treasure
Are in my heart to keep

I never stop loving you
And know I never will
Deep inside my empty heart
You are with me still

Heartaches in this world are many
And my heart it still aches so
This aching feels much worse than any
Because I love and miss you so

The things we feel so deeply
Are often hardest to say
But I can’t keep quiet any more
So I’ll tell you anyway

There’s a James-shaped place in my heart
That no-one else can fill
I love you so, my precious son
And I always will

Till we meet again…… Mum xxx"

This tribute was added by Vijayabanu Chandramouli on 14th March 2015

"Dearest....hope you and Kiru are good friends like the way me and your mom have become...take care  my son...be with your mom today like all the other days..."

This tribute was added by Marian Flagg on 13th March 2015

"James, forever missed ...sending you all love xxxx"

This tribute was added by Donna James on 13th March 2015

"Thinking of you James and all your loved ones today. xx"

This tribute was added by Amy Bubear on 13th March 2015

"Today it's been 4 years since you were taken so suddenly from us. But like any other day we miss you, we love you and we will remember you. We're better together ♡♡♡ xxx"

This tribute was added by Vanda Bubear on 13th March 2015

"Love and miss you more than ever, James. Looking forward to the day we meet again. Mum."


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