- 19 years old
- Date of birth: Sep 27, 1991
- Place of birth:
Llandrindod Wells, Wales, United Kingdom
- Date of passing: Mar 13, 2011
- Place of passing:
Bath, Somerset, United Kingdom
|"We're Better Together" - to all my children in Spirit - William, James, Suzie, Terrence, Reilly, Peter, Sam and Cai xxx|
I created this memorial page on 1 May, 2012, in memory of my precious son, James, brother to William, Amy and Hannah, who is in our thoughts each second of the day, and will forever be in our hearts. The world has suffered a great loss, James, but this world's loss is heaven's gain, and I know we will meet again one day. I know you are now with your big brother, William, who I also miss so much, although I was not able to create many memories with him, as he only lived here with us for 5 days. I know too, that you have now met up with your half siblings, Suzie, Terrence, Reilly and Peter ❤
Thank you to everyone who has left such beautiful tributes, and memories of James, on this page. It uplifts us to realise just how many lives he touched, both those of people he knew and those who never knew him alike. We're very proud of him, and through your memories, we've come to know a side of James we never knew before.
James' Facebook Pages also contained many memories and messages left for James. Many thousands of people gathered together on those pages to offer their help and support in the few weeks my son was missing, and this great outpouring of love towards a common aim will never be forgotten by any of us, his family.
LETTER FROM HEAVEN
To my dearest family some things I'd like to say
But first of all to let you know that I arrived today,
I'm writing this from Heaven. Here I shall dwell with God above
Here, there's no more tears of sadness. Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through
God picked me up and hugged me and He said "I welcome you.
"It's good to have you back again,
you were missed while you were gone,
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly, you are part of my plan
There's so much that we have to do to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do
And foremost on the list was to watch and care for you
And when you lie in bed at night, the days chores put to flight
God and I are closest to you . . in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth and all those loving years
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears
But do not be afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
1 wish that I could tell you all that God has planned
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand
But one thing is for certain though my life on earth is o'er
I'm closer to you now than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind
I'm walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go . . from that body to be free
Remember you're not going . . you're just coming here to me.
"Happy Valentine's Day James xxx Hope you have a wonderful time on the ranch - BBQ and barn dance, perhaps? I hope Aunt Joan is rested enough to join you there. She's been gone a week, and to us it feels like a lifetime. Where is the Boss of the World? She is now Boss of Heaven xxx"
"Rather than mourn the loss of the flame
Instead celebrate how brightly it burned"
"Look after my Aunt Joan, James. I'm sure you know she passed yesterday after a big fight to stay, aged 91 years. I know you loved Aunt Joan, and you'll be chuffed to be able to show her the ropes. Send her all our love, and remind her she promised to visit us in our dreams. The chain is breaking this end, James, and linking up over there. There are only a few of the old guard left here, because you're all over there living on the ranch. Save a room at that ranch for all of us, won't you?
I'll always remember your words: "It will get better in the end. If it's not better, it's not the end"."
"Wonderful to hear you heard what I asked you the other night, and visited Aunt Joan with your Grandad and Will. I know you will all keep her safe and make her as comfortable as possible. You're looking after her. Keep her family strong, and send your beautiful healing energy to all of us at this time, especially your nan and Auntie Lyn.
It's great to hear you all live on a huge ranch over there. I know we all have a room booked. I wonder who looks after the horses on that ranch ...
Miss you as always. Give my love and hugs to everyone: Will, Suzy, Terrence, Reilly, Peter, Sam, Cai, Bobby, Lucy, David, Uncle Cyril, Uncle George and Aunt Agnes, Uncle Tom and Aunt Grace, Uncle Arthur and Aunt Joyce. Oh, and all my pets. Love, Mum xxxx"
"Happy New Year James, and all my family in Heaven. 2017. Hope it's a good year. A year closer to seeing you again. Love, Mum xxx"
"Merry Christmas James. Hope you have a wonderful time in Heaven. We will miss you, and the games of charades, and Balderdash, at which (of course) you excelled, as with everything else. The games of Consequences, which you made to be so funny. We will miss your wit and wisdom, especially at this time, but always and forever. You are always in my thoughts, each second of the day. Love, Mum xxx"
"Those special memories of you will always bring a smile,
If only I could have you back for just a little while ...
We could sit and chat again, just like we used to do,
You always meant so very much, so proud am I of you.
The fact that you're no longer here will always cause me pain,
But you're tucked away safely in my heart until we meet again xxx"
"I haven't ever met you but I have a strong desire to meet you.
And I shall."
"Hey Dear James
It is your birthday . Hope you are rocking it up there with all your buddies including Abhijeet . I wish you all the love and peace and all that you wish for . Keep some free time today to send some awesome msgs to your mom. Lots of love"
"With tender thoughts of you James.... I remember your beautiful face . Happy Celebration in Heaven ! May you continue to meet with your loving mother and family members through cosmic travels xox"
"James, Happy Birthday... Every time I hear "Halo" I think of you. Though I never knew you, I feel that I've gotten to know you thru the video clips and photos. A bright guy with a fantastic sense of humor. Thinking of you, your Mom and your sisters today. Send them a sign today and reassure them that you are at peace."
""Happy Birthday James".....lots of love to you and your family xxxx"
"Hi James Happy 25th birthday my friend, thinking of you and all your family today lots of love to you all.xxx"
"Thinking of my grandson James on this special day, his 25th birthday. Hope you have fun with grandad and everyone else up there. Lots of love and kisses, your Nan xxx"
"Happy birthday James, thinking of you on this day 25 years ago when you left the spirit world for your short venture into our physical world, and where your early departure has left a void that no one else can fill. Hope you are partying today with all your family spirit side! God bless xxxx"
"Happy Birthday In Heaven Dear James <3"
"Happy 25th Birthday my beautiful son. Loved and missed so much. So much promise taken from us far too soon. You will never get to make your Mark in this world. Taken from us just as you were about to discover what your place was here. No longer can we watch as you grow into the special person you were meant to be. No milestones reached. No goals set. No memories made. Just a lifetime of unfulfilled promise and broken hearts. Love you so much, my James. Can't wait until that day I see you, and your brothers and sister, once more. Love Mum xxx"
"Love you to the moon and back, thinking of you always, precious son xxx About to move to a new, hopefully forever, home very soon and I know you'll be with us xxxx"
"I promise you
I'm always there
When your heart is filled with sorrow and despair
I'll carry you
When you need a friend
You'll find my footprints in the sand"
"Lord, we know You're always busy,
For You've many things to do,
But when sorrow overcomes us,
Well, we need to talk to You.
For we've lost someone precious,
And they're with You there above,
And it's someone that we needed,
And it's someone that we loved.
We are feeling lost and all alone,
And though we do believe,
We need You, Lord, to hold us up,
To help us while we grieve.
Please give us strength and courage, Lord,
To bear what we must bear
And nudge us when our faith is weak
To remind us You are there.
Give us hope for our tomorrows,
Tell us life will still go on,
Show us, Lord, that all this darkness
Will be followed by the dawn.
You have led us through so many things,
You''ve pulled us through before,
Hold us up, Lord, till we're through this
And we are strong once more."
"Dear James, thinking of you and know that you are drawing close to your loved ones, friends and family who are holding you close in their thoughts, especially at this anniversary time. Love Donna xx"
"James, I never met you but I certainly got to know you a bit through the many pics and videos shared by your mom. I do believe in the afterlife and I am sure you are watching over your family "enjoying the show". You are not forgotten, James."
"Thinking of precious James along with his loving family today on his 5th angelversary in Heaven."
"James . It has been five long years now. Today is the day when you were born into the spirit world. This world's loss is their gain. May you always awe the angels with your sweetness and cleverness. And plse always be the guardian angel of your loved ones . You will always live in our hearts. I wish I had met you but who knows... some day I will"
"Hi James thank you for letting me know you are always around my friend.My thoughts are with you and your family today,love to you all xxx."
"Happy Angel Day James....am sure you are in a far better place but so sad for those left behind with only special memories of you..send a little sign today handsome to all of those that love & miss you so xxx"
"Five long years has gone by, my precious son, and with each passing day we miss you more. We realise exactly how much we have lost, and what a huge contribution you would have made to the world, and to our lives. Nothing will ever be the same. No one will ever come near to your place in our hearts. God Bless to my beautiful son ❤"
"To my precious heart James, missed more than you'll ever know. I hope Grandad is keeping an eye on you. Love to him and all the rest of my family up there. It will soon be 5 long years since you left us and I never ever thought you would be gone before me. So sorely missed but I have such treasured memories of a beautiful, handsome and clever grandson xxxx Love your Nan xxxx"
"I have your photo as the wallpaper on my phone, James. Every time little Leighton looks at it he shouts "Mummy!" You look so much like your sister"
"Remember when they told you, Mum
That I was on the way??
Remember how you couldn't wait
To tell the world that day??
Do you recall the way you felt
When you first felt me kick??
And how you'd wonder just how long
'Till you'd stop getting sick??
And Mum, do you remember when
They laid me in your arms?
You loved me so from that first day-
You'd fallen for my charms.....
Remember all the silly things
That I would say and do?
And how some things made you so mad-
Like when I'd lose one shoe.
Remember when I started school,
And you were scared to death?
Remember how you hugged me tight-
Until I lost my breath??
Remember Mum, how proud you were
To see me as a man??
Your heart was filled with such great joy-
Just Mums could understand........
But somewhere deep inside of you,
You had such awful fears
That one day you would see me go,
And cry a million tears.
But Mum, I want you to recall
The way you prayed for me....
And how the greatest wish you had
Was for the BEST for me.
You daily called on God above
To walk by me each day-
Protecting me, and guiding me
In every single way.
You could not know my future here-
But you must understand,
The best for me was not to stay
But instead, to take God's hand......
And now, dear Mum, I wait for you-
And watch you find your way.
Just like you waited there for me,
I wait here for your day.
The angels know when you will come,
And they will summon me-
And when your final day is done,
Together we will be!!
So don't despair, and live in faith
And finish your life's task-
Comfort those that hurt so, Mum,
And give to all who ask.
Don't let bitterness prevail-
And every soul you see.....
Do for them the very things
You would have done for me.
Think of me with each kind deed
As you journey on life's way...
And remember, though I'm gone from sight
I'm with you every day."
"I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with you...
Then I realised... you spent the rest of your life with me ❤"
"Another year goes by, James. Another year without our precious son, brother, grandson, cousin, nephew. And a new title - uncle. Two darling little boys who will grow up never to have the privilege of knowing you, your enormous wit and wisdom, your razor-sharp asides, your playing the devil's advocate in almost any conversation (and there were many). You are one in a million, and your loss is beyond words. To quote my older brother, your Uncle Steve, at one of your memorials:"A bright light doused too soon. So much promise unfulfilled". Always and ever in my heart and my thoughts, each and every second"
"Happy Christmas James xxx Love and miss you more than ever xxx"
"Our 5th Christmas without you, James. Unbelievable how the years have passed, and still the pain lingers. The memories never fade, but we can never make new ones. You loved Christmas, the board games, the food, the sweets, the laughter ... and now you have to celebrate without us, as we are without you.
With the passing of time we all realise that you are in that other place, and we have no real need of earthly platitudes any longer. The oak tree, the memorial sites, they all played their part in the grieving process, but they are no longer important. What's important is that we KNOW you live on, and your memory lives within us all.
HAPPY CHRISTMAS 2015 to all my famalam in Heaven xxxx"
"Thinking about you always my beautiful, intelligent, witty, handsome son. So lucky to have known you for 19 wonderful years. Can't wait until we meet again ... what a party that will be xxxx"
"❤ Happy Birthday to my first son, William, born in 1986, who passed aged only 5 days. Forever in my heart. Love Mum xxxx ❤"
"Happy 24th Birthday In Heaven Dear James <3"
"Happy 24th birthday We had so many hopes & dreams for you James, you are always in my heart & I will never forget you, give my love to your grandad Mike & everyone else up there with you. And come & visit me in my dreams sometimes love your Nan Xxx"
"Happy 24th birthday in Heaven to my beautiful son. Still so sorely missed, more as the years go by. I can't wait to see you again, meanwhile have a fantastic day with friends and family xxxx love and miss you so much. This long, tortuous road just gets longer. But you're nestled in my thoughts each and every second of the day. Mum xxxx"
"James - thinking of you and your family on your birthday. So many hearts touched. X"
"Happy Birthday James, thinking of you and your family. I was talking about you on Wednesday and my friend Marvyn remembered you as he was living in Bristol at the time. You have touched so many people. God bless xx"
Happy Birthday wherever you are........thinking of you and your family today xxxx"
"happy 24th birthday bro...love you so much... have a blast xxxxxx"
"Thinking of you today James and your family. Lots of love xx"
"Happy 24th Birthday James my friend, thinking of you and your family today. Lots of love to you all.xxx"
"About my Son ..
The days will ALWAYS be brighter because he existed
The nights will always be darker because he's gone
And no matter what anyone says about grief
and about time healing all wounds
The truth is, there are certain sorrows that never fade away ...
... until the heart stops beating, and the last breath is taken"
"My dear James. I've been thinking of you a lot, as usual. My precious grandson. My special heart. We all love and miss you so much, James. What a gaping hole you have left in all our lives. Such a special, unique young man in so many ways. As your Uncle Steve said at your memorial service: "A bright light doused too soon. So much potential never realised". Nan xxxx"
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