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James Harold griffon
  • 60 years old
  • Date of birth: Jun 14, 1953
  • Place of birth:
    arnold, Missouri, United States
  • Date of passing: Jan 11, 2014
  • Place of passing:
    st,Louis, Missouri, United States
Let the memory of James be with us forever
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, James griffon, 60, born on June 14, 1953 and passed away on January 11, 2014. We will remember him forever.
Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 4th December 2016

"Jim we all miss you so much a few ago was Thanksgiving just not the same with out.Like A ghost I flitter through the night,
keeping to the shadows and abhorring the light.

The night camouflages and no one can see
the shadow of the person that once was me.
The days lays me bare with no where to hide,
this raw pain that I feel inside,

You are no longer of this world,
you inhabit a place of no return,
no matter the tears or how much I yearn.

All I have left is your memories,
cherish it I will do,
but I would give everything I have for one more day with you.

So I will continue on living until the day you come for me and take me away.
sherry always love you for ever."

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 5th March 2016

"Jim i miss you there is so much stuff going on with my health i worried to much about things i wish you was here with me i know you are in a better place then we are,there not a day go by that you are not being think  of i love you jimmy i was sad today so i wanted to come talk to you.love sherry

Every day since I lost my husband
I wake up with the knowledge…someone is missing

I go through my day and in the back of my mind
I hear a whisper…someone is missing

I sit down to dinner with my sons,
and in the back of my mind
I hear a whisper…someone is missing

I wake up and think…
there should be a birthday to celebrate today
and I hear clearly…Someone Is Missing

I wake up and think…
this is the day my whole world changed
and I hear clearly…Someone Is Missing

I wake up and the holiday season is here
and I hear loudly…SOMEONE Is Missing.

I try to get into the holiday spirit
and I hear a whisper…someone is missing

I gather with family to celebrate the holiday season
and I look around the room and inside my head
I hear screaming…SOMEONE IS MISSING!!

Please understand I enjoy spending time with family
but this voice that I hear squeezes my heart…
I love each and every one of you
but please understand…Someone Is Missing! jimmy griffon love sherry and mike and Chris :)"

This tribute was added by Faith Gatewood on 3rd January 2016

"hi jim  we all know you are in a better place then us you were like my bro we all miss you all we know that you are with mom and dad and barry and mary and your mom"dad but miss you all love you bro

RIP JIM"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 3rd January 2016

"well Jim i try to come on here before Christmas and it was mess up. jim we all miss you very much it just not the same.love sherry




The night camouflages and no one can see
the shadow of the person that once was me.
The days lays me bare with no where to hide,
this raw pain that I feel inside,

You are no longer of this world,
you inhabit a place of no return,
no matter the tears or how much I yearn.

All I have left is your memories,
cherish it I will do,
but I would give everything I have for one more day with you.

So I will continue on living until the day you come for me and take me away.









Nevermore

will I see your smiling face,
will I feel your strong firm embrace.
will I wish upon the starry skies,
will I gaze into your loving eyes.
will I feel your warm lips upon mine,
will my eyes sparkle and shine.
the streets your feet will roam,
Because Our Lord and Savior decided to take you Home.i still have my bad days i try to come to wish you a merry Christmas but it was hard so here i am now merry xmas and happy new year love sherry"

This tribute was added by Faith Gatewood on 3rd December 2015

"Hi Jim we all miss you so much and love you brother tell mom and dad and Barry and mary we miss you all and love you all it is not the same any more with out you all not here but we keep going so any way love you brother faith and rick"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 1st December 2015

"well Jim last week was thanksgiving thing are not the same with out you and the rest of our family not here with us i miss you so much Chris and mike has part time job you would be proud of them i been sick jim i wish you wouldn't had give up on life i know how you feel with being in pain it happen to me god i pray for his help,
By sherry griffon almost 2 years ago
I lost my husband almost 2 years  ago. I know everyone says you will be ok and give it time but I miss him so much that sometimes I feel like I can't breath. We have two kids together and even with this big family I feel alone. Someone said that people ask how you are doing and they just answer ok cause that's what they want to hear. I would just like to say to these people, I feel like life is never going to mean anything to me again. I know they mean well but I was a strong person and I have a house and land and animals and I just don't care about any of it anymore. I don't think I will ever smile again and I just want to put my head under the covers and sleep. In so lost I don't know what to do next. i keep praying it will get better but it hasn't get better going to say  by for now jim love you love sherry and mike and chris"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 27th October 2015

"hi Jim it Oct you love Halloween love to have party put Halloween stuff up  enjoy having family and friends over to have fun and a bonfire we all miss you so  much Jim, it been so hard on me Jim my back and knee is getting no better and the stress is so bad, Jeanne and Roy talk saying they still can't believe you are gone, it has affect your son's to poor Chris miss you very much he go to the places you guys went fishing, you are miss so much well i'm going to say good bye now love you and miss you
Of that silence
Of that silent touch you make,
Your love is so pure I know
There is nothing fake
Of all the gestures you do for me
Of all the things that give me glee
I know that you are always there
I am glad that I share
My life with you,
I love you!I Am Not That Strong

My Dearest Darling

I am not as strong as I thought I was
Since you have been gone
I sit and cry all night long
to dusk to dawn.

Another day comes and once again
I have to pretend that I am strong
As soon as the day is over
I can go home and quit pretending that
I am strong

I sit and cry all night long
My Dearest Darling because of
you are gone and now that I am home
I don't have to pretend to be strong!
love you jim i soon will be with you
love sherry"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 23rd September 2015

"Jim I miss you so much soon it going to be 2 years since you have left us, well Florence has left us to she will now be with nelson and you all will b together now tell everyone hi and we miss them and love them, right now I'm having a hard time, been crying day and night I try not to but the tears just come out. I feel like I'm a burden, you told me so much and you was so right about a lot of it, I wish time could go back. well going to say bye for now honey. love you always sherry"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 6th August 2015

""Hi Honey,
I know its been a while, I don't want you to think I have forgotten you one bit. You are on my mind every single moment. I hate my life without you in it. I don't hurt as bad as I did in the begging hell if I did I don't think I would be here. It would have killed me by now. I still cry at the weirdest times. I will see.you again one day  I will hear one of our songs and my heart just brakes into tiny little puddles of tears that hurt my sole. God how I miss the sound of your laugh. I miss your smell and I miss your hugs. I miss your middle of the night kisses more than anything in the  world. You will always have my heart and I will forever be your wife. I will always remember our love for each other more than anything, You were my heart and you always will be, love sherry""

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 16th June 2015

"Jim  happy birthday sorry but it was just to hard to come on here on your B-DAY we miss you more then you will ever know it not the same here with out you have so many people who love you and miss you it still seem like a dream, you would be so happy and proud of chris he got a part time job. It is so hard on this day
To remember you have gone away
I want to give you a birthday kiss
But I can only remember the things I miss love you forever jim  on the 17th of June  is our anniversary so I want to say HAPPY ANNIVERSARY  sweet heart love sherry and the boys"

This tribute was added by Rene' Crafton Kincade on 12th January 2015

"RIP Jim!"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 11th January 2015

"Hi Jim well today has been a year since you pass away it went so fast seem like it was just happen, Jim i miss you so much all i do is go to work come home go to work come, it like i don't fit in. there is so much i wanted to say,tell all our love one with you hello,it not getting any better for me.  My jimmy passed away Jan 11th  in 2014 Everyone thinks that I am strong and have moved on. I am still grieving, but no one wants to listen. No one wants to hear that. "Adequate time has passed,What is adequate time? I have my sons so I had to continue on, but I still feel so depressed and alone at times. My sons is now my life. they are   what keeps me any semblance of what is supposed to be "strong".no one know the feeling, the only one who know are the one who has been through it God Bless us all may God keep us strong. we will always love you and miss you jimmy griffon our life's are not the same
love sherry"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 31st December 2014

"merry Christmas Jim, it was not the same without  you, i hope you enjoy your Xmas with our love ones,well mike and Chris is going to graduation on Jan 8th,this year has been  hard on me, i just wish  we would had sold this place before you pass away,well i'm going to say Happy New Year now because i know what i will be doing tonight is crying love you and miss you all so much and i will say one thing enjoy and love each other while you have each other because you never know who will go next love sherry"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 31st December 2014

""i miss you so much Jim and love you with all my heart you was my best friend and my soul mate you was always here for me and walk alone beside me and never leave me alone oh god how  i had you but with me Jim, i feel so alone Jim, you was so right on what you told me, sorry jim  i'm sorry    but im losing everything,i hope you are watching over all of us, i'm trying to keep it together but thing just seem to be not going the way it should , i will always love you jim love for ever sherry""

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 29th November 2014

"JIM I JUST COULD NOT COME ON HERE ON THANKSGIVING DAY IT WAS SO SAD AND LONELY WITH OUT,HAPPY THANKSGIVING SWEETIE YOU ARE ALWAYS IN MY HEART NOT A DAY GO BY THAT I DON'T CRY SAY HI TO ALL OF THE FAMILY, UP THERE WITH YOU, JIM THINGS ARE  TAKEN IT TOKE ON ME. IM TRYING TO KEEP IT TOGETHER BUT NO ONE WILL WORK WITH ME. IT LOOK LIKE I LOST MY HUSBAND AND NOW IM GOING TO LOST OUR HOME,I PRAY TO GOD ALL THE TIME TO HELP  ME. LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU MY BEST FRIEND AND MY HUSBAND I WISH YOU HAVEN'T GIVE UP ON LIFE ME CHRIS MIKE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SEE YOU    ONE THESE DAY AGAIN :)"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 10th November 2014

""i miss you so much Jim and love you with all my heart you was my best friend and my soul mate you was always here for me and walk alone beside me and never leave me alone. oh god how  i wish i  had you back with me Jim, i feel so alone Jim, you was so right on what you told me, sorry Jim  i'm sorry    but i'm losing everything,i hope you are watching over all of us, i'm trying to keep it together but thing just seem to be not going the way it should , i will always love you jim love for ever sherry""

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 19th September 2014

"well Jim it is now Sept,Jim i miss you so much and still crying,
you was my best friend and my husband.i'm trying to sell your trike, soon it well be your fav time of the year Halloween.love you and miss not a day go by i don't think of you
love sherr"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 4th July 2014

"HAPPY  4TH OF JULY JIM, THE SUMMER TIME WAS YOUR FAV  TIME OF THE YEAR, I MISS YOU I WISH YOU WAS STILL HERE,WELL IM GOING TO BQQ  FOR ME ,CHRIS , MIKE.CHRIS TALKING ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME HE MISS YOU SO MUCH AND MIKIE TO. NO ONE KNOW THIS FEELING UNLESS YOU BEEN THROUGH IT. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU, AND TELL THEM ALL HI UP THERE LOVE FOREVER SHERRY AND CHRIS AND MIKE,"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 17th June 2014

"Happy Anniversary JIM, IT SO VERY HARD  WE  MISS YOU SO MUCH I CAN'T SLEEP MUCH ANY MORE IT SO LONELY HERE.I CAN'T SEEM TO DO ANYTHING RIGHT. ODIE MISS YOU REALLY BAD  TO,
When we lose something that is precious to us, we are left with a feeling of sadness. Whether it is a precious friend or even a treasured object, the loss can be hard to bear. It is as if a part of you has gone missing. Throughout our life we amass collections of friends and treasured possessions. Having close relationships help us feel as if we are not alone in the world. When we lose someone or something that is precious to us, we may realize that there is a certain aloneness that can never be filled. Ultimately the condition of life is one of being alone.I don't think that you ever imagined how much pain I would be in once you were gone,
Because if you had; you wouldn't have left me.
LOVE SHERRY"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 15th June 2014

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY JIM,I MISS YOU SORRY SWEETIE I DIDN'T COME ON HERE JUNE 14 IT WAS SO HARD I CRY MY EYES OUT I HOPE YOU ENJOY YOUR B-DAY WITH ALL OUR LOVE ONE WHO ARE WITH YOU,WE ALL MISS YOU SO MUCH AND TALK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME,JIM IT IS NOT THE SAME HERE WITHOUT YOU,IT SO VERY LONELY.AND HAPPY FATHER DAY JIMMY I WISH I COULD GO BACK   AND WISH YOU WAS HERE. LOVE SHERRY XXXX FOREVER"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 31st May 2014

"miss you jim so much and so lonely, i hope you are looking down on us and seeing how much you are miss thing are not the same, i guess you all are happy up there with Martha and Harold, mom and dad mary and barry, and all our grandmas and grandpas love you all and miss you."

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 23rd April 2014

"HAPPY EASTER JIM,
SUNDAY WAS EASTER AND CHRIS BIRTHDAY THE 3 OF US ENJOY CHRIS AND MOM B-DAY. THINGS ARE SO DIFFER, YOU WAS SO WRONG WHEN YOU SAID EVERYONE WOULD BE HAPPY WITH OUT YOU. WE ARE SO SAD. WE LOVE YOU"

This tribute was added by Faith Gatewood on 21st March 2014

"we all miss you very much jim I know you were in pain and now you are not and you are in a better place then we are poor sherry missing you so much and so do I and rick to you were like my big bro
R.I.P. jim love you"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 13th March 2014

"Jim on Tuesday march 11 2014 it been 2 month i miss you it not the same without you, there been so much going on it so hard, i didn't think you would leave all of us so soon, it been hard on so many people, Roy  and Jeanne miss you thanks god for them everything has happen and they been right here helping me and the boys, i will say i cry everyday omg how thing chance in a blink of an eye,i know you didn't say just how much pain you was in, i know you are in no more pain but i still miss you.love you always and for ever. sherry"

This tribute was added by Rose Meyer on 12th March 2014

"we miss  you it not the same without  you love you rest in peace<3"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 25th February 2014

"Jim, i miss you so much you will never be forgotten i cry every day more then once, i look up to the sky and talk to you. you left me i know you are in no more pain and you are with the family that has be taken away from us. love you all tell mom and dad, Mary, Barry, Martha and Harold and grandma and grandpa hi and we love you. today is Feb 25 soon it going to be 2 months since you left us, Chris and Mike and Roy and Jeanne miss you to very much, love you forever XXXXXXX  may you rest in peace, love you baby doll."

This tribute was added by Janell Porter on 25th February 2014

"Jim, I know you are looking down upon us! All though you are so very missed! I know your in a better place buddy, With our other family mom,dad, Barry, Mary, Grandmother. I will always miss you Jim, you have been like a big brother to me. R.I.P. Jim! Love you"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 22nd February 2014

"Nevermore
will I see your smiling face,
will I feel your strong firm embrace.
will I wish upon the starry skies,
will I gaze into your loving eyes.
will I feel your warm lips upon mine,
will my eyes sparkle and shine.
the streets your feet will roam,
Because Our Lord and Savior decided to take you Home."

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 22nd February 2014

"Jim this is for you i will try to keeps our dreams going but it so lonely without you we all love you and miss you,    

Staring at the little dots in the sky
Wondering which one is you
Asking the same question, why?
Only answer I know is that you knew.
Sitting by the window, watching the rain fall
Never felt so cold.
Remembered the last story you told.

Hold on and be strong
Live you're life, do your things
For it's in heaven I belong
Go on and live your dreams

In a song I still hear you
In a flower I still see you
But your bed space is empty
It’s just your memory that comforts me.
Missing you is a rollercoaster ride
Emotions up and down
Always wishing you are by my side

But I'll hold on and I'll be strong
Will live my life, do my things
And promise to live our dreams. <3
love you forever
sherry"

This tribute was added by sherry griffon on 22nd February 2014

"Jim,i miss you so much i love you more then you will ever know,i cry every day.wishing you was here why did you leave me alone,i know you are in a better place and in no more pain i will love you forever, tell mom and dad Barry and Mary and Gary we all said hi and we love them love you always and forever
sherry"


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