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James Robert Merritt
  • 39 years old
  • Date of birth: Jan 25, 1977
  • Place of birth:
    Trowbridge, United Kingdom
  • Date of passing: Oct 11, 2016
  • Place of passing:
    Warwick, United Kingdom
Let the memory of James be with us forever

This memorial website featuring a life story, personal tributes, readings, photo's, and stories was created in memory of our loved one, James Merritt.

James was a prince amongst men, a wonderful husband to Kim, a doting "daddy" to Oliver and Evelyn, a fabulous son to Rob & Marilyn as well as being a loving brother to Joanne.  We will miss him, and remember him forever.

Born on January 25th 1977, James tragically died following an accident at work on Tuesday October 11th 2016 aged just 39 years. There is no doubting that his family will feel the sad loss of his passing the hardest, but James was such a lovely man who made a lasting impression on all who knew him, that many, many people will be feeling that this is far too soon for the world to be losing one of life's good guys.

However, knowing James as we do, we all must realise that he would never want us to be feeling any sadness. The greatest part of James was his kindness, and his caring attitude towards everybody, and he would want all of us to remember him that way - so let us all follow his examples, by adding our own happy messages here in honour of our friend.

Please feel free to share your personal tributes here. post us your photo's, leave a message along with a photo if you want to, tell us a story of the times you spent with James, or you can add a song that reminds you of him, or even upload a video if you like.  
We will be delighted to share you experiences of James, and together we will pay our respects to the loving person that was James Robert Merritt 

Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Kim Merritt on 8th November 2016

"A month since you've been gone and our lives still carry on!
The love we shared will never be lost!
Looking forward to the party on Sunday, hope you're watching on xxx"

This tribute was added by L M on 7th November 2016

"God gives hope to see the ones we loss in death again.This scripture at (john5:28,29)says Do not be amazed at this,for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tomb will here his voice and come out". may you all continue to hold the precious memories of your dearly beloved James close to your hearts and know that Jesus Christ ransom sacrifice is our guarantee that our dear loved ones are held in gods memory and very soon we will see them again."

This tribute was added by A Friend on 3rd November 2016

"That funeral, and subsequent life celebration party were a fitting tribute to James. The way that Kimberley stood up, held back her tears and spoke of her husband was amazing and will live with me for a long time.

Christmas will be with us soon, then other Anniversaries, Birthdays, Fathers day etc will come and go when James is not with us.

When those days arrive please do not be sad.
Do not cry for what we have lost.
Smile for what we had"

This tribute was added by Amy James on 2nd November 2016

"Such fond memories of growing up with James. Weekends away at car rallies with our dads. Getting up to all sorts of mischief at our grans. We had so much fun and I am thankful that we kept in touch during adulthood. James and Kim always making special efforts to see us when you were back in Wiltshire. I can't quite believe he has gone. Such a loss. We'll miss you always. My cousin Jim. Love Amy & Adam, Charlie & Fred xxxx"

This tribute was added by Thomas Howard on 1st November 2016

"James was a wonderful guy with a big heart and someone who I have working with over the last 7 years. A true professional and a perfectionist when it came to work. A real family man who talked about his children & wife every time I saw him.
He will be truly missed by all.
Tom H"

This tribute was added by Clare Moon on 1st November 2016

"New James from a baby born to a genital caring family grew into a lovely family man. Can't believe we are all here today, still unable to express on words how I feel   Veronica and family"

This tribute was added by Libby Gowen on 1st November 2016

"From Jenny and Roger
Lost for words, a perfect family broken. James will be in our hearts forever and his memory lives on in Oliver and Evie. Lots of love."

This tribute was added by Clare Moon on 1st November 2016

"First meeting with James was when Kimberley introduced him to us at one of the many family get together. Straight away we knew James and Kimberley were perfect for each other.
James you will be really missed not just by the people you knew every day but by the people who's lives you came into contact with. It is so unfair that you have been taken from the people that know and love you. A true genuine nice gentleman.
God bless x The moonies x"

This tribute was added by Libby Gowen on 1st November 2016

"Written by Josh Gowen

Where to start? Honesty I don't know... but let's give it a shot. Uncle Merit was one of the best men I've ever known and will always be. Me, all the gowens and the rest of the family are so lucky to have such an amazing guy come into our family. James's  memory will always live on and he'll always be in all our heart! I love you and will miss you forever. Heaven has surely gain another angel! Xx"

This tribute was added by Libby Gowen on 1st November 2016

"James, Uncle Merritt as Josh introduced you to us. Me and James had such a special bond that I will never forget. James introduced me to photography. I remember as a kid I would come to visit you and Kim and you would let me use your camera. I was mesmerised. You gave me that gift that I will always treasure and enjoy. You inspired me more than most. You was my cool uncle I wanted your camera but because of how expensive they are I had the one below but you are the reason I wanted that and asked for it.
You inspired me that much you helped me get into university without even knowing it. I wrote admirably about you in my personal statement. I remember taking pictures of some tomatoes and we took Kim's crystals and her best wine glasses and put them in there and had fun shooting. I couldn't do that with anyone else. Then where we had the sheet up little Olly come under the easel with joey and was smiling. I still have the pictures and will keep them forever.
I admired your passion more than anything. You always made the time to ask how uni was going and even sent me pictures of baby Evie through WhatsApp and asked me to edit them. I love you with all my heart and more James."

This tribute was added by Gwen Gowen on 1st November 2016

"James, we say goodbye to you today but you will never be forgotten, you will be in our thoughts everyday.  You were are very special person to us all, when your daughter marries you want her to be with someone who will love and care for her, as you have, as parents,  throughout her life.  James you did this a million times over, no one could have wished for a better son in law, to me you were a fourth son, you were so kind and always willing to help with any problems.  We will ensure your children grow up remembering what a fabulous father and husband you were, even though you were taken from us all too soon.  

Rest in Peace James until we all meet again, love Gwen xxx"

This tribute was added by Pete Slade on 31st October 2016

"Jasper, my wonderful friend. Nothing was ever too much trouble for you and I could always rely upon you for your support and help. I'm so grateful to have been a part of your life and to see you grow from an 11 year old boy just starting secondary school, into a loving husband, a fantastic father and an all round nice guy.
I admire the approach you took in life - your ability to always see the best in people - I think we can all learn from you on this.
So many wonderful memories to look back on and laugh at, and shed the odd tear or two.
You have taught me a lot over the years -  and I will be forever grateful to you.
Thanks for your true friendship
Rest in peace mate. xx
Love Sludge"

This tribute was added by Paul & Linda on 31st October 2016

"'James was a quiet man. He didn't often stand out amongst the more vocal members of our family (myself included!). I liked to have a one-to-one catch up chat with James whenever I could, always enjoying these conversations because he didn't talk for the sake of talking; what he said always had meaning. I always admired and respected him and it turns out everyone felt the same. I wish now that I had told him so.
Everyone had these little moments with James. Everyone had their own, personal one-to-one relationship with him. That's the kind of person he was. He took time to take an interest in you and your life. He was always genuinely happy to help if he could. He truly was the very best of men and left a tremendous impression on all who knew him. The world needs more people like James. A true gentleman.
Love and miss you always James. God bless.
Linda Gowen xxx

I've never been one to put words down on paper or type as I am now. It's times like this I wish I was, but what do you write about someone like James Merritt? No words can really do justice to what a truly genuinely nice guy he was. One of life's very best. There was never any hidden agenda with James. When involved in a conversation he was always interested in what you had to say and even when you said something potentially bad, he never judged.
I've enjoyed many enjoyable times with James, crabbing in Dartmouth, trying to play golf with the Wham boys, even down to enjoying a nice hot curry on our camping trips. Unfortunately I'll always wish I'd spent more time with James. James Merritt will always be in my thoughts and will always inspire me to be a better man. More like the one we all love, respect and look up to.
Love and miss you Jim Bob
Paul Gowen"

This tribute was added by Mark Minnis on 31st October 2016

"I first met James at a Wham golf day, he was very engaging,passionate and just happy with life.  How many times do you truly meet someone like that?  It was a privilege to have known you for this short time James."

This tribute was added by A Friend on 30th October 2016

"Hoping the words of this song  will give all of James family some comfort.

Smile though your heart is aching
Smile even though it's breaking
When there are clouds in the sky, you'll get by
If you smile through your pain and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You'll see the sun come shining through, for you

Light up your face with gladness
Hide every trace of sadness
Although a tear may be ever so near
That's  the time you must keep on trying
Smile, what's the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just smile

So this is the time we must keep on trying
Smile there's no use in crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just smile ..........

I believe that James wants us to be happy, not sad.
Let us all remember him with a smile"

This tribute was added by Kim Merritt on 30th October 2016

"James, my Prince Charming, you will always be the light and love in my life.  You blessed me with two beautiful children and you will live on in them.  We will all make you proud and will cherish the love you gave us.

Until we meet again, goodnight my prince.

I love you xxxx"

This tribute was added by John Gowen (jnr) on 30th October 2016

"James was, and probably always will be the nicest person I've ever met. I feel both lucky and honoured to have known him and that he became part of our family. He was like a brother to me, and always had time for all of us, no matter what it was. In fact, James always had time for everybody and took a genuine interest in everyone he met. That is an incredible quality, and he should be an inspiration to us all. James touched many peoples lives, and will be missed enormously, we will never forget him. The World is a worse place now he's gone. RIP brother, love you always xxxxx"

This tribute was added by Glen Gowen on 30th October 2016

"James was my friend, my brother (in-law) and my mentor.
I'm not sure that words can do justice to how I feel, so i've posted lots photo's of the many wonderful days we shared.

You're the best man I ever met.  

God Bless you Jim Bob - Love from Glenno xx"

This tribute was added by Kim Merritt on 30th October 2016

"Where Do They Go To ?

Where do they go to, those people who leave?
Are they around us in the cool evening breeze
Do they still hear us and watch us each day,
I would like to think of James in that way

Where will James go to now he's not here?
I think he'll stay with us, calming our fear,
loving us always, holding our hands.
Walking beside us, on the grass, or on sand

Where did James go to? Well it's my belief,
That he watches and helps us to cope with our grief
He comforts us and stays with us each of our days
Guiding us always through life's mortal ways"

This tribute was added by John Gowen snr. on 29th October 2016

"My catchphrase "Keep Smiling" sounds hollow to me now,
But I'll find the strength to keep saying it somehow.
I'll say it out loud, without pause, or regret,
In honour of James Merritt - "the nicest person that i ever met"

In the chapel where he lay I promised James that I would help take care of his wife & children. I know that I could never even try to fill his boots. But I will try to tread in his footprints, and help Kim to guide Oliver & Evie along the path James had taken.

Some days will be tough, but I vow that I will never waiver from that promise.

Rest In Peace JB - Love from Number 2  xxx"

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