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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, JAMES SCRUGGSII, 29 years old, born on July 8, 1982, and passed away on May 5, 2012. We will remember him forever.
May 5, 2023
May 5, 2023
Eleven years have passed since you crossed over, and my tears still flow as my heart aches for one more day with you. Your fathers recent passing makes me wonder if he has that now. I’ve always assumed that you and Jeffrey are together where you are. You were wise beyond your years and kind hearted to your core. I still read your writings in amazement at both those facts! I hope you are joyous where you are! You deserve no less!
May 5, 2022
May 5, 2022
Ten years ago you left us here, and while I knew then and now that your immense suffering was ended that day a decade ago, I miss you everyday and will continue going forward. Now I picture you bathed in light and welcoming our loved ones where you are. I always knew you had special gifts , more importantly , you were aware!
I love you, James! And I always will. I am consoled by the fact that you do not suffer anymore. I cling to that when my grief takes me over!
May 5, 2022
May 5, 2022
I miss you my friend. It's hard to believe that it's been 10 years and so many things that we talked about that we saw coming in the future has actually happened. Unfortunately love the chaos is still here and all of those things that you said would involve into something negatively has evolved into just that. How amazing of a species you were and I'm so glad that I had a chance to experience getting to know you
July 8, 2021
July 8, 2021
Hard to believe you would have been 39 this year. Wish you had the chance to become the successful man i know you would have been. I miss our long talks. Happy Birthday James.
July 8, 2021
July 8, 2021
I wish I could see you at this age you would have been. I close my eyes to imagine you with the maturity you have been denied. You occupy my thoughts still. I suppose you always will. I love you James!
May 5, 2021
May 5, 2021
I am paying tribute to my son on this the ninth anniversary of his passing. I remember most about him is his courage and honesty. His heart was true to his beliefs and convictions about life. He was always a source of help to anyone in need. He was kind and yet fierce in his defense of the underdog. His mind was brilliant and inquisitive.
I love you son, more with each passing day. I miss you every moment you are not here with me. And I honor you and your memory intensely. And,yes when I think of you-I smile for these memories of you. You were and are My Hero!
December 26, 2020
December 26, 2020
Sure doesn’t seem like Christmas now. This world is in trouble. I cannot say I wish you were here and that truly is a first. My God, how I miss you son. I love you more each day and truly wish my efforts to help you in your life would have worked. Your health just diminished more each day I am sorry James. I’m your mom. Should have figured it out! But alas, I did not!
July 8, 2020
July 8, 2020
Missing you. I remember the good times and our deep conversations. 
July 8, 2020
July 8, 2020
38...I see you happy, healthy, and safe. And that makes me smile. I love you James. I always will!
May 5, 2020
May 5, 2020
Oh my dear memories of you my son grow fonder as time passes. I still honor your last wish here on earth. When I think of you I smile! So you keep me smiling each and every day. I love you. I surely miss you. And I still picture in my mind London romping with you and playing on the greenest grass I have ever imagined.
July 8, 2019
July 8, 2019
Thirty seven years ago.....I met you. You were born into great difficulty. I so wish we could have a do over. Guess it will be on the other side for me.....home for you. Resting in Peace, my son! I love you.
May 5, 2019
May 5, 2019
Seven years have passed, seems like yesterday. I feel you here with me very strongly at times. As I water your giant aloe plant in the back yard, and honor the burial of London there. I envision you and London being together as you guys were here, running, playing like the kindred spirits you were in this life. I promised you I would smile and I do. Sometimes through my tears but I do smile baby, I do smile!
Missing you as I always will.
MA!
April 22, 2019
April 22, 2019
Easter is here. My mind follows thoughts of you in your peaceful forever home. I am 70. Now and none wiser about such things. I only know it gives me peace to envision you in yours. I love you son,
September 12, 2018
September 12, 2018
I love and miss you so much. Your eternal peace is my prayer.
July 8, 2018
July 8, 2018
Hear that lonesome whippoorwill
Sounds too blue to fly
The midnight train
Is whining low
I’m so lonesome I could cry.
     H. Williams
May 5, 2018
May 5, 2018
Six years ago, my heart was shattered from your loss to me . I cannot see you until I close my eyes now. When I do I see you in perfect health, happy and flourishing in all you do. I see London at your side and that is comforting to me. I love you immensely. I remember our conversations and have seen many of your predictions come to pass just as you told them to me. You were and are so Special James. Now pardon me while I close my eyes.❤️
July 8, 2017
July 8, 2017
James you are very missed. I miss our conversations and wish you were here.
July 8, 2017
July 8, 2017
35 was not meant to be. I love you. I miss you. That's forever!
May 5, 2017
May 5, 2017
MY GOD, I miss you , Son. I forever will. Anto, bless you hon. I will call tomorrow. Thanks for your thoughts here. James thought very highly of you.
May 5, 2017
May 5, 2017
James- you will always be remembered. May you Rest In Peace. Carolyn- if you read this message please call me at 612-three nine six- 466 seven thanks
January 23, 2017
January 23, 2017
I am now working on a memorial site for my Father. Forever Missed is so valuable to us who stay behind to remember.
December 29, 2016
December 29, 2016
theend of another year only makes me miss you more son. My heart hurts in your absence now. I think of you and London romping through grassy fields, and I smile. I love you so!
July 8, 2016
July 8, 2016
You are always shining in my thoughts. Love and miss you.
July 8, 2016
July 8, 2016
Would have been 34 today son. I so miss you. I always will!
kisses
July 8, 2015
July 8, 2015
laying this flower in your memory James. I think of you every day my son. I long to see you and hug you again. You fill my dreams and wishes all my days. Til I see you again....i will be missing you. We all do! This July 8 will come and go, remembering your birth on this day warms my heart...forever.
July 8, 2015
July 8, 2015
I truly miss you my friend. I seen a young man not to long ago that looked just like you. Had the same smile with that tucked lip and bright eyes.
I had to catch myself from staring and he was like,"why are u staring at me?" I just told him that he has the reflection of an angel I knew that went home. he just smiled!!
July 8, 2015
July 8, 2015
Happy Birthday James, I was just thinking about when we were 14-15 years old the long talks we used to have. You were the only person who made sense at that time in my life. miss you lots. love Danielle
June 24, 2015
June 24, 2015
I have had a long hospital stay and now i am back here from an injury on April23, 2015..I listen to Westlife's "IWill See You Again. brings you to mind everytime I hear it. I love you my baby son. I miss you. And always will.
May 5, 2015
May 5, 2015
You're forever in our hearts and will never be forgotten. Always remembered in our heart and souls. We love you James.
May 5, 2015
May 5, 2015
James, we miss and love more and more with each passing day. The world will never be the same with out you.
December 8, 2014
December 8, 2014
Jeff Twiss who posts here on each anniversary of James' passing was murdered here in Phoenix this late November. As he joins my son "on the other side" I wish him Gods speed! He felt like he was our family.
July 8, 2014
July 8, 2014
This day you would have turned 32 years old. I miss you, son!
May 5, 2014
May 5, 2014
Love ya james. Your family. See you on the other
side.
May 5, 2014
May 5, 2014
Cinco de Mayo is here again. I see people celebrate and my heart tugs. This marks the day my son died, and will always flag this day in my mind. I miss you James and love you even more if that is even possible. I feel in my heart that you have found peace and the gratitude I feel for that cannot be measured. I know we will be together again . You are glorious now...and you know no more suffering. Bless you , my son. And keep you ! I love you! Gone too soon!
March 25, 2014
March 25, 2014
today I received a card from Anto denoting a mass for James' soul at St Olaf Church in Minneapolis. Thank You for your remembrances, Anto. They mean so much.
January 31, 2014
January 31, 2014
On January 27th, 2014
LONDON passed away from an unknown cause. He is James Siberian Husky that he bequeathed to Joe Reis. Joe was an excellent steward and bosom companion to London. He is and was devastated , as am I. We both choose to focus on the image of the two of them running and playing like they used to. REST IN PEACE , London. And say hello to James. Our love for both of you is unconditional!
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It's good to think, if I only had style.

September 29, 2012

My friend Hank made me think after playing tonight, allow me to elaborate. by James Scruggson Tuesday, April 26, 2011 at 12:06am ·

Style is the answer to everything. A fresh way to approach a dull or dangerous thing. To do a dull thing with style is preferable to doing a dangerous thing without it. To do a dangerous thing with style is what I call art. Bullfighting can be an art. Boxing can be an art. Loving can be an art. Opening a can of sardines can be an art. Not many have style. Not many can keep style. I have seen dogs with more style than men. Although, not many dogs have style. Cats have it with abundance. When Hemingway put his brains to the wall with a shotgun, that was style. For sometimes people give you style. Joan de Arc had style, John the baptist, Christ, Socrates , Caesar, Garcia Lorca. 

 

   I've met men in jail with style. I've met more men in jail with style than men out of jail. Style is a difference. A way of doing, a way of being done. Six herons standing quietly in a pool of water, or you walking out of the bathroom naked, without seeing me.

 JWS II

JWS II

September 29, 2012

by James Scruggson Tuesday, May 10, 2011 at 7:35am ·

there is enough treachery, hatred violence absurdity in the average

human being to supply any given army on any given day

 

and the best at murder are those who preach against it

 

and the best at hate are those who preach love

and the best at war finally are those who preach peace

 

those who preach god, need god

 

those who preach peace do not have peace

those who preach peace do not have love

 

beware the preachers

 

beware the knowers

beware those who are always reading books

 

beware those who either detest poverty

or are proud of it

 

beware those quick to praise

for they need praise in return

 

beware those who are quick to censor

they are afraid of what they do not know

 

beware those who seek constant crowds for

they are nothing alone

 

beware the average man the average woman

beware their love, their love is average

 

seeks average

 

 

but there is genius in their hatred

there is enough genius in their hatred to kill you

 

to kill anybody

not wanting solitude

 

not understanding solitude

they will attempt to destroy anything

 

that differs from their own

not being able to create art

 

they will not understand art

they will consider their failure as creators

 

only as a failure of the world

not being able to love fully

 

they will believe your love incomplete

and then they will hate you

 

and their hatred will be perfect

 

 

like a shining diamond

like a knife

 

like a mountain

like a tiger

 

like hemlock

 

 

their finest art

 

WHAT MATTERS

September 29, 2012

JWS II

by James Scruggs on Tuesday, November 22, 2011 at 6:41pm ·

    For each of us eventually, whether we're ready or not... Someday it will come to an end. There will be no more sunrises, no more minutes, hours , or days. All the things you've collected whether treasured or forgotten will pass to someone else. No wealth, fame, or temporal power will schrivel to irrelevance. No matter what you owned or owed. Your grudges , resentments, frustrations, and jealousy will finally disappear. So too your hopes , ambitions, plans and "to do" list will expire. The wins and loses that once seemed so important will fade away. It wont matter where you come from, which side of the tracks in the end. Ii won't matter if you're beautiful or brilliant. Even, gender or skin color are irrelevant. So, what will matter ? How will the value of your life be measured? What will matter is not what you bought but what you built. Not what you got but what you teach. What will matter is not your success but your signifigance. What will matter is not what you learned but what you taught. What will mater is over acts of integrity, kindness, passion, courage, or sacrifice. That enriched, empowered, and encouraged others to emulate your example. What will matter is not your competence but your character. What will matter is not how many people you knew, but how many will feel a lasting loss when you're gone. What will matter is not your memories but the memories of the those that loved you. A life lived that matters is not of circumstance but choice.

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