Jeff and I grew up in the Eichler Highlands in San Mateo Calif.right down the street from one another.He arrived when he was 7 from New York and I arrived from San Francisco when I was 1. One evening a group of friends went to the Rec Hill and sat watching the rest of our group jump the fence and jump in the pool( the rec was closed and we should'nt have been there. Jeff had a crush on me (I had no Idea) and he kissed me right before the police came and pulled us off the hill and sent us home. THAT WAS AROUND 1969? Fast forward to July 1990 where we once again are at the Highlands Rec Center . Jeff is going through a divorce and I just ended a 4 year relationship.He has two daughters I have one son. So that was July 1990. We dated from that point on, he proposed to me in October 1990 and we were married on December 22, 1990. Jeff  passed away on December 30, 2011 only eight days after celebrating our 21st wedding anniversary.