Britt
Memories of Jeff from his daughter, Stephanie:
Even as far back as I can remember, my dad never talked down to me or treated me like a little kid. He was encouraging and wanted me to learn about the world around me, to ask questions and to learn as much as I could. Whenever I learned something new, he would tell me how impressed he was and he always supported me. He loved to make me laugh, especially when I was least expecting it. He was incredibly hard-working and was still holding down two jobs up until about a year ago; he worked for Home Depot and also worked from home for a number of years in sales for multiple companies.
Dad was funny. He was loving and giving. He helped shape my sense of humor by showing me Mel Brooks, the Marx Brothers and Mystery Science Theater. For years, if certain movies like Blazing Saddles or The Shawshank Redemption were on cable, he'd call and tell me so we could watch at the same time. He encouraged and celebrated any and all of creative and artistic endeavors, from singing to music to writing, sometimes even picking me up from high school at 2:00 am at the very end of marching band tournament days. He was there at every graduation and tons of band practices and performances.
He'd read every Ian Fleming novel and made me the James Bond fan I am. He was terrible at drawing, and we always laughed about it. We used to take long drives together just to listen to old radio shows from the 30's and 40's that we collected on tape - War of the Worlds, Suspense and Inner Sanctum Mysteries and he's most of the reason I love Hitchcock and classic films, especially sci-fi and monster movies. He took me to the movies more times than I can begin to count. Even with two bad knees, he took me to Disneyland a ton of times, and we always stayed from the moment the park opened to the moment it closed without a single complaint from him. If there was trivia at any restaurant we ate at, we played it together as a team. He loved sports. Baseball was his favorite and he brought me up with hockey. When I was a kid, we had season tickets to the San Diego Gulls and by one of his connections, he managed to get me a signed hockey stick from the entire team – and it still resides in my living room. I called him, excitedly yelling into the phone, when the Red Sox reversed the curse. He never ever failed to make a William Shatner/Twilight Zone "man on the wing" joke when we flew together. During one visit to our relatives in Massachusetts, he made sure to take me to the Old North Bridge in Concord because preteen, nerdy me desperately wanted to stand where the American Revolution began.
I could keep going forever, in all honestly. I have a million memories and happy moments that I am beyond grateful for. I had the absolute best dad I could have hoped for in this world and the very least I can do is tell anyone who will listen how absolutely wonderful he was. There was never a moment in my life that I doubted how much he loved me or would be there at any time of the day or night if I needed him.
My dad has always been and still is my hero, my inspiration, and the person I remember when I think of what it means to be selfless, caring, and kind.
These are some of my wonderful memrories of my dad, Jeff Taylor. I welcome you to share your memories or kind words below.
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So long my friend. You are in good hands now.
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Britt
To a wonderful man. Though you are gone, you're in the hearts and thoughts if many. Lucky, are those who had the opportunity to know you. I know you blessed my life.
Nighthawk Way Neighbors
Goes back to May, 1993, when we moved to Oceanside, CA on Nighthawk Way. When we were moving in, we looked over at your driveway and there was a pop up camper/tent that was opened and all of you were sitting in it (Mom, Dad, yourself and Grandma Betty) We came over to introduce ourselves and when we met all you, I thought what a great family and good neighbors to have. As we got to know you all, we sure enjoyed our company together.
As you mentioned in your story, your Dad was a very kind, gentle, and funny man. Was a great story-teller. I know that your Mom said when you were born, he was ecstatic and so blessed to have you in his life. You were his little girl. Didn't know much about all the movies he liked but I sure learned a lot more about your Dad by reading the stories.
Good memories with good neighbors. And we can't forget the block parties on 4th of July. Those were the best.
We know that your Dad had suffered with his illness. Going through treatments had to be tough on him, but he pulled through. We were sad to hear of his passing and he will be missed. Know that you and your Mom are in our prayers. We have been lighting candles for you Dad and praying for him as well.
Take care and May God give you comfort and strength through this most difficult time.
Your ole neighbors, Mike and Natalie ❤️❤️
"Lord, make me an instrument of your peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love. Where there is injury; pardon. Where there is doubt; faith. Where there is despair; hope. Where there is darkness; light. Where there is sadness; joy."
-- St. Francis of Assisi
Monty Python Movie
Okay! so I'm not much of a movie person. I find it hard to sit still. The first movie Jeff took me to see was the midnight showing of "Monty Python And The Holy Grail". First I thought...who goes out at midnight to see a movie? Because it was early in our courtship, I told him it sounded like a great idea. I lied. I had no idea what the movie was about, or anything about British humor. So....I just laughed when Jeff laughed. He laughed the hardest when the guy gets both legs and an arm cut off. Jeff then repeated outloud laughing "its only a flesh wound". So I learned to laugh because Jeff had such an infectious laugh. This wonderful man introduced me to so many adventures that I had never experienced. Travel, dining, movies, tennis, golf, skiing, and fishing on the lake in New Hampshire. He shared so many wonderful business friends he had met on his travels. Always called when out of town to check on me and of course to give his love and a kiss to Stephanie. So many other memories but my most recent was about a month ago when he helped me in Home Depot make a new key and find a special key chain. We laughed about a few old stories and friends who have stayed in touch. He always took the time to help anyone and everyone at anytime. A truly selfless man, husband, and father.
Thank you Jeff for the many wonderful memories and our precious daughter
Stephanie Allison Taylor. You will be missed....but have left us each with a part of you in our hearts forever.