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This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved mother and friend, Jeanette Tannan Hoffman, who passed away on May 19, 2018. May her joie de vivre live on forever.  Please feel free to share memories, tributes, and stories on these pages.

April 28, 2021
April 28, 2021
Thinking of you on your birthday dear friend. I miss you! ❤️
April 29, 2020
April 29, 2020
Yesterday morning, during a Spanish-English, English-Spanish class with my friend Martha in Colombia, we decided to celebrate my late mother's 90th birthday (April 28, 2020) by lighting a candle in her honor. We draped a bronze ballet slipper from the candle. My mother was a professional ballerina until she got married. She took a break while my brother and I were growing up and then returned to teaching ballet for almost 50 years. She taught a class on the Friday before she had surgery for cancer -- apart from her family, ballet was her life! I gave the ballet slipper to Martha when she was in the U.S. last year. There was also a framed poster of Montmartre painted by Toulouse Lautrec, one of my mother's favorite artists. The framed poster coincidentally happened to be on the wall of Martha's home already. Oh! There were hortensias already there -- my mother loved flowers and had a super green thumb. Martha lit the candle and she and I wished my mother a very happy 90th birthday. I am very happy that we did this (and that I have photos) because being under quarantine, I can't get a bouquet of flowers or go to her most favorite restaurant. Happy birthday, Mom!! I love you so much and miss you every day!
April 29, 2020
April 29, 2020
Happy 90th Birthday to Mom. I remember how you came to love telling people it was your birthday. You were great with perfect strangers, as you were with your family and friends. You were so full of love, joy, and spirit. Your enthusiasm remains with your children, grandchildren, and friends to this day. Thus, you will never die. You live on, and the memory of you is always a blessing. We miss you so much. 
April 29, 2020
April 29, 2020
Jete’....your trees and garden are thriving. I know you’d love it.
I miss you and think of you daily..the fun, stupidity, and inside jokes are all wonderful memories I cherish. Love you and miss you.

Looking out at my garden and thinking about our wonderful friendship. Glad you don’t have to live thru this difficult time! XO
April 28, 2020
April 28, 2020
Sending out love tutu each of you
Who knew and loved Jeanette ‍♀️
May 20, 2019
May 20, 2019
I guess this is the 2019 equivalent of laying flowers on a gravestone. Mom, you have been gone for a whole year now. And you have been missed for a whole year. Your children and best friend talk about you lovingly and often. The greenhouse you helped build is full of green, full of the life force that you cherished. Your grandchildren are flourishing in ways that you would have adored. The world remains troubled but full of indescribable beauty. We will miss and love you forever.
May 19, 2019
May 19, 2019
Jete’....your trees and garden are thriving. I know you’d love it.
I miss you and think of you daily..the fun, stupidity, and inside jokes are all wonderful memories I cherish. Love you and miss you.
April 30, 2019
April 30, 2019
I still miss my SIS(sister in spirit) and think of her often. I miss our phone calls that often were quite lengthy. I treasure her friendship and she continues to live in my heart, thoughts and spirit.
June 24, 2018
June 24, 2018
It has been fascinating to read about Jeanette. Hers was an amazing life; one that was well-lived and filled with accomplishment. She leaves a legacy that will live on in her devoted family and friends. I am sorry for your loss, Madelyn, Steve, Maria, Forrest and Galen.
June 22, 2018
June 22, 2018
What a beautiful life story. I am so happy for you to have had this amazing woman as your mother. I am so sorry for your loss.
June 22, 2018
June 22, 2018
Hope you will join us on Sunday, June 24th, for the Celebration of Life for my mother, Jeanette Tannen Hoffman. It will take place from 1:00pm to 4:00pm at the In the Spotlight ballet studio, 168 Franklin Turnpike, Waldwick, New Jersey. You could e-mail us at lepaix@aol.com to let us know you're coming, but it's not required.
A big thank you to everyone who has shared memories of my mother here and for everyone who is involved in putting together Sunday's Celebration of Life.
June 14, 2018
June 14, 2018
My Mother was extraordinarily loving. I never doubted for a millisecond how much she loved me and my sister. There wasn’t a single serious conflict we had after I left for college. It was basically all sweetness. That’s the best word I can find: Mom was a sweetheart.
 
I’ll never forget her unbreakable spirit and enthusiasm. Even just a few days before she passed, Mom was trying to go further with the walker, trying to do more with her exercises.

She passed her spirit on. I’ve always had a sort of “built-in optimism” that came from my Mother.

I’m proud of how hard Mom worked and what she accomplished – it’s amazing that she earned a soloist position in the Ballet Russe, and taught ballet so well for almost 50 years, up to the age of 87.

I miss our chats. I miss sharing my accomplishments, and her grandsons’ achievements, in music, gardening, and school. Her grandsons play lots of musical instruments: French horn, trumpet, piano, saxophone, guitar, ukulele, mandolin, banjo -- and have performed many times, though they are 9 and 13. 
 
The 13 year-old plays trumpet and French horn in 2 different Youth Symphonies. The 9 year-old is (fittingly) playing “Arabesque” by Burgmuller on the piano these days–-though he’s never had a piano lesson. Mom dearly loved seeing her musical talents live on in her grandsons.

Mom’s love of gardening lives on, too. One of her legacies is the large greenhouse she gifted to our family. In it, her children and grandchildren grow tomatoes, basil, and squash by the bucketful. She loved that her grandsons already grow their own food.

I have barely begun to describe everything Mom was. She was a fabulous Mother, and Grandmother, and always will be.
June 1, 2018
June 1, 2018
I am deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Jeanette. She was absolutely a great teacher and a wonderful influence in my dancing and teaching. I was fortunate to have her in my career. Some of my fondest memories of my birthday classes, and Nutcracker coaching, include the times I spent in her Adult classes at the Fokine school in Ridgewood, NJ. She was a brilliant teacher and I look back in gratitude because she changed me.
Her passion to teach was matched only by her compassion for her students. She was a teacher who taught from her heart. She taught us Ballet but she also taught us important lessons that prepared us for life after class and performance. How well I remember her sense of humor.
It was my great joy and pleasure to have her come and teach my classes here in nyc!
All of the students adore her. She had the uncanny talent of teaching every ballet step within an hour. Her musicality and timing were always precise and impeccable. I will truly miss her!
kat@katwildish.com
Artistic Director, Performing in NY Experience
www.katwildishshowcase.com
Adjunct Professor Pace University NYC/Commercial Dance, Classical Ballet
http://performingarts.pace.edu/faculty/kat-wildish
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Katharine_Wildish
May 29, 2018
May 29, 2018
I am still unable to write a full tribute to my mother. I would likely take me hours to put it all together -- to describe what it was like to be the daughter of such a shining star as my mother -- the inspiration and sometimes the concern about never being able to live up to her expectations. She wasn't supposed to go yet -- but I know that she was spared many months of a difficult recovery, likely not on her terms -- so even though we weren't prepared to say good-bye just yet, we will need to adapt and figure out how to proceed. For now, I see my mother in every flower (May is full of roses and begonias and pansies and petunias and azaleas and cherry/ apple blossoms) -- and dear Lynda Yates, I completely understand the reference to the butter dish :-)
May 28, 2018
May 28, 2018
My sincere condolences to Madelyn, Steve, Maria, Galen, Forrest, and all of Jeanette's extended family and friends. My cousin Ralph Winestock said it well about Jeanette's laughter and engaging conversation. She warmly hosted our family visiting from Minnesota around the year 2000 as well as visits by my sisters over the years. Jeanette set a wonderful example for all of us in terms of how to stay active and engaged throughout our lives. She will be very much missed, but her memory will live on with all of us.
May 27, 2018
May 27, 2018
I am so saddened to hear of Jeanette's passing. She was one of the most exciting people I've met. Her enthusiasm was infectious and her smile, a bit mischievous, could always draw you in. To witness her life story through her telling it and then to be able to create her book with those absolutely gorgeous photographs, was truly a gift that I'm so fortunate to have had. I will miss Jeanette. I'll miss getting together every few months, with our coffees and, of course, a little bit of chocolate. My heart goes out to her family, her friends, and her students during this incredibly sad time.
May 26, 2018
May 26, 2018
Obituary of Jeanette Tannan Hoffman

Jeanette Hoffman, 88, of Wyckoff, NJ, passed away on May 19, 2018, at the Oakland Rehabilitation and Healthcare Center.

Jeanette was born in 1930, in Brooklyn, New York, the daughter of Gertrude and Meyer Tannenbaum. She began dance training at 4, and took piano lessons from the age of 6. When she was 12, she had to choose between piano and ballet. Not long after high school, at age 16, she landed a dance part on Broadway, in “Sweethearts.” Soon after, she auditioned for the Ballet Russe de Monte Carlo, and was accepted.

She toured with Ballet Russe for 5 years, all over the U.S. and Canada. She went on to dance at Radio City Music Hall and the Pittsburgh Civic Light Opera, and to choreograph at Radio City Music Hall. Dance remained one of Jeanette’s greatest loves until the day she died.

At age 23, in 1954, she married Edward S. Hoffman. They moved to Fair Lawn, NJ, and, in 1956, had a daughter, Madelyn. In 1959, they had a son, Steven. Jeanette was an enormously devoted and loving mother and wife. For over 40 years, she was a successful and beloved ballet teacher at the Irine Fokine School in Ridgewood. When that school closed, she taught for 8 years at “In the Spotlight” Studio in Waldwick, until she was 87. She also taught at the Alvin Ailey Extension dance school in Manhattan.

Dance and music always inspired Jeanette, who maintained a youthful, enthusiastic spirit her whole life long. Her caring for family, friends, and students, and her commitment to superior teaching, were extraordinary, and she will always be remembered for this. She was hugely proud of her children: Madelyn is a well-known activist who has run for high elected office in New Jersey several times; Steven is a Fulbright scholar with a Ph.D. in environmental studies.

Jeanette was predeceased by husband Edward in 2011. She is survived by Madelyn, of Flanders, NJ, and Steven, of Bow, WA, as well as her daughter-in-law Maria, and two cherished grandsons, Galen and Forrest Hoffman, of Bow, WA.

A Celebration of Life will be held on June 24th, 1-4 PM, at “In the Spotlight” Dance Studio in Waldwick. In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to the Jeanette Tannan Hoffman Dance Scholarship Fund (or “JTHDSF”), c/o M. Hoffman, P.O. Box 485, Flanders, NJ  07836. The Fund will be used to assist young ballet dancers at the In the Spotlight Dance Studio. For online condolences, please visit  www.forevermissed.com/jeanette-tannan-hoffman  . Please contact Madelyn or Steven Hoffman if you would like to be added to the Jeanette Tannan Hoffman Memorial Group on Facebook.
May 24, 2018
May 24, 2018
Shortly before Steve and Maria's Commitment Ceremony we met Marie's in-laws, Jeanette and Ed. The bond was immediate. The visits to Albuquerque and New Jersey were memorable. Phone calls with Jeanette and me became significant and meaningful after both became widowed. We called ourselves SIS(sisters in spirit). Jeanette became like a true sister, not only in spirit, our relationship was much more. The sharing and friendship will always be a gifted treasure. I sorely miss you, Jeanette, but our spirits will never separate. You leave a beautiful legacy for so many. You lived life to the fullest. Thanks for coming into my life.
May 23, 2018
May 23, 2018
For some reason a single memory of Jeanette floods my mind. She is sitting graciously smiling at one end of my mom's dining room table in front of the China hutch. Normally a less frequented, uninviting space, her expressive caressing laughter and engaging conversation filled the room with excitement for life and people she was with. She drew us rapturously into her world. Thank you Jeanette for your shining your heart's light along that corridor of my path.
May 23, 2018
May 23, 2018
In 1972 I decided to take ballet lessons. As the years went on a beautiful friendship developed. Every day I still pick up the phone to call Jete (as my husband nicknamed her way back in the 70s). We had so many wonderful times and adventures together. Although we were never high rollers, we sure enjoyed our gambling from Vegas to AC. We laughed, we cried and we celebrated life. It was a wonderful friendship. I will miss my dear friend terribly, but know she is somewhere picking out butter dishes (don’t try to understand that), choreographing and dancing with angels. RIP my dear and forever friend.❤️
May 23, 2018
May 23, 2018
Contributing what I posted on Facebook:
It is with a heavy heart and tears in my eyes that I pay tribute to a lady who was not only my mentor but one of my best friends, and saw me through nearly all the ups and downs I have faced thus far in my life. Jeanette Hoffman was… a character. She was a soloist with the Ballet Russe de Monte Carlo, the resident prima ballerina with the Pittsburgh Civic Light Opera Company, danced in a Broadway revival of Victor Herbert's "Sweethearts" and was a guest artist and assistant choreographer for the Corps de Ballet at Radio City Music Hall. She did what she loved, teach ballet, until the very end, three times a week in fact. Her passion was contagious and inspirational, and felt strongly by all those who attended her classes. Whenever I took a class she attended or taught at Fokine’s, I found I performed better, I was so determined to show her the best version of myself. When I was crying after dance rehearsals, she was the one I would call and the one who convinced me not to quit. Whenever I performed, she was in the audience. When my Mom died, she comforted me. She told me to get back to class, because “the ballet barre brings order out of chaos”. It was one of the most helpful pieces of advice I received and every time I felt the world was caving in, I returned to the memory of her saying that and by doing barre returned to reality with renewed force and motivation. Whenever I was home, she was the first person I called, and I loved to surprise her with visits as much as she loved surprises. When I got married, she was there, on the dance floor, except for when the ice cream bar opened, because the one thing that dare I say took precedent over dancing was ice cream. I am blessed to have visited Jeanette in rehab in April; during the visit we laughed, we cried, and laughed some more. She asked Calvyn and me to take her on a walk in her wheelchair, so we agreed to push her and she dictated the route. She led us around in circles until we ended straight in front of the entrance/exit doors, and she looked at us and smirked, cheeky as ever. I will miss collecting an extra program for any performance I see to share with her, showing her the photos of my latest adventure, all of the e-mails, all of the phone calls. I will end with one of her e-mails, which I think sums up our relationship pretty well. “Oh Christa… Thank YOU for our time together…And for those delicious chocolates ….yes, ALL GONE ‘=’…..and the Russian book…. I’ve shared it with my ‘coach’ and we agreed to read a few pages together every week…. There IS so much we never got to share/talk about/catch up with…and…so as you say…hopefully in April we WILL be able to do THAT~~!!!!!.... So Calvyn DID master the brain games… I’m Smiling ‘=’ And I’m looking forward to YOUR review of the London performance!!! Enjoy All of it!! Also…I’ll pencil out Tuesday… …reserved for US~!!!! Again…it was So special to be with you…’=’ xoxox…. Jeanette
May 22, 2018
May 22, 2018
Dear All -- My Mother had her "life history", with special focus on her dancing career, made into a book not long ago. Her whole life is covered in the book. Thanks to her life historian, Suzanne Becker, a PDF of the book is available for viewing at this link: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Wjd03j5ukfowXGwYJoCa1-lTNmLBCQCe/view
If you would like a copy of the book (hardcover or softcover), it is available from the bookstore at www.blurb.com (!). The title to look for is "The Early Years of Jeanette Tannan Hoffman."
May 22, 2018
May 22, 2018
What a beautiful person Jeanette was.. forever now "Nana" in my own mind as this is what my children, her precious grandsons, called her and what I tended to call her as well. I could not have asked for a more generous, loving and accepting mother-in-law. Always respectful, always open... she welcomed me into the family from the very beginning and became a dear second mother in my life. I will miss her always and carry her laughter, her sense of fun and youthful exuberance and zest for life with me. So many fun times and so many great memories.. not to mention many dishes of ice cream that she was always willing to share a bite of.... I will always think of her especially when I am enjoying a dish of ice cream... here's to you Jeanette and even if I order something BORING, like vanilla or chocolate, I will find a way to make it interesting. Love you always,
Your devoted daughter- in- law,
Maria

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Thinking of you on your birthday dear friend. I miss you! ❤️
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Obituary of Jeanette Tannan Hoffman

May 26, 2018

Jeanette Hoffman, 88, of Wyckoff, NJ, passed away on May 19, 2018, at the Oakland Rehabilitation and Healthcare Center.

Jeanette was born in 1930, in Brooklyn, New York, the daughter of Gertrude and Meyer Tannenbaum.She began dance training at 4, and took piano lessons from the age of 6.When she was 12, she had to choose between piano and ballet.Not long after high school, at age 16, she landed a dance part on Broadway, in “Sweethearts.”Soon after, she auditioned for the Ballet Russe de Monte Carlo, and was accepted.</span>

She toured with Ballet Russe for 5 years, all over the U.S. and Canada.She went on to dance at Radio City Music Hall and the Pittsburgh Civic Light Opera, and to choreograph at Radio City Music Hall.Dance remained one of Jeanette’s greatest loves until the day she died.

At age 23, in 1954, she married Edward S. Hoffman.They moved to Fair Lawn, NJ, and, in 1956, had a daughter, Madelyn.In 1959, they had a son, Steven.Jeanette was an enormously devoted and loving mother and wife.For over 40 years, she was a successful and beloved ballet teacher at the Irine Fokine School in Ridgewood.When that school closed, she taught for 8 years at “In the Spotlight” Studio in Waldwick, until she was 87.She also taught at the Alvin Ailey Extension dance school in Manhattan.

Dance and music always inspired Jeanette, who maintained a youthful, enthusiastic spirit her whole life long.Her caring for family, friends, and students, and her commitment to superior teaching, were extraordinary, and she will always be remembered for this.She was hugely proud of her children: Madelyn is a well-known activist who has run for high elected office in New Jersey several times; Steven is a Fulbright scholar with a Ph.D. in environmental studies.

Jeanette was predeceased by husband Edward in 2011.She is survived by Madelyn, of Flanders, NJ, and Steven, of Bow, WA, as well as her daughter-in-law Maria, and two cherished grandsons, Galen and Forrest Hoffman, of Bow, WA.

A Celebration of Life will be held on June 24th,1-4 PM, at “In the Spotlight” Dance Studio in Waldwick.In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to the Jeanette Tannan Hoffman Dance Scholarship Fund (or “JTHDSF”), c/o M. Hoffman, P.O. Box 485, Flanders, NJ07836. The Fund will be used to assist young ballet dancers at the In the Spotlight Dance Studio. For online condolences, please visit www.forevermissed.com/jeanette-tannan-hoffman .  Please contact Madelyn or Steven Hoffman if you would like to be added to the Jeanette Tannan Hoffman Memorial Group on Facebook.

Mom's Ballet Teaching (from her son's perspective)

May 22, 2018

Mom/Jeanette always looked forward to teaching ballet classes. They never failed to excite her, as watching top-flight ballet never ceased to excite her. Many times, when I was teaching English, or chess, or soccer, or environmental studies -- she would compare notes with me. She would describe animatedly how she figured out a way to teach something well.  Her mother was a teacher for a time, her husband was a teacher, and both her children are teachers.  It's in our DNA.  But, from my perspective, the most special thing about Mom's teaching is the depth of the bonds she formed with students and colleagues. Her students and colleagues often became friends, and the warmth and depth of those friendships still impresses me to no end.

Recent stories

When Mom Met My Wife-To-Be

June 14, 2018

When my Mother met my wife-to-be, I was of course wanting to find out her impressions.  I caught her alone near the garage door of our Harvey Ct. home, and asked, "Mom, what do you think of her?"  I'll never forget Mom's reply, "Marry her!  She's family!"   The rest is history.   

Cooking with Jeannette

May 22, 2018

I remember once in the early years when Steve and I were first together and Ed and Jeanette were still living in the Harvey Ct. house, I was invited to help cook a special meal with Jeanette for the family. I had been around long enough to know that Jeanette wanting to cook a large meal again was a BIG DEAL and that being invited to HELP was an even BIGGER DEAL. I can't remember exactly what we cooked, though I remember it being rather complicated and taking most of the afternoon. The meal was a success, but what I remember was my feeling of really  having the IN with the family and that my mother-in-law and I were going to not only get along, but be good friends. I knew that this invitation to work with her in her kitchen was a special one - of trust on her part and respect for me and my new role in the family. It remains one of my special memories of Jeannette,  a special moment that just the 2 of us shared together. 

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