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Obituary for James P Aune

January 22, 2013

Published in The Bryan-College Station Eagle from January 19 to January 27, 2013 

 August 17, 1953-January 8, 2013

James Arnt Aune chose to leave the world on January 8, 2013, a very sad day indeed. The Aune family welcomes all friends to attend a memorial service planned for Sunday, January 27, at 4 p.m. at the Texas A&M Hillel located at 800 George Bush Dr., College Station, Texas 77840, which will be conducted by Rabbi Peter Tarlow.

He lived 59 years, having spent 26 of those years with his loving, devoted wife and dearest friend, Miriam Ruth Aune.  Jim and Miriam have two sons, Nick 24, and Dan 21, both of who have autism.  When autism moved in, any possibility of a normal life flew out.  With humor, tears and perseverance, the Aune family stayed together against the odds.

Jim was a Minnesota boy, born and bred. He was born in Fergus Falls, only because his small hometown of Elbow Lake didn't have a hospital. He was involved in speech competition and theatre throughout his years at Lincoln High in Thief River Falls, and graduated from a small private college that shall remain nameless because Jim was mad at them.

Jim received his doctoral degree in Speech Communication from Northwestern University.   After he began his professorial career at Tulane and continued at The University of Virginia, he was a visiting professor for one summer term at the University of Iowa, where he and Miriam fell in love and were married December 20, 1986. After two very happy and productive years at the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, MN, he was invited to join the Speech Communication department at TAMU in 1996.  Jim was a very productive and creative scholar as well as a completely dedicated instructor of undergraduate and graduate students alike.  Many Aggie students and former students would declare that Jim was the best teacher they ever had; he would have returned the compliment.

Jim's parents, Arnt and Adeline, preceded him in death in Minnesota.  Though he missed their presence in his life, Jim came to Texas looking for a new home with an undivided heart.

Jim is survived by his love and life partner, Miriam; his sons, and his brothers Michael and John, their respective wives Caroline and Sandy; nephews, Peder, John Jr. and Tyler; and nieces, Beret, Stephanie and Emily. 

It's a small group, but a mighty one.  The larger group Jim leaves behind is made up of the hundreds of friends, colleagues and students with whom he shared various parts of his journey.  He will be deeply missed.

Jim would be very pleased if donations would be made to the Autism Society of America (www.autism-society.org) because of their assistance over the years, and to the Texas Gulf Coast Vizsla Rescue http://www.vizslaclub.com/Library_club/Rescue/Rescue_main.html) because they provided his family with Buffy, Angel and Xander, three of the goofiest dogs on the planet who rounded out a family of "special" people.

                                               

Jim's Reflections on Himself

January 15, 2013

Responses taken from a post entitled "Proust's Questionnaire" posted by Jim Aune on May 24, 2010  on Blogora

It's summer, so time to embark on the rereading of Proust.  As a distraction from finishing my RSA responsibilities (and still sidestepping Josh's question), I thought i'd finally fill out Proust's famous questionnaire.  There are several versions, including two by the Master himself.  You may be more familiar with the popular feature fromVanity Fair (now interactive, I just discovered).  I'm going to combine Proust's original two (from 13 and 20) here:

Where would you like to live?  London, or, barring that, Milwaukee in 1975. 

What is your idea of earthly happiness?  Knowing that my children will be taken care of after I die.

Who are your favorite heroes of fiction?  The narrator of Proust's Recherche. 

Who are your favorite characters in history?  James Madison, Cicero, Hillel.

Who are your favorite heroines in real life?  Ruth Bader Ginsburg. 

Who are your favorite heroines of fiction?  Any of Barbara Pym's characters. 

Your favorite painter?  Robert Motherwell. 

Your favorite musician?  Miles Davis. 

The quality you most admire in a man?  Courage. 

The quality you most admire in a woman?  Constancy, in Jane Austen's sense. 

Your favorite virtue?  Constancy. 

Your favorite occupation?  My own, or a Supreme Court Justice. 

Who would you have liked to be? A Supreme Court Justice. 

If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?  I would have been less shy. 

What do you consider your greatest achievement?  My TAMU teaching award. 

If you died and came back as a person or thing, what would it be?  One of my dogs. 

What is your most treasured possession?  The flag from my father's funeral. 

Who are your heroes in real life?  George Orwell, Raymond Williams, Hugo Black. 

What is it that you most dislike?  Cruelty. 

What is your motto?  Rabbi Tarfon said: It is not incumbent upon you to finish the task. Yet, you are not free to desist from it. --Pirkei Avot

In Memorium of James Arnt Aune (by Jennifer Merciea)

January 11, 2013

Professor James Arnt Aune passed away January 8, 2013 leaving behind his loving wife Miriam, his two sons Nicola and Daniel, and legions of devoted students and colleagues.

Born in Fergus Falls, Minnesota and educated at St. Olaf College (BA summa cum laude, 1975) and Northwestern University (PhD 1980), Jim had been a faculty member of the Department of Communication at Texas A&M University since 1996 and had served as its Department Head since 2011.

Jim always thought of himself more as a student than as a distinguished scholar, even though his many academic achievements—including the National Communication Association’s Distinguished Scholar Award, Diamond Anniversary Book Award, and the “Teachers on Teaching” Outstanding Educator Award—belied his status as not only an exemplary mentor and teacher, but also a leading scholar of Rhetorical Theory, Freedom of Speech, Economic Rhetoric, Legal Rhetoric, and Political Rhetoric. He is perhaps best known for his books Rhetoric & Marxism and Selling the Free Market as well as his many essays published in The Quarterly Journal of Speech, Philosophy & Rhetoric, and Rhetoric & Public Affairs. Jim read voraciously and could seemingly discourse about any topic at great length, making us all feel smarter by his own brilliance—we will all miss our conversations with him. Jim believed deeply in public argument and would never shy away from public or private debate—we will all miss our model interlocutor.  Jim always championed the causes of those with less power over those with more power—we will all miss our heroic defender. Jim always made the time to chat, email, share a smoke or a story with his many friends, students, and colleagues—we will all miss his witty banter, his kind words of encouragement, and his gentle nudges to believe in ourselves. We will all miss our brilliant, irascible, loving, patient, and generous friend, colleague, and mentor—Jim was a prince among academics and we are all lucky to have learned from him.

Jim loved to bring poetry into his classrooms, his blog posts, and his scholarship, and so it is appropriate to conclude with these few lines from Joseph Rudyard Kipling, which is the last poem he posted to his Facebook:

IF you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or being hated, don't give way to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools: If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!' If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!  

Reflections on Being an Aggie from Jim Aune

January 8, 2013

The following are remarks Jim Aune delivered at a TAMU Honors Recognition Ceremony on May 8, 2008.

Howdy! Thank you for the kind words. A few years ago, some students and I wanted to propose that Texas A&M create a new tradition, that of electing a Faculty Yell Leader, and, strangely enough, Professor Ritter didn't want to be nominated. There's a common expression we all have probably used after meeting someone and that person later comes up in conversation with a friend: "What's that guy's story, anyway?" To me, Kurt's story is that of someone who more than any faculty member I know lives out the Spirit of Aggieland--a distinguished scholar of presidential speechwriting, an inspiring teacher, and someone who puts the good of his university community ahead of himself. The great Jewish writer and survivor of Auschwitz Elie Wiesel once wrote, "God made human beings because he loves stories." So, as the organizing theme of this speech, I want to pose this question to our honors graduates: What's your story? How would you want someone to answer that question about you, now and at the end of your life?

Because you are Aggies, there are Aggie stories you will tell about yourself and about Aggie traditions. Some of them you won't want to tell your parents, at least until they're enjoying your struggles with your own children. Some you will forget, especially the episodes you worried too much about at the time--usually having to do with a grade. Many you will cherish. My own Aggie story began in the fall of 1996. I had spent my first 16 years of full-time teaching in the small private college setting, mostly in Minnesota, my home state. One of my frustrations with that setting was the growing expectation of my students, who seemed to grow richer each year, that since they were paying tuition that cost more than my first mortgage, I really would ruin their lives if I gave them a B plus. As I was calculating my final grades at the end of my first semester year, a young man came into my office and asked if he could see his final grade. I thought to myself, "Here it comes. I wonder how you whine in Texan?" I showed him the numbers, and the final letter grade. He looked at me and said, "A C? thank you, Sir!" After he left, I thought to myself, I could really get used to this.

In addition to your Aggie stories, you are part of a continuing family story. The characters and plot lines may differ slightly from family to family, but the questions the characters ask are remarkably similar. If you are a parent, like I am, you might ask: When am I ever going to stop worrying about him or her? If you're a father of a young woman graduate, you might ask: How am I going pay for this wedding that seems to be taking on the proportions of Operation Desert Storm? If you are a graduate, you might ask: can I stop worrying about my grades now? Will they ever let me grow up? Am I ever going to get over this hangover? The family story I cherish was told to me late in life by my paternal grandmother, who emigrated from rural Norway with her family in the 1880's, at age 12, and rode with them in a boxcar across Canada in the dead of winter before landing in central Minnesota on the land they were to farm. My grandmother was scared to death during the journey, because in the boxcar there was a pile of what Americans call corn, which she had never seen before, and which she assumed were the teeth of dead Indians. I know now the sort of poverty and desperation that causes families to seek opportunity in a new land, and that she could never have imagined just how much opportunity this country could provide for her children and grandchildren.

Because you see, our Aggie and our family stories are part of America's story, and this university, more than any other I know, helps us remember that we are part of that larger American narrative about freedom, opportunity, and sacrifice. We are now in the middle of what one historian called "our great autumnal madness" of selecting a President. A Texas story: my father died the year my family moved to Texas. A distinguished teacher himself, my father was most proud of his service in the Army Air Corps during WWII as a B-17 navigator. As was his right as a veteran, he received an American flag for his funeral, a flag that now sits in a triangular case on our mantelpiece. A while back, my next-door neighbor, a good friend of my wife's, walked into our living room and noticed the flag for the first time. She looked at the flag, at my wife, then back again, with a puzzled look on her face. She said, "Why do you have a flag? Y'all are Dimocrats!" I'd like to think she was kidding, but I am reminded every day during this election season that somehow we have lost our sense of a common story, that we seem to have forgotten that sense of civic friendship, going back to ancient Athens, which means that people who are part of a common story can disagree passionately, even angrily at times, without viewing our neighbor as the enemy.

Which leads me, finally, to your personal story. I spend a lot of time, inside and outside of the classroom, thinking about the legacy of the ancient Greeks. One line that haunts me still from my undergraduate education is the line of the Greek poet Pindar, in the Pythian Ode: "Know what you are, and that become." My own continuing education now is mostly about co-authoring a story that answers Pindar's injunction--as I learn from my community, my family, my neighbors, and especially from my students. Put another way, the Jewish sage Rabbi Zusya once said, "When I reach the next world, God will not ask me, 'Why were you not Moses?' Instead, he will ask me, 'Why were you not Zusya?'" Why were you not the person you were meant to be? My hope is that you, like me, continue to struggle, with courage and with joy, to tell the right story about yourself, before your family, your community, and with the Almighty.

All stories, Rabbi Zusya reminds us, have an end. A punctuation. A period. Since coming to Aggieland, I have learned a new form of punctuation. It is called a Whoop! Those of us who have been successful studying, reading books, working in a lab or a studio, and slaving away at the computer, often spend too much time postponing joy, as if it might make us look foolish. And we didn't get where we are by looking foolish. Or so we think. If you forget everyting else I've said, and you will, just remember this. Now's the time to Whoop! Congratulations! You've earned it. And let that Whoop ring from the rafters.

A Brief Professional Biography

January 8, 2013

James Arnt Aune was born Aug 17 1953 in Theif River Falls, Minnesota.  He earned his doctorate at Northwestern University.

He began his career at the University of Virginia, Charlottesville as an assistant professor in 1981. In 1986 he moved to St. Olaf College, Northfield, MN where he was promoted to associate professor. In 1994 he moved to University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN for two years before coming in 1996 Texas A&M University, College Station, TX. At TAMU he was promoted full professor and at the time of his death served at the Head of the Communication Department.

He is author of Rhetoric and Marxism and Selling the Free Market, which was the of 2003 National Communication Association Diamond Anniversary Book Award for Selling the Free Market. He was also awarded the Association of Former Students Teaching Award (university-wide) in 2004. His research has been also been published in Communication Theory, Philosophy & Rhetoric, Hastings Constitutional Law Quarterly, Quarterly Journal of Speech, Rhetoric & Public Affairs, and elsewhere. Member of editorial boards of Quarterly Journal of Speech, Communication Theory, Philosophy & Rhetoric.