ForeverMissed
Large image

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Jerry DeMarchi, 57, born on October 8, 1955 and passed away suddenly on February 8, 2013. He be will forever be in the hearts of his wife Melissa, his children Natalie, Benjamin, Jason and Justin along with a fortune of friends.   In lieu of flowers and food, the family has set up a scholarship in Jerry's honor called Giving Back. To donate in Jerry's memory please make checks payable to Fairmont Heights HS C/O Board of Education (Jerry's High School).  You can send your check to Giving Back/Jerry DeMarchi: P.O. Box 10346; Silver Spring, Maryland 20914. This scholarship will be for a deserving student that shows exceptional community service just like Jerry.  Jerry's family will decide which students will receive the scholarship. Please contribute to his memory to carry on!

October 8, 2023
October 8, 2023
Your light shines on in all of those whose life you touched. Happy heavenly birthday Jerry
February 8, 2021
February 8, 2021
Still missing our friend. 8 years is a long time, but your kindness, wisdom, and spirit is still with us everyday.
October 8, 2020
October 8, 2020
2020 could really use some of your Jerry wisdom. As you’re hanging with the big guy upstairs, let him know we need some help down here. Continue to Rest In Peace my friend.
October 8, 2020
October 8, 2020
Thinking of you on your birthday Jerry. Grateful for the time together and still hurting from your loss. 
February 8, 2020
February 8, 2020
7 very long years without Jerry. Feels like yesterday that we lost you. Still able to learn from you as I age. Thank you my friend.
October 8, 2019
October 8, 2019
Another year has passed. Still in our hearts. The impact of your life still influences all who had the pleasure and honor to know you. Happy Birthday my friend.
February 8, 2019
February 8, 2019
It’s been six years since you left us physically, but never in our hearts. Rarely a day passes that I don’t have a “Jerry” moment or thought. Still missing you my friend. I’m sure you’re enjoying the Boston events of this past year. Enjoy an adult beverage on their behalf. Peace.
October 9, 2018
October 9, 2018
Happy birthday my friend. Still missing you everyday.
February 8, 2018
February 8, 2018
It is hard to believe that it has been five years. Still missing this great man every day. Of this I am sure, Jerry is enjoying an adult beverage with his mother celebrating the Eagles. Cheers to both of you.
October 8, 2017
October 8, 2017
Thinking of and missing you Jerry. This world needs your kindness and generosity.
October 8, 2017
October 8, 2017
Praying for his family and thankful for those who keep his memory alive! A good man.
October 8, 2017
October 8, 2017
Happy Birthday, my friend. Our crazy world could use your wisdom these days. We miss you more as every year passes.
February 8, 2017
February 8, 2017
Still missing you. It would have been fun celebrating the Patriots victory with you.
February 8, 2017
February 8, 2017
Your light continues to shine in all of those whose lives you touched. Thinking of you today and holding you close in our hearts.
March 14, 2016
March 14, 2016
Pi Day 2016. Remember to lift a slice in honor of Jerry today.
February 26, 2016
February 26, 2016
I lost touch with Jerry shortly after he left MCPS, I am really saddened to hear of his death. Jerry was a GREAT guy! I distinctly remember him helping me haul carloads of kids to Sugarloaf Mountain so they could "climb a mountain" for the first time ever!  Just a fantastic person who ALWAYS had a smile on his face!
February 8, 2016
February 8, 2016
While not with us physically, Jerry is as present in our lives today as he ever was. We continue to be blessed to have been a part of his journey and look forward to continuing it with Melissa, Benj, Natalie, Justin, and Jason. He is alive and well within them.
February 8, 2016
February 8, 2016
Loved his smile! A very special man who I feel lucky to have known. Thinking of you today and always Jerry.
October 8, 2015
October 8, 2015
I'm sure we would be throwing a big party to celebrate Jerry's 60th. He would not want presents. He would just want everyone to have a good time. So in his honor today have some fun, hug someone you love, solve a math problem, eat a pancake, eat some Pi, and wash it down with an "adult beverage". Still miss you my friend.
April 5, 2015
April 5, 2015
Opening day. Another special day for Jerry. I hope he's smiling down upon his Nationals; although maybe the Cubs could use his help. Then again the Sox could use his help as well... or whomever... he always loved this day. Wherever the ump is yelling "play ball" we know that Jerry is happy.
March 14, 2015
March 14, 2015
Here it is, Pi Day. Enjoy a big piece for Jerry. Also pause to remember our great friend, who we miss every day.
March 3, 2015
March 3, 2015
Pitchers & Catchers, Pi Day, National Pancake Day. Spring must be coming as all of Jerry's favorite days are coming to pass. Everyone enjoy a stack with melted butter today in honor of Jerry.
February 8, 2015
February 8, 2015
Missing you as much today as I was two years ago. You are still in our hearts...always will be.
February 8, 2015
February 8, 2015
Jerry, Thank you. 

BTW, you are missed.
February 8, 2015
February 8, 2015
i look at his picture and smile. You are forever in our hearts Jerry!
January 25, 2015
January 25, 2015
Driving home from work the other day, I was sitting behind a very cool looking car...couldn't read the make...I pulled up as close as I could without hitting it....Tesla...not very common...Jerry's dream car...you are never far from our thoughts:)
October 8, 2014
October 8, 2014
Happy Birthday Jerry. You are missed everyday, but we also know that you are still keeping an eye on us.
March 14, 2014
March 14, 2014
Other than Opening Day, Pi Day is Jerry's favorite holiday. The students of San Miguel School of Providence celebrated in grand style today in memory of Jerry. I hope all who love Jerry enjoyed a slice in his honor.
February 10, 2014
February 10, 2014
Some family and friends were together with Melissa, Jason, Natalie and Benj this weekend to make pizza, laugh, cry, toast Jerry, and enjoy pie or Pi for dessert...Couldn't flip the crust like Jerry, but the company and the food would have made him smile I think. 

Thank you Melissa and all for letting us be a part of this remembrance of our dear friend.
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
Just as fallen leaves enrich the soil they touch, thus promoting growth, so too did Jerry enrich each of the lives he touched, thus helping us to grow to be a better person. We are all blessed to have known Jerry. His loving spirit and zest for life continues to live on within us. :-)
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
Jerry had the biggest and best smile ever! He is forever in our thoughts and in our hearts, today and always:)
February 7, 2014
February 7, 2014
Tomorrow will mark one year since Jerry left us physically. He has never left us emotionally or spiritually. As you go about your day, try to incorporate something Jerry would have done: laughed, hugged, helped, cared taught, inspired, loved. Since he is not here, it is up to us to carry on his mission.

He would also remind us that pitchers and catchers report in less than a week.

Be well everyone.
October 31, 2013
October 31, 2013
The Red Sox win the World Series. I'm sure Jerry was watching with a cold "adult beverage" in hand. Fenway Park was one of his favorite places. I would like to believe he had something to do with the miracle witnessed last evening. Check out the photo with Melissa, Natalie & Benj at Fenway.
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
In honor of your birthday, we are celebrating you with a special Corona toast tonight! :-)
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
Jerry is never far from from our thoughts, especially today:)
March 16, 2013
March 16, 2013
I went to Mckinley Tech,as a student, for two years. Throughout those years, I met Mr.Demarchi. An amazing man, with an amazing smile who always put the importance of our education first. Very "cool", laid back individual. Personally, I didn't know him very well, but it saddens me to know of his passing. I am a spiritual beings, as is he, and I know Mr.Demarchi is in a better place.
March 15, 2013
March 15, 2013
We hope everyone celebrated Pi Day, March 14, as Jerry would have. We had strawberry-rhubarb.
February 25, 2013
February 25, 2013
Jerry hired me at McKinley Tech and constantly looked out for me. He was the kind of person that I could always rely on and who would be genuinely supportive and happy for me when things were going well. I wish that I had more time to spend with him and will miss him. I will keep Melissa and the kids in my prayers. God bless you all!
February 22, 2013
February 22, 2013
Dear Melissa,
I have been thinking about you and the children very much, and I want you to know that I am ready to talk and help in any way I can--just let me know. Love you all, Dora
February 20, 2013
February 20, 2013
Melissa,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. May you find peace and solace soon. You will be in my prayers.
February 19, 2013
February 19, 2013
We were so sad to hear about Jerry. Our hearts go out to you, Melissa, Natalie, and Benjamin. May all your wonderful memories of time spent with Jerry help you get through this difficult time.
February 18, 2013
February 18, 2013
Melissa,

I am so sorry that I was not able to attend Jerry's funeral. We had some pretty good trips out West together. He was always willing to go the extra mile for the kids. They will surely miss him.
Page 1 of 2

Leave a Tribute

Light a Candle
Lay a Flower
Leave a Note
 
Recent Tributes
October 8, 2023
October 8, 2023
Your light shines on in all of those whose life you touched. Happy heavenly birthday Jerry
Recent stories

A great mentor

April 6, 2013

I remember first meeting Mr. Demarchi at Francis Junior High School during my second year. He became one of the students' most vocal supporters. One time when we weren't provided transportation to go to a football scrimmage at another school, he gave us a ride in his convertible with our gears and all. I ran into him a year later at my high school where he remained our fighting force through support for everything we believed in. Jerry DeMarchi's strengths will always be the tender care and love for his kids, no matter the battleground, he would always be there with a helping hand. 

My job!

February 25, 2013

My wife and I were in Spain on a sabbatical year and it was time to come back.  I touched base with DCPS Human Resources and they said that there was an opening for a Spanish teaching position at McKinley Tech and that I should contact Jerry.  I sent him my resume and stuff and a couple of days later I got an email from Jerry saying that he wanted me to come work at Tech.  I was shocked, we hadn't even met yet!  But he told me that he spoke with my previous principal and that he told him that "You need to get that guy".  Well, Jerry got me and I worked hard to make sure that he never regretted taking a chance on me.  I'll always remember seeing him early at work, just having worked out, fitter than most guys 20 years his junior.  I'll miss him a lot and wished I had one more chance to sit down and catch up.  

February 12, 2013

It is hard to imagine the neighborhood without Jerry around.  He was such a ray of sunshine.  He had a zest for life and it permeated throughout the neighborhood.  Our 10-year old son, Jack, asked what happened to Jerry and we explained that something went wrong with his heart.  Jack responded, “How can that be?  He has the biggest heart of anyone I know”!  Jerry was such a devoted husband and father.  We remember him saying, the day before he passed, that the night before he gave Natalie and Benjamin “extra hugs and kisses because you never know”.

All three of our kids have a "Jerry story" that makes them smile. For Jack (10), it was the day Jerry taught him to throw a spiral football.  For Avery (10), she remembers whenever it snowed that Jerry would push her and Natalie down the hill on their sleds.  Ryan (7), remembers jumping off of Jerry’s shoulders and plunging into the water with Benjamin at the pool.

Jerry touched so many peoples’ lives with his loving spirit.  He was always willing to help anyone in need.  He will be deeply missed.

Invite others to Jerry's website:

Invite by email

Post to your timeline